Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home, Inc. - Rensselaer

165 Columbia Turnpike

Rensselaer, New York

Margaret Stanley Obituary

Stanley, Margaret E. EAST GREENBUSH Margaret E. (Anderson) Stanley, age 82, passed away peacefully at her East Greenbush residence Sunday, March 23, 2008. Born in New Baltimore, N.Y., she had been a resident of the Capital Region her entire life. Margaret was a homemaker, and belonged to the Adirondack Bluegrass League. Predeceased by her parents, Charles and Edna B. (Boice) Anderson; her husband, Thomas J. Stanley; a son, Richard C. Stanley; and a sister, Adella Hoffman. She is survived by her daughters, Alona E. (Stephen) Rickert of Averill Park, Kathleen A. (Thomas) Walker of Colonie, Donna J. (Edward) Borsuk of Virginia Beach; her sons, Thomas (Kitty) Stanley Jr. of Wilder, Vt., Robert M. (Sue Ann) Stanley of Castleton. She was the proud Nanny of 11 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. Margaret was the loving matriarch of her extended family and will be greatly missed by all. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her funeral 9:00 a.m. Thursday from the Rockefeller Funeral Home, 165 Columbia Tpk., Rensselaer, N.Y. Friends may call in the funeral home on Wednesday evening from 4-7 p.m. Interment will be in Chestnut Lawn Cemetery, New Baltimore. The family has requested that those who wish, may make contributions to the Capital District Habitat for Humanity, 454 North Pearl Street, Albany, NY 12204 in her memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albany Times Union from Mar. 25 to Mar. 26, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Margaret Stanley

Not sure what to say?





Gwen Stanley

May 8, 2008

I miss you so much nanny. There is so much to thank you for, including the traits you've passed on to me. many of my happiest memories are of staying overnight with you and pa. you both loved and accepted all of us, and i strive to have the big hearts that you both do. i am proud to be your granddaughter.

Rosemary Barnhart

April 22, 2008

Margaret,
What a shock. I could not believe that you were gone on Easter morning. I am happy though, that you got your wish to die while sleeping. I will miss our phone calls and our movies on Sundays. I will miss you always. No one can take your place.

Love,
Your Best Friend,
Rosemary

Tammy Cowin

March 31, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of the passing Of margaret. I will miss her tremendously. I remember growing up at bluegrass festivals and always seeing Tom & Margaret listening and never missing a show. She has been a member of the Adirondack Bluegrass LEague for many years and before that the SMokey Greene Fan CLub. Margaret would always try to help my mother at the Smokey Greene Booth. She would go home with MANY ITEMS. She was a kind and caring person and I always looked foward to talking with her. She always cared about what I was doing. I wish I had known sooner so I could have attended her wake.She will be missed by myself, and the Adirondack Bluegrass League. Our condolences for your loss.

Joe Casella

March 29, 2008

Tom, Alona, Robert, Kathlene and Donna...I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother. May God comfort you as she is welcomed into His Kingdom.

Maragret was always very special to me. I have many fond childhood memories of both of your parents and the many laughs and fun times we shared are your home in Sherwood Park.

I'll never forget Margaret's laugh and smile. She will be missed.

Dick Stock

March 26, 2008

I'm sorry my family responsibilities kept me from sharing these thoughts with Margaret's friends and family tonight. Margaret and Tom Stanley were among the first fans that the Hilltown Ramblers had when we were just starting out and they would come to every gig. We would even practice at their home sometimes. No matter how bad we were they always encouraged us to keep at it. It buoyed us so to see Margaret from time to time after Tom's passing. I think Margaret's smile said the same thing to everyone- LOVE. I'm sure she's with Tom listening to some fine bluegrass right now. We are all blessed for having crossed their pathes. All our best from all the Hilltown Ramblers.

Richard Sherwood

March 26, 2008

Sorry to hear about your mom. She will always hold a specail place in my heart. She is up there with Tom telling him everything thats going on down here, and listing to bluegrass music. Richie and Louise

Jim Corellis

March 26, 2008

Our prayers go out to the Stanley family. Thank you Margaret for
being such a great friend to our Grandmother. I will miss our occassional meeting at her house where you would always give me a big smile and hug. Surely an Angel in Heaven, we shall see you soon. Love Jimmy and Family

Lorraine & Ted Stults (Hoffman)

March 26, 2008

Aunt Margaret
Even though we are saddened beyond words that you have made the journey to Heaven, we know that you are happy to be with Tommy, Nan and Pa. Like the Lighthouses you treasured so dearly, your light will shine on us from Heaven as you journey through our Lord’s Kingdom. Yes, your passing saddens us very much, but the memory of your love and kindness will live with us forever. God Bless You

Kenny and Nance Rivers

March 26, 2008

Alona, Steve, Mike-

Thinking of You, and wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow,
comfort in the midst of pain.

With Heartfelt Sympathy

BILL,RONI AND FAMILY BARNHART

March 25, 2008

THE STANLEY FAMILY
WE WERE SAD TO HEAR OF YOUR MOM'S SUDDEN DEATH. SHE TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES AND WILL BE MISSED SO MUCH. SHE WAS SUCH A SPECIAL PERSON TO OUR FAMILY, TOO. WE ALWAYS TRIED TO SEE HER WHEN WE WERE IN THE ALBANY AREA . FOR SHE HAD A WONDERFUL ATTITUDE. WE LOVED HER LAUGH. AND SHE LOOKED FORWARD TO OUR CORNY CHRISTMAS LETTERS, WHICH ONLY A GREAT PERSON COULD DO.

Amy Barnhart

March 25, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. She was very special to many people.

Susie Carducci (Hoffman)

March 25, 2008

My family and I are deeply saddened by Aunt Margarets passing. She was such a loving and kind woman and I was so fond of her. When my grandmother (Margarets Sister, Del) passed away, I stayed with Aunt Margaret at her apartment for a few days when I flew up from Florida. We had such a a nice visit durring a very trying time in both of our lives. I will truly never forget her - but I know she is in heaven with Tommy and Nanny - playing a great game of cards I am sure.

Audrey & Keith Bent

March 25, 2008

Alona & Steve,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Time heals all wounds and love forever lives within all our hearts. Our deepest condolences.

Jim Pesnichak

March 25, 2008

Stanleys,

Barb and Jim Pesnichak remember in our own ways the love and giving of Margret Stanley. Certainly Jim, who has spent many days on California Avenue to play base ball and ride bikes.

Karen Asmus (Hoffman)

March 25, 2008

It has been quite a few years since I've seen Aunt Margaret, but I will always remember her. She was always so bubbly and friendly when we were kids we loved to be around her. When she would come to FL. to visit Nanny and PA Hoffman we would always laugh!!!!!! You will greatly be missed!!!

Char Hughes

March 25, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child.
You were like a second "Mom" - I will miss your wonderful smile and zest for life!

Joe and Judy Hoffman

March 25, 2008

Aunt Margaret:
We are sorry you couldn't visit us this winter. We will miss you. Say hello to Tommy and Nanny and Pa for us...

Marilyn Barnhart

March 25, 2008

Our sympathy on the loss of your Mom, Grandmom and Great Grandmom.
I can still remember going to Christmas Eve at your California Avenue house when I was very little(when there were no other houses around) and eating snacks and opening a gift. It is something that always stuck out as a special time between our families.
With Sympathy,

Francesca and

Laura Lambrecht (Corellis)

March 25, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. Memories of all the Stanley/Barnhart get together's at Christmas time when I was little, will always make me smile. My thoughts are with her family at this difficult time. Love, Laura

Susan Corellis

March 25, 2008

And so it begins, my friend, your Beautiful Spiritual Journey.
We'll miss you ... Love, Susan Corellis

Larry & MaryLou Feathers

March 25, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Showing 1 - 21 of 21 results

Make a Donation
in Margaret Stanley's name

Memorial Events
for Margaret Stanley

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home, Inc. - Rensselaer

165 Columbia Turnpike, Rensselaer, NY 12144

How to support Margaret's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Margaret Stanley's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more