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Natalie Gilder Obituary

Carver Natalie C. (Fontaine) Gilder, 77, died Saturday, June 14, after a period of failing health. She was the loving wife of Joseph D. Gilder. Born and raised in Whitman, she was a daughter of the late Amos and Gladys (Tripp) Fontaine. She was a graduate of Whitman High in 1948 and a life long resident of Whitman before her move to Carver in 1993 where she resided for that last 15 years. She was an active member of the Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Carver. Natalie enjoyed gardening and cooking and was a collector of teddy bears and angels. She loved her home and was happiest when she was caring for her husband, children and grandchildren. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her children, Van Gilder and his wife Lynne of Tifton, Ga., Noel Benoit and her husband Norman of Plymouth, and Anne Willis of Winston-Salem, N.C.; her grandchildren, Aaron, Kristin, Johanna, Jacob, Andrea, Jeremiah, Dorienne and Emily as well as several nieces and nephews. She was the sister of the late Lasalle, Wayne, and Pat Fontaine and Norma Corliss. Her services will be held Friday June 20 at 9 a.m. in the Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Main Street, Carver. Burial will be at a later date. Visiting hours will be held in the Blanchard Funeral Chapel, Plymouth Street (Rte. 58 at the rotary), Whitman, Thursday, June 19 from 4-8 p.m. Donations may be made in her name to Our Lady of Lourdes Church Building Fund, 130 Main St., Carver, MA 02330. For on line condolences and directions, visit www.blanchardfc.com.

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Published by The Enterprise from Jun. 17 to Jun. 18, 2008.

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Brenda Covert (Corliss)

June 19, 2008

To my Uncle Joe and cousins, Van, Noel, and Annie.
I had the best childhood ever growing up with my Mom's sister, Aunt Nat and all of you.
Back then we were all very close and had the best times ever! The beach, each others houses. I will miss Aunt Nat, but will cherish all those great memories.
I love all of you,
Brenda

Janice & Glenn Ward

June 18, 2008

Nat was a wonderful next door neighbor. Many a day we would have "over the fence" chats. She was missed when she moved from Tobin Terrace and will now be guiding us from her place with God.

Kevin Moore

June 17, 2008

Aloha! Van,
Sorry for your lose I lost my mom Nov 11 2007 Vina Moore I use to buy Pizza for the old shop at your house in Whitman on South Ave. Your Mom will be missed and I hope all is well with you and the Family.

Kevin Moore Danny Moores brother.

Give my best to all the Family.

Aloha!

Kevin Moore

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