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Pippin Seales Obituary

Quotes from those who knew

Pippin in his many walks of life:

"so sweet"

"so beautiful"

"guileless"

"the stalwart kid"

"his contribution to our lives

is everlasting"

"so full of wonder and love"

"so kind"

"such a good friend to everyone"

"a bright shining star"

"Every time I saw him,

he opened my heart."

Pippin Seales died at Natural Bridges, a place he loved, shortly after celebrating his eleventh birthday. He and two friends were playing in a cave below the entrance kiosk, when it collapsed. The injured friend is beginning to recover and needs your prayers. It took long, long minutes of frantic excavation to get Pippin out - first with the help of so many people who were nearby, and then by the rescue crew. He could not be resuscitated.

Pippin's passing leaves a terrible hole in the lives of everyone who knew him. He was a truly wonderful human being: bright, curious, generous, thoughtful, considerate, friendly, interested, caring, eager for new challenges and new things to learn, with a fierce power of concentration and a delightfully wicked sense of humor. He was equally at ease in the company of adults and his peers. None who knew him can remember him saying an unkind word, or recall him in a knowingly thoughtless, selfish or unkind act. He was an old soul, with a sense of self, forbearance and patience beyond his years, and beyond many adults. The world needed Pippin.

Pippin was homeschooled through the Mountain Elementary School Independent Study Program. This gave him a classroom full of children and teachers who knew him well and loved him over the course of years, while also giving him time to become deeply involved with pursuits at home and in the community.

He loved animals, and for six years, rain or shine, he volunteered weekly with his mother caring for the farm animals at Wilder Ranch State Park. He had birds, fish, a dog, cats & chickens at home in the Seabright neighborhood where he lived from the time he was born. He was especially interested in birds, and felt a deep connection to the Peregrine Falcon which gave him part of his name.

Pippin loved sailing, and with his father's involvement, Pippin enjoyed several years of captaining his 8-foot El Toro through the SCYC Pinto Lake program. This summer in the Junior El Toro North Americans he came in 2nd in the Silver Fleet. He was growing beautifully into his role of mentor of the younger sailors, and was always ready to help with a tricky knot or confusing rigging. He had thoughts of becoming a naval architect a designer of boats.

He loved plants and gardening, and with one grandmother he was a frequent visitor to the Capitola Senior Garden, where he made many friends. He could seldom pass a beautiful flower without checking to see how it smelled, and he particularly loved succulents and cacti.

Pippin loved science, and with one grandmother he was a frequent guest or helper in her high school science classes, as well as always being at work on some project or other with her - often along with cousins - exploring properties of the world around us.

He loved learning new things about nature, and with one grandfather he was a member of the Santa Cruz Fly Fishermen & a frequent student in fly-tying classes, as well as joining fishing trips and fishery management workdays, where he would work right along with the adults. He loved camping, especially with friends, and was looking forward to learning backpacking skills. He spent six hours every week with a pre-teen nature exploration group in the back-country of Wilder Ranch State Park.

Pippin loved working with his hands, and had been blessed to be mentored by a gifted shop class teacher, with whom he discussed everything from how a screw works, to why we should fix and reuse things rather than throw them away, to the nature of the universe. He had been with the same well-loved painting teacher from early childhood, and was a careful, methodical painter with a fascinating personal imagery. His last work of art was to decorate his own birthday cake, with the facilitation of a lifelong friend who works in a bakery.

Pippin loved to play games, and he and his father spent hours not only playing complex board games, often with historical themes, but also inventing modifications to improve the play. He had thoughts of becoming a game designer.

He loved books, and after many years of being read aloud to, learned to read on his own around his 8th birthday. The summer he was 9, he read over 20,000 pages. He completed The Lord of the Rings at 10. He was a testament to patience and faith in the natural timing of the development of a child's brain and personal learning style.

Pippin loved music. He played ukelele and recorder at school, but his true interest was in appreciation - from Cabrillo Music Festival to San Jose & San Francisco Opera, from old rock albums to world music to seeing Phil Lesh & Jackie Greene in concert. As a wakeful infant his daddy danced him to sleep with P-funk and James Brown. In school and at gatherings he was an avid and unself-conscious participant in folk dancing. He was open to anything.

He loved food, and not only did he love to eat - with a powerful interest in new things - but he also loved to cook. He made the best scrambled eggs, created spice mixes, and had recently mastered risotto. Sushi was a passion, a trip to Engfer Pizza a frequent pleasure, chocolate a treasured ritual of sharing, and eating out in San Francisco something to be treated with great seriousness and delight.

Pippin was proud of his British heritage, and loved to talk about the trips he had taken to England and Wales, some of the time travelling with one grandfather & his wife, as well as visiting his namesake great-grandfather in a seaside shipbuilding town in northeast England. He loved to talk to people in general. His speech was not always clear, though his thoughts and ideas were, and more than once he was jokingly accused of having either an English accent or a Brooklyn one. He took this in stride, assuming others would be as patient with his own challenges as he tended to be with theirs.

Pippin loved trains. He loved trains. More than one family vacation was centered around trains: steam railways in Britain, rail travel in California, streetcars in San Francisco. He was passionately interested in public transit, and in the hours he spent planning & working on his model train layout with his father - drawing wiring diagrams, solving design issues, perusing catalogs - he always kept alive the connection between the imaginary world he was creating and the real world of trolleys, buses, streetcars, and trains. He would have made an excellent civil engineer.

Pippin finally, and perhaps most absolutely, loved the people in his life. His delight in his relationships with people from his great-grandmothers to his youngest "kissin' cousin" was inspiring. So many of the adults who mourn him knew him not just as a child, but as a friend. His lasting connection with friends he'd known from toddlerhood, as well as the vital rough'n'tumble friendships of his boyhood, were such a source of joy for him. He played, and played, and played. He played with friends older than him, friends his own age, and many younger friends. He was well-known for his diplomatic ability to include younger siblings, and was passionately attached to "playing fair".

Pippin was so many things to so many people. He was adored, he was respected, he was admired. He loved, and was loved in return.

A grandfather writes:

"Losing Pippin is a double tragedy:

We have lost the delight that Pippin was to each of us and the world lost the incredible person he was well on his way to becoming.

Pippin had the parents we each wish we had, and wish we could be or could have been. The second tragedy is that his parents have so much to give to us through their child becoming an adult, but they no longer have that child and can't give that gift to us."

The life of each who knew Pippin is diminished by his absence. We miss him terribly.."

Pippin is survived by his parents, Conrad & Anne Seales, of Santa Cruz; grandparents Kent & Sharon Hull of Aptos; grandmother Pauline Seales of Santa Cruz, grandfather & step-grandmother Alan & Irene Seales of Los Gatos; two great-grandmothers; aunts and uncles, two "proper" cousins, and a number of children who claim him as a cousin through close family relationships. ."

Pippin was a junior member of the Santa Cruz Yacht Club, the Santa Cruz Fly Fishermen, the California Academy of Sciences, and the Monterey Bay Aquarium.."

Interment services will be private. A public memorial service will be held on Saturday, Oct. 25th, 10 A.M. at Oakwood Memorial Chapel, 3301 Paul Sweet Road, Santa Cruz. Contributions in Pippin's memory may be made to the Market Street Railway (SF historic streetcars; www.streetcars.org; Acquisition and Restoration Fund), or donate towards meeting Pippin's dear friend Aiden Dawn’s, medical expenses. Those donations can be sent to: Chazz Hacking, Specialized Bicycle Components, 15130 Concord Circle, Morgan Hill, CA 95037. ."

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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel from Oct. 16 to Oct. 17, 2008.

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Chris of Los Gatos

October 11, 2020

Every time this Day, I find myself still missing such a wonderful lad so full of life. We watch Wallace and Grommet together many an evening when he was 5/6. He did a wonderful imitation of the characters’ mouth. He was such an inquisitive child yearning to learn about all things. I always remember his smile, his freckles, and the twinkle in his eyes. He so reminded me of Christopher Robin.

Edward Penniman

October 10, 2019

I will never forget Pippins nature. He had a sense of peace about him. I was a trustee for a organization and his dad always included him in the meetings. He was a polite and inquisitive being and an endearing fellow. I have noted his birthday of October 8th in my recently published 2020 art calendar featuring my work. His birthday is noted along with my paternal grandmother, her painter friend who were known as the Santa Cruz Three, and john Muir, Hohn Audubon, Henry Thoreau, and others who I have deep respect for. Even in his short span of life he made a difference. I am honored to have had an opportunity to have known him.

Lorelei Crerar

November 20, 2008

Dearest Conrad and Anne:
I find that even after all this time, I am moved by a boy I have met once. To read about him, I know I would have delighted in him as so many others have done.
I have in my mind, the memory of my wedding day, which would not have been the same without the two of you. I wish there was something I could do or say that would help, but I know that it is just not possible.
Andy and I feel your pain, still, today. Be well, we miss seeing you!
Andy and Lorelei Crerar

Ben Gibson

November 7, 2008

To the Seales Family --

As a long-ago, childhood friend of Conrad, I was heartbroken to read about your loss. It struck me while reading about Pippen's wonderful life that he reminded me very much of the spirited, brilliant kid who I played with many, many years ago. In my sorrow learning about your tragedy, this recognition brought a smile to my face.

We are so very sorry.

Ben and Jeanette Gibson

Kristal L. Rosebrook

November 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you always

Ann Prudhoe ak kelly

November 1, 2008

To Alan and Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss of Pippin. Our hearts go out to you all.
Life is so cruel. Love Ann and John.
x

Paula Filseth

October 29, 2008

I have only recently learned of Pippin's death, and have been struggling uselessly to find or borrow words that will help somehow... but I know there aren’t any. Although I know two of his wonderful grandparents, I never had the joy of meeting Pippin -- and it is clear from the stories and memories shared here that knowing Pippin was just that: unmeasured, immeasurable joy. He was clearly a beautiful, gifted, loving, and very much loved person -- a special member of a truly special family. What a heartbreaking, absolutely devastating loss this is for the Seales, and for everyone who knew and loved Pippin. I'm so sorry.

Kristal L Rosebrook

October 28, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Merikay MacKenna

October 27, 2008

I shall always remember his smile, his freckles, and the twinkle in his eyes.

I have posted the "What would Pippen do?" in my studio and his memory will help me put just a little more love and fun into my work.

A tragic loss to the world.

Gail Brown

October 26, 2008

Anne and Conrad,
I have had the opportunity of sharing vicariously many chapters of your lives. Sharon, my old college buddy, always kept me posted on your life chapters as well as her love and admiration for you as a couple...especially as devoted, creative, loving parents of her cherished Pippin. I was able to put my arms around Sharon at the time she learned of this horrific accident. I only wish I could embrace you in the times ahead. Know that Pippin has touched many lives of people who only had the briefest opportunity to meet him. Love, Gail Brown

Pam Myers

October 26, 2008

I didn't have the opportunity to meet your beloved and gifted son, but the next time I go birding with his grandmother, Sharon Hull, we will honor his memory when we spot our first raptor of the day. His memory enhances the beauty of our world.

Peter Pillsbury

October 26, 2008

Conrad and Anne

Thank you for your grace in sharing your selves and your loss with us, those whose lives your Pippin has touched. His memorial service was an amazing thing.

I wanted to add something about Pippin that stands out for me. Watching him as a young sailor learning the "ropes" I was struck by his quiet tenacity. Remembering him, I have a new understanding of the meaning behind that word: So THAT's why people name sailboats "Tenacity"!

Thank you for listening to my (and I am sure many others') awkward bumbling for the right words to say as I tried to express my support, my sympathy, my willingness to help you carry Pippin's spirit and memory.

Pippin will live on and grow as he can. Not as as he should have, but as he can, through us and mostly through you which is where his spirit and memory still lives.

Healing from such a thing never really happens. In time, you simply learn to live with it, carrying the sometimes-burden, sometimes-joy.

It is up to us to carry on the joy that was his life...

What would Pippin do?

Charles Murray

October 25, 2008

We appreciated Pippen so much. We all miss him.
Chuck & Hilda Murray, David Yang-Murray

Anne & Conrad Seales

October 25, 2008

To everyone who came to Pippin's memorial today: Thank you. It was very moving for us to see in such an immediate way how many lives Pippin touched, and very important for us to connect so directly with the community which has been giving us such powerful, vital support. With such a large group, it wasn't possible for either of us to make an individual connection with every person who came - this feels a bit confusing, and we hope very much that anyone who would have liked to speak with us directly but was unable to will find opportunity to do so in the future. We are intensely grateful for your support, and value all of you as part of the community which is helping hold us upright as we attempt to walk into a future without Pippin as the core of our lives.

Blessings to all of you.

Dillon

October 25, 2008

I was in Pippin's Riekes class at Wilder Ranch. I liked Pippin. He was really observant. One time, he saw some really small flowers that no one else saw. He was a happy guy. I'll miss him.

Ruby Ming

October 25, 2008

Dear Ann and Conrad,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Dillon really enjoyed Pippin during their days at Wilder Ranch. We'll miss his sunny smile and exuberance. He'll be well remembered.
My heart goes out to you.

Anne Powell

October 25, 2008

I'm sorry that I know Pippen only through the words of his grandparents, and now his friends and teachers, Many who have seen more years, lived less. What ran through my head during the memorial were these words by Jack London:
"I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark burn out in a brilliant blaze than it be stifled in dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet."
PIppen left a luminous trail, and all who saw it will be better for it.

Linda Holiday

October 25, 2008

Dear Anne and Conrad,

I've just returned from the memorial for Pippin. My heart is full of grief and of love. It was really helpful to be together with so many people grieving and loving, in memory of Pippin. It was an amazing tribute to a short life well-lived. His sudden death reminds us all of life's unpredictability, its preciousness, and the need to treasure all our connections from the heart. Pippin was a remarkable person, and like all remarkable people he served (and serves) as a model of our human capacities. I remember him as a sweet presence, in the Aikido classes, in dojo community events, and frequently curled up in a chair in the dojo lounge engrossed in reading yet another very long book. I was always impressed by the quality of love and parenting I was privileged to observe in your family. It is a terrible twist of fate that has taken your son away from you so abruptly. I know you have many loving people in your life and we all want to embrace you and give you every support in the months and years to come.

With deepest love, admiration, and sympathy,

Marty Mechanic

October 24, 2008

I think that you were such a cool dude, that I am naming my motorscooter after you bro!
"Pippin" will bring me, my surfboard and two dogs to Pleasure Point to go surfin' 'lil bro!!!

Ann Conklin

October 24, 2008

Your great loss of Pippin touched my heart, as I, too, have lost a son. May God's grace grant you peace as you try to understand why you must suffer such loss. After almost 20 years, the thought that gave me the most peace was: "If you believe that every hair is counted, then the days we have on earth are counted as well." Think of him sitting at God's table now, tying fishing flys and asking questions, exploring Heaven while waiting for everyone to join him in their own time. God needs the gifted children to glorify heaven, so in time you will be able to let him go, for Pippin is at peace. His family made his time here on earth fun. I'm sorry for your loss.

Abigail Abouchar

October 24, 2008

Dear Anne, Conrad and all of Pippin's family,

My husband, Andrew, and I would like to express our deepest, heartfelt condolences to you. We did not have the privilege of meeting Pippin, but feel like we know your golden boy through your beautiful tribute and the words of others. What a shining star! We will take up a piece of his legacy and carry it forward.

We are holding you in our thoughts and prayers with so much love.

Love always,

Abigail and Andrew Abouchar

Terri Steinmann

October 23, 2008

I have such fond memories of those beautiful long, brown locks of hair, face full of freckles and incredible imagination that was bubbling with so many ideas. You graced our stage with your presence and were part of our loving ensemble. And you held your own always amidst your peers as well as adults. You were magical. And you will be missed more than can be expressed.

Anne and Conrad thank you so very much for sharing your precious treasure with me, my family and our extended theatre family. My love to you both.

Gracia Krakauer

October 23, 2008

Dear Conrad & Anne: I can't find the words to tell you how truly sorry and shocked I was to hear about Pippin's accident. No parent should have to experience the death of a child so young and full of life. May it help you to know that the thoughts and prayers of all who knew Pippin will be with you. My deepest sympathy. Gracia Krakauer

MARNIE L

October 23, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Nancy and Fred Brunt

October 23, 2008

Words cannot express our sadness having grandchildren ourselves makes it doubly hard.

Else Frost

October 21, 2008

The Seales family
I am a cousin to Dot and Alan
Please accept my deepest condolences during this very difficult time.

Ron and Kathy Fitzgerald

October 21, 2008

We are great friends of Dot and Ron McIntosh. We are grandparents to three girls Leanne, Georgia and Rebecca. Please accept our condolences on your loss. We can only imagine how you must feel.

Sarah Price

October 20, 2008

Anne & Conrad -
We spent time on Saturday reminiscing about our too few times with Pippin. My mom remembered Thai food in Vegas. Paul remembered Pippin and Madeleine dancing to the Beatles and our trip to the Redwoods. Madeleine remembered trains, pizza and pencil the cat. My memories are flooded with your beautiful words from the notice. I can't seperate time we've spent together 20 years ago and a trip to the Calder exhibit in San Francisco or to Mt. Vernon and a tiny little tricorn hat. We send all of our love and try to find comfort in our memories. All of our love...

Dan O'Day

October 19, 2008

Anne, I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My family's thoughts are with you and your husband.

Though I did not know Pippin and recall meeting him briefly only once or twice I can only imagine what a wonderful child he was. I'm certain he was a beacon of light to people in the same way that you always were for me during my time in Santa Cruz.

There are certain people in this life that have an ability to teach of, simply through who they are, the immensity of potential and beauty which exists within the human spirit. From reading the remembrance and other writings here, it is clear you passed that ability on to your son.

With love,

Jenna and Skyler

October 19, 2008

The Seales and Family,
I am feeling the love I have for my child and my heart hurts to imagine the suffering that must be in your hearts in this time of letting go. Perhaps the truest of letting go we can imagine in this life. Such a precious gift we are to eachother.
May Pippin live, love and learn in his new heights and in our hearts.
Blessings

Deborah Jealous

October 19, 2008

I can say with total conviction that Pippin knew that he was loved every hour of his life. That thought has helped to sustain me through these last dark days. I hope that it does the same for his family. Pippin was a beautiful ray of sunlight. He brought a special joy to everyone. Love, Deborah Jealous

M S

October 19, 2008

My sister sent me the Santa Cruz memorial that you have composed as a family. I am so touched by the stunning tapestry of words sharing your son's life and profound impact to others around him. He truely represented himself well, loved life and reached beyond himself to experience the world and all ages. My heart aches for you as you have to endure this most difficult journey of transition. The horizon of your life is forever changed but know that this beautiful boy has helped to create the colors of what you will always see. I am a fifth grade teacher and so appreciate the delight and wonder that I see in my children's faces as they are discovering their place in the world. I see that Pippin was so realizing that wonderful stage of his life. My thoughts are with you.

John Seales

October 19, 2008

I remember one time when I went to pick up my daughter while she was at Engfer's Pizza with their mutual grandmother. I could see the three of them through the window in the side room.

When they didn't see me right away, I started watching how they interacted, how loving and comfortable a family unit they looked.

I stood there for a few moments, thinking about how precious life is; that it's all the more precious for knowing it would not be forever. How beautiful it is to have our lives touching each other while we are here on earth.

How the kids were not going to be kids forever. And my mother would eventually grow old and die, but not likely anytime soon, since she is fit as a fiddle; the kids being so bright, exploding into life.

I could see how precious that evening was to them, how they all three reveled unabashedly in their joy at being there together, and how my mother and my daughter both looked up to Pippin.

Though we won't see the next act, at least Pippin's life really happened, was lived to the hilt, and was amazing.

Fiona

October 18, 2008

Pippin,
I met you this year at Stockton sailing camp. You were very nice to everyone and you were always there to cheer people up who weren't having a good day. I remember being in the Intermediate B group with you. Whenever a sailing question would ask your hand would be the first to shoot up. You obviously knew your boat well and helped others who were having difficulty rigging theirs. When I thought about going to the sailing camp the next year I thought about seeing you. I wish I had gotten to know you more. You stand as a great role model to not only kids but adults out there too and I, and clearly many others will miss you dearly.

Danielle Hawlins

October 18, 2008

God bless Pippin in heaven and your family here on earth. Sorry for your loss...but always know God will keep him safe and loved until you are together again.

April & Chuck Nycum

October 18, 2008

Ann & Conrad,
Please accept our profound condolences for the loss of your wonderful little boy. His graceful presence will be missed by this community. We know that there are no words that can express the pain you must be feeling in his loss, but hope that you will find comfort in knowing that he will live forever in the hearts of those who's lives he touched.

Ellen & Bill Spencer/Morris

October 18, 2008

Your memories of Pippin touched us so deeply. It inspires us to become better people ourselves. You have been wonderful parents to an incredible child. He was loved and admired by so many people,and his spirit will live in all of them. May that precious spirit guide you to continue to touch others, in spite of your tremendous loss.
Aidan's grandaunt and granduncle

October 18, 2008

Having learned about Pippin and has life from Annarie and readings in the paper it is clear that he was an angel on earth with an old soul full of immense goodness. He has touched my life though I have never met him. NAMASTE

Chris M.

October 18, 2008

I am soooo sorry for your loss! I live near Natural Bridges Park and heard all the sirens that day. I was shocked to read the news the next day. My own son grew up here. I am soooo sorry this ended horribly! Your family will be in our prayers. Pippin is with friends now and forever happy!

Joseph P Fernandez Jr

October 18, 2008

Though I did not know him - I want to express my deepest sympathies for his family. Your short life touched many people. May you be blessed in the peace and love of the Divine Light.

Kathy Hoffmann

October 17, 2008

Dear Anne,
I met Pippin and you once at my brother's place. My heartfelt condolence and prayers for you and your husband in your loss and grief.

Susan Vaughan-Bongiorno

October 17, 2008

I first met Anne, Pippin's mom, at a prenatal tai-chi class in Santa Cruz. She struck me as a very calm and centered person, as someone who was completely at ease with the natural progression of things and had the wisdom and courage to trust the process. I recognized in her many of the qualities that I aspired to have as a new mom. Her baby, Pippin, was born exactly 2 months before mine, on October 8, 1997. She had crossed that threshold into new motherhood which I was yet to experience. I then remember when we ran into one another at an infant group at Sutter Hospital. Her ease and comfortableness as a new mom was again apparent. She seemed to instinctively know how to mother intelligently, lovingly, humorously, consciously. And she had a child who absorbed that loving energy like a sponge, and thrived on it. In my mind, without even realizing it until later, she had become a role model (and she's many years younger than I am! . . .) Pippin was also blessed to have a father like Conrad, who was as caring and involved as Anne. Pippin was steeped in an atmosphere of love, as an everyday thing; it seemed that love was as familiar to him as water is to a fish. Hopefully knowing that they gave him the precious gift of steady, loving parenting will provide Anne and Conrad some measure of solace as they try to heal from this unbearable loss. You are in our hearts and thoughts, Anne, Conrad, Pippin and family. Please accept our deepest condolences. With love from Susan, Scott and Sam Bongiorno

Jeremy, Sarah and Jaylen

October 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to Pip’s family. I am so honored to have known him for the short time he was here. Pip was an old spirit; far wiser than his physical years. I miss the days when he and his father would come into the shop for a little trinket for one of their boats. His father is so patient, and loving, he always ran the purchase by Pippin to make sure it was the correct bit or proper way to rig. Their “Boat Card”, the card they used to pay for boat gear, has a tiny drawing of a sailboat in the upper corner and is a testament to the dedication Pip’s parents had for their son. As a new father myself, fighting back tears as I write, I can’t imagine what the family might be going through. Just know that there is an extended family of support with our arms around you; mourning with you. Please call upon us for what ever you need. You are such beautiful parents and wonderful people.

Joan Coppens

October 17, 2008

Please know that my heart and thoughts are with you. I will be in touch. Love, Joan

Sam & Dee Ann Sneed

October 17, 2008

Anne, Conrad, Kent & Sharon
Due to the distance between us we never had the priviledge of knowing Pippin personally but we know what the love of a child or grandchild means. We can only imagine the loss you are feeling and wish there was something we could do to help ease your pain. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. I imagine Pippin and Grawdaddy are having a grand time together. All our love.

Michele Bruce

October 17, 2008

Dearest Ann and Conrad,
I had the honor of knowing Pippen from Sage's play group. Julie called me this morning and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I pray that the Lord will give you peace that surpassess all understanding. You are BOTH AMAZING PARENTS! Your family blessed so many lives, and Pippen was a very special child. I knew that since the kids were playing at what 1ish? The way they looked out for each other, loved, laughed, played and truly cared and loved one another. All I can hear the Lord saying, "Is well done, my good and faithful servant." Not only to Pippen, but to you and Conrad, in raising Pippen to be a loving, caring child. I'm so sorry for your loss, but know, he is with you always and that Pippen touched so many of the kids' lives in his "playgroup" many valuable lessons! He not only taught the young, he also taught the old and even taught me a few things too! My thoughts and prayers are with you, Pippen's friend Aiden, and with Corrine and Yohan and family! All my love Ann, Michele Bruce - Temecula, Ca (Julie's friend!)

Tony Sison

October 17, 2008

Dear Anne and Conrad,

I viewed the tragic event on the web while on vacation, but not until I received a call from Kathy Jaeger did I know that the loss was of your son. I have been constantly thinking about you and your family's loss. I met Pippin at Dojo events and from those brief encounters I felt that he was that very special person that is expressed in his story. I am so impressed how you and Conrad allowed Pippin the freedom to experience the many PATHS within his short but full life. You, Conrad, and Pippin are an inspiration to all of us.

Tony AOM

Kerista Hansell

October 17, 2008

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time. Pippin showed us how remarkable he was in the short time we met in Las Vegas. Take care of each other.
Kerista, Jeff and Harlan

Evie Safran

October 17, 2008

We heard of the great tragedy your family has had to endure. Our daughter, Lee Safran, told us. We live in Cleveland and did not have the privilege of knowing Pippin, and cannot begin to imagine the scope of your loss. But we want you to know that we send you our deepest condolences and prayers. Life is so very precious and you have lost an incredibly precious boy. Words are of no consequence in tragedies like this, but please know that we share in your grief. Evie and Gordon Safran

Jeremy, Sarah and Jaylen

October 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to Pip’s family. I am so honored to have known him for the short time he was here. Pip was an old spirit; far wiser than his physical years. I miss the days when he and his father would come into the shop for a little trinket for one of their boats. His father is so patient, and loving, he always ran the purchase by Pippin to make sure it was the correct bit or proper way to rig. Their “Boat Card”, the card they used to pay for boat gear, has a tiny drawing of a sailboat in the upper corner and is a testament to the dedication Pip’s parents had for their son. As a new father myself, fighting back tears as I write, I can’t imagine what the family might be going through. Just know that there is an extended family of support with our arms around you; mourning with you. Please call upon us for what ever you need. You are such beautiful parents and wonderful people. Much Love! Mitakue Oyasin.

s.b.

October 17, 2008

My heart has been breaking all week for your family. If I had one wish it would be to give you your beautiful boy back. You and your family have touched many lives this week. We are here for you.

Niki Burgan

October 17, 2008

Our family sends their deepest condolences. The loss of a child is life's worst tragedy. Our thoughts are with you.
The Burgan Family
California State Lifeguards

Melissa Ferreira

October 17, 2008

Although i did not have the pleasure of meeting Pippin my son Antonio met him on his first week in Mariah's class. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kym

October 17, 2008

Pippen was called away from us too soon. Heaven needs his help to watch over Aiden and the rest of the world left without Pippens grace and love.

Nefert Tadiar

October 17, 2008

Dear Anne,

Jon, Luna and I are deeply saddened by the news of Pippin's death. Noel Tendick emailed us the news. Our hearts are filled with such grief, as we imagine the pain of your loss. I remember seeing Pippin occasionally with you at the dojo, and now having read the memorial, wish we had all known him. You were so blessed to have him as a son, and to have known him and loved him as well as to have been loved by him. We wish you and your family comfort and strength in this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.

Jon Beller, Neferti Tadiar, Luna Beller-Tadiar

Linda Barmann

October 17, 2008

I was so sad to hear of your son's passing. His passing will not be in vain. He will be able to save many lives with his very painful passage. He has become a guiding angel to many. The lord took him but many more will live because of Pippen. God Bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Linda B a caring parent

Nichole Griffin

October 17, 2008

My husband and I were driving by at the moment this tragedy was happening. Although we did not know the intensity of the situation at that time, we both had chills run deep throughout our bodies as we began to cry. Once finding out what happened, I questioned why? Why do such horrible things happen to good people? I guess that question will forever be in my mind... I am not a Mother myself, but having lost a best friend close to 6 years ago now, I feel your pain in some ways. I have to say that the pain never truly goes away, but it lessens and as time goes by the memories of your son will grow stronger and bring warmth to you. I have been following this story very closely, and have not for a second stopped praying for you and your family. Although I did not ever have the opportunity to know Pippin, after reading your remembrence of him, I feel as though I have known him for a long time. As I sit here in tears I pray for you, your family and for Pippin who will forever be watching all of those he loved on this earth. I extend a large hug to you, the parents of this remarkable young boy.

Tiny Kent Hull

October 17, 2008

I was scared to be an uncle, let alone a father. Pippin proved to me that the rewards are inescapable. He was kind and patient and loving and thoughtful. What a wonderful person to have touched the world.

October 17, 2008

What a remarkable life Pippin lead. He will be an inspiration to me and my heart is heavy with his loss.

Michelle, Mariah, and Chelsea

October 17, 2008

My daughters and I had the privilege of knowing Pippin at Mountain School. His smiling face will forever be in our hearts. We are so sorry this happened.

Marianne

October 17, 2008

What an awesome little boy you had for too short a time. I lost a 5 year old boy 18 years ago and I just wanted to let you know that time heals the immense pain you are feeling now and you are truly comforted and will laugh again in your memories of this remarkable child you were blessed to have had. My deepest sympathies,

Julia

October 17, 2008

Thank you for sharing the wonders of your dear son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who knew Pippin. Although I never met him; his death has touched my heart. Your boy will always be with you as a sweet Angel on your shoulder.

Veronica

October 17, 2008

He sounds like an amazing child. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Thank you for sharing a bit of his life with those of us who did not get the chance to know him.

Andra & Edvins Puris

October 17, 2008

We learned of Saturday's events through our dear friends, Aidan's parents. While Aidan has been in our thoughts and prayers, so have you, and Pippin. Thank you for sharing your rememberances of your beautiful and gifted boy. It certainly seems that Pippin, himself, would best know how to comfort those who now grieve. Perhaps his spirit, which lives on in each of you who knew him, can do the same, in his stead. As fellow parents, we shed tears of deep sorrow for your loss, and offer our sincerest sympathies.

The Villatoros

October 17, 2008

Our thoughts and deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. I don't know you but I am from Santa Cruz and wanted to let you know people from all over are with you during this time. He sounded like a wonderful boy and someone who will bring a new brightness to the heavens above.

Elena

October 17, 2008

Hello,
My name is Elena and I am a checker at Shopper's Corner in the seabright neighborhood. When I opened the Sentinel website and put the face to the story I have been following all week, my heart sank. I recognize Pippin, as him and his family came into the store on a regular basis. What was written is true-- he always seemed very sweet and mature for his age. I had a few conversations with him and he always had a unique and calming presence for a boy of his age. I am deeply saddened and can speak for all of Shopper's Corner in saying how sorry we are for this loss.

Greg

October 16, 2008

Your remembrance and sharing of Pippin is truly remarkable and meaningful. I wish my young family had had the joy and privilege of meeting him, but know that he will always be part of Santa Cruz. As my minister once told me, "Death ends a life, but not a relationship." May Pippin be forever with you and all of us.

Gill Allen

October 16, 2008

I remember Pippin from science camp, he was a good friend.

Darrell Steely

October 16, 2008

I am so lucky to have met Pippen on a sailing field trip with his grandmother's class. I, as well as the students were inspired by his curiosity, his knowledge, and his love of life.

Andy and Judy Emhoff

October 16, 2008

Our thoughts and deepest sympathies on the loss of dear Pippin. My wife and I were moved to tears as we read about Pippin's life and how much love surrounded him. We are so so sorry for the tragic loss of your beautiful boy. God Bless.

October 16, 2008

Your remembrance inspires us to be even better parents and treasure our beautiful children. Our hearts are broken for you and pray for your healing through the love of your family, friends and community. Godspeed, Pippin. Thank you for giving us so much of your light.

Marie

October 16, 2008

Having been through something similar last year, I understand the great pain you are feeling. I have cried so many times for your loss. I wish you my deepest sympathies.
I wish I could say time heals, but I don't know that it does. Pippin's legacy will at least give you comfort. So keep his stories alive and remember the life well lived. Although, I did not know this special boy, I will never forget him because you were willing to share him with all of us. He will continue to live on through you and your stories of him.

Carolyn Schimandle

October 16, 2008

Anne,
Chatting with you and Pippin at Wilder Ranch was always one of the high points of my work week during the years I worked in the interpretive center there.

I can still easily bring up the mental image of Pippin's radiant smile. He was a great kid. It was also wonderful to see what a great mom you were to him, Anne.

You are certainly in my thoughts.

Amy Majan

October 16, 2008

Im so happy that you had such a wonderful child to celebrate. He sounds so full of life and did all he could to enjoy life. Please remember him always for all that he enjoyed and never forget his love and passion for life. If you ever feel down just remember the way his little face looked like and you shall smile. God bless Pippin and his Family. A mother of 3.

Mari Dresen

October 16, 2008

Wow, was that ever beautiful. What a wonderful world that would hold a soul such as Pippen's. Thank you, family, for sharing that with us.

The Paulus Family

October 16, 2008

With deep sadness I write an entry here. It's hard to understand such a great loss. Yet your son's life reminds us all to make the most of the time we have with each other. Our hearts extend to you.

Ed Migliore

October 16, 2008

I have often heard we visit this planet until our lesson is learned. It seems that Pippin learned his lesson quickly; love all creatures.

I am a father and as I sit here writing I can hardly see the screen through my tears.

I wish you many wonderful memories and I wish Pippin bon voyage.

Monica

October 16, 2008

I had the great pleasure of meeting Pippin this summer at Wilder Ranch where he was helping to care for the animals. I remember being struck by him because he was so gentle, capable and friendly. He answered my questions like someone way beyond his years.

I am so sorry for your loss of this special boy. Thank you for sharing him with us for awhile.

sage Christensen

October 16, 2008

I am so sorry for Pippins family and friends, witch I am one of. I used to know him since I was one year old. I am so sad and sorry.

marina and doug

October 16, 2008

God Bless you and your family

Shoshanah McKnight

October 16, 2008

Dear Anne,

I am so so sorry to hear about what happened to Pippin. I remember you both coming to Music Together classes, and it was a pleasure to have him in my classes. He was such a sweet and fun boy. I've never forgotten him. I don't know what else to say. I'm just so sorry that this happened. Thinking of you both...

--Shoshanah.

barbara rose

October 16, 2008

Thank you for sharing your special beautiful child with us though your words and tears, as his picture illuminates us all as does his life to this time of enormous loss.
May his journey be smooth in the arms of love
Barbara

Lelia Lingenfelter

October 16, 2008

My sincerest condolences to Pippin's family and friends. Deep thanks to the family for sharing his life with us through the newspaper. He sure had an amazing, full, and well-rounded life for someone so young. How wonderful that he had so many grandparents close by to share his life with as he grew up. How wonderful for his parents to raise him with so much enrichment. As horribly sad as this tragedy is...perhaps his parents will find stregth somehow to enrich the lives of other children as a legacy to Pippin. Thank you again for sharing this wonderful young man with people who did not know him, but who cried just the same upon reading about his tragic death.

Dennis Kidd

October 16, 2008

It is remarkable that someone so young could have accomplished so much. You should be very proud of your son and of yourselves for developing such a wonderful human. May your memories of you son continue to grow as the sorrow painfully, slowly subsides.

The Mucha Family

October 16, 2008

My deepest regards for your family. In your words and in the picture of Pippin I am stuck by his light and his spirit.

Leila Johnson

October 16, 2008

Pippen you were such a wonderful person. I didn't get a chance to meet you! I was there the day of this accident and you have touched my life in so many ways! Can't imagine loseing one of my children. This is hard on the family I am sure. I love your description of who Pippin was. Wish I could have known him. Nothing in this world can take away the pain that you are feeling. But knowing he was a wonderful person as he was he is now with the Angels,, he will be the bright twinkling star you see in the sky at night. He will always and forever be in your hearts as well as hundreds more people including me. I have been devistated by all this and wish I could hug the parents and grandparents and all the family! May God Keep His Hands on You always! Pippin you are so very loved and so very missed! Much Love to you and your family!

Christina Dunworth

October 16, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family, friends, teachers, and anyone who knew this young boy. May the Good Lord give you peace and comfort until you meet again. God bless you all.

Roberta

October 16, 2008

I was in the emergency room at Dominican hospital when the EMT's brought Pippin in. My heart breaks for you.

Dani Brown

October 16, 2008

I never knew Pippin in life but this remembrance really told me about the tragic loss the world has suffered by his loss. I sit here with tears flowing freely down my face wishing I could somehow take back time and save this bright young man. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

October 16, 2008

To Pippin's family and friends:
I did not know Pippin or any of you, but wanted to send my sympathies. After reading the tribute to him, it is clear this world lost a truly wonderful, kind human being much, much to early.

Debbie

October 16, 2008

My son was one of the college kids who helped with the digging during the recue effort. He is devastated by the death of your son. As a parent myself my heart breaks for your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Although we did not know your son, our family will never forget him.

Terri Turner

October 16, 2008

I too know how it is to lose a son or brother..Tomorrow will be the 19th anniversary of the Earthquake where my brother lost his life on Pacific Ave...He was only 21...I send much sympathy and prayers in this time of sorrow but the memories and the stories that everyone tells will help with the grieving process...May God watch over your family..He will be forever 11 in your hearts and minds..Treasure that..

Fellow Sailor

October 16, 2008

May the four winds guide you safely on your journey

Nathan Jilka

October 16, 2008

As a new parent within the last 2 years I can share in your pain, I cannot imagine being without my son, and to lose him in such a tragic way. My family has been keeping yours in our thoughts and prayers since the accident was heard of
and will continue to pray for you and your family throughout your grieving process.
May you find peace in your lives through the love of Christ.
We're terribly saddened by your loss.

donna kuhn

October 16, 2008

having lost a son 3 years ago i have been in tears over this story. it does get easier but it is never easy. grief support groups at hospice helped. you are not alone. i wish you peace, strength, love and hope.

Jean Graham & Rocky Festa

October 16, 2008

Deepest sympathy at the loss of a wonderful young man.

William Scott

October 16, 2008

I don't think I ever have met Pippin or his family, but with three of my own children of similar age who frequently play in the same spot, my thoughts and those of my family are with you in this unimaginable time of grief and sorrow.

RICK ZUNIGA

October 16, 2008

I DID NOT KNOW PIPPIN OR HIS FAMILY, BUT AS A PARENT OF A SON AROUND THE SAME AGE I CAN
CAN ONLY HOPE MY SONS FUTURE IS BRIGHT. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. WITH ALL THE BLEAKNESS IN THIS WORLD HOW CAN WE GO ON WITH OUT PEOPLE LIKE PIPPIN I WILL TELL MY SON EVERY DAY I LOVE HIM AND TELL HIM TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THIS WORLD A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE. SUCH AS PIPPIN DID IN HIS ALL TO SHORT TIME. I WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT A GIFT MY SON IS TO ME AND MY FAMILY. BLESS YOU PIPPIN FOR YOUR GIFT TO ME.

Heather

October 16, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful boy, Pippin. I am heartbroken for you and everyone who knew and loved him. It sounds like he taught everyone so much. Maybe even how to heal during awful and tragic times like these. Celebrate the joy he brought to this world and the special time you had with him.

Lea Shato

October 16, 2008

My heart breaks his family and for a world without Pippin.

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