Betty Jo Barns "B. J." Potell

Betty Jo Barns "B. J." Potell

Betty Potell Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Dec. 9 to Dec. 10, 2008.
POTELL, Mrs. Betty Jo "B.J." Barns, of Chesterfield, wife of Albert "Al" J. Potell, died on December 7, 2008 after a courageous battle with lung cancer. B.J. was born August 21, 1933 in Welch, West Virginia, to the late Robert Joseph and Maggie Nichols Barns. She is survived by her husband, Albert "Al" J. Potell; two children, Debbie Beirne and David Gearhart; three grandchildren, Lucas Beirne, Dallas Gearhart and Kelsey Gearhart; and one great-grandchild, Skylar Ramsey. Memorial services are private. Memorial donations may be made to St. Francis Humane Association, P.O. Box 73622, Richmond, Va. 23235.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Kelsey Johsnon

June 10, 2025

Granny-

16.5 years ago, you left this lush realm to go live with our heavenly father. May he continue to soothe you and love you just as you are.

I miss you so much every day, and I wish I could have just one more day with you —a day to ask you all the questions, listen to all your stories and experiences, to hear your voice, to laugh and cry with you, but mainly for one more squeezy-hug.

Life is hard sometimes, and it is never fair. Your love for me was, and still is, unconditional and without boundaries. I know you are so proud of me and would tell me if you could. Remembering your love is easy, but acknowledging the pain of your absence is not, and I will forever be grateful for your love and protection.

Granny, I miss you dearly. Please continue to guide me from where you are to a life of fulfillment and contentment.

Virginia Reynolds

December 9, 2008

To Betty's family:

Betty was my best friend for nearly 15 years, and I am very thankful that she was in my life.

Over the years we had a lot of good times together and my mind is overflowing with the many memories.

Betty and I shared a love for animals and her support for St. Francis Humane Association is very much appreciated. Her devotion to Molly and her two kitties was so heartwarming.

Betty was a "no-nonsense gal" with a big heart, and she has a place in my heart forever.

My deepest sympathy goes to the family.

Frances Sanchez

December 9, 2008

Betty!..

I miss you already!. It is around 11:00 a.m just in time to talk to you before your stories! Betty... Thank you so much for being the Grandmother I never had. Thank you for all the words of wisdom, the friendship, and the encouragment to start my life and figure out this journey! I think I may get that cat that we were last talking about. So send me a a nice friendly cat .. because you know I feel about those fiesty ones! Also.. I will think of you when I have my green tea and cookies!. you know that was our favorite!. Betty.. Rest in Peace.. because you have lived your life... and the memories that we have shared will never be forgotten!

MISS You!.. And I love you!

Love,

Frances

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