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Tarl Frugé
May 3, 2025
Hey Mark. It has definitely been a while. I am sure you sir are in a better place! You missed the FPS Revolution. Which doesn't matter really because you would have whooped our butt's anyway. Can't wait to see you again! Love you brother!
Wen-Wen
October 6, 2013
It would have been your 38th Birthday 4 days ago and your sister's was as usual, 2 days later. There's so much emotion around this time of year for me and I know my sister too and even though Arianna was just 4, she really had a difficult day on the day of your birthday and had to leave class. The teacher talked to her and she said so many wonderful things about her uncle Mark that the teacher said she'll never look at Oct. 2nd the same again. All of us have had rough days including Chris, Mike, I know for sure your mom and our Lance. I selfishly wish you were here but my heart always becomes so joy full when I think of where you are and how protected and loved you are by God and what it must be like to actually see the nail holes in the wrists of our Lord and Savior Jesus. Love you always.
Saying good-bye to Boo
Wendy Turnidge
August 16, 2013
I came by today because I was signing the guestbook of a friend who went to be with God yesterday, a friend of not only me, Chris & Lance's but even Frodo my dog. He also was a friend of Mark's and of course I came to see Mark's site and I saw it wasn't sponsored again so I did it permanently because I cannot imagine losing any part of the time my Mark passed through this life and that includes when he reached the end of the road of life and when he sadly, yet joyfully, ended up where I never thought and still cannot believe his name would appear, the Obituaries. I was brought here today because as I said we lost a special friend. Bob was our neighbor and he and Mark spoke for hours about the topic that got both of them going; politics. A minute could turn into an hour or more in the back yard and yesterday Bob passed away. Bob owned a dog named Boo which was a dog that he got from me and Mark (and my sister because she owned the mom dog) because we had Boo's daddy Damico. It all comes together when I recall the day Mark and I went with Damico to Bob's house on Halloween and Damico was in a little sweater and Bob's wife Barb fell in love with him and how he looked; being a Papillon. From that same litter Boo was from, we kept a pup as well, Frodo. So Mark and I had Damico and Frodo and I remember how we'd get them all riled up and say "Where's Bob? Where's Boo?" and the dogs would run all over the house chasing each other, barking, biting each other's tails in play and jumping into our bay window looking for Bob and Boo. Then when we'd see Bob we'd open the door and out the dogs would run and soon Bob was wrapped up in Boo's leash and the dogs would take off, Boo running after them and Bob being dragged behind. I remember sitting out in the backyard of Barb and Bob's home and letting the dogs all play and run around. Then after Barb passed, Bob found Boo to be a great comfort to him and Bob shared that Boo almost seemed to understand him. Frodo has been whining the last few days every time he hears me say Bob or Boo so I have to believe they do know something. Boo sat loyally next to Bob his last week's. I was so sad to have accidentally given Damico that dumb bone before Christmas 2009 that killed him, the same year I lost Mark. Yet I can't help but think that maybe people can see their dog's in heaven and Mark and Bob have Damico there and Bob and Barb have the initial dog they fell in love with. What a reunion it will be when we all see each other again with hopefully dogs too so Frodo and Boo can also be reunited with their masters and each other. But in reality, dogs or not, I cling to the promise God gave us, an eternity together when we believe in Him. I love you Mar-Mar and it makes me smile to think you may be getting updated by Bod or however it works. With all my love, your Wen-Wen
Me and our son Lance (my little Mark)
Wendy Turnidge
May 25, 2013
I'm glad I found this site and re-opened it. I hope you enjoy it again. I will always love Mark and he will always have a place in my life and in my heart as we were not only married but had a bond that also was the likeness of best friends and even siblings. I can look and see clearly how in heaven, I will be his sister and he my brother in Christ and there will be no marital relationship. This is why I can love him so much still and be also privileged to have done what he wanted me to do and said he wanted to have happen and that is marry his best friend Chris (yes, this conversation truly happened before my 11-4-08 surgery). I also found out he asked Chris 3x to take care of Lance and me should anything ever happen to him. I know the 3 of us in heaven will be amazing friends. So I'm glad I found this and hope you find something from it that touches your heart too. WenWen
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Levi
October 29, 2009
We miss Mark every day. He was the best bud a guy could ever want. Best wishes to his family.
Wendy Turnidge
October 25, 2009
I posted on here the other day, just to say to Mark and everyone how hard it has been and how the months that pass bring only more pain. A bridge is not present between his last days and where I now stand. He's stuck at 33, I'm 34 and not just 4 months older but going on 5 and eventually more.
I wanted to share the funny memory I have of last year for Halloween, just a few days away. His utter excitement to find the perfect joker costume and since purple trench coats are not the "norm", I suggested his leather vest and a greenish/olive dress shirt, I think we did a tie and the makeup. Sprayed his hair green and then realized the next day we repeated for the costume contest on Nov. 1st at Sober City (formerly "The Club" but same owner/friend of ours), we needed to make more wrinkles in the makeup.
I also recall Mark's willingness to be dragged to Chipotle by me, since they give away free burritos on halloween to anyone with aluminum on themselves. He never ate there and looked at me during his turn to say "what do I like?" We were giving it to Zach I think. We got one for Lance, Arianna, Mark, me, Jaden and everyone at home was covered. Mark immediately bolted to Davanni's to get HIS food of choice.
Good memories, sad memories. What do I do this year without you being involved with Halloween. I've always had memories of Halloween in this area, since I grew up here and did my own trick or treating here but you came with and sometimes stayed home to pass out candy. This year, compared to last, will be COLD!
I miss you baby. You made memories in my mind and on my heart that I know will have to be remembered in heaven. I know I'll be your sister but I know we will at least be very good heavenly friends. You, me and Chris will have to plan a nice reunion, sit next to each other at the Last Supper and you can show me what you discovered while you waited for us to get there. Sadness abounds as we approach these upcoming Holiday's and inch to the 1 year date of you death. We still can't fathom it's been that long.
I'll always love you.
Wen
Wendy Turnidge
June 20, 2009
I could never describe the deep hurt and loss, not just loss but a craving to see you and just talk to you again.
I am now dreaming of you every single night Mark. I write this and it's as if I think you and I will someday be reading it together. I know that our marriage is no longer because as you moved into heaven, you took on a different role but I also know the Bible is pretty clear that we will know each other in heaven, recognize each other and that marriage is a special bond that is often referred to in the Bible. I want so much, to just talk with you and hear your perspective on everything, from your death to how it was when you entered the kingdom.
Mark, you will always and forever have a special place in my heart. As you alwyas said, "we've got something here Wendy" and I hope and pray that what we have, will be something we will happily look back on while spending an eternity as friends in heaven. I expect nothing less than you'll be showing me the ropes when I arrive.
I am so thankful for my friends and for all those who have been there for me and Lance. Chris is doing exactly what you requested of him and he's been keeping things settled for me, so I can rest and heal. I've been in and out of the hospital a lot and I know you worried so much about my stays there but he's looking after our home and our son.
You are and were loved by many. Your funeral is still being considered by many to be the BEST funeral they have EVER been to. All glory to God, who literally brought Chris into the situation when I needed direction to get things even going and then your Dad and Levi, for the slideshows and the ladies at the church who put hours into making it beautiful. And your GTF group, what an incredible show of how much they adored you!
Your fingerprints Mark, are all over the place and you'll always be remembered.
Brenda (Alford) Thomas
March 27, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss, I just heard the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I knew Mark in High School, he was a great guy.
Lance was messing with his Fisher Price camera again, this is since Mark's death
Wendy Turnidge
March 20, 2009
Baby, I miss you so much. You are always in my thoughts and I am so curious, always, about what you are doing in heaven. Lance asked about you last night and today and wanted to see you. I put in a video of you for him, how surreal. How weird that you are not here on earth any longer and the physical is gone, for good. You spirit lives in heaven but what I know to be you is gone. Your happiness and joy, your smile, your sense of humor, your love, is all gone but will be forever remembered. I love you MarMar. WenWen
Megan Smith
March 18, 2009
I just heard the news today - even though Mark & I were not really friends, I do remember him from school. My heart goes out to his friends and family, you will all be in my prayers...
jody dehn(remer)
March 10, 2009
Thinking of you all. Hope that things are getting better? I pray for you in my prayers. Always here for you when needed. Jody
Levi Hansen
March 9, 2009
Thinking about you Mark buddy. I have a daily habit of visiting here to look at your picture and it still seems unreal that you're truly gone. Prayers to family. Love you guys, hang in there.
Michelle Turnidge
February 9, 2009
Mark, this is becoming more real the more time has gone by since I last saw you full of life at the Brunswick Zone on New Year's Day. It feels just like yesterday and it's already been over a month. I listen to your voicemail and it feels like you're still here. I see your screenname logged out on my MSN messenger and it breaks my heart that I will never see you logged into it again. Just a few months ago I started signing into it more often and we had some nice discussions. I will miss them deeply. I miss being able to talk to you. I will forever miss your advice. I knew I could always turn to you and you always had the right words for any circumstance in my life. You were so smart. I look at your picture and I can't fathom the fact that that's the only way I'll be able to see you again from now on. I have dreamt of you a few times. In one of my dreams you woke up from the hospital bed. I watched as your eyes started to flicker and you sat up. You were back to your normal self and it was wonderful to get to see you... in another dream I had a chance to hug you goodbye. I pray to God daily that he lets you know that I love you and miss you.
Your Sister Forever,
Michelle
Chrissy Ybarra
February 4, 2009
Wendy,
I am so very sorry for the loss of Mark. I think about you and your family all the time! Everyday! I love you-
Levi Hansen
January 26, 2009
Ahhh, Mark...my best friend.
Yesterday Davanni's held two benefits (Coon Rapids and Brooklyn Center) and 20% of the proceeds went to your fam. That was pretty good of them considering the tab you probably had when you left us. ;)
I started a closed memorial group for you on facebook today as well, so we can discuss the challenges of living without you more privately.
Remember how I told you that I didn't want ever have to give your eulogy it cause it would break my heart? Well, it did, but I wouldn't want it any other way. I know that you'd have done it for me brother, only better.
Today is really hard and the tears are flowing again. I miss you so much Mark.
Love and condolences to family and friends.
Nicolle Riesberg
January 24, 2009
you will be forever missed!
Tom Stuart
January 22, 2009
Dear Dave & Joan -
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord continue to strengthen and encourage you with His comfort and grace. With love - Tom & Susan Stuart
Christmas Day 2008, he wore that shirt at his funeral
Wen Turnidge
January 17, 2009
It's been a hard day as I have done things that were last done by Mark and me. I went to Costco today and got his propel and as I walked past each aisle, I recalled he and I together.
What a hard thing to lose your soulmate and best friend. What a hard thing to lose your love of your life and roommate too. It's all so hard to grasp and each day I think I am going to see him again but in the morning, as soon as I see the sun, I realize it wasn't a dream and I trudge forward for my 3 year old Lance.
Oh Mark how I miss you so. I feel so empty and I laid on the bed where you usually are and cried. Your presence is overwhelming but I know God is only allowing that for me. I know you have better things to do in heaven then to be here with me and I hope you are doing all you spoke of doing in heaven.
Babe, I will see you again and I know you made it there quicker so you can finally have a place of our own, prepared for me. I cannot wait. My love of my life, you were ripped away too soon but I'll always go on loving you.
WenWen
PATRICIA PATTERSON
January 17, 2009
Dave & Joan, my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. This just proves, we never know what tomorrow will bring. I know you will miss him terribly! I will continue to pray for God's comfort for you in your daily life. Pat
Tanda (Revering) Eidsvoog
January 14, 2009
Dear Wendy and Turnidge family,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss yesterday. I remember Mark very fondly from the old neighborhood in Blaine. He was always such a great person to be around. We used to sit by each other on the bus on the way home from school every day. Joking and laughing all the way home. He had such a great sense of humor and I enjoyed those few minutes during the week that we talked. I remember visiting with him at our high school reunion and meeting you, Wendy. He was so proud to show off his beautiful wife! He will truly be missed. You and the whole family are in my prayers.
Angie Croteau
January 14, 2009
The Turnidge Family,
I wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. Mark and I went to Coon Rapids Christian School together. He was a great person who always knew what to say to keep a smile on my face. He will be missed. Your all in my prayers.
January 14, 2009
Turnidge Family,
I am so sorry for your pain. Mike told me about this tragedy and I would like to extend my prayers to you all. Thank you, Mike, for taking the time to share this with me.
Shari Hanson
(Blaine, MN)
Jennifer Jones
January 13, 2009
Hi Wendy and family,
You have my deepest sympathies. I can't imagine what you must be going through and I'm at a lost for words. When I lost my baby, people would say " he's in a better place" but that didn't stop my heart from aching, so I wont say them to you. Sometimes things happen and you don't understand why. I believe God has a reason for allowing certain things to take place. I hope that in time your heart will heal. In the meantime, I hope you find comfort in God, family and friends. You and your family are in my prayers. May God be ever present in your time of need. God Bless!
Shunnay Dickerson
January 13, 2009
Hi Wendy and Mark up there. I don't have many words but I do want to say Wendy you KNOW I love ya.
I didn't know Mark as well as I know you but he left a great impression on me everytime we did meet. So much so that I would talk about him to my husband for days.
I was utterly impressed with his total support and enthusiasum for your business and his true love for you and Lancey Pants.
Be Blessed as you have always been GOD has you in high favor.
Love Shunnay
Elsie Martin
January 13, 2009
Hi Wendy,
How unusual to have a friend pass away in the prim of life! I remember meeting Mark prior to your wedding, but also at the big wedding moment when he received the car keys from you. How great was that! Then we went to the Mary Kay Seminar in Dallas, TX, and early in the morning I was walking with Mark in the parking lot, tripped over an unmarked speed bump, landed on my face, and broke my collar bone. Mark and I were just talking, but an accident happened. I remember how you, Wendy, pleaded my case to the management at the Anatole Loews Hotel. They finally gave me a room for the duration of the Seminar, which I greatly appreciated. Eventually I got out of bed and showed my face at the remaining MK events. Rumor spreads, and I was acknowledged as the catastrophy in the hotel parking lot. However, I am happy to say that MK products restored my face and skin to its prior condition. Now, why didn't we have some magic serum like that for Mark's condition? This is a matter that I will reflect on for some time.
Love to you Wendy and Family,
Elsie Martin
Brooklyn Center, MN
Stacy Barber
January 13, 2009
Cade,
My heart is so very heavy for you little guy and your dad's family and all of your dad's friends. "May the Lord bless you and keep you, may the the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you"... My pastor ends his service every week with that and really it just makes me have a comfort knowing that there is a great place that God wants us to know about and he is "shining" on us even in these times of darkness and sadness. Your dad and one of my best friends and many other people are there waiting for us and they are just so happy... Do you know that there is no sadness in heaven? Isn't that great to know that your dad is so happy?
Right now is so tough for you and all your dad's relatives and friends and I wish I could say I know how your feeling but the truth is I can't. I have not lost a parent yet, but Cade I know from talking with your mom that your dad loved you more then you will ever know!!! He is your angel now and he will guide you and your brother the best way that he can. Take care and God Bless.
Colleen Weisbrich
January 13, 2009
Wendy,
I had the privilege and pleasure to work with Mark when he was here at Prime. The one thing about Mark that I'll always remember was how easy he was to talk to. We could spend hours talking about anything. We got our selves in trouble that way. I remember this one day, I think it was a holiday where we had to be at work, and I went down to the "dungeon" (that's what I called his area of work) and we talked for 3 1/2 hours straight. Mark was a wonderful friend and I am very sad that he will no longer be here to talk to. He was also a truly gifted poet. He was kind enough to let me have a copy of his book of poetry and I take great delight in reading it. I was extremely moved by his way with words and emotions but they never shined more than when he was talking or writing about you. He would talk about you all the time; about your struggles and you strength. His love for you was palpable.
When I lost my cousin in 2006 - Mark helped me a lot when I couldn't talk to anyone else. He listened while I ranted and waited while I cried. I couldn't ask for a better friend. My only comfort is that now he and my cousin are with God & I will see them both one day. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you.
Alyssa Towle (Gessell)
January 12, 2009
Turnidge Family,
I was shocked and saddened when I heard what happened and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I went to BCA and CRCS with Mark. Although we lost touch I have fond memories of him. He and I competed in almost every subject in school. Although I got lucky at times, he blew me out of the water most of the time. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
Alyssa Towle (Gessell) and the Gessell Family
jeneia newcombe
January 12, 2009
Cade,
where do I start.... first by saying I love you so much and totally understand what is going on I know that you and Jesse have got along well and for that I am greatful because nobody ever knew that you two little boys would share so much in common. Jesse has also lost his dad 5 and 1/2 years ago there is alot of those feelings coming back and my heart just crys for you as you and your brother are going to nees the most love in these times. If you need anything or just to get away call me up and i'll be right there. love ya Jeneia
Vera Martin
January 12, 2009
Wendy,
I'm very sorry about your lost. I pray that God will give you and your family strength that you didn't even know exist. I knew how much you loved your husband, but thank God for allowing you to have such fun memories with him.
I know once things settle down is when you will need someone the most. I'm always available any time, day or night just give me a call. I'm always here to cry, laugh or pray with you.
I love ya
Your sister in CHRIST
Vera
Ruth Graden-Steckler
January 12, 2009
Wendy and Norman,
God has another angel in heaven.
Bless you and your families
Aunt Ruth and Uncle Fred
Linda Clawson
January 12, 2009
Wendy
This is Linda Clawson up in Maine... I just received an email telling me what happened to Mark. I am dumbfounded to say the least! There are no words Wendy that I could begin to say that would express what I genuinely feel in my heart for you and your entire family. I know that in the past you and I had spoken about the guys having heart issues as you know Jim had open heart surgery 8years ago. I believe that Mark passed away from cardiomyopathy. Jim again had open heart surgery in August and this time it was done in Boston and it was done by one of the most amazing heart surgeons. He is doing absolutely wonderful and I know, with all my heart, that you are glad to hear that. I know, however, first hand how scary the intensive care and all the followup is.
Wendy I have spent the afternoon reading the Caring Bridge site and wish with all my heart I was there to be a friend and go through this experience with you. I know how very blessed we are and would love to share tears, hugs, try to just let you know how much I care and how sincerely sad I am for Marks passing.
On the other side of the coin I have been a care taker for a very dear friend that died and Wendy I do believe that you have been given a very special gift that all do not receive....you have seen, first hand, some you love reach and be taken to Heaven and have seen Jesus on this side. I BELIEVE THAT WITH ALL OF MY BEING! I watched my
friend sit up and see Jesus in the door the evening before he died and Wendy he too reached his arms to be taken home.
I have never forgotten that and as the Bible say "to those who much is given much is expected." You have been given so much in just that private moment...you will forever remember that moment Wendy and I sincerely believe it is a moment that "much was given to you, not taken away." Mark will always be with you and anytime you want to be with him just close your eyes and you will have the ability to bring all the visual memories and his voice to you, because that is Gods blessing that no one else is able to share or take away.
I hope your know that so many from so far care will lift you up and carry you and your family through this very sad "human" time, knowing that Gods promise is that all of us that
"believe" will be together again.
With much sympathy and much love Wendy to you and your entire family,
Linda Clawson
Sister Mary Kay Sales Director
and Friend
Jim,Kathy, Sarah & Leah Ringdal
January 12, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Please feel free to contact us if we can help in any way. God Bless you all
Mark and Levi
January 12, 2009
Joyce Danger
January 12, 2009
Dear Wendy, I'm so shocked to learn about the loss of your husband. Please know how very sorry I am. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Joyce Danger
Jason Saari
January 12, 2009
Wendy and Family, You have my deepest sympathies. God bless and keep you.
Jason Towley
January 12, 2009
Wendy,
I'm not one to know what to say in times like these. Sorry seems trivial. Instead, I thought I would share the fond memories that I have of Mark having worked with him for a short time at Prime.
The first time I met Mark, he visited my cube at Prime and, in his bright and friendly way, informed me that he was there to upgrade my desktop to Windows XP and also add some memory. He was a newly hired contractor brought on to help upgrading everyone's PCs. I was struck by his positive attitude, smile, knack for conversation, and overall friendliness. The upgrade went as quickly as he planned and assured me it would. He wished me a good day and then went on to his next computer. From a customer service standpoint, I was very impressed. From a people standpoint (where in IT, you're never quite sure when you'll get that cliche' IT guy you see in the Staples commercials and Office Space movie) I was also impressed. He was a techie "geek" but also someone I enjoyed meeting and talking to.
About a year later, things moved around here at Prime. We changed buildings. There were reorgs. People came and left. I assumed new responsibilities. I ended up managing the desktop support team. Mark was now on my team, still "plugging away" as a dedicated contractor. That's when I grew to know Mark even more. We hired him as a permanent employee. We would have our weekly 1:1 meetings. We had lots more occasions to talk. I'll always smile when I think about Mark. He could certainly be a pain (can't we all - it's what makes us, "us") and overall, I really liked him as a "good guy."
Those that know Mark, know he had a real knack for talking. He loved to offer his ideas and opinions and dreams. I fondly remember how excited he was when he told me about a new business he had started. He had filed the paperwork to become incorporated. He even already had some customers. He wanted to assure me that the new business would not interfere with his work at Prime but I could also see how "giddy" he was at "pulling the trigger" on this long time dream. (He also shared, Wendy, how you were so supporting and encouraging of him to do so.)
We talked about lots of things. I knew of his passion for gaming and spending time with Cade. He had a wealth of ideas (and he sure loved his desk in the basement here at Prime! :) I will never pass a wireless phone kiosk at the mall without thinking of Mark and the stories he shared about their sales tactics (which led to another one of Mark's proud moments - his few minutes of Fox 9 news expose' fame!) :-)
Another thing I remember about Mark is one that those who knew him will appreciate. We were going out for a team lunch to celebrate end of year accomplishments. (As I remember, you also joined us, Wendy.) First, I was struck by the pride in which he introduced you to me and the team. I could definitely tell he was eager and excited for us to meet "his girl." Second, when we sat down and got our menus, Mark spoke up and asked, "What's our limit boss?" I chuckled, because that was such a funny Mark thing to say. (He ended up ordering the steak as I remember... I chuckled as you rolled your eyes, Wendy, shaking your head and just kind of smirking at his goofball nature.)
I ended up moving on to another role at Prime and did not manage Mark for long. However, we did keep in touch. He was always sure to stop by my desk and chat on occasion. He shared updates about your medical ordeal, Wendy. He would also be sure to track me down when you and Lance were in the office so I could meet and say hi. Again, he was a proud husband and father, wanting to be sure I was able to meet his family. (Then there's the story about him taking you and Lance on the elevator and Lance excitedly running out and accidentally bumping into our CEO...)
Those are just a few memories and stories I have about a great guy I had the privelege to know and work with. I know there are those who knew him far better than I and can only imagine the hole that is now there in your and their lives. However, I hope that hearing and knowing about fond memories like mine might do a little to help fill that hole.
Wendy - Know that my and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. As I read this journal, I hope and know that those around you will provide support and strength as you work through this unbearably difficult time. I also know though, by the few times that I met you, that you are extremely strong - a great counterpart to Mark. He will definitely live on through you. God bless you.
Jason, Stephanie, & Lauren Towley
Tracey Dolezal
January 12, 2009
Dear Wendy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
Please know that you are in my prayers. May God's love help you through the days to come.
Your ND Cousin,
Tracey O'Neil Dolezal
Jaylene Tennier
January 12, 2009
Marks family,
Although I have not seen Mark in a few years he has touched my heart deeply,I will cherish all the memories I have.The metallica concert and mark on the guitar playing Fade to black.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!!
Heidi Birkhofer
January 12, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to high school with Mark. Your family will be in my prayers for many days to come. God Bless!
Janell Fredericks
January 12, 2009
Wendy,
You don't know me personally...I work at PRIME, in one of the area's(MTMP) that Mark used to support. WOW, this is all sooooo SHOCKING!!! I want you to know that Mark thought the WORLD of you, cade, and lance. May you be comforted during the days ahead. God BLESS...
Denise Johnson
January 12, 2009
Dear Wendy,
I've written on your caring bridge site a few times, I just wanted once again to express my sincere grief at your loss. You and your family continue to be in my prayers. Bless you,
Denise Johnson
Brian and Corinna Smith
January 12, 2009
Wendy and the Turnidge Family,
We are so very sorry and our deepest sympathies go out to you all. May God be with you to comfort you at this time.
Krist Voiles
January 12, 2009
I was very saddened to hear about the loss of Mark today on the GTFRC.com message board where I first met him. I had the pleasure of getting to meet him and Wendy in person at a social event they had for us message board folks at their house several years ago. I had a great time and Mark and Wendy were fantastic hosts.
I am very sorry for your loss, Wendy. I can't imagine how you must feel, but I pray that God gives you some comfort in your grief. Mark was a good, decent man and he will be greatly missed by many at the forum.
God Bless,
Terry Jandro
January 12, 2009
Dear Wendy,
I had the privledge of working with Mark and through him meeting you. He was such a special person! He always had a smile on his face and made everyone around him smile as well. I was shocked to learn of his death, and my heart aches for you and the kids. The love the two of you had is something that most couples will never have the opportunity to experience. Cherish your memories and know that you will be reunited with Mark in good time. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Dana Hansen
January 12, 2009
My name is Dana and my brother Levi Hansen was Mark's best friend since they were both around 12 years old. Having been around Mark from time to time, I knew him as a warm, happy and really fun to be around guy. I instantly knew why my brother liked him so much. I was very sad to learn about Mark's situation and to learn that he passed away, I was just in shock. I feel a deep sadness knowing that he's no longer with us. I stilll can't believe it. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, especially his children, wife and parents. May God provide comfort in these difficult times.
Dana Hansen (Tampa FL)
Steve Southwell
January 12, 2009
Mark,
When somebody told me of this I couldn't believe it. All the times we shared together on the forum will never be forgotten.
I know you are with the Lord now and life is good for you but I will miss you and your friendship.
Take care my good friend and we'll hook up on the other side one day.
Waldo
January 12, 2009
Although i haven't seen Mark in a few years, it was always fun running into him, reminiscing about the old days in the neighborhood... My Condolences to all who knew him, he was one of the "Good Ones"
Brian Boardley
January 12, 2009
My heart is broken, I feel I have lost apart of me. Mark was like an older brother to me and he will be greatly missed. There was never a time when I needed him that he let me down. I know how much Mark liked the spot light but when we spent time together he made me feel like I was the one in the spot light. Words cannot describe the impact Mark has left on my life and I will never forget all the life advise he gave me. Mark thanks for always being there.
Your little brother.
Brian
One of the happiest days of his life
January 12, 2009
Mark the morning of his surgery, Tuesday January 6th and he has no clue what's going to happen
Wendy Turnidge
January 11, 2009
MarMar,
Today was a hard day and I am mourning you so much. Your mom came by here and she was so sad too. The calls I am receiving are amazing and the lives I'm seeing that you've touched....you'd be shocked.
I keep expecting to tell you all about it after it's all done. Next week, when life goes back to "normal", things are going to hit me so hard. I won't be able to go downstairs and peek my head in your office and give you an egg breakfast or make you lunch.
I won't see you come upstairs to check in over your lunch break or ask me to cuddle with you quick. I won't hear your loud music downstairs and see your trench coat laying on the couch while you still wear your sunglasses on your head into the wee hours of the night...not to mention the headset in the ear.
I picked up your clothes and hung them up and you'll never be taking them down to wear. I pick up things and move things that I realized you last touched. Someone said that the hardest is for the person living with the person, who gets to know the daily routine, but I also created my routine around you as well as get to know your routine. I simply don't know what I'll do with myself.
Our bed is very empty and the room is very cold. I don't want to watch movies like you always got me to and you're not here to say, "Wendy, take your pills and sit down and rest".
Mark, you were my everything and made me a better person. I am missing you so much Mark and I love you.
Wen
Martin Hentges
January 11, 2009
I went to school with Mark, and I will always remember Mark as a really nice guy with a great sense of humor. He always had a way to make people laugh, and put a smile on your face. I was shocked when I read that Mark had passed away. I think life has a way to remind you that you aren't invincible, that we all will pass away in time. Some of us will touch hearts and lives Mark was one of those people that left his fingerprint on many peoples lives! My heart goes out to you Wendy and your family,
Colleen Van House
January 11, 2009
Wendy and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and so happy for Mark. He is in the arms of our Savior and is another of your special angels to watch over you.
Mark loves you so much and left a wonderful legacy of spirituality and good works. I can never express my appreciation for his kindness to my mother, Adeline, and am so grateful we got the chance to know him.
I am so glad you came to John & Shannon's wedding this past August. It is an honor to share that special event with you.
Please know that we are here for you, in whatever capacity you may need. I know your faith and family are strong so my offer of assistance may not be needed right now. Just know we love you and Lance and will be of whatever support is necessary. You are in my daily prayers and Adeline has added you to her rosary intentions.
Love, Great Grandma Adeline O'Neil, Colleen Van House & Larry Sharpe
My brother and I, Christmas Eve 2008
Michelle Turnidge
January 11, 2009
Growing up I always looked forward to anytime I would get to see Mark. When I was younger I was always the annoying little sister trying to infiltrate myself into my big brothers exciting life. I'm glad there were a few times when my mom would make them include me :) I always loved being with my brothers and their friends throughout the years and still do.
As I got older my relationship with Mark became stronger. We became friends and had many good times together. I look back and wish we could have shared more experiences together, but life gets in the way as it usually tends to do. I have no regrets and am at peace knowing that he loved me and that he knew I loved him.
Mark always had kind words for me, no matter what stupid choices I made in life. He made it clear to me that I was his little sister and that he would always love me and accept me, and that nothing could ever change that.
I can't believe he is really gone from this earth, but I know with family and friends and trust in God we will get through this together.
I love you Mark and wish you had more time with us. I am excited to meet you in Heaven someday. You will be greatly missed by all of the lives you have touched, which is so, so many. Rest in peace.
Jennifer Nauman-Letourneau
January 11, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Cindy Allen
January 11, 2009
Wendy,
My heart goes out to you and your family. May God be with you all during this terrible time.
Cindy in Ky (PAI)
Nicole Doroshenko
January 11, 2009
Mark was a very humble person. Growing up with the turnidge family there were always advantures. From times playing in the back yard or starting are forts in the woods that mark and his friend had made. Mark will be missed dearly. Your family will be in my prayers.
Jody Dehn(Remer)
January 11, 2009
My heart goes out to you all. For such a Special life has passed from our sight, but never from our hearts. "I am Alpha and Omega, the end, the first and the Last." "Revelations 22:13. As life seems so unfair I have found that family, friends and even strangers will help in ways that you'd never expect. "Mark" he hasn't left he's here watching and guiding. watch for the signs. His love is all around. I Love you Cade and Angel and I am so sorry. My Prayers are with you all God Bless.
Kim Vaars
January 11, 2009
Dear Wendy and family,
Words cannot describe how sorry I am for your loss!!! I didn't know Mark that well or that long however, I know that he was a man of much faith and he loved his wife and kids with all his heart!! He seemed to be doing anything and everything possible to keep his family together and make it work! He was very confident in his beliefs in God and because of that, although we are mourning his loss, he's in a better place today! No more pain or suffering for Mark. Wendy, I know how much he adored you!! Take comfort in knowing that and also that he will be watching out for you every second of every day!! As is God!! Death is a part of life as we all know, unfortunately, we never know for sure when God will call on us. Lean on him and the many family and friends today that are also hurting to get you through this time of saddness. Mark will be sorrily missed!! God Bless, Kim Vaars and Billy Sommers
Chris Snyder
January 11, 2009
Mark Turnidge was one of the most genuine people on the planet. He always exuded a sort of comfortable happy feeling anytime you were around him. He was any easy guy to be around and even if you had not seen him in months or years it was if no time had passed at all. His core personality remained the same through the years. He was not jaded by time but always brimmed with an eternal optimism that is so rare. Growing up with Mark and Mike Turnidge in our neighborhood in Blaine were years that I fondly remember. I send my deepest sympathies to Wendy and the whole Turnidge Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Amy Gelwick
January 11, 2009
My name is Amy Gelwick. Mark & I were friends in junior high & high school. (My maiden name was Williamson) My deepest sympathy goes out to Wendy, Cade, Lance, & the rest of his family. I have many memories of Mark. I remember when he came to Roosevelt in 8th grade. He came from a private school & I was one of his first friends at his new school. I remember the jean jacket he always wore. I remember he wore rock band buttons on it. I remember his writing. He so loved writing & always asked me to read his. I remember shop classes with him. He made my pop can lamp & bookends! :) I read some of Wendy's Caring Bridge web site & she recalls meeting Mark, he was "...an arrogant 15-year-old." True, but he was a true, loyal friend. I remember the first 2 years of BHS we were in the same homeroom class. What fun we had there! I remember him talking fondly of Wendy & bringing her to school at BHS on occasion. I remember seeing him at our 10 year reunion. He was so happy to be there with Wendy! I remember seeing him a few times out & about after that. I remember him telling me that Wendy was pregnant, and he seemed nervous, scared, and excited all at the same time. That was probably the last time I saw Mark. He will be missed.
Beckie Spence
January 11, 2009
Mark was a wonderful writer and poet with a kind heart in highschool. The world is less one great man now. Strength and comfort to his wife Wendy.
Beckie Spence
Heather Rawlings
January 11, 2009
Wendy, Lance, Cade, & Turnidge Family -
I am deeply saddend by the passing of Mark. Take comfort in knowing he is in the arms of God and healthy and living a wonderful life in heaven! I know words can not heal, but only our God and time can heal. Wendy - take care of yourself as you know Mark would want you to. I will keep everyone in prayers to give you all strength to get through this very tough time. Trust God and to him be the Glory.
With Love,
Richard, Heather, & Taylor Rawlings
Robin Kurtzman
January 11, 2009
Wendy and boys,
My heart goes out to all of you. Know that Mark is looking down on the three of you and watching closely and keeping you safe.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Toni Danielson
January 11, 2009
Wendy and family, I am sorry about your loss. I know that God tells us he doesn't give us more than we can handle. So God must think you are very strong. When you wrote about him raising his arms at the end I believe he was reaching them to Jesus also. I will be there either Wednesday or Thursday. Our love and sympathy for you and your family comes from me and my family also.
Mark greeting a person at the nursing home on Christmas Day after caroling with our family
January 11, 2009
Mark and Lance Summer 2008
January 11, 2009
Mark and Cade Summer 2008
January 11, 2009
Me and Mark and Lance on Christmas Day 2008
Wendy Turnidge
January 11, 2009
MarMar,
How could this happen to us? We were supposed to last for forever. Remember how we said that we'd hang a banner at our wedding someday that said "And you thought they'd never make it". Then we broke up and went separate ways and eventually got back together.
What a road we have had! Complications at every turn, but you were always there for me, always. You are one of the most loyal, faithful men I know on this planet. And you were a friend to everyone but those even closest to you got to see the real you and I think I was the person who saw the truest you.
I have been reading your poetry you wrote me and I have to admit, what a fool for not soaking in all you said through that to me before. I can't even read much at a time because you were so deep, that at this point it's overwhelming in a good way but in a way that almost seems too late for me.
You speak words in your poems and stories, as if you knew what would happen and you certainly say over and over again, how much you love me and adored me. Why did you adore me so much? Did I ever tell you as often how much I adored you?
I know where you are and I know you are playing as much in heaven as one can play. You're probably teaching the angels some karate and singing those heavenly songs with a bit of a kick. There were worship songs that you really got into and I recall them blasting all over the house after you got off work, with your base speakers thumping my office floor. Now if you could have only left your password somewhere, where I could find it to get in to your locked down system!
Mar Mar, I don't know what will ever happen to me, until I see you. I don't know how I'm supposed to live my life without you because once we found each other again, all became so crystal clear and things made sense. Nothing makes sense right now to me, nothing. You made sense and you made each day new and exciting for me.
My home is empty and my life is empty but I know what I need to do and that is to fill it up with God because he can fill that void, and he should. And where you are now, this is what you KNOW I should do.
I can't wait to see you again Mark.
Love,
Your wife, Wen Wen
Angel Green
January 11, 2009
Hi Mark,
I know that you are with my grandpa now and I hope that you are having a great time in heaven. Tom and I will do our best to raise our son Cade. I will tell Cade about the years before he was born and how much he meant to you. I guess I will say see you later instead of goodbye.
Hi Wendy,
You know I am here for you and I am trying to help you through this the best that I can. I will see you soon.
Godbless, Angel
Monti and Shirley Gesino
January 11, 2009
To the family, you have my deepest sympathy.
to Wendy, never forget he is in a better place, his spirit is with you now & you will be with him again. He was a wonderful man & our son has already thanked him for the poem he wrote for his eulogy. God is with you.
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