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Deborah Francis Obituary

Deborah Jean (D.J.) Higgs Francis Deborah Jean (D.J.) Higgs Francis, 54, died on October 4, 2006, after a lengthy battle with ovarian cancer. She was born on July 24, 1952, in Memphis, Tenn. What friends and family will remember most about D.J. was her constant striving to make the world a better, kinder place. She gave with all her heart in everything she did, wanting nothing in return. With friends and family and even strangers, she displayed extreme compassion and was a mother to everyone. She had a gift for making people feel special and loved and always noticed when someone needed their day brightened. Her friends would often find she had left a small gift tailored for them, like an inspiring article or an assortment of their favorite goodies. And no matter how busy she was, she always had time to listen, counsel, and reassure you that everything would be okay. In this way, she was a constant source of hope to all those around her and inspired them to live truer lives, to improve themselves and the world around them. Her love and generosity extended to animals and the environment. D.J. was a long-time, committed vegan and was instrumental in reviving the Vegetarian Society of Austin. She loved all animals and, as a champion of animal rights, she gently planted seeds of animal advocacy in other people while respecting their need to naturally develop their own beliefs. She was also an environmental activist as shown in her tireless recycling efforts, her devotion to spreading the word about environmental causes, and her constant appreciation of even the small things in nature. She would see beauty in unexpected places like the texture of a tree's bark. She found solace and inspiration in the outdoors, and she would spend hours tending to her large lavish beds overflowing with native plants. Her garden, like everything else she did, was a creative labor of love. Her devotion and drive also made her a powerhouse at work. She had an amazing ability to organize and to get things done. D.J. was not afraid to tackle any job and routinely completed huge projects with flare. She played a crucial role in every business she was part of, some of which she helped start from the ground up, all of which she helped make successful with her devotion to details and her incredible work ethic. A former boss described her as capable of "managing a small country," which she certainly was. In all aspects of her life, D.J. Francis was an extraordinary force and will not be forgotten by anyone who ever met her. She made people see life in a different way, and as a result, inspired them to live their lives in a more loving way. She is preceded in death by her sister Charlotte Higgs and Brother Larry Wayne Higgs. She is survived by her husband, Bobby Trippe; parents Gene and Ann Higgs of Rowlett, Texas; sister Sheila Johnson and husband Robert; brother David Higgs; niece Brittany Ziemann and husband Tim; niece Staci Schultz and husband T.J.; and great-niece Sophie Schultz who brought great joy to her life. A memorial service will be held on Monday, October 9, 2006, at 6:15 p.m. at the Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to the Wildflower Center or Hospice Austin. The family would like to thank the staff at Hospice Austin's Christopher House for the loving care given to D.J. in her last days.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Oct. 7, 2006.

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david higgs

October 22, 2006

Hi.Im Dee Jay,s little brother and i think you all for such great thing,s that were said about Dee Jay. She was one of a kind.A real Angel she will always be. DeeJay I can say would tell us all she is right where she wanted to be.If you knew D.J.she would be tell us all about this is a time to relax, shut ur eye,s and just think about all the good times you had with her.God only knows how much I missed her already.My
little Angel.

Adrian Walker

October 20, 2006

I never met D.J., but when she left us, I cried. For months, Sheila had forwarded D.J.'s email updates to me, and I marveled at her courage; her optimism in the midst of hideous physical agonies. I developed a love for her out of my respect and admiration for the way she handled adversity. After reading her emails, I would just sit in silence wondering how I would function if I were going through what she faced every day during her treatments. How did she continue to work? How did she find the strength to continue walking and appreciating the beauty of the world around her - especially when her little body was falling apart? I miss her because she was the most incredible role model I've ever witnessed. God bless her - her pain is over now.

Marilyn

October 19, 2006

Sheila, thank you for sharing your incredible sister. DJ's courage and wisdom were clear in her email-journal. I am grateful for the lessons she and Bobby shared through her journey. Be at peace, DJ.

Freda Thompson

October 15, 2006

My husband, Ted, and I had a chance to visit with DJ at one of Sheila's birthday gatherings. I was so impressed with her sparkle and beauty. God truly has another angel now! Freda Thompson

Candy Stone

October 15, 2006

I am truly blessed to have known such an unselfish, caring person.
She is an inspiration of courage and she will be missed.

Annie Jenkins

October 13, 2006

I am one of D.J.'s friends from the Baltimore/Washington area. D.J. came into my life in 1991 through our work at McDonnell Douglas in Seabrook, Maryland. We were supporting NASA's Goddard Space Flight Center, and D.J. made herself indispensable with her enthusiasm, intelligence, organizational skills and caring nature. At first I wasn't sure what to make of this little bundle of energy who dashed around the office with the heaviest footsteps I have ever heard from such a tiny person. But soon I connected with D.J., and we realized that we shared a deep love of animals.


D.J. took her love further than I. As you all know, she was a vegan who did not eat, wear or use any products that came from animals. Not even eggs or leather shoes. I'd never heard of such a strict vegetarian before, but D.J. quickly taught me about factory farming and the abuses and indignities suffered by animals in our food supply. I could never look at a piece of steak or chicken the same way again.


D.J. and I remained friends after she left the Baltimore/Washington area. We'd go months without talking, yet pick up the conversation right where we left off. She was like a tiny little big sister to me, always there with words of wisdom and a comforting heart. D.J. was the warmest, most giving person I have ever met. Even as she was going through the heartaches in her own life, she reached out to others in sympathy and genuine concern. For example, even while she was undergoing the tortures of her cancer treatments, she continued to send me articles and encouragement about my own medical condition.


After D.J. passed on, I seriously considered flying down to Austin for the gathering of friends and the memorial service. But that night, while I was half asleep, I imagined I was talking to D.J. In my mind's eye, I imagined she chided me for thinking about spending so much money to come down, when the money could be better spent on taking care of the animals she loved so much. So, that's what I'm going to do--donate money to animal welfare causes in her name. I think she would approve.


D.J. was a brilliant beacon of love and light, and our world is now dimmer because of her passing. But she lives in the memories we all carry and the kindnesses we show to others. As Bobby said, we should each try to live our life with a little more compassion in honor of D.J. In that way, she can always be with us, and her love--by extension through us--can continue to make this world a better place.


Peace and love,

Ryan, Amy, Hannah & Lily Erb

October 12, 2006

My wife and I moved to Oasis Dr about seven years ago and DJ and Bobby were, not surprisingly, the first to greet us. However, our relationship really began to grow once we had children. Our two daughters loved going over to Bobby and DJ's house and picking tomatoes or swinging on their hammock. I loved it when DJ would watch my children play and point out to them the simple beauties and pleasures that surround us on a daily basis. The selflessness DJ showed to me is pretty indicative of what I have read and heard since her passing. My family will miss her very much and I am sorry that my girls will not have her influence in their lives. I am very thankful for the short amount of time we were given with her.

Sheila Johnson

October 12, 2006

My sister, D.J., was truly blessed to have so many wonderful friends in her life. After meeting so many of you; I understand the love she had for each of you....she had plenty of love for all. Thank you for all your kind words.
Her Sister, Sheila Johnson

W. Jarrett Campbell

October 12, 2006

DJ is the reason I still LiveStrong.

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