Elizabeth Ann Killam

Elizabeth Ann Killam

Elizabeth Killam Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Sep. 11, 2009.
KILLAM, Elizabeth Ann, of Midlothian, died on Thursday, September 3, 2009, in Baltimore, Maryland. Beth is survived by her husband, best friend and buddy, Baker and their three children, Katy (Mark) Stedina, Hal (Amy) Killam and Amy Killam (Eric). She is also survived by her grandson, Adam Stedina; her mom, Ann Ols and several siblings and brothers and sisters-in-law. Beth was born in Cleveland, Ohio. She was a graduate of John Tyler Community College and Mary Baldwin College. Beth was the owner of Elizabeth A. Killam, LLC, a web design firm catering to small businesses. She was a member of her community recreation association and was the webmaster for the association and her book club. She reveled in laughter, was irreverent when others were reverent, and loved a good drink and a bad joke. To her kids she was the patron saint of trouble, either getting them out of it or getting them into it. She had a passion for traveling, the arts, humorous situations, culinary feats (and feasts) and leading her family from adventure to adventure. There was never a holiday too big or a party too small that Beth couldn't make into something more grand. Her friends in the book club traveled with her along a path of great reads and even greater conversation and humor. When her family and friends were in need, she was always compassionate and ready to go the extra mile. Beth was a delight to her friends and a challenge to those that weren't. The reasons we all loved her are both varied and unique. Beth's laugh was distinct, almost bawdy. Her wit was quick, sometimes bizarre, yet always thought provoking. Beth didn't tolerate well those who had no love for their fellow man or the environment that surrounds and supports us all. She was clever, creative, original, and one-of-a-kind in all her endeavors. Fortunately for all of us, she has endowed these qualities and attributes on her children and grandchild. Lord knows we will miss her love and gentleness, wit and wisdom, companionship and friendship, and qualities too numerous to enumerate.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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September 24, 2009

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September 15, 2009

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Adam Stedina

January 31, 2024

Im just finding out about my grandma, i was too young to remember her but ive heard great stories

Tom & LaVerne McElwee

September 24, 2009

We are just finding out about Beth's death. We are sorry that we could not have been with you as you said your last "I love you" to her. Baker, you were so present to us when Tom was going through his bout with cancer; you and Beth made such a difference in our lives. Beth was such a CLASSY lady and such a delight to be around. Her radiance was apparent the moment she was in our midst. Singing brought our a passion in Beth that for those around her was contagious; the choir had many great times watching her laugh and enjoy life. We grieve with you and your family and we will ALWAYS remember Beth....she made an impression on all of us.
Tom and LaVerne McElwee, Chesterfield, VA

September 15, 2009

Beth Love,
I will miss you at the Book Club, I always enjoyed listening to you. I wish I had known that you liked cigars.
I brought some Cuban's back from Scotland that we could have enjoyed together. You were my Secret Santa. I loved the book you gave to me at Christmas and I will treasure it forever. I am sorry I missed your memorial but I visited Kindred Spirit and said a special prayer for you. You were a Kindred Spirit!
Terri Janca, Midlothian, Virginia

Lori Ross

September 14, 2009

Beth,
Thank you for joining us at Book Club and giving us your own unique perspectives.
It's hard to think you won't physically be with us each month, but our memories of you will be of a happy, interesting person who expected to be with us next month same as we did.
To her family, she spoke of you all often. Baker and kids, after the pain passes, your memories and stories of Beth will be with you forever - and keep you good company.

carolyn horton

September 13, 2009

What a lovely tribute to a gentle, funny, wonderful woman. Those of us from the "Happy Bookers" will miss her terribly. I know I looked forward each month to hearing her interpretation of our reading, and often learned a new way of looking at something. Thanks, Beth, for being part of my world. And, thanks to her family for allowing Jerry and I to be part of the celebration of life on Saturday.

Liz Motley

September 12, 2009

Beth helped me to become the women I am today. She always made me laugh, and think about life. I always was inspired to do the right thing because of her love and wisdom. She always made every holiday and birthday speical for me. She gave Godiva for my 16th birthday, and always got me presents from New York. She got me a ring from Tiffanys that I wear everyday, and a pen I write with. She was the best women I know, and the coolest aunt. I felt I could tell her anything, and she loved it. She knew how to throw parties, and when I turned 21 I loved to have cocktails with her. Beth inspired me everyday, and the rest of my college life, and life will be a testment to her greatness. Aunt Beth, I know you are looking down from heaven(with a Manhatten in one hand, and a fine cigar in the other), dressed in some fab outfit, feasting on chocolate with Pop and Grandma Ols. I miss you and will always love you, and thank you for everything you did for me.
Love,
Your Cookie
Lizzie

Ruth Anne Shorter

September 11, 2009

We are saddened at your loss of your wife, mother, and grandmother. We are happy that you have such wonderful memories to share. Knowing Beth, she lived life to the fullest. I am glad to have known her, it is tough thinking of death, but Jesus, our Lord, conquered death on the cross.

September 11, 2009

Shall claim of death cause us to grieve and make our courage faint and fall? Nay! Let us Faith and Hope receive - the Rose still grows beyond the wall.
Curt and Rosemary (Ols) Nemchak
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