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Ruth Wilcox Obituary
Age 95, of Waverly and formerly of Sing Sing Rd., Horseheads, passed away Friday July 4, 2008. She was predeceased by her husband, Gerald in 1977. She is survived by her sons, Arthur (Shirley) Wilcox of Nichols, NY, Norman (Kathy) Wilcox of Elmira, NY; five grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her sisters, Phoebe Doane and Mantie Carner. Ruth was born June 14, 1913 in Elmira, NY, the daughter to the late Richard and Rebecca (Metzger) Dann. She was a lady through and through. She was fond of the arts, an avid reader and lover of life's simple treasure. Family and friends are invited to call at the Barber Funeral Home, 413 So. Main St., Horseheads, on Wed., July 9, 2008, from 4-7:00 p.m. Her service will be celebrated in the funeral home on Thurs. at 10:00 a.m. with the Rev. William Wells officiating. Interment will follow in Maple Grove Cemetery. A special thanks to the health care providers of Elderwood Assisted Living at Tioga for their care of our mother.
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Bruce Peer
July 18, 2008
Dear Norman, Art & familes,
We were saddened to learn about your mother's death. Your mom and dad were wonderful people. We have memories of the many gifts, of labor and love, they gave our family during the tough times.
I particularly remember how she nurtured her sons and exposed them to music and the arts. The way you live your lives is a testamate to her good work. You were very fortunate to have her as your mother.
The old neighborhood has also suffered a tremendous loss. Your mom was the best local historian we ever had.
May God bless you all.
With love from your old friends and neighbors,
Bruce and Pam Peer
Kay and Jack Howland
July 10, 2008
We were so sorry to learn of Ruth's passing. Our deepest sympathies to her family. She was a wonderful and warm person.
Al Seymour
July 9, 2008
Sincerest Condolances to the family . Blessings From AL Seymour
Fanniebelle "Brown" Mallette
July 9, 2008
Ruth was a wonderful lady and neighbor. I grew up near her and could not have had someone who was not just a neighbor, but a dear friend. May God look over her family and give them peace in knowing she is in a better place.
Jim Irwin
July 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jake Stimson
July 8, 2008
Rest Peacefully
Lisa Mattoon Gagnon
July 8, 2008
Ruth was a lovely lady and my neighbor "down the road" growing up. My sympathy goes out to Art and family and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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