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Santos Valentin Obituary
There is a saying among police officers: "When people are in trouble, they call the cops. When cops are in trouble, they call Emergency Service." Santos Valentin Jr., a member of the New York Police Department's Emergency Service Squad 7, answered the call on Sept. 11.
Officer Valentin was a sharpshooter trained in counterterrorism tactics, said his sister, Sgt. Denise Valentin, and his family thought that if anyone could come out alive in this attack, it would be him.
What have lived on are the memories - of the jokes he played on his colleagues, of how he loved his dog, Luger (so much that he would leave the Animal Planet channel on for him when he was not home), of his love for family and friends, and of his bravery. Officer Valentin was not afraid of death, but he did hate funerals. So, a few days ago, his family gave him a send-off at the rubble of the World Trade Center, where he was last seen. He loved his Budweiser, so they poured him a can and said their goodbyes.
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The Lucas Family
December 26, 2018
Our heartfelt thoughts of deep sympathy we send to your family. There aren't any words that can mend a broken heart but words do show that others still do care. May God give the needed comfort and help each day. Papo touched the lives of many persons and will always be fondly remembered and never forgotten.
Karen Rosales
September 11, 2018
You are Our Hero Santos...you gave your life saving others lives...We Remember you and you live on in Our Hearts. We Will NEVER Forget! Rest In Paradise Uncle Papo!
Eileen Napolitano
September 10, 2017
Thinking of you again on this horrible day in history.
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September 11, 2016
Hi Papo this message is from Mom. Hi Papo,,, querido Papo. Today is 15 years youy left us,,,,, 15 yrs I think of you daily moment by moment hoping you are not suffering since I know you must have suffered a tragic death. I know you are watching over us in heaven.I also want you to watch over Dad who left us 2 years ago you and Dad are gone and I am now alone. I am with all of your siblings and wish you the best. God bless.
September 11, 2016
Dear Papo my little brother Hero. We are here gathered in my home in your memory. I want to say how much I love you and miss you. I want to wish you Happy Anniversary 15 in Heaven I have mom here along with all the family. . I will be sending you her message. I love you miss you tremendously and God Bless. See you one day. Love Bis Sister alice
Barry Schwartz
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you today and thinking what a great friend you were with all the good times we had. Time flies by so fast but your presence is sill there for so many to follow. I hope your family is doing well. Rest in peace my good buddy. Barry
Roe
September 11, 2014
Hi how are doing in heaven you have company know, Papito, of course. Watch out he plays a mean domino game. Son we miss you both. We will meet soon. Que este en pas hijo.
September 10, 2014
Hi Papo Happy Anniversary in heaven. Dad left to join you 4/10/14. Give him a kiss and hug for me. You make me and the fam proud our hero.
September 10, 2014
Hi little brother OMG its been another year on the anniversary of your leaving us. Dad left us to join you on April 10, 2014 this year I hope you were there with open arms when he entered heaven. We are taking great care of mom.She has such a broken heart and prays the rosary for you and daddy each nite. Miss and love you little bro.Till we meet again. xooo your sis Big Al
Debra L
September 9, 2014
Happy 13th Anniversary in Heaven
You are a True Hero & Special Guardian Angel.
Miss You Much from the Heart ?XO
Debra L
September 9, 2014
Happy 13th Anniversary in Heaven?
Hi Santos where do I start that another year has come that you are no longer here, and each year writing in this Guest Book of how you are dearly missed, and how it is just not fair that your life had to end too soon on a horrible never forgetting day of September 11th.
I know you have reunited with your Dad Papa Santos, as he is dearly missed too, but God needed another Angel, and that was Papa Santos, so I bet you were waiting for him at the Gates of Heaven with open arms when he arrived, as when he was here on earth he missed you so much of more than words can explain, but I know you are both happy together as Father and Son.
I'm sorry if there are any typos here, as I write in between tears cause you were such an amazing person, and how unfair of the evil world that we live in that took your life from under your feet doing something that you loved to do, and that was to protect with helping to save others on such a horrible day of a heinous act that changed so many lives, and took so many lives to include you.
I know many people go on through these years like nothing, and be so insensitive, but those who lost a loved one or dear friend know the pain that lives in their hearts through these past 13 years until all are reunited once again above the stars.
Rest in Peace dearest Papo, as you are a True Hero and a Special Angel shining down on all of us to continue watching over us each and every day. Miss You :( XO?XO
September 9, 2014
It's hard to believe that it's been 13 years. I still don't have the words to express the sadness. May you continue to rest in peace in the loving arms of our Lord and may your family find strength as they get through another year of life without your smile, wit and mischief. God Bless.
KDB
September 8, 2014
Thinking of you this week and praying for those who loved you so very much
alida silva
September 10, 2013
Hi Papo Happy 12th anniversary in Heaven little brother. We miss you more each Day. Mom and Dad pray for you each and every day, you are such a big loss to us all. We will meet you again one day. till then , God bless may you Rest in peace. Love your big sis, Big Al.I love you,,,my HERO...
Rosalie Chin
September 13, 2012
Rest in peace, dear cousin, and know that your extended family in Jersey still remember you and appreciate your supreme sacrifice for others.
September 12, 2012
Se que somos familia por eso me siento orgulloso de ti...gracias por tu sacrificio...QDEP
Donald Lamb
September 12, 2012
May he rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones.
Barry Schwartz
September 11, 2012
Rest in Peace, My best friend!!
Roe ferrer
September 11, 2012
Missing you, always You are in our prayers, mind and soul. Your name comes up in everything we do. Be happy in heaven Son.
September 11, 2012
hi papo another year we miss you even more, i know you are in a better place in heaven. You are always in our prayers, mind hearts. We never stop talking about you. Miss you my 2nd SON. Rosa
Kenneth Wilson
September 11, 2011
From One Brother Officer to another. You done your duty. May God Bless you and keep you in his arms.
September 11, 2011
Hey Papo,
I can't believe its been 10 years since that day. You are missed like it was yesterday. Your caring personality, your funny humor and all the good times we had together. We all knew that you were a hero to so many people. Rest in peace my buddy. Barry
Nancie S
September 11, 2011
10 years later and I still love and miss you like crazy...mi amore...xoxo
Donald Lamb
September 10, 2011
Val..You have no conception of how many lives you have touched, mine included. You have left your mark on everyone you met, even just passing acquaintances. I give thanks for your brief presence on this earth.
Don Lamb (Nancy's uncle0
Rosalie Chin
September 9, 2011
Cousin Papo, I do think of you often especially in September. You are a hero not only to our whole family, but to all of New York. Thank you for being so brave and helping so many people. May God Bless your friends, siblings, and Tia Gloria and Tio Santo. May He heal their broken hearts and comfort them in the knowledge that they will see you again in heaven. Love,
imi gonzalez
September 8, 2011
Hi papo....so many of us miss you. Every anniversary is bittersweet. Although we ache from losing you that day we also feel relief knowing you're in God's arms. Mami and Papi still miss you and pray consistently. You're in my thoughts and prayers today and always.Thank you for saving so many lives that day. xoxoxo Imi
Tami Bramblett
September 8, 2011
Any person who leaves the tv on on Animal Planet for his puppy is a kindred soul! I will pray for your family and your collegues. God Bless all of you.
Debra L
September 5, 2011
Happy 10th Anniversary in Heaven Santos
I can't believe in just a few days 10 years have past that you were taking away from that horrible day that will NEVER EVER be Forgotten.
I know you protect all of us from afar, and you will always be missed for each day that has past, and continues to pass.
You made so many people laugh, smile and enjoy the moment when you were around to include Me.
I know God needed you above the stars, and pain with tears for many is what we felt and had when we learned that you have been taken away 10 years ago on the day that has changed this country and many lives for a lifetime.
I hope you are at peace, and happy at your new home called Heaven. I will share with your family this coming Sunday a day of another year of sadness, and know we all Miss you that no words can describe cause you brought happiness to every place your feet stepped.
PS Happy 50th Birthday coming up soon, but I will be back here to send you a Birthday message on that day. Until we meet again above the stars.
September 2, 2011
Hi Papo happy 10th anniversary in heaven. We miss you and love you so much, I will be reading your name at Ground zero, my little brother. Jo and Ghis are well, adults now. Mom and Dad pray the rosary and still light a candle each day. God bless , my hero. you make me so proud..xoxo happy 50th birthday on 10/22.
June 22, 2011
HI SON AGAIN ANOTHER YEAR PASSES, THIS WILL BE THE 10TH; IT FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY. I STILL SEE YOU BARBECUEING IN THE BACK YARD. I WONDER IF EACH BUTTERFLY THAT I SEE IS YOU. I SIT AT YOUR FAVORITE SPOT...JUST LOOKING AT THE TREES LIKE YOU USE TO DO. WE MISS YOU GREATLY. BY THE WAY YOUR BIRTHDAY 10/22 IS AROUND THE CORNER...HAPPY BIRTHDAY ENJOY YOUR SPIRIT WITH GOD LOVE YOU MUCHO
Rene Swanson
September 13, 2010
On 09-11-2010, I sat with my 7 year old grandson and watched all of the footage from 09-11-2001 on TV. I explained everything to him, especially the heros. We have the rememberance bracelet with your named etched in it. You are our HERO! Although we did not have the chance to know you, you and your family will forever be etched in our hearts and prayers! GOD BLESS you all!
ROE FER
September 9, 2010
HEY PAPO, YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR MINDS, REUNIONS, PRAYERS, YOU ARE A GREAT UNCLE FOR THE 7TH TIME. I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OUT FOR ALL OF US. MISS YOU SON LOVE ROE
Roe Fer
September 9, 2010
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Pat Medellin
August 25, 2010
Val,
You are missed and thought of often. God Bless You, your family, friends and Nancie. I so enjoyed your humor and outlook and the love you carried in your heart.
I am doing a Fallen Heroes run on September 11th and will be wearing a shirt with your pic, name and EOW. God Bless You, Val. You are missed. Pat
Brad Stueber
October 3, 2009
I just read a message from Santos Velentin's sister referring to her brother. I want to salute and honor him and join his family and friends in remembering his life and his sacrifice of that life for others on 9/11. I wish I had had the blessing of knowing him. I do plan on looking him up when I get to heaven at my appointed time and get to know him there. To family and friends, my deepest sympathies and constant heartfelt prayers will be with you from now on. Santos is okay now, where he is at and will never know the pain of this world again. God bless all of you and all who may read this.
Donald Lamb
September 14, 2009
Life for this family has not been the same since you were taken away from us, Val. But we were ever so blessed to have you in our lives. You were a ray of light, joy, inspiration and happiness that was brought to all of us thru Nancy. That is a legacy that can never be taken from us. Rest in peace, dear friend.
September 13, 2009
Your country will always admire you and mourn for you.
Just Another Sad American
Nancie S
September 8, 2009
Not sure where the time has gone...all i know is that i still love and miss you so much..As my sister said our mom passed away in june..please take care of her..She loved you so much too..Memories kept us all going...The one that really fills my heart is the wonderful dinner you made me on valentines day feb 2001..And the time where my sissy was banging on the bedroom window wanting to come in and visit but she wouldnt go away no matter how we ignored her!! Ha!! We let her and mom in and you made everyone a wonderful breakfast!! Knowing that you were making things right so we could be together forever stays strong in my heart..We had so many wonderful times together..Your family was so good to me during that difficult time...They took me into their homes and kept me strong...And stayed by my side every step of the way..You would have been so proud of them all..Now I know why it was so important to you that we had that family BBQ in Aug 2001..You knew someway that I would need them and needed to meet them...
I love you for all that you are and I always will..Noone knew you quite like me did they my strong heart...And by the way my sister still has that doe doe bird you bought her..We laugh when we look at it...Oh the fun times we all had...I miss them too...I Love you...Keep my spot in Heaven warm till I get there..I still look at that star and knowing you bought it for me makes it so very special...I miss looking at it with you..xoxo Your Nance Star xoxo
DOROTHY LAMB
September 6, 2009
WELL VAL, ANOTHER YEAR HAS PASTED AND WE STILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY. OUR MOM JOINED YOU IN JUNE, TAKE CARE OF HER PLEASE. SHE LOVED HAVING YOU AS PART OF OUR FAMILY. NANCY WASNT THE ONLY ONE THAT LOVED YOU WE ALL DID. LOVE ALWAYS, YOUR DOE DOE BIRD!
Louis D'Angelo
September 6, 2009
hey buddy, you've been gone for a while, but not really. i think of you quite a bit, and wondering how you are and what you have been doing with your new life. hope all is well with you and when i get to where you are we will sit and bs like we used to over a vodka and cranberry.
Us remembering You
Nancie
September 5, 2009
Santos Valentin NYPD
SSgt. J. McGarrah
August 13, 2009
I found this little silver bracelet here in Albuquerque, NM. I had to know more of the HERO who is engraved on it. Here in the Southwest, we call our Saints ~ "Santos." Though I did not know him personally, that is what he truly was. God Bless You, Always, J
July 23, 2009
July 23, 2009
July 23, 2009
Swimming with the Dolphins
Mrs. Santos Valentin
July 23, 2009
Hey Santos - Remember the week we spent in the Bahamas when you proposed to me. That was our best time!!! My favorite is swiming with the dolphins. You just made me laugh. I love you sweetheart!!!
Our First Vacation Together
Mrs. Santos Valentin
July 23, 2009
My Dearest Santos - How I still miss you every day. My heart is heavy not having you with me. No one can ever take your place. I have our beautiful memories together. Especially the night you proposed and the day with the dolphins. You always made me laugh. Some days are so hard without you but I look at our pictures and know that you are watching over me and taking care of me. You always be in my heart and prayers. I love you always. Your "little girl" - your wife.
Barry Schwartz
September 11, 2008
Santos,
Although time does heal pain & suffering, missing your good nature still does bring tears. Seven years have passed and it still feels like yesterday. My family lit a memorial candle for you tonight. You touched so many people and only warm, soothing feelings is the memory we will always have for you and your wonderful family. The inspiration of courage, hope and love are quite a lesson you have taught all the people who have known you. Rest peacefully my good buddy. GOD BLESS YOU...Barry
cindy culver
September 11, 2008
hey val,the girls and i were talking this morning about you!!Even though they were just little they say they remember getting a buck for a hug!!God we miss you.THink of you all the time,know that you are truely missed,we love you
Louis DAngelo
September 11, 2008
I miss drinking with you at Chauncey"s. We had a great day at Long Beach and the time we had to make memories was too short. I still think of you from time to time. And really miss your smile. Louis
Debra L
September 11, 2008
7th Anniversary in Heaven
Santos today is 7 years that this horrible day happened that took you away from all that you meant so much too. This day as tears shed for another year that you are not here, but one thing you are NEVER FORGOTTEN not for a moment of time. I know Santos that you are looking down on all of us Missing Us as we are all Missing You.
I know someday we will meet again in God's Kingdom, and I know you will be there at the Gate's of Heaven to let us all in. But knowing your clowing around ways you would stand there saying you lost the key to let us in.
Well today as I visit the corner that is renamed after you to put flowers there, and then to the cemetary afterwards to visit you, Rodney & Robert's graves to lay flowers at each. I know you are there with me in spirit, just know you are a FOREVER HERO ANGEL.
DOROTHY LAMB
September 11, 2008
HI VAL...WE ARE STILL MISSING YOU. THERE IS HARDLY A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT SOMETHING REMINDS US OF YOU. LOVE YOU ALWAYS, DOROTHY
I Miss you so very much
Nancie S.
September 10, 2008
Seven years later and I think of you still every day...I miss you and there is still so much that reminds me of us and our wonderful times together...I can still feel your touch and hear your laugh...I love you and I always will My Val... Knowing you are watching over me gives me some comfort but I wish you were still here :( TeAmo Mi Amore xo
Eileen
September 10, 2008
I am thinking of you today and your heroism.
Magda Valentin
August 20, 2008
Hi Santos
Our family thank you because even if we lost a family member we know you risked your life to save many other family members. We know you are up there with God. You have a loving family. We pray for those who lost there family member in the WTC. Rest In Peace
God bless you and your family.
Debra L
April 16, 2008
From an Angel named Santos
I AM STILL NEAR
Death has taken me from this world,
and though we are apart, I am still near.
Keep me always close to your Heart!
Know that I leave with you what no one can steal,
a treasure chest of precious, happy memories:
the tender, love filled moments we shared,
as well as the hard times that brought us together.
When you are in need,
speak to me, call my name.
I will come to you, with wisdom and light to fill your soul with peace,
and to guide you always in the pathways that lead to life forever with our Loving God.
I also offer you this solemn promise:
when I am home in God's embrace,
whenever you call on me,
I will still be present to you,
For neither death nor grave can break the bonds of love that we on earth once knew.
NEVER FORGOTTEN< ALWAYS MISSED
Debra L
April 15, 2008
Hi Santos (Papo) :-)
There is never a day that goes by that you are not thought of, and each time that passes there is another that I meet that knew of you, and all that is said about you is Always good things with tears to follow from their eyes. Because of the Good Loving Person that you were has touched so many hearts. I just met someone through a friend of mine this weekend. She cried as we spoke of old good times we had with you, all the smiles you put on our faces, and all the laughs because of the joker that you were. We all MISS YOU so much and dearly, and can't believe how the years are flying by without you here, but you live in our hearts and minds for a Life time Santos, and You will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. NEVER!!!!!
I can't believe that it will be 7 yrs this coming Sept. 11th WOW it feels like that horrible day was only yesterday not 7 yrs ago.
PS Denise is now retired as Sgt, but you know that. It's just not fair that your life was cut short, and taken away on that horrible day September 11, 2001 You are a True Hero and no less.
John
April 14, 2008
I thank you for trying to save all those people and sacrificing your life to saving them. I hope that you will live in peace where ever you are.
Alida Silva
September 9, 2007
Hi there Papo(my little Brother) Another year has gone by...and it still seems that it was just a terrible dream. ...We all miss you so much. Wish you were here with us like old times. Our family will never be complete. Thank you for the HERO that you are..Giving up your life for the safety of others. Mom and Dad along with all your entire family miss you so , so very much. We will see you one day. Save us a spot... We will one day be together to share all the funny stories of (Spam and Jamon Picao. Love you and miss you forever.( Your sister Big Al.... ALICE..............
Roe Fer
September 8, 2007
HI Papo, You are becoming an uncle again tina and Jasie, I know you love children. Thank you for letting us know you are close to us. God Bless you son love 2nd Mom Roe
Deanna Gonzalez
September 7, 2007
I shared a smile and a kind thought of you today...
I work across the street from the Trade Centers- And outside one of the buildings I was involved in a conversation with a fellow officer (ESS-10). I cannot recall his name but he remembered you and his memories were fond.
You have touched so many lives- and as those lives/hearts reach up for you... I just wanted to take the time- for what my faith has me to believe- and thank you for reaching, every now and again, for those lives/hearts down here.
God bless you and your family
DOROTHY LAMB
September 6, 2007
Well, another year has gone by and we all still miss you like it was yesterday. There will never be another one like you. Love ya,Dorothy
Nancie S
September 3, 2007
I dont know where the time has gone..I still miss and Love you so very much..You will live in my heart forever and I will love you for the rest of my life..As always please keep my spot warm till i get there..I love you Santos Valentin Jr. xoxo Your Nance xoxo
cindy culver
August 31, 2007
wow,I can't believe we are here again.I too think of you daily,you have impacted so many lives.You are truely missed and forever loved.
Donald Lamb
August 31, 2007
I never met Val. He and my niece (Nancy S.) were so united in love and spirit. I give thanks for his life and his legacy. May he forever be in our hearts.
Rosa Ferrer
August 31, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
So In Love
Nancie S.
April 10, 2007
Remembering your Love...
Nancie S.
April 10, 2007
I still Miss you and Love you so much...Not a day goes by that you arent in my Heart and on my mind..My life will never be the same..You took my Heart to Heaven with you...Hold it tight next to yours...I will be there with you one day...Until then TeAmo Con Todo Mi Corazon..
I miss You My Papi Chulo : (
I Look into the sky everynight to see you..
And to Look at "The Nance Star" We use to stare at...
Thank You for being The Love of My Life....xoxox Nancie
P Tabbernor
April 8, 2007
In memory....
Alida Silva
November 15, 2006
Hi Papo, its me Big Al yur sister. You called me big Al cause I was so short next to you yet I was your older sister, I cannot believe 5 years have passed since that tragic day that changed all our lives. You suddenly were gone..... Where did you go little brother, why so soon..... You were 39 years young. a year before you retired. Mom and Dad wanted you to leave the force but you stuck it through. I guess like Frank Sinatra says* I did it MY WAY* You died a Hero. We miss you so much Mom and Dad are having their 60th anniverdsary. They cry for you and mom kisses your pictures daily a million times. They pray the rosary for you daily and light a candle daily. We all miss you so. Jo and Ghis are college grads. I am sure you are proud of them. I still remember the last time we saw you at a barbeque at Rosas. I wish we could turn back the hands of time. I would say so much to you. How proud you always made me to be your big sister. .Hope to see you one day ...not too soon,,,,,,, I have a special person in my life. I am sure you would like him. I am sure you do like him since you watch over us from heaven. I Love and miss you everyday , and forever.
Thank you to you and your friends for giving up your lives to save us. Say Hi to Ronnie and to Augie. Love Big Al your sis
Karina Southmore Intermediate School
October 3, 2006
thank you for saving all those people that day.
Imelda Gonzalez
September 10, 2006
Papo...we never got to hang out since I was a "little cuz".I always admired you though for your positve outlook in life.Your humor cheered up so many who probably had been at their lowest. While it is devastating to have lost you in 9/11 I feel honored to have a cousin who died a hero. Because of you many were saved and for that reason alone I know you're in heaven.Thank you for being N.Y's protecter. I Love You!!!!
Cousin Imi Gonzalez
(Clermont,Florida)
cindy culver
September 9, 2006
It does not seem like 5 years has passed.It seems like not long ago you were in my kitchen making dinner for the whole family.You are so missed,your smile,your jokes,the way you made everyone laugh.You have a special place in this family and will never be forgotten.I know you are in a much better place and we will see you again one day.You are terribly missed my friend.We love you Val,always.
dorothy lamb
September 9, 2006
val will always have a special place in my heart. he was a very special man, he made you laugh when you were sad,and gave hugs to let you know he cared.he was and always will be a part of our family.i miss him dearly.
Nancie S.
September 7, 2006
I still miss you like yesterday!!..I will always have a heavy heart..I miss your Love and Caring ways and the way only you could make me laugh..I was and always will be Proud of you and honored to have been the one you Loved till the end of time..NO ONE can ever take that away from us.. I still look at Our "Nance Star" It was Heaven when I was with you.. I Love you still My Handsome Man, Always&Forever, Your Nance
In Loving Memory of NYPD ESU Santos "Papo" Valentin Jr.
Debra Lapadula & Family
August 23, 2006
Hi Santos
*HAPPY 5th Anniversary In Heaven*
I can't believe how 5 yrs are coming so quickly of that horrible never forgetting day of Sept 11, 2001. You are missed so much, and as I write this to you I look at your picture here that I see every day when I wake and every night when I lay to sleep and when I look at them you bring tears to my eyes but you also bring smiles to my face. Because those tears shed are for missing you, and those smiles are for all those times you made me laugh with your silly crazy ways no matter what a day could be you always put smiles on faces of those around you to include mine. I pass at times 118th & 90th to put flowers, baloons and notes by your street sign named for you, which I fought a year to make sure that sign made it to that corner in honor and memory of you. Santos for the longest time I could never watch the 3 Stooges, because watching them would only remind me of you with all of your Nuk Nuks and WHY CERTAINLY with tears flowing down my eyes. I want to Thank You for protecting me out there during my days as an EMT when we would bump into each other on jobs and you would say "Hey squirk stay behind me" as you were the one with the vest and not me. Santo I know we will meet again one day above the stars, but until then you will be missed for each of these days. Can you do one thing for me please say hi to my Grandma for me tell her I miss her so so much and I Love her. I know that she visits me at times just like you do and please never stop. You are a True Hero & You will Never be Forgotten,
Roe Ferrer
August 22, 2006
HI PAPO, I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOUR RETURN, GAVE YOU FIVE YEARS. TIME WILL BE UP IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS. I GUESS YOU ARE BEING STUBURN; LIKE ALWAYS. I GUESS I WILL HAVE TO COME AND SEE YOU, "NOT TO SOON",
SON I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I SMELL THE SCENT OF YOUR MARLBORO CIG. AND YOUR BUD BEER; .
I STILL HAVE FOUR BEERS WAITING FOR YOU. YOUR BIRTHDAY IS COMING SOON, YOU AND I CELEBRATED OUR BIRTHDAYS TOGETHER. YOU ARE TURNING 44 YEARS OLD. YOUR HAIR MUST BE SALT AND PEPPER OR DONE HAVE ANY AT ALL.
YOUR HAIRY CHEST MUST BE WHITE BY NOW.
KEEP IN TOUCH WITH US AND MOM AND DAD.
MAY YOUR SOUL BE IN PEACE AND ENJOYING GODS'BEAUTIFUL PALACE. I LOVE YOU FOR EVER.
Amy Valentin
August 20, 2006
Dear Santos,
Your cousin, Jorge Valentin and I just watched the movie entitled World Trade Center. It was a very moving and emotional movie. Most importantly, it brought back the impact of 9/11 . You and the other fallen heroes of 9/11 will forever be remembered and honored. Our children and our children's children will always be taught about the day in September of 2001, that forever changed our history. They will be taught about the heroes that not only helped save lives,but also helped save the belief in the human spirit. Your memory will remain eternal through the generations of the Jorge Valentin framily that proudly proclaim you as a cousin , and an American heroe.
Thank you and God Bless you ,
The Jorge Valentin Family
Rene' Swanson
May 31, 2006
A couple of years ago I purchased some copper bracelets for me and my daughters. I had misplaced them and just recently found them before Christmas. I gave both daughters a bracelet and kept one for myself. The name on mine is Santos Valentin "Fallen in the line of duty". I think of him and his bravery. I am a Detective and I can not imagine such a tragedy happening in our county. God has prepared a special place for these Heros. To his girlfriend and family, keep the memories safe in your heart. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.
Deanna Gonzalez
January 5, 2006
{{I cannot believe that it has been over 4 years since...}}
It has been over two years since I've written in this guestbook, yet I frequently visit and reflect in need of strength. I was contacted by a man who is searching for someone who you may have known and while it saddened me that I was unable to help him, his search has enabled me to return as I seek guidance.
I will be shortly on my way overseas to fulfill my duties as a United States Marine on foreign soil. I have an idea of what am I up for but also wary. Yet despite my wariness, knowing that I can reach deep down in my heart and be certain that your piece will forever be intact, places me at ease.
I know you hear my prays for you, your family, and all those who have been affected. I just wanted to thank you aloud, for being my "middleman" to the "man upstairs." I know you have a lot of loved ones to look down upon and watch over... I just appreciate your help in what you have done for me.
God Bless you and your family.
Mercedes Gonzalez-Posner
September 9, 2005
I remember when you were born. You were so much joy to the family. Now you are no longer with them however, all the memories and good times they shared with you will never be forgotten. We all miss you.
Grissel Valentin
August 30, 2005
It's funny how this world can become so small at times. I write this because I have a friend who needed help the other day, and I acompanied my friend to a precinct in downtown manhattan. We were sitting there talking to an officer and I looked up and saw several 911 posters and a plaque. I got up and walk over and saw Santos Valentin's name on the wall. I was so surprised to see his name at that particular precinct where my friend and I had gone to get help. You see, my husband also died on 911, his name was Benito Valentin. I always used to see Santos Valentin name right after my husbands, wherever I went. I could never help and wonder what he looked like, or what he was like. And to be standing in a precinct where he worked ,for some reason I felt some type of connection to him and his family. So this Valentin heart goes out to the Santos Valentin family. May the Lord give you the strength you need and may Santos memories live on thru you. I pray for you as I pray for myself and my family everyday.
God Bless!
Danielle Lopez
June 28, 2005
I know I havn't spoken to you since I was about 12. But you were the closest thing to a father I was ever going to have, and in my eyes you still are my father. I'm sorry I could never call you and see you, and god only knows how much I miss you. I'm 18 now, and I thought you and mom would always be together, but I'm happy to know you and selena were happy together. I used to love seeing you at grandma's on those random visits, even if you had only stayed for all of ten minutes. Those ten minutes were bliss for me. I always wondered if you thought about me, and I went to your wake, I find it so hard to believe you're really gone....and I wish I could see you one last time, but I know you are up there with titi peachy and I'm sure you have all the budweiser you could ever want. I know it's late to be signing this now, I guess i was scared, it's like me doing this really shows you're gone. I pray you're happy with titi.I remember when you had picked me up one weekend and took Amber and I fishing, I didnt catch anything but I was happy knowing I was with you.I remember the first day we got Luger, and how big he got so fast. He used to have the king cone and he used to chase the light, and he used to eat science diet. I remember those little magic tricks you used to do, and I could never figure them out........I remember to gross me out you would take my fist and slobber on it,eeew, and I also remember I was never happier than when I was with you.You will always be in my heart and my thoughts, and not a day goes by that I don't think of you daddy.
I love you so much.
Deanna Gonzalez
September 11, 2003
Looking back at the last two years, the only thing I could ever say that I miss is the love of one family. A family who I still to this day hold dear to my heart and prays. Santos Valentin is a man who is a part of that family and someone I will never forget. He is a man whose character and poise allow him to remain forever as a hero. Uncle Papo, as I knew him, was a hero long before September 11, 2001. He was a hero to his family and friends and to even those who didn’t even know him well. He was loved and will continue to be loved endlessly for all eternity. He will forever be a man who never needed to command respect because you had no choice but to give it to him.
I hold Uncle Papo and the Ferrer/Valentin family close to my heart and I will keep them in my prays for as long as I live. I wear to this day a commemorative dog tag for him around my neck. I would like to send a special pray out to Amber, his goddaughter: Am, know that I love you regardless of what life’s path has brought us. You will always be in my heart, which is something that will never change. I miss you and your family tremendously and I just want you to know that if you ever need anything I am only a heartbeat away. Stay strong and focused and I guarantee with all the love from your family you will remain unstoppable.
Please send my love to the fam….
Love, Dee
(USMC/Miramar,Ca)
Amber Ferrer
May 28, 2003
Well my 21st birthday is just about here... and I always thought my uncle, my godfather, would physically be with me; to make me laugh, and to crack jokes at my friends and my boyfriend... and toasting me with a Budweiser... but I know he will be with me in spirit... but no words... no possible thing can be said or shown to express how much I miss him LIKE CRAZY, or how much it hurts not to be able to hear him say "Happy Birthday, my Ambie"... or... "I love you, m'darlin"... I love you, uncle...and I know you'll be with me... but it's still hard!
To all those wearing their mercy badges in his name, I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart... the prayers of my family for your safety and success, are with you and yours always...
Uncle Papo,
Lugar's doing good! He's a good boy! But I KNOW he misses you EVERY DAY... JUST LIKE ALL OF US... Never think your not welcome in my dreams, Uncle! Even though I'm growing up, I'll always need you there... forever... to intercept before I get myself into trouble, just like you always did! You're my 2nd daddy! I love you!!!!!!!!!!!
Pablo Valentin, Jr.
January 12, 2003
To my cousin, my fallen brother,I remember the day this changed our lives forever! That day we lost a very important member of our family and GOD recieved a Saint! Your life with us will always be as good as gold. Your eternal life is priceless! I know you will always be watching over your family! I remember all the good times we had when we were growing up and feel sorrow for the times we will never have due to that unfortunate situation! I may work for the happiest place on earth, but there will always be sorrow in my heart! I love you my cousin, my friend! GO WITH GOD! 407-654-3370
Selena Ann Valentin
September 14, 2002
To My Dearest Husband - I miss you every day! My prayers are always with you. I know that whenever I need the strength to carry on you are there in spirit for me. May God take care of you until we meet again. All my love always, your little girl!
Marisol Melgar
September 13, 2002
I ask the Lord to watch over & protect your family! MAY YOU REST IN PEACE!
Love,
Marisol & family
RAFAEL PEREZ
September 12, 2002
U.S. NATIONAL ENFORCEMENT AGENCY REMEMBERS AND HONORS ALL 23 OF THE NYPD HEROS THAT GAVE NO THOUGHT IN GIVING THEIR LIVES SO LIFE IT SELF MAY BE GIVEN. SANTOS VALENTINE, YOUR SACRIFICE AND WHO YOU WERE TO MANY WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND WILL REST IN OUR HEARTS. I ASK YOU DEAR LORD TO TO BRING PEACE AND TRANQUILITY TO ALL THE MEMBERS OF SANTOS VALENTINE'S FAMILY. THANK YOU ESU, NYPD AND ALL OF YOU IN THE 75PCT. AGENT RAFAEL PEREZ, U.S. NATIONAL ENFORCEMENT AGENCY
Nancie
September 12, 2002
I will always love you and You will live in my heart forever..I feel you here with me everyday and I will do my best to live everyday the way you would want me to...Te Amo Con Todo Mi Corazon xoxox Nancie
Alison Torres
September 11, 2002
Santos,
You became part of our family years ago. You laughed with us (so much), you cried with us. You helped us when we had to send our Angel to heaven. You helped when you smiled and laughed; when you gave us your strength.
Papo, we still have your strength in us and you will never be forgotten.
Knowing that the Lord has your refridgerator in heaven filled with Bud, I see you sharing one with Peachie and smiling at us all.
cindy culver
September 10, 2002
I had the privlidge of having santos in my family for the past 2 years.He was a wonderful spark to our family.He will be greatly missed and forever in our prayers.I am greatful to have known such a heroic man,as are my children.May god help all who knew him get through this.We love you uncle val
Angie Campbell
May 31, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
May 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO..SANTOS VALENTIN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Angie Roman
April 23, 2002
I am Santos cousin on the mother's side. We were in Jr High School 111 in the same class and graduated together. We are standing right next to each other in that graduation picture from 1975. My heart cried to know that he was gone along with so many others. This awful trajedy touched many so far and wide. Some of us had no clue that we would be personally touched. I had not seen Santos in many years but we are family no matter what and I have a blue bow and flag displayed on my house in his memory. We may have lost touch many years ago but Santos is not forgotten.
Sincerely, Angie Roman (Illiana)
Ghislaine Silva Silva
April 19, 2002
Uncle Papo, I know that we didn't always have a lot of time together but I always knew that whenever I needed you, you were there. There is nothing I regret more than not being able to have you at my graduation. I know you will be watching over me that day and I know that you are proud of me. I miss you so much.
Jose Guerra
April 2, 2002
Missing you and the Bud at Camp Smith brother. Rest in peace God bless you
ROE FERRER
April 1, 2002
DEAR BROTHER/SON
YOU WERE MY SUNSHINE MY BEST FRIEND, AND CONFIDANT. I MISS PICKING UP THE TELEPHONE AND HEARING YOUR VOICE. I KNOW THERE IS LIFE AFTER DEATH. I WILL SEE YOU THERE. I CAN WAIT UNTIL I COULD GIVE YOU A BIG HUG AND SHARE A BEER WITH YOU, IN A GLASS JUST LIKE A LADY. PAPO YOU GAVE ME STRENGTH WHEN I WAS DOWN, PLEASE I NEED THAT STRENGTH NOW. YOUR ABSENCE IS SO GREAT MY SON. WE SHARED SO MUCH JUST LIKE A MOTHER WITH THEIR CHILD, AND JUST LIKE A BEST FRIEND.
HERE IS A POEM JASIE WROTE FOR YOU.
YOU ARE MY HERO, SO BRAVE AND STRONG I ALWAYS THOUGHT YOU'D CARRY ON----
THEN SUDDENLY ONE LATE SUMMER DAY WHILE NYPD COURSED THROUGH YOUR VEINS YOU WERE CALLED TO HELP AND SAVE----HOW MANY LIVES, WE'LL NEVER KNOW FOR YOURS WAS CUT SHORT IN A THUNDEROUS BLOW----SORROW AND PAIN IS WAHT I FEEL THROUGH MY BRAVE FACE. I TRY NOT TO REVEAL THE CLOUD OF BLUE AROUND MY HEART, A SADNESS I FEEL WILL NEVER PART.
WHAT I WOULDN'T GIVE TO HAVE YOU STAY,IF EVEN JUST FOR ONE MORE DAY
I'D TELL YOU ALL YOU MEAN TO ME AND GIVE YOU LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.
TILL THIS DAY WE HOPE AND PRAY TO BRING YOU HOME TO REST ONE DAY
UNTIL THEN IT IS CONFORT TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE AN ANGEL IN GODS HEAVENLY GLOW.
LOVE JASMINE CRYSTAL DENISE
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