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Gregory Allen Obituary
Gregory Edward Allen (Schliphack), a lifelong resident of Pine Bush, NY, passed away on Thursday, October 2, 2008 at home. He was 33.
Greg was born on July 11, 1975 at St. Luke's Hospital, Newburgh, NY, the youngest child of Kenneth and Diane Lisk Schliphack of Pine Bush, NY.
Greg received a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from Mount St. Mary's College and was pursuing a Master's in Teaching from the same institution. Greg was employed in the Human Resources Department of Orange Regional Medical Center.
Early in life, Greg developed a love of the theater. He was actively involved in acting, directing and stage managed a number of productions during his time at Mount St. Mary's and enjoyed attending many Broadway and Off-Broadway performances. In addition, he was an avid reader, writer and NY Yankees fan.
Greg is remembered by family, friends and colleagues for his personal warmth and ability to light up a room. He was well loved by everyone who knew him.
In addition to his parents, Ken and Diane Schliphack of Pine Bush, Greg is survived by his brother, Todd Schliphack and Sonia Dale of Newburgh, NY and N.Y.C.; his sister, Kendra Hajek and her husband, Jan of Pine Bush, NY; his niece, Elishka and his nephew, Tomas of Pine Bush, as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins, and his beloved dachshund, Gus. He was predeceased by his brother, Andrew.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, October 5, from 3-6 p.m. at the Gridley-Horan Funeral Home, 39 Orchard St., Walden, NY. Cremation will be in Cedar Hill Crematory, Newburgh.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Greg's memory to the Gregory Edward Allen Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Walden Federal Savings & Loan Assn., 12 Main St., Walden, NY 12586.
Arrangements by Gridley-Horan Funeral Home, Inc.; 845-778-3811.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gregory Allen
Dorie Ritschl
November 2, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Gregs passing. He was too young! Most of my fondest memories of junior high and high school included Greg. Spending his birthday seeing Paul McCartney, going into the city to see a show or hang out, going to concerts, the swim team, the memories are endless. My heart goes out to the entire family. He will be greatly missed and always loved.
Kristi LaMotte
October 21, 2008
My deepest sympathies to Greg's family...their loss is so great. Greg was a wonderful person in every way someone could be. I hope he's resting in peace conducting an Off-Broadway hit in heaven. He will be greatly missed by many.
Angie and Jeff Callister
October 12, 2008
Dear Ken and Family,
We want to extend our sympathy to you and your family on the recent death of your son, Greg. Life is never fair or easy on us, but the loss of a child is even more devastating. Neither of us knew Greg although we had met him once or twice over the years of our friendship. And it is that friendship that underlies this too brief note. There aren't enough words to take away your pain, but we hope the fact that you know so many of us care and wish we could help in a more meaningful way will ease it some.
With sincere regret,
David Mossey
October 11, 2008
I was so sad to hear the news of Greg's passing. I had the privilege of knowing him while he was a student at the Mount and working on shows together. He was a great talent and an amazing individual. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
Linda Crofton
October 10, 2008
My deepest sympathies for all who were touched by Greg. I had the honor of knowing Greg through my mother, Diana. Even though we were not great friends, I felt as one in his presence. I will cherish the many times of hearing him laugh, his smile, singing show tunes alongside my mother and especially dancing to "Enough is Enough" by Donna Summer and Barbra Streisand, plus many others. What joy he gave to life.
I would also like to thank God, for allowing this "angel" to come into this world to be a part of life, especially my mothers life. I will never be able to thank him for the joy and strength he brought her. Thank you! Love to you Greg. You will be forever missed and loved by the world.
October 10, 2008
The Cup of Love
I know no other way to share this with the world. This was the philosophy of a 19 year old boy. It is pure, clear and flawless to my mind. I have paraphrased it from conversations to make a coherent statement.
In every relationship there is “a cup of love.” This can relate to two lovers, friends, parent and child, etc., any relationship. The cup must ALWAYS be 100% full. In an ideal relationship, each partner contributes 50% to the cup. There are times of stress, of course, when one partner needs more love. In such a case, the other partner must put in the difference. The cup must ALWAYS remain full. In normal circumstances, if one partner feels that he is giving too much to the cup, he may withdraw some of the love. The other partner must make up the difference. In a good relationship, will usually happen. If a time comes when both partners withdraw and the cup is not full, the relationship is no more.
Is this not the simplest truth? Can you believe that a 19 year old boy taught this truth to me from his own thoughts? I hope I have at least given you something to consider. This is one of the many small gifts that Greg has left to the world. He has made a difference, and all who have known him have been changed by his presence. Greg’s work here is done. I am sure he has risen to a higher plane, and we here will never be the same.
DMC
DMC
October 10, 2008
The Cup of Love
I know no other way to share this with the world. This was the philosophy of a 19 year old boy. It is pure, clear and flawless to my mind. I have paraphrased it from conversations to make a coherent statement.
In every relationship there is “a cup of love.” This can relate to two lovers, friends, parent and child, etc., any relationship. The cup must ALWAYS be 100% full. In an ideal relationship, each partner contributes 50% to the cup. There are times of stress, of course, when one partner needs more love, the other partner must put in the difference. The cup must ALWAYS remain full. In normal circumstances, if one partner feels that he is giving too much to the cup, he can withdraw some of the love. The other partner must make up the difference. In a good relationship, this usually happens. If a time comes when both partners withdraw and the cup is not full, the relationship is no more.
Is this not the simplest truth? Can you believe that a 19 year old boy taught this truth to me from his own thoughts? I hope I have at least given you something to consider. This is one of the many small gifts that Greg has left to the world. He has made a difference, and all who have known him have been changed by his presence. Greg’s work here is done. I am sure he has risen to a higher plane, but we here will never be the same.
Susan & Joseph Maloney
October 8, 2008
Dear Diane & Ken,
We would like to express our sadness on the loss of your son, Greg. Wish we could have been in town to comfort you. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Carrie O'Brien
October 7, 2008
You will always be my Studman, Studman.
My heart bleeds.
Wayne and Marcia Kupferschmid
October 7, 2008
Dear Ken, Diane, Todd, Sonia, Kendra and Jan - My whole family - Cory, Grant and Missy, join Kup and me in expressing our deep sadness in the loss of your dear Greg. We have so many happy memories of family times together. Grant mentioned their time at West Point and again in Ellington playing army. We scouted out every Army and Navy Store that summer from here to Cape Cod looking for army duds after being with Todd and Greg. Greg's smile, humor, laughter and personality warmed us all. We share your sadness in your deep loss and send prayers of comfort and healing. Our love, Kup and Marcia and family
Richard Bauer
October 7, 2008
Todd & Sonya,Our deepest sympathies reach out to you and your family at this time. Our prayers are with you.
Annette & Dick
Charlie and Sandy Delmonico
October 6, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Catherine Crofton
October 6, 2008
My deepest sympathies to all that knew and loved Greg. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his sudden passing. I cannot believe I will not enjoy his wit, sarcasm, smile, and laugh again. I will always fondly remember the many nights Bob and I sat talking and laughing with him when he lived with Diana in Newburgh. I was always so happy to be reunited with him when she would come up to visit and he would spend time with us. I regret not having done that more. One thing I will always remember is his love of "Angels in America." Now he is one.
Tony Ferraiuolo
October 6, 2008
Dear Ken and Diane,
Like many others we were shocked and saddened when we read of Greg's death in Saturday's paper. We have fond memories of that young, handsome and spunky toddler when we shared worship at St. Joseph's in New Windsor. May God bring you all peace and comfort as you continue through life without your special son. Our love.
(Deacon) Tony and Shirley Ferraiuolo
Lee McIntyre
October 6, 2008
I feel so fortunate to have known and worked with Greg. He brought enthusiasm and energy to everything he did. There was never a conversation where we didn't laugh about something. Although his time with all of us was much too short he has left me a better person just for having known him.
My deepest sympathy to all of his family.
Theresa Stewart
October 6, 2008
To Todd and Sonia and all of your family:
Our very deepest sympathy to all of you at this time. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
All our Love, Stephen and Theresa Stewart
Kathryn Corson
October 5, 2008
Greg was a dear friend to me while I lived in NY. When we were in the process of adopting, he was a wonderful cheerleader and a great listener. He always cheered me up and made me laugh.
Even after we lost touch, I kept him in my heart and always treasured our friendship. I am deeply saddened by his loss. My sympathies go out to Greg's friends and family. May he stay alive in our thoughts and memories.
Debbie Carr
October 5, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the Schliphack family.
As Vice President of Human Resources, I have known Greg for three years. I was thrilled when he agreed to join the HR department a year ago. He has since been the sunshine that lights our department.
Everyone who speaks of Greg talks about the laughter they shared and the fun they had. I would always enjoy my visits to Arden Hill so I could see Greg. We had adjoining offices and always had a good time. He made work fun. He had the gift of enjoying life.
He will be missed by all of us.
Diana Crofton
October 5, 2008
How does one define a friend? The list of ways could go on and on. Greg epitomized the word. He was the dearest friend to me, and the closest person to my heart. He was always there for me, and always knew just what I needed. He was strong when I needed strength. He was soft when I needed comfort. He was tough when I needed to be brought back to reality. He gave me credit when I deserved it. He lifted me up and helped me to grow into the person that I am today. I will never be perfect, but I am a better person to have had Greg as my friend. I hope I have been as good a friend to Greg.
Just last week Greg and I were going over our collections of theatre ticket stubs, and could not believe how many shows we had seen together. (In the 90s we were theatre junkies, going every chance we had.) Greg recalled that in those days when we thought about how much money we were spending I said, "Yes, but the day may come when we can't do this any more, but we will always have these memories." He remarked how true those words turned out to be.
Greg loved analogies, and I think my little story can go for how we each feel about our relationships with Greg. We can't have him any more, but we each did have a part of him in our own way. We will always have those memories. As each of you "take out those ticket stubs" and recall all those memories, be happy. I think Greg would like to be remembered that way.
In the philosophy that we shared, the soul moves on to a higher plane, having learned something from the life that was lived. I know Greg has moved on and I hope our souls meet again some day.
My heart is with you all, as you must know. I wish I could be there to share in this day with you. I would like to end my letter with a quote from Shakespeare that I often said to Greg to end one of our late night phone calls. It is even more fitting now.
"Goodnight, sweet Prince. And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."
With fondest remembrance,
Dianna Havercamp
October 5, 2008
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and all that loved Greg. Greg came into my life about 8 years ago and soon after became almost part of the family with my husband and I.
We shared so many memories. Unfortunately his move to florida caused us to fall out of touch. After many failed attempts at trying to reach him, I kind of gave up, in the hopes that we would reconnect some day. It's sad to know that this whole time, he was right around the corner. We are deeply saddened by this loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.
Kimberly Strauss
October 5, 2008
My Deepesed Sympathy in the loss of your loved one. I worked with Greg at ORMC on raising money for the United Way. We had great laughes and coversations.He will be missed. Take comfort in knowing he touched the lives of so many people in such a positive way and he will never be forgotten.
Eileen Zwart
October 4, 2008
Dear Ken, Diane and family-
We were shocked and saddened by Greg's untimely passing. Having just had the pleasure of meeting him, his kind and generous spirit really touched us, and we are so deeply sad for you all. Our prayers go with you.
Eileen and Tim Zwart
Debbie Holmes
October 4, 2008
My deepest sympathies to your family on the loss of Greg.
He is a very special man who brought joy to me and everyone that knew him. We were lunch buddies, co-workers and friends. I will miss our chats and emails, our talks, his smile and laugh.
I love you Greg and I miss you.
Davia Mancini
October 4, 2008
My deepest sorrow for your loss, your son was an inspiration to me and my children, we were privledged to see him act at Mount St Mary's, in Cabaret with my daughter in law , Amanda. He will truly be missed.
Brooke Drumbore
October 4, 2008
To my Dear Cousin....you will be missed. You always had such a wonderful smile and gave great hugs! This week, you were in my thoughts as I made a recipe from one of the books you gave me for my birthday. I thought of you the whole time I cooked! We are all sad down here, but I think you are pretty happy where you are, as you have Grammy S with you. You are in good hands!!
I Love You!
Brooke
Kenny,Diane,Kendra,Jan,Todd....you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I will continue to send you my love. Take Care.
Mike and Henia Zanetti
October 4, 2008
Ken, Diane & the entire family - Our sincerest thoughts and sympathy is with you at this time. As parents we can understand your loss. Our prayers are with you all in your time of need.
Susan Heintz
October 4, 2008
Greg was one of the very special people that we meet as we travel through life. Greg had the greatest laugh and smile. If only we could have packaged that.
Greg was a member of the Human Resources Team at Orange Regional Medical Center. He worked with us for just over one year. When I reviewed his annual evaluation with him on Monday, he told me he loved his job. We loved working with him.
Greg was the Human Resources Representative at the Arden Hill Campus. He was well-liked and respected by all the employees he came in contact with.
I spent the day at Arden Hill yesterday. The employees were devastated by his loss. They posted cards, poems and momentos on the door of his office, they spoke with a representative of our EAP to help them deal with their grief. Their hearts were broken at the news of his passing. Greg was one of a kind - the best kind!
Greg will always be a part of our HR team. We will never forget the contributions he made to our department and to each of us individually. You always knew when he was in the department, you could hear his laugh up and down the hallway.
I will miss Greg as a co-worker and friend. We had some great conversations, both personal and work-related.
My deepest sympathy to his family.
Rita Ponessa
October 4, 2008
Dear Diane and Ken,
I was so sorry to read about Greg. My sincere condolences to you both and to your family. Greg was a wonderful, interesting person whom I always enjoyed talking with. My thoughts are with you all.
Sincerely,
Rita
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