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Francis Carey Obituary
Francis John Patrick Carey of Tulsa, OK, died Sunday, June 22, 2008 surrounded by loving family in Oklahoma City.
Born on December 28, 1930 in Middletown, NY. He graduated from Middletown High School in 1948. He graduated from Michigan State University in 1952 where he ran track and cross country. Fran married Beverley Roberts and they had 7 children. The family moved from Michigan to New Mexico where Fran taught high school English and later began his banking career. He continued in banking after his move to Tulsa, Oklahoma in 1970 where he worked for the Bank of Oklahoma. He retired as a Vice President. Following his retirement, Fran became a Court Appointed Special Advocate for Children (CASA) where he could use his compassion and exceptional communication skills for the benefit of children less fortunate.
He precedes his wife, Bev who died in 1999. He also lost his youngest son, Danny, in 2007. He is survived by his sister, Patricia Traphagen of Middletown, NY; his sister-in-law, Shirley Haas, Mendon, MI; and his five remaining children, Kevin (Melony) Carey of Muskogee, Betsy (Bob) Evatt of San Diego, Patrick (MiHwa) Carey of Las Vegas, Cathy (Jerry) Wise of Edmond, and Christopher (Martha) Carey of Houston. Baby daughter Monica Ann predeceased him while the family lived in Albuquerque. He was very proud of his 13 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.
Visitation will be 5-7 p.m. on Thursday, June 26 and Funeral service will be 10 a.m. on Friday, June 27, both at Fitzgerald Southwood Colonial Chapel.
In lieu of flowers, please make your donations in Fran's name to CASA at 700 S. Boston #230, Tulsa, OK 74119.
Arrangements by Fitzgerald Southwood Colonial Chapel, 3612 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK 74137, 918-291-3500.
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Charles Jennemann
June 30, 2008
Dear Chris and Martha:
I have just heard of your loss and I am very sorry. My heart goes out to all of your family. I never knew your Dad although his wonderful spirit is evident in your character.
In this difficult time please know you are in my prayers. May God's blessings be abundant in your life.
Lots of Love,
Charlie Jennemann
Bo Rainey
June 27, 2008
To the Carey Family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on Fran's passing. I always loved seeing him and have so many great memories from childhood, especially of Fran sitting down and playing the piano at my parents' home. It is comforting to know that there is now one more star shining in the heavens.
Sonja Humphrey
June 26, 2008
May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers
Edie Allen
June 26, 2008
Dear Cathy and family,
I am so sorry about your dad's passing. When i think about my blessings growing up, getting to know you and your family is one. You had a wonderful impact on my life - it was cool to say i rode to school with ms nathan hale! You were a great role model and i always loved your sense of humor and admired your work ethic and selflessness. Thinking of you all
shine on and love,
Carol Cecil-Dickey
June 26, 2008
Dear Cathy and family,
I have many fond memories of your dad during our days of youth at Nathan Hale. I also remember seeing him at BOK and chatting with him while I worked there in the late 70's. Your dad accepted me as one of his own when I would come to visit the Carey house. Take comfort in knowing I am praying for you and may this sad time bring fun memories of your dad and his legacy of love for his family will live on forever. May the peace of the Lord always be with you.
Hazard Decker
June 25, 2008
My friendship with Fran began circa 1940 when he, Dick Hayes and I were members of the Sons of American Legion Marching Band. In Jr. High, we met Biff Bates and the four of us were close friends through High School. In 1954, Biff, Fran and I were all in Korea at the same time. Fran and I kept in touch over the years. Fond memories will always be with me.
Richard Hayes
June 25, 2008
My condolences to Francis' family. He was a good man and a wonderful friend. Fran was my best friend thru school and adulthood. I have many fond memories of Francis over the years. He visited us here in Florida a few years ago. I shall miss him a lot.
Jim & Marian McUsic
June 25, 2008
Fran was an active member of The Epiphany Group, a small faith-sharing lay Catholic group, of which we also are members. We really enjoyed working with him, and sharing our thoughts with him. He was really a great guy. Our deepest sympathies to his family.
Marcia Lybarger
June 25, 2008
Our sympathy to the family. Fran was with BOK for many years and graced us with his smiling and friendly face. I'm sure Bev is waiting for him at Heaven's Gate.
Jane Lewis
June 25, 2008
Fran and I graduated together from MHS and he was my back door neighbor as well. We had many very good times in our high school years along with his sister Pat. My deepest sympathy to you all..
Ida Mae Jacobs
June 25, 2008
I worked with Fran @ BOk for many years. He will be missed.
JoHelen Wilson
June 25, 2008
I worked with Fran at Bank of Oklahoma for a number of years. He was one of my favorite people - always smiling, always an uplifting word for everyone. He spoke often of his family, and how much they all meant to him. He will missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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