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Rita Mataraza Obituary

Viera, FL

Rita Abbruzzese Mataraza, 88, died in the arms of her children on Saturday, October 25, 2008 in Viera, FL. Rita was reunited with her husband of 63 years, Michael Charles Mataraza, who passed away just 14 weeks ago.

Born in Milton, NY on May 15, 1920, Rita was the daughter of Donato and Antonette Abbruzzese.

Rita graduated from Highland High School, and at age 15, was accepted to attend Cornell University. In 1940, she earned a Bachelor's degree. Rita's first employment was at Central Hudson Gas & Electric Corporation in Poughkeepsie, NY and during World War II, she directed its Home Service Department. She traveled across the country to promote its Nutrition for Life program, "A Healthy America is a Strong America". Rita and Michael were married on February 18, 1945. After the war, Rita joined the Ulster County Welfare Department as a social worker, and after the birth of her children, joined the staff at Marlboro Central School. For 15 years she taught Home Economics and went on to serve as a guidance counselor until her retirement in 1979. Rita earned Master Degrees from Columbia University in New York City and from the State University of New York at Albany. Rita and Mike resided in Milton until 1979 when they moved to Naples, FL. In 2007, they moved to Cocoa Village, FL.

Survivors include her daughter and son-in-law, Michele and Neil Fino, Sr. of Highland, NY; her daughter, Diane Mataraza and her fiance, Michael Schleiffer of Viera, FL; her grandson, Michael Charles and his wife, Deanna Fino of Hopewell Junction, NY and grandson, Neil Vincent and his wife, Elizabeth Fino of Highland, NY. She is also survived by six great-grandchildren: Anthony Michael, Victoria Marie, Michael Charles Jr., Dominic Francis, Elizabeth Michele and Joseph Anthony; 27 nieces and nephews and 48 great nieces and nephews. Rita was predeceased by her five siblings: Marie Mataraza, Teresa Abbruzzese, Grace Palazzo, Joseph Abbruzzese and Emmaline Lofaro. Her family - actually all who knew her - were blessed by and benefitted from her wisdom, fairness, integrity, strength, grace, care and love. She will live in our hearts forever.

We extend special thanks to Dr. Vincent Sciortino, Dr. Carl Tahn and staff at Hematology Oncology Associates of Central Brevard, Wuesthoff Hospital Chaplain Joan Grace, and the compassionate staff of Brevard County Hospice and the Town Square.

Visitation will be Saturday, November 1, from 9-10:45 a.m. at DiDonato Funeral Home, 1290 Route 9W, Marlboro, NY. The Reverend William Scafidi will celebrate a Mass of Requiem on All Saints Day at 11:30 a.m., St. Mary's Church, 180 South Street, Newburgh, NY. Entombment will follow at Cedar Hill Cemetery in Middlehope, NY.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: Wuesthoff Hospice & Palliative Care Center, C/O Wuesthoff Health System Foundation, Inc., PO Box 565002, Rockledge, FL 32956-9928, or to the Food Bank at Town Square, c/o Deboralee Davis, 1700 Wuesthoff Dr., Viera, FL 32940.

Funeral arrangements were entrusted to Lawrence M. Cavazza and Carl J. DiDonato, Jr. of the DiDonato Funeral Service, Inc.; 845-236-4300.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Oct. 29 to Oct. 30, 2008.

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Doris Leonard

November 13, 2008

Michele, I just heard of your losses and am so very sorry. If I had only known, I certainly would have been there. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Love, Doris

Virginia Pugh

November 5, 2008

Dear Michelle, Diane and families,
Your Mom was a wonderful woman and will always be remembered for her kindness and patience with her students. Most young girls from Marlboro were first taught how to thread a needle and take their first steps in basic cooking skills.
So sorry for your sad loss of both parents. My prayers are with you.

Virginia Pugh

Evelyn Wischoff McClure

November 3, 2008

Michele, Diane and family, Your mom was a wonderful lady. She taught me home economics in school. She was also our class of 1963 advisor and loved a lot. My thoughts and heart are with you all. she will be missed .

Mary & Richard Beruk

October 30, 2008

To Rita's Family,
When you lost your Dad, I wrote to Rita, and she emailed me back thanking me. She was such a lady, good, kind, decent to all. How difficult it must have been for her to live on, with her own illness, after losing her beloved husband. Our hearts go out to you all. Your parents are the kind of people we all wish we can attain to be.
Love, Mary & Richard Beruk

Cindy Earp

October 29, 2008

Diane and Family, my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your mom. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. Diane, I see in you qualities that can only be acquired by a loving family and more importantly from the things taught you by your mother and father. You are their legacy and your memories of them will sustain you through your loss. They now share a heavenly place looking over you all.

Phyllis Taber-Finateri

October 29, 2008

Michele and Family,
I was so sorry to read about your Mom. It's a very hard thing losing a mother. I always remember her from school, and the times I went to your house after school. I'm sure she got great enjoyment from your children and her great-grandchildren. My thoughts are with you.
Phyllis Taber Finateri

Mary Jane Riley

October 29, 2008

Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't get the paper but I happened to be reading it online today and I saw the notice about your mother and your recent loss of your father. I am so sorry. I know you and me use to talk about our parents at work. Please call me sometime.

Kim Stack

October 29, 2008

Diane and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. What a great lady she was! She was so helpful in helping me and lots of others reach the goals and dreams they had for themselves. She was always positive and upbeat with us as students in need of her guidance. She will be missed.
Kim Linsig Stack

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