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david higgs
October 22, 2006
Hi.Im Dee Jay,s little brother and i think you all for such great thing,s that were said about Dee Jay. She was one of a kind.A real Angel she will always be. DeeJay I can say would tell us all she is right where she wanted to be.If you knew D.J.she would be tell us all about this is a time to relax, shut ur eye,s and just think about all the good times you had with her.God only knows how much I missed her already.My
little Angel.
Adrian Walker
October 20, 2006
I never met D.J., but when she left us, I cried. For months, Sheila had forwarded D.J.'s email updates to me, and I marveled at her courage; her optimism in the midst of hideous physical agonies. I developed a love for her out of my respect and admiration for the way she handled adversity. After reading her emails, I would just sit in silence wondering how I would function if I were going through what she faced every day during her treatments. How did she continue to work? How did she find the strength to continue walking and appreciating the beauty of the world around her - especially when her little body was falling apart? I miss her because she was the most incredible role model I've ever witnessed. God bless her - her pain is over now.
Marilyn
October 19, 2006
Sheila, thank you for sharing your incredible sister. DJ's courage and wisdom were clear in her email-journal. I am grateful for the lessons she and Bobby shared through her journey. Be at peace, DJ.
Freda Thompson
October 15, 2006
My husband, Ted, and I had a chance to visit with DJ at one of Sheila's birthday gatherings. I was so impressed with her sparkle and beauty. God truly has another angel now! Freda Thompson
Candy Stone
October 15, 2006
I am truly blessed to have known such an unselfish, caring person.
She is an inspiration of courage and she will be missed.
Annie Jenkins
October 13, 2006
I am one of D.J.'s friends from the Baltimore/Washington area. D.J. came into my life in 1991 through our work at McDonnell Douglas in Seabrook, Maryland. We were supporting NASA's Goddard Space Flight Center, and D.J. made herself indispensable with her enthusiasm, intelligence, organizational skills and caring nature. At first I wasn't sure what to make of this little bundle of energy who dashed around the office with the heaviest footsteps I have ever heard from such a tiny person. But soon I connected with D.J., and we realized that we shared a deep love of animals.
D.J. took her love further than I. As you all know, she was a vegan who did not eat, wear or use any products that came from animals. Not even eggs or leather shoes. I'd never heard of such a strict vegetarian before, but D.J. quickly taught me about factory farming and the abuses and indignities suffered by animals in our food supply. I could never look at a piece of steak or chicken the same way again.
D.J. and I remained friends after she left the Baltimore/Washington area. We'd go months without talking, yet pick up the conversation right where we left off. She was like a tiny little big sister to me, always there with words of wisdom and a comforting heart. D.J. was the warmest, most giving person I have ever met. Even as she was going through the heartaches in her own life, she reached out to others in sympathy and genuine concern. For example, even while she was undergoing the tortures of her cancer treatments, she continued to send me articles and encouragement about my own medical condition.
After D.J. passed on, I seriously considered flying down to Austin for the gathering of friends and the memorial service. But that night, while I was half asleep, I imagined I was talking to D.J. In my mind's eye, I imagined she chided me for thinking about spending so much money to come down, when the money could be better spent on taking care of the animals she loved so much. So, that's what I'm going to do--donate money to animal welfare causes in her name. I think she would approve.
D.J. was a brilliant beacon of love and light, and our world is now dimmer because of her passing. But she lives in the memories we all carry and the kindnesses we show to others. As Bobby said, we should each try to live our life with a little more compassion in honor of D.J. In that way, she can always be with us, and her love--by extension through us--can continue to make this world a better place.
Peace and love,
Ryan, Amy, Hannah & Lily Erb
October 12, 2006
My wife and I moved to Oasis Dr about seven years ago and DJ and Bobby were, not surprisingly, the first to greet us. However, our relationship really began to grow once we had children. Our two daughters loved going over to Bobby and DJ's house and picking tomatoes or swinging on their hammock. I loved it when DJ would watch my children play and point out to them the simple beauties and pleasures that surround us on a daily basis. The selflessness DJ showed to me is pretty indicative of what I have read and heard since her passing. My family will miss her very much and I am sorry that my girls will not have her influence in their lives. I am very thankful for the short amount of time we were given with her.
Sheila Johnson
October 12, 2006
My sister, D.J., was truly blessed to have so many wonderful friends in her life. After meeting so many of you; I understand the love she had for each of you....she had plenty of love for all. Thank you for all your kind words.
Her Sister, Sheila Johnson
W. Jarrett Campbell
October 12, 2006
DJ is the reason I still LiveStrong.
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