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Brenda Redpath Obituary

Lakeville Brenda L. (Benson) Redpath, age 38 years, of Lakeville, died Friday, June 27, 2008, at Brigham and Womens Hospital in Boston, after a brave fight against cancer. She was the loving wife of Scott D. Redpath. Born Wednesday, July 9, 1969, she was a daughter of Kenneth W. and Jacquelin A. (Grose) Benson of Middleboro. Brenda was a 1987 graduate of Middleboro High School, a 1991 graduate of UCONN, where she earned a bachelor's degree in Psychology and a 1995 graduate of Bridgewater State College, where she graduated suma cum laude earning a master's degree in Psychology. She was a longtime resident of Middleboro and had lived in Lakeville for the past seven years. She worked as a clinical therapist at the Counseling Center in Middleboro and was a member of PSICHI National Society, a member of the Massachusetts Field Hockey Officials and a Girl Scout Leader. She was an avid field hockey player and enjoyed crafting and especially spending time with her daughters and family. In addition to her loving husband Scott, and her parents, Kenneth and Jacquelin, she is survived by two beloved daughters, Bridget and Meghan Redpath; her paternal grandmother, Arleen Benson of Rochester; her maternal grandmother, Cindy Grose of Middleboro; her father-in-law, George Redpath of Texas; her mother-in-law, Sylvia Redpath of Whitman; two sisters-in-law, Katie Milan and her husband Paul and Cindy Forkey; a brother-in-law, Eric Redpath and his companion Lee Rocha; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and close friends. A funeral service will be held Wednesday at 10 a.m. in the First Congregational Church, Rte. 105, Middleboro. Interment will follow in Sampson Cemetery in Lakeville. Visitation will take place on Tuesday 4-9 p.m. in the Dahlborg-MacNevin Funeral Home, 280 Bedford St. (Rte. 18), Lakeville. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be given to the Redpath Family Fund in memory of Brenda, c/o Harborone Credit Union, 68 East Grove St., Middleboro, MA 02346. For additional information or to send a condolence to the family, please visit www.d-mfh.com.

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Published by The Enterprise on Jun. 29, 2008.

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Sue -Drummey-Daly

July 25, 2008

I was deeply saddened to just learn of Brenda's passing. I got to know Brenda through the Mansfield Summer Field Hockey League. She was a great teammate and player and had such a love for the game!!!! But as much as she loved field hockey- I take with me how much she LOVED and CARED about her two daughters and her husband!!! Brenda was a beautiful person, full of life and so much fun to be around. I pray for all of you during this difficult time, you are in my thoughts and prayers!

DENISE FERNANDES

July 8, 2008

Scott,
I never had the pleasure of meeting your wife or your daughters, but just from knowing you at school I know they have to be wonderful because your a great guy. I really don't know what to say at a time like this, but you and your family are in my prayers and I truly wish there was something I could do to help ease your pain. sincerely Denise Fernandes

Ann Marie Caron

July 7, 2008

Dear Sylvia & Family
It was with deep sadness when I noticed that you had lost a dear daughter-in-law. You and your entire family will be in our prayers asking that God give you strength at this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Ann Marie Caron
Formerly of Hanson, MA

Maryann (Lee) Levesque

July 5, 2008

To all of Brenda's loving family:
I cannot express how sorry I am for the passing of Brenda. She was one of the nicest and friendliest people that I ever knew. She is someone that I can honestly say I enjoyed ever since we met in 1975. She will be so sadly missed by me and many others. I hold a tremendous amount of respect and admiration for Brenda for the fight that she fought. When she was in the middle of her battle, and still working, she came to the DQ to see why I didn't show up for a counseling session that we had set up-even though she didn't have to. That is how Brenda was. She said she could have called me, but wanted to see that I was o.k. I was, and still am, but will miss having Brenda in this world. Again, Jeff and I send our most sincere condolences.

Courtney and Kevin Grey

July 4, 2008

Mr. Redpath,
We are very sorry for the loss of your wife. In case if you don't remember us, we were in your science class this year. We all missed you on the last couple of days and we all prayed that your wife would be alright. God Bless you and your family, and we wish you the best. Hopefully we will visit you in the future.

Irie Stradley

July 3, 2008

Bridget,
I wanted you to know how sorry I am that your Mom passed and that you and your family are in my prayers everynight. Your swim friend Irie Stradley

Kris (Nelson) Jennings

July 1, 2008

Mr. and Mrs. Benson,
I am grateful for my friendship with Brenda. Even though we did not see each other often, we always picked up where we left off. Our prayers are with you, Scott and their beautiful girls. Brenda has touched so many lives and will hold a special place in the hearts of many.

Sarah Couto

July 1, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. May your happy, loving, and cherished memories bring you comfort.

Sarah Couto (Swim team) and family

Debby Wine

July 1, 2008

I worked with Brenda at NorthEast Health Services in Middleboro and especially appreciated her warmth, her sense of humor, her high energy level, and her Girl Scout cookies. I have no doubt that she bravely fought to the end of her struggle. May her memory be a blessing to you, always.

Kimberly Kordash

June 30, 2008

Benson and Redpath Families,
I am very sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. I was also a childhood friend of Brenda and remember the sleepovers and pool parties fondly. Brenda was a wonderfully happy and fun person and the laughs we had all through school years will always warm my heart. I will keep you all in my thoughts and my prayers.
Kimberly (Wood) Kordash

Mary C. Howley

June 30, 2008

Dear Scott,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mary C. Howley
W-H Class of 82

Michelle Byers

June 30, 2008

Brenda was a referee for my high school field hockey team. After high school graduation, Brenda encouraged me to continue playing. I was able to enjoy many indoor and outdoor field hockey games with Brenda. Her love of the game truly inspired me, and I carry that where ever I go. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Susan Creditor

June 30, 2008

Scott--I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Brenda. I was fortunate to have had the chance to know her on a professional level and she was a kind, caring, and compassionate person. I also know from talking with her, that her family was most important to her. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time and I hope that the comfort of family and friends can bring you, the girls, and Brenda's family some strength. I am so sorry that I won't be able to be at the service since I am out of town, but I will certainly be thinking of you.

Jim Ellard

June 30, 2008

To the Benson and Redpath families,
I am very sorry for your loss. I knew Brenda in high school and considered her a friend. Very smart, very funny but mostly just a pleasant and positive person to be around. She will be missed by everyone who knew her, even if it had been a long time since they've seen her. God bless you all.

Vanessa (Towns) Piers

June 30, 2008

Mr & Mrs Benson, I am so sorry for your loss. Brenda was a great person and I have alot of childhood memories that she was apart of. May God bless you and help you through this difficult time... Love & Prayers Vanessa

Debbie Erbeck

June 30, 2008

Scott,
I am deeply saddened for your loss.
I know that God will be with you on during this difficult journey. God Bless you and your daughters.

Julie Leonard (Littlefield)

June 29, 2008

Brenda always was and will always be a person that others can aspire to be.
She is one of those people that touch so many lives with such little effort. My friendship with her has stayed with me through all of my life.
I give my deepest of sympathies to her family, may her spirit live within each and everyone of you.

Joan Casabian

June 29, 2008

I knew Brenda through field hockey. When I was still coaching, she always was quick to help us out with officiating for our preseason games and then we would often see her on the fields during the regular season. She was special and it saddens me deeply to think that she has been taken from the world at such a young age. My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to all her family.

Sincerely,
Joan Casabian
Retired field hockey coach from Bridgewater-Raynham Regional H.S.

Mrs.Despina Fitzpatrick

June 29, 2008

Dear Scott & Girls,
We are so upset to hear about Brenda's passing, please know that we are so glad we had the honor of knowing you all through the friendship of our daughters Kristy & Bridget
We will miss her dearly but we know she is always around us watching.
may God comfort you & your family at this time. She is a wonderful person and I'm so glad we spent times together. Love & Hugs The Fitzpatrick Family, David Despina Brittneylyn & Kristy

Michelle Blair

June 29, 2008

Our many thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Brenda was a wonderful Mom. Jessica Blair and Family

carol breault

June 29, 2008

our thoughts are with you and the girls scott.. god bless.. carol breault and jen breault and family from swimming.....

Michelle P. Twirl Town Mother

June 29, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jen (McGlone)Meserve

June 29, 2008

To Brenda's Family,
May you find comfort in your memories of your daughter, wife, mother, and friend.
I knew Brenda in High School, she was my field hockey captain. She was a spitfire then, as I'm sure she was in the battle of cancer.
May you rest in eternal peace, Brenda.

Denise Renzi, Amber-Nicole Csorba and Family

June 29, 2008

We are sincerely sorry and deeply saddened for your loss. Please do not hesitate to call on us if you need anything. I'm so, so sorry.

Wendy (Waisanen) Monro

June 29, 2008

Scott,
I have been thinking about you and praying for your family. I hope with time, God will bring you comfort.
Fondly,

Maureen A.

June 29, 2008

May you rest in eternal peace, and may God comfort your family in the tough days ahead. Brenda counseled my son, and I am thankful for her help.

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