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Tessa Waldheger
September 6, 2008
Dear Namy family,
I do not know you or your son Joel, but was touched by the story "A Great Loss to West Point" that was passed on to me. My brother, Ryan James Waldheger, passed away last April from ALL. I am his younger sister - and also his bone marrow donor. What an amazing young man you raised. I hope you continue to feel proud of him every single day. My brother was diagnosed at age 17 and passed away at age 28. He was a fighter too, just like your Joel. He would have reached out to Joel - inspired by his story - which is why I do the same to you.
Take care always.
Mark, Lynn & Zach Szigeti
July 18, 2008
Jeff & Bitsy
We have not had much contact over the last several years but have hoped earnestly for Joel’s well being. Lynn & I were crushed to hear belatedly of his passing. This registry speaks well of all the lives made better for having known him.
We will always remember him as he was the first time you invited us to your home which must have been almost 15 years ago. Strutting his stuff on Albany Street! Surely there are spruce trees in heaven.
God Bless
Keith & Kathy Namy
July 8, 2008
Last time we saw you was in 1994 when you graciously came to my dad's memorial service. (Your Uncle Paul.)
Now, we are so sorry to hear about the loss your son, Joel. So hard to lose a child! We will be praying for you.
laurie/frank coseglia
July 3, 2008
Frank and I are saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. I am so glad I had the opportunity to meet and speak with such a nice young man and his mother.
Diane Hall
June 26, 2008
Dear Namy's,
My son was in E-3 with Joel. As he prepares to leave for Camp Buckner, Renner shared with me how much he'll miss Joel. Joel was a very positive reinforcement during Renner's Plebe year - full of encouragement and hope. You can be very proud. May our Lord strengthen your love of Him until we all meet in Glory.
Ceri Riihiluoma
June 20, 2008
Dear Anne & The Namy Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are so saddened to hear of Joel's passing, as when we left he seemed to be doing so well. Deepest sympathies from our family to yours.
Big hugs from Allie & Lauren to you Anne.
With love, The Riihiluoma Family
Ron Patulski/ Training Champions Institute
June 18, 2008
To the Namy Family,
You know how we all feel about Joel here at the Institute. and the young man that he was. Although the flame of his life was relatively brief in terms of years, the impact of that flame of those he touched was significant. The impact of his flame will continue to burn at our training center. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Grant Whitford
June 18, 2008
Jeff and Family,
I am sorry to here of Joel's passing, he fought a very courageous battle. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Plebe Parent Weekend, October 2005, West Point
Joe Hunt
June 17, 2008
Joel -
Do you remember the first day we met? I do - right after the march back from Lake Frederick, I came into the room after starting reorgy week and you were standing there with all your stuff on the floor. You walked over and shook my hand, and then got chewed out by our team leader for "falling out."
We had a lot of good times - and a lot of really tough ones. I want to let you and your family know that your mental toughness is what got me through the first semester of West Point - without you there for sympathy, comic relief, and someone to complain to - I wouldn't have lasted past Christmas.
Remember Christmas 2005? I gave you two cigars and you gave me a shot glass? We promised that when we survived plebe year that we would drink scotch and smoke those two cigars - champions of the world. We never got to do that, because your first round of cancer took you away temporarily, and my leaving West Point in December 2006 made it a tad tougher.
I have tickets for Army/Navy 2008 - it was going to be a huge surprise...
So Joel I want you to know that your family is in my prayers as well as the prayers of thousands of others whose lives you touched. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
There better be a smoking and drinking section in heaven - I'll be bringing the scotch if you'll remember to grab those two cubans.
I love you man - thanks for everything.
Joe
Kristen Kearns
June 17, 2008
Dear Anne and The Namy Family
We are so sorry for your lose. We heard about Joel through Anne and what an amazing brother and son he was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you forever.
Kristen and Ken Kearns
Nicholas Velasco
June 16, 2008
Joel,
I can truly say you were a friend, a teammate, and a pal. Your questions were vast, and they not only educated you, but they educated everyone. Your smile will always be remembered and your pride will never be duplicated.
For the family stay strong and the Velasco's prayers are with you all. Lastly, thank you for providing me the oppurtunity to meet and know your son and brother.
Rob Lingo
June 16, 2008
I never met Joel, but as a soldier I felt compelled to attend the ceremony at Eastern Hills. The Major mentioned that he was saddened that soldiers will never experience Joel's leadership. But hearing from Joel's classmates convinced me that his toughness, tenacity, courage, and dedication will influence the next generation of Army leaders in the best possible way. He will be missed, but the Army will continue to feel Joel's influence for decades to come. To his family: Thank you so much for sharing Joel with us, even for a little while.
Jack Keller
June 16, 2008
I am sorry for your loss. We tailgeted with Joel at WP last year (a friend and team-mate of my son). He was extreamely polite and a gentlemen.
I know he will be missed.
Tyler Lawrence
June 16, 2008
To Joel,
As a younger kid, Joel was always someone I could look up to. Everyday you could see how he was different from other people. He was a huge influence on me and I would not be the same person today if it wasn't for him. He will always be remembered.
Michael Flood
June 16, 2008
To the Namy family. My thoughts and prayer go out to all of you.
Joel is a son to always by very proud of.
God bless you all
Martha Moore
June 16, 2008
Dear Jeff, Bitsy, Ann, Lee & Maggie,
We were all very saddened to hear of Joel's death. Life can take so many sharp turns that leave you reeling. You have our deepest sympathy. You will all stay in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Martha, LeRoy, Maggie & Willie
Laura Emhoff Frei
June 16, 2008
To the Namy family...
Our hearts go out to you all today...we wish we could be at the service to take part in celebrating Joel's life. It was an honor and a true pleasure to know him...to watch him grow up into such a neat young man of God. Although he is now in such a better place...it is still hard to understand losing him at such a young age...he had so much more to do here on earth. We will miss him and we grieve with you...our hearts are broken. We love you all...and send our prayers across the distance.
Jeff Glass
June 16, 2008
Dear Jeff,Bitsy,Anne,Lee & Maggie,
We are saddened by Joel's passing. He always was/will be a complete person in his love of family, God, life and the limitless people he reached out to. Please accept our heartfelt condolences in the Namy's family time of loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Jeff Glass & Family
Trisha Perry
June 16, 2008
Joel, You will be truely missed. You were an amazing person, always with a smile for anyone who needed it. Remember to look in on your 2005 grads now and again. We will miss you Joel.
Dan Miller
June 16, 2008
Joel, man, he was such a great guy. Always there to give you a smile, or give you his support. He was truly one of a kind and a very special individual. An individual that the world needs more of. It's so hard to find the words to express how I feel, my sympathies. I just can't believe he passed, he was such a strong person. I guess all I can do is pray for him and his family, and take solace in that I know God is with him now. I will miss you Joel, you stay strong man.
Michael J. Ross
June 15, 2008
Joel,
There is no other way to say this other than you’ll be missed by everyone. I will never forget the good times we shared together. Your presence has touched the lives of many over the years; please continue to be there for me big guy. You will always be known as one of the toughest kids I have ever known, and a great friend… MISS YA
- Oh remember don’t forget because I won’t …Golfing for Shooting…I’ll see you again!
Namy Family,
I cannot say this enough, if you need anything I am here for you.
Diane Dimond
June 15, 2008
Joel was a great kid and an outstanding young man. His loss leaves a hole in many, many hearts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Scott, Diane, Austin (caz 06) and Erin (caz 07) Tatum
Gary & Darlene Tregaskis
June 15, 2008
Jeff and Bitsy, Anne, Maggie and Lelan,
We just heard of Joel's death. Our hearts are deeply saddened for you and our prayers are with you. We have memories of Joel as the little one who sat in front of us at church and captured our hearts, along with Anne, who was his teacher in that role. We only met; but didn't get to know Maggie and Lelan. May God circle you and your dear family with His love and hope. So many prayers.
Gary and Darlene Tregaskis
Greg & Tish Overend
June 15, 2008
Bitsy, Jeff, and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Joel's passing. What a precious gift we had here with him for such a short time. You are all in our prayers and know that we, too, loved the "boy up the street" and will miss his presence.
Brenda, John and Mackenzie Romero
June 15, 2008
To the Namy Family,
You are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Our heartfelt sympathy is with you.
Thomas Butts
June 14, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about Joel
Michael Robbins
June 14, 2008
Jeff and Namy Family
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Leslie Meigs
June 14, 2008
Joel, I am truly saddened by your passing. I know that you are in a better place now and free from pain. It is still so hard to accept. Thank you for all that you were to not only our class in particular but so many others. You touched everyones life in one way or another.
Namy Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember that there is another incredible angel watching over all of us. My heart and prayers are with you!
The Wight Family
June 14, 2008
To the Namy family-
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve for your precious son. Joel was an incredible person and meant the world to all those who knew him. May he rest in peace now and may you all be at peace until one day when you will meet him again.
God bless your family.
Larry, Beth, Christopher (CAZ '05), Bryan (CAZ '08) and Andrew
Hannah Singer
June 14, 2008
Joel's passing is a terrible loss; he is the kind of person that the world cannot afford to be without. If we could honor his memory by living more like he did - with loyalty, generosity, faith, kindness, and happiness, we can keep his spirit alive. Joel is a truly inspiring individual, and we will never forget him.
Tom and Darlene Vecchi
June 14, 2008
Dear Jeff and family, we did not know your son, but we surely knew you Jeff, and your family.
He came from a great family, that makes for a great man.
Our deepest sympathy to all your son's family and friends.
jonathan fordyce
June 14, 2008
Although i never really new joel as a close friend he was a good person. I watched him help many others although he didnt have to. He was a great person. His name will always be rememberd. I give my best regards to joels family and our friends of the class of 2005. May he rest in peace and never be forgotten
Mo and Joanne Treadway
June 14, 2008
Anne and The Namy Family,
Our hearts go out to you at this time. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are here for you, always.
Cathy, Mike & Michael Crawford
June 13, 2008
Dear Jeff, Bitsy, Anne, Maggie and Leigh,
We are so sorry for your loss. Joel was a wonderful young man who made everyone feel great. We are all so blessed to have known him and will always remeber wat a wonderful, smart, athletic, kind, special man he was. He will be missed by everyone that had a chance to know him.
Glynn and Marti Cook
June 13, 2008
Dear Jeff, Bitsy and family....
Although we haven't been in contact that much over the years, we remember your family - especially Marti from Dr. Fauth's office and watching the kids grow up....there are no words to express our sympathy. Having just gone thru losing our own son in January, the wounds are very real and raw...our advice to you is to soak up everything everyone is offering you - let them love and serve you...it's the only way you'll get thru this. Our love and prayers reach out to you. God bless. Glynn and Marti Cook
Randy Button
June 13, 2008
Jeff and family,
My dearest sympathies during this time. Words alone can't express my thoughts. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Randy Button, Pall Trinity Micro
Jason Cook
June 13, 2008
Joel, though it seems so long since high school, it feels like it was only yesterday that you helped teach me on the field. I appreciate every thing you've done, you will be missed by many, and never forgotten by all.
Samantha Butler
June 13, 2008
Joel Namy is a name the class of 2005 always loved and will never forget, my heart and prayers go out to all that are grieving...stay strong because Joel was a strong young man and a great person. May he Rest In Piece and watch out for his family and friends.
Karen and Alan Durston
June 13, 2008
Our hearts go out to Joel's family,
including aunts, uncles and cousins.
We are saddened and keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob Lynch & Family
June 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, No words could possibly express our deepest sympathy. Someone so special... can never be forgotten. May your fondest memories of Joel comfort, such a tremendous loss.
Dick, Maureen, Zack and Eli Mitchell
June 13, 2008
Dear Bitsy, Jeff, Ann, Lee, and Maggie --
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday. Joel was one of the finest young men we will ever know -- an ideal role model for our young boys. We feel privileged to have known him, however briefly. We are deeply sorry.
In thoughts,
Max Schoenfeld
June 13, 2008
i ultimately hate to do this on the web, but Joel was one of my favorite people i met in my time in Cazenovia. he was always there for me along with his family and i will always love his humor and his sensibility. i always thought you would work through any problem presented to you and that you were the strongest person i have ever known. Love and hope peace absolves you, where ever you may be. I really can say say any more then my peace is with you Joel.
Craig and Julia Hayden
June 12, 2008
Dear Coach Namy, Bitsy and Family,
At this time, please know that you are carried closely in our hearts. Joel was a true blessing, a young man of great character. We pray for God's grace to cradle you now and in the days ahead. Please take comfort where possible, surrounding yourself with special friends and those you love dearly. With our deepest sympathy, You are in our prayers -
Lizzie Barlow
June 12, 2008
Joel was a fun, friendly, and all around great person. One of my favorite memories of Joel is from first grade when he used to share stories about Davy Crockett during "show and tell" everyday until he had to be cut off by the teacher. In high school he brought humor to every class. Joel will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with the Namy family.
Crystal Kelly
June 12, 2008
"What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." -HW Beecher. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Robyn Schokker
June 12, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Lyndsy Clark
June 12, 2008
Joel, I can't even tell you how much you are going to be missed. I'll never forget 4th grade when you used to talk to the class about all your war stories.. and all the memories before and after that will never be forgotten. Class of 2005 will never be the same without you and you will be missed so much by everyone. My prayers are with the Namy's.
Julie and Bob Carr
June 12, 2008
to Jeff Bitsy, Anne,Maggie and Leigh,
We are so sorry to hear about your brother and son. It is hard losing someone so young. We know how hard it is in the beginning. Hold on tight to the love of your very stong family. God Bless You all.
David Gross
June 12, 2008
Jeff , Bitsie and Family- I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your son. It was a most courageous and hard fought battle ! It is difficult for us to understand the reasons for the Lord to take a loved one so early in life, but know he is now resting in peace. My heart pours out for you. I offer prayers and deepest sympathy in this most deep time of sorrow.
Ali
June 12, 2008
Every memory of Joel I have makes me laugh. It is so sad to see such a young soul leave us too soon. My thoughts and prayers are with the Namy family.
Diane Hill
June 12, 2008
Dear Jeff:
I speak not only for myself, but for those of us who've had the pleasure of working with you throughout the years at Pall Trinity Micro.....our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please find comfort in knowing that Joel is with the angels and at peace.
Ally Loretz
June 12, 2008
Joel,
everyone misses you so much! I wish you could see how much you've affected all of us! It is hard to
say how I feel. At first, I felt horribly sad (and still do), but now I've realized that you are the luckiest of all because you are with God.
God Bless you Joel!
Thomas Driscoll
June 12, 2008
Joel-
I will never forget all the great memories we had throughout highschool. You always were there to give me a good laugh or give me your opinion on some topic which was always great to hear. You will truely be missed by the people that you impacted in such a positive way. You have taught me to cherrish life and everything i have and i will always be grateful for that advice. you will be in our hearts forever.
p.s. save a spot up there for me. love ya buddy
Karyn Duszak
June 12, 2008
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers in your time of sorrow. Joel was a wonderful young man and I'm proud to have known him. May God bless you, and time allow you to heal.
Sarah Schall
June 12, 2008
Namy Family- I know there are no words that can bring the slightest comfort or peace to your hearts. When we believe what we believe, faith in God is our only peace in a time of such pain. Know where Joel is and know that HE no longer feels pain, it is only us who grieve because a loved one has been chosen to go with Jesus before us. You will be together again!!
Know my prayers are always with you...
June 12, 2008
Joel was truly loved by many...his humor, gentle heart and kind ways will always be remembered. We will miss him so much! Our prayers for your family are never ending.
The Siracuse Family
Emily Talbot
June 12, 2008
Dear Namy family, I am so sorry to hear of Joel's passing. He was a great friend and always brought humor and joy to his friends lives, he will be greatly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Billy Paben
June 12, 2008
Dear Namy family,
I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with Joel and your family. It is going to be hard on the whole class of 2005 but your family would always have a place in are hearts.
Jay Steinhorst
June 12, 2008
Joel will certainly be missed, but never forgotten. On and off the field, he was a living example of what 'Laker Pride' in Cazenovia is all about.
My deepest sympathies to the Namy family. God bless you Joel.
Julia Cornue
June 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. We all loved Joel and he will be truly missed.
Mallory Clark
June 12, 2008
Joel,
I have so many memories of all the times we've all had together. Having fun at dances, in class (you contradicting every single teacher!), during sports, and expecally you giving me rides home all of those times in senoir year. I love you & hope you know that. I really wish that I was able to see more of you, but I know you are in a better place right now. I am praying for your family & hope that they will get through this with the strength you have given them. You are truly an angel.
SUSAN POPEK
June 12, 2008
Our hearts are heavily saddened for your loss and for all who had the wonderful opportunity to know Joel. He was a wonderful young man, a team player and a caring human being. He will be missed by all. Our deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends. Sincerely, Stoch, Susan, Shanelle,Star & Derek Popek
Tom DiStasio
June 12, 2008
Dear Namy family,
I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with Joel and your family.
Darlene Pulkinen
June 12, 2008
We send our deepest sympathies to the whole Namy family. Joel was such a nice, sincere young man. It's a great loss for everyone who had the privilege to know Joel.
Kenneth J. Tiss
June 12, 2008
Joel will be missed by many. I have good memories of Joel as he wrestled my son Ken throughout their high school careers. He was an outstanding young man with the qualities we all wish for our own children. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.
John & MaryAnn Lansing
June 12, 2008
Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. Please know that your friends are with you and know that God will bring comfort & understanding.
Cindy Salce
June 12, 2008
To the Namy family: My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Through the years I have come to know your family, and you should be very proud of the wonderful young man he was. Treasure and keep close to your heart all the memories, as they will help to carry you through this most difficult time. God bless you all.
Barbara Karper
June 12, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Pat & Patty Costello
June 12, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Jon Schneckenburger
June 12, 2008
I am so sorry for your Loss. Joel was a great guy with an amazing heart. You all are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Sue Wasilewski
June 12, 2008
Dear Bitsy and family. I am very sorry to hear of Joel's passing. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue Wasilewski
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