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Douglas Howard Obituary

Mr. Douglas L. Howard, 68, of Colonial Heights, Va., passed away at his home Friday, June 26, 2009.

He was born in Wilson, N.C., Sept. 5 1940. He attended Saint Leo's College and was a graduate of the Dallas Institute of Mortuary Science. He was both a licensed embalmer and funeral director.

On Nov. 1, 1989, Mr. Howard retired from the Army at the rank of master sergeant after having served 23 years on active duty. At the time of retirement, he was assigned to the Quartermaster Center and School's Mortuary Affairs Center. With the exception of an assignment as a special agent with the Defense Investigative Service, the majority of his active duty service was with mortuary affairs organizations. Those assignments included several years as a mortuary affairs instructor at Fort Lee; a tour of duty with the U.S. Army Mortuary, Saigon, Republic of Vietnam; an assignment to the U.S. Army Central Identification Laboratory, Hawaii; an assignment to the U.S. Army Affairs Agency, Europe; and multiple assignments to the Mortuary and Casualty Support Division, Casualty and Memorial Affairs Operations Center, Alexandria, Va.

Following retirement from active duty, Mr. Howard returned to the Army as a Department of the Army Civilian Mortuary Program Specialist assigned to the Casualty and Memorial Affairs Operations Center. He remained with that agency until June 1996 when he joined the Mortuary Affairs Center, where he served as the deputy director for the past 13 years. During his years of service, he played critical roles advising and assisting the Department of Defense, national agencies, and other countries during various crises around the world and is considered one of the leading experts in mortuary affairs. He served his country with distinction in the wake of the events of Sept. 11, 2001, when he was assigned to the Pentagon as an integral part of the disaster recovery team. He also served on the disaster recovery team in Indonesia following the Tsunami of December 2004.

His military awards and decorations include the Legion of Merit with oak leaf cluster; the Bronze Star; the Meritorious Service Medal with two oak leaf clusters; the Army Commendation Medal with oak leaf cluster; the Army Achievement Medal with oak leaf cluster; the Good Conduct Medal, 7th award; and the Distinguished Instructor Award. As a Department of the Army Civilian employee, Mr. Howard has received three awards of the Commander's Award for civilian service and the Civilian Meritorious Service Award. His most recent award was the Ancient Order of Saint Martin which was bestowed on him at the Quartermaster Foundation Dinner held at the Lee Club on Fort Lee on Friday, June 19, 2009. The award is the most prestigious award that any one associated with the quartermaster corps can hope to achieve. Mr. Howard was just the 12th person in the entire world to receive this great honor.

Mr. Howard served his community diligently as chairman of the Transportation and Safety Commission of the City of Colonial Heights. He also served faithfully at the Colonial Heights Baptist Church in various roles including: chairman of the Finance Committee, member of the Pastoral Search Committee, and lead usher.

Mr. Howard is survived by his wife of nearly 44 years, Jean Hooks Howard; two sons and daughters-in-law, Stephen Howard and his wife Sharre Moon of Chester, Va., and Jonathan Howard and his wife Tamala of Hopewell, Va.; eight grandchildren, Brandon, Kayla, and Kyle Howard, Jessie and Jamie Alexander, Joshua, Andrew, and Jesse Howard; three sisters and brothers-in-law, Cheryl and Cecil Bradley of Wilson, N.C., Kay and Randy Medlin of Wilson, N.C., and Linda and Billy Manning of Stantonsburg, N.C.; a brother, Phillip Howard of Washington, N.C.; sister-in-law, Christine Bryan of Goldsboro, N.C.; and several nieces, nephews and cousins

The family will receive friends on Monday, June 29, 2009, from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at Colonial Heights Baptist Church, located at 17201 Jefferson Davis Highway, Colonial Heights, VA 23834. The Funeral will be conducted at Colonial Heights Baptist Church on Tuesday, June 30, 2009, at 11 a.m. with the Rev. Mike Osborne and Chaplain (MAJ) David Green officiating. Entombment to follow at Southlawn Memorial Park & Mausoleum in Prince George, Va. Flowers are welcome or contributions may be made to Colonial Heights Baptist Church. Arrangements by the Colonial Heights Chapel of the E. Alvin Small Funeral Homes & Crematory, 2033 Boulevard. Condolences may be registered at www.ealvinsmall.com.

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Published by The Progress-Index from Jun. 27 to Jun. 28, 2009.

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Tom Kania

September 22, 2009

Once in a while you meet someone who impresses not by who he is, but what he has done for others. Douglas Howard was such a man to me. I met him at a seminar in High Point,NC several years ago and was blown away by all the reconstructions he had done. Bonda Ache will always be an impressive memory for me, because of him. Howard family, I share your loss of a very fine man. Deepest sympathies to you all!

Ricky Barr

July 5, 2009

I only saw Mr. Howard one time, but I will never forget him. He presented me one of his Mortuary Affairs, Director coins to me for being honor graduate of my 92M class. To this day it is my favorite reward of my 22 year military career. "Dignity, Reverence, Respect".

LARRY PAPPAS

July 1, 2009

I,WILL AIWAYS HAVE THE MEMORIES
OF A CLASSMATE AT THE RECENT 50TH
REUNION THIS PASS SEPTEMBER.
I, CAN TRULY SAY WE WILL ALL MISS
HIM VERY MUCH.I,ENJOYED KNOWING
HIM.

LARRY PAPPAS

July 1, 2009

IT WAS REALLY GREAT TO SEE DOUG AT OUR 50TH CLASS
REUNION, WE HAD A GREAT GROUP OF PEOPLE IN OUR
CLASS OF 1958. DOUG WILL BE MISSED. LARRY H. PAPPAS, MARYLAND

Elaine Batts Percival

July 1, 2009

News of Doug's death saddens me, but I rejoice that last September we shared the celebration of our 50th high school reunion in Wilson. His generous spirit and exemplary life bring honor to his classmates. I am proud to be one of them. May you find comfort in memory and have peace in your heart.

July 1, 2009

I will truly miss Doug and all the assistance he provided me over the years. A real friend.
Joe A. Johnson- Fort Bragg, North Carolina

Kelvin Washington

June 29, 2009

I thank God, Mrs. Howard and the Howard family for sharing this great man with the Mortuary Affairs community and with myself. I'll truly miss the best dressed gentleman on FT. Lee and his encouraging words of wisdom. May God comfort you with His perfect peace.

Della & Max Fitz-Gerald

June 29, 2009

We only have known Doug briefly through Billy and Linda. We are so sorry to learn of his passing and wish to send our thoughts and prayers to the family. He was a wonderful man!

June 29, 2009

Meeting Doug many years ago through work, I can say that he was always patient, always kind, always caring and always proud of his profession.

I will miss him and his gentle spirit.

Joy Metzger
Fort Lee Public Affairs Office

Chris Phillips

June 29, 2009

A man of honor, Mr. Howard left a legacy of professionalism and integrity. He will be missed greatly.
We are all better for having know him. My condolences to the family. May the Lord give you comfort and strength, during this time of grief.

Katie Ellis Leggett

June 29, 2009

Mr. Howard was a true friend to my father Tom Ellis who recently passed away as well. He always saw the best in my father and my father truly considered him to be his friend. The Ellis Family sends their thoughts and prayers to the Howard Family during this terrible time of loss. God Bless you all!

Kathy (Mrs. Tom) Ellis

June 29, 2009

My prayers and thoughts go out to the entire family. They truly have lost a 'good' man. I know the Angels are rejoicing and know he and Tom are laughing over old times - Doug he finally made it thanks to people like you who never gave up- I will never forget all those many hours of your preaching to him - I know you both are now pain free and at peace on the Arms of God.

Habibah & Jeff Prevost

June 29, 2009

Mr. Howard was a great man that I will truly miss. He was a kind, gentle, caring and loving individual who mentored everyone that he came in contact with. Mr. Howard was my friend. I am grateful and honored for knowing such a fine American. May God confort your family during this time of great loss.

Sheila Smith

June 29, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. You are forever in my thoughts and prayers. SFC Smith, Sheila and family.

John Crumley

June 29, 2009

Mr Howard allowed me to be in his home numerous times with Stephen while we were in JR High. He put up with my craziness and loud mouth, but was always good to me. The Howards have always been a family that I honor and appreciate. I'm praying for you all.

Jason Reedy

June 29, 2009

I so look forward to seeing Doug again in glory. I will miss this man of God, who always showed Jesus Christ in all I saw him do. Jean, Stephen, and Jonathan - We love you and are praying for you to have peace in this time.

Geraldine C. Hargrow

June 29, 2009

Mr. Howard was the epitome of professionalism and human decency. He was a mentor, teacher, confidant, and a true friend. I have learned from the best there will ever be. His teachings, kindness and warm memories shall forever remain in my heart. "Dignity, Reverence, and Respect" will forever remain the legacy of his teachings. May God's comfort surround his family and friends during this difficult time. His spirit will live on in all of us who knew and loved him.

June 29, 2009

Doug was one of the finest soldiers that I have evr had the honor of serving with. A true professional. Bill Flick (LTC Ret).

Jeannie Livingston

June 29, 2009

Doug was a truly wonderful and heartfelt man. I am saddened by his loss but know he is now at peace.

Chris & Cheryl Rawlings

June 28, 2009

Our hearts are saddened at the news of Mr. Howard's passing. May God comfort your family at this time of great loss. Our prayers are with you.

Elizabeth Dinger

June 28, 2009

There aren't enough words to express my sadness to the family of a truly exceptional and inspirational man. Doug was a blessing to those of us fortunate enough to know him, even just a little. I'll be keeping you all in my prayers.

Stoagie Schwank

June 28, 2009

Steve - Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Stoagie, Ginny, Haley and Jacob

June 27, 2009

I WILL GREATLY MISS YOU LOVE ALWAYS JASON WHEELER

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