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Sandra Manfredo (Scarpena)
July 14, 2019
I'm so sorry Jimmy to learn of your son. I've thought about you and your family often since you moved from Tonawanda. I tried messaging you through a friends FB earlier this year, but still have not hear from you. Embracing special memories of yesterday. You will always be a friend of mine. My thoughts and prayers are with you still.
With Heartfelt Condolences,
Sandra Manfredo (Scarpena)
Ronda & Jeffery Kulas
November 25, 2008
Jim, we are so sorry to hear about Tommy. Our heart goes out to you and your family. We think of you guys often and keep you in our prayers.
All our sympathy...
November 25, 2008
To Tommy's Family
Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your son/brother. I remember watching him wrestle at Lee-Davis with my children.
Laura Conway
November 11, 2008
To the family:
My deepest sympathies go out to you all. I lost my brother in '05, Mike Conway, who was a friend of Tommy's. I clearly remember him calling Tommy "Beatles". There is nothing anyone can do to ease your pain...just know he's looking down on you and hopefully is with all of those we have lost...and we will see them all again. My prayers are with you all.
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Michael, Leigh & Dara Coffey
November 7, 2008
We were so sorry to hear about Tommy. We truly understand the depth of your loss, having lost our son, Josh, only 8 months ago. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take comfort from those around you and let them help you. If we can do ANYTHING for you, please let us know. We recently moved from Mechanicsville but are still in the area. Our daughter, Dara, went to school with Deena. If Deena would like to talk to her, let us know. Take care and may God be with you.
Doug and Deb Myers
October 31, 2008
JB and family,
We just heard about Tommy. No words can ease the pain and sadness you feel at this time, we know that. A parent's worst nightmare is a loss of their child. We are so sorry that you are living this now.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Please know that you will be held in our hearts, not just today but in the days and months that follow.
Hold tight to your family and treasure the memories/times you shared with Tommy.
Those treasured memories are what nothing can steal from you.
May you surround yourselves with loving family and friends to find the strength to make it through this tragedy.
With sincerest sympathy,
(Zprint03 and DebsZoo)
Annette Shaw (Whitt)
October 31, 2008
Deena and family,
We moved in Raven Run when Tommy was about 4 and lived there for 15 years. I watched him grow up as well as Deena. My daughter April went to school with him from Battlefield to Lee Davis, my son Matthew with Deena through Oak Knoll. I can't tell you how very sorry and broken hearted I am.
Deena, I used to babysit you and watched you grow up to be the creative talented young woman you are now and will be thinking and praying for you. Please let me know if you need anything. Take one day at a time.
April Bischoff
October 31, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I went to school with Tommy and grew up only a few doors down from him. He will truly be missed. I recently lost my father and couldn’t imagine losing a son or brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Tonya Tomlin
October 31, 2008
I am so soory to the family and friends of Tommy. I knew him in high school, and he was a wonderful person. My prayers are with you all.
Glen Stanley and Theresa Lindamood
October 30, 2008
To the Beck family,
Glen and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to each of you with this devastating loss and at an extremely challenging time. Jack, please let us know if we can help you in any way. We know there will be a huge void left in your life, so don't hesitate to call on us... We are here for you! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. We hope that you and your family will enjoy all the great memories that are left in your hearts of Tommy and this will bring some peace and comfort for you.
Love,
Your Tuckahoe Lodge friends
Pamela McGhee Smith
October 30, 2008
To the family of Tommy - Please accept my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy. I went to school with Tommy and he was always very polite to everyone. Deena I want to let you know that I share in your pain as I lost my older sister almost 5 years ago. If you ever want to talk please contact me and I'll be glad to listen or help you in any way that I can.
Sarah Cologne
October 30, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
David & Cheryl McGhee
October 30, 2008
There is no greater pain for a parent to bear than to lose one of their children. Please accept our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your son and brother. We lost our own daughter 4+ years ago and she also went to Lee Davis. We feel and share in your pain. May God wrap His loving arms around you all and give you strength and comfort. Please contact us if you ever want to talk.
Virgie Scott
October 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lisa De Paul Abel
October 30, 2008
Jimmy,
I am so sorry for your loss - I haven't seen Tommy since he was a little boy. I can't imagine the pain you are all in. Know that we are thinking of you and praying for you in this terrible time.
Your cousin,
Lisa
Connie DeWitt
October 30, 2008
Dear Jack, JoAnn and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Connie DeWitt
Tracy Lewis
October 30, 2008
My deepest sympathy to you all. Please know I am thinking of you all and praying for you all and for Tommy.
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