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Carmela Messina Obituary
MESSINA, CARMELA, (BELFIORE) 79 - of Ventnor, passed away Saturday, October 11, peacefully at the ARMC, City Division. Carmela was born in Delia, Sicily, Italy on August 29,1929. On December 9,1961 she married Calogero and raised three beautiful children. In 1971 the family immigrated to the U.S. to join other family members. She was employed as a seamstress at the Kessler Clothing Factory in Hammonton for many years and later worked at Caeser's, Golden Nugget and Claridge in the Food and Beverage Department until her retirement. After her retirement, one of her favorite things to do was to meet with her "amici" (friends) at the Hilton Casino to play the slot machines and dine. Her other passions included cooking and watching her grandchildren eat her home made "dolce" and gastronomic creations. Let's not forget her devotion to the Sacred Heart, Padre Pio and St. Anthony. She is predeceased by her brothers Alfonso and Michele Belfiore and survived by her husband Calogero of 47 years, her three children Frank Messina (wife MaryKate) of Northfield, Marilu LoPresti (husband John) of Montana and Alfonso Messina of Ventnor. Also surviving are her two sisters Giuseppina Barone and Angela Fuoti of Rome, Italy, and one brother Carmelo Belfiore of Toronto, Canada. Grandchildren Giuseppe, Fabiana, Alfonso, Angelina, Giulietta and Francesco Jr. along with many nieces and nephews. A Mass of the Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 am, Thursday, October 16, 2008 at St. Michael's Church 10 N. Mississippi Avenue, Atlantic City. Friends may call from 6pm to 8pm, Wednesday, October 15, 2008 at the Adams-Perfect funeral Home, 1650 New Road, Northfield and also from 9:30 am until the time of the mass on Thursday, at the church. Entombment will be at the Atlantic City Cemetery in Pleasantville. Arrangements by and condolences at: www.adams-perfect .com
Memories and Condolences
for Carmela Messina
Noelle DiSomma
November 10, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Noelle DiSomma
November 10, 2008
I am so sorry Al for your loss. I just found out yesterday. (I have been out of work). My deepest condolences to you & your family.
Your in my prayers.
Noelle & family
Jason and Theresa Simmons
October 20, 2008
MariLu,
We are so sorry for your loss. I know that you will turn to God and ask him for guidance during this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to meet your mother on her visits to Montana. She was a wonderful woman. God Bless.
Jason and Rachel Mann
October 20, 2008
Marilu and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts are with you all. Love and God Bless.
Tonia & Steve Paulson
October 19, 2008
Marilu, your mom was a great lady and I am so glad I had the chance to meet her. You are in my prayers...
Nancy Mancuso
October 15, 2008
Marilu,
It was just yesterday your mom was waving me and Mary into your house off of Arctic Avenue on those long lost but most pleasurable summer days. She was a beautiful and special woman!!!
You, your dad and brothers are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy (Mark, Salvatore and Nicole) Mancuso
Debbie Bateson (Erdman)
October 15, 2008
Marilu,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!!
Cassie & Joe Calvi
October 15, 2008
Mr Messina, Frank, Marilu and Al
Sorry for your loss. I remember your Mom. You were great neighbors
JOHN & ELAINE LOPRESTI
October 15, 2008
WE ARE VERY SORRY
Barbara ( Knorr) McIlvaine
October 14, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jimmy DiStefano
October 14, 2008
Dear Al,
Our thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
Our deepest sympathies,
Jimmy "D" and Sherry DiStefano
Bruce & Nitty D'Allesandro
October 14, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mr & Mrs Anthony Arebalo
October 14, 2008
Our deepest sorrow
JOHN CONNORS
October 14, 2008
TO THE MESSINA FAMILY,
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU,GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!
R.I.P. MRS MESSINA
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