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for Cindy Myers
Charlene McAvoy
August 7, 2024
I miss Cindy´s great personality. After her getting a haircut she always swept up the hair without getting out of the chair.
Cindy always made me smile.
Missing you my friend
Valerie Sacks
August 19, 2008
I can not begin to express how much Cindy meant to me.She was truly an amazing person that always had someone elses best interest at heart. I was lucky that Cindy was my supervisor for many years at ACDSS. She became a great mentor and friend to me over the years. Cindy was always available to listen to me or to assist in any way she could. We enjoyed many good times togther during our Food Stamp and PSQI years, no matter how serious things were at times Cindy always came up with solutions to make things better. Not a day goes by that I don't think to myself what would Cindy do, or how would Cindy handle this. Cindy changed my life as well as the life of numerous others at ACDSS . I will forever remember her saying "Proceed until Apprehended". and her commitment to excellence. I wish I had one more chance to tell Cindy how much she meant to me.
Georgeanne Meeneghan
August 18, 2008
Cindy a treasured friend and colleague taught me so much about the meaning of unconditional friendship. She loved to make people laugh especially me, when she laughed it was bottomless and heard by many. She enjoyed going to dinner or supper as she called it, we had a standing joke that if you went out to supper with Cindy, she would want to do it again and so we went out and enjoyed a meal together many times. She had favorite restaurants and somehow, we would end up there, but I didn’t mind it was always an amazing time. She had a funny way of ordering her food, which amused and sometimes embarrassed me but nevertheless, we went out for supper many times because we enjoyed eachother's company, and always had a terrific time. We were planning another supper visit in a few weeks, how I wish we planned it sooner.
She appreciated working for Albany County Department of Social Services and enjoyed the many challenges. A few days before her untimely death, we had a nice conversation about work, among other ther things, and how good she felt being there after returning from a short leave of absence. She told me how kind and considerate the Commissioner, Deputy Commissioner and the entire staff was to her, and how they expressed their joy for her return to work. There were always project she couldn’t wait to begin, because it would make things so much easier and straightforward for the employees, and that gave her so much pleasure. She would travel through the Agency with her walker greeting people and asking, how can I make things easier for you, what can I do to help or how can I assist you? Often she would start a conversation with, have I told you how much you’re appreciated and how wonderful you are?
Cindy never said an unkind word about anyone; she was truly one of a kind, her faith was strong. She loved and cherished her family and friends; her passing is an immense loss. Cindy will be forever remembered as a wonderful friend, coach and mentor.
LOVE YOU, George.
Lisa Freedman
August 18, 2008
Anyone who knew Cindy Lee Myers knew that it made her happy to both teach and learn. I can say with confidence that she was very happy in her last days at work. She had a couple of projects that were so difficult and required so much research and digging that she was positively giddy!
I knew Cindy for almost 20 years. During that time we did not always see eye to eye. Most recently - for the work week just before her passing - we had a wonderful time working on a project together and rebuilding our relationship, which had sustained some damage. We had a difficult discussion about what went wrong and both agreed that we grew from the experience. After that, we laughed during each conversation. And we (she) got the job done! We were also able to take great shared delight in the irony surrounding some recent changes in job assignments. Of all the many moments that Cindy and I shared over 20 years, this was the most poignant for me. Because it brought us full circle to a new starting place. I am sad that the new start came so swiftly and irrevocably to an end.
I began this note by talking about Cindy as a teacher. Being associated with Cindy informed not only my career, but my life. In her passing, she re-taught me an important lesson about not letting a misunderstanding - even a very serious one - ruin a relationship.
It is said that, after death, people live on in the hearts of those who cherish their memory. Cindy lives on in my heart, and in the very soul of ACDSS. The echo of her laughter and the impact of her years of loving service, sometimes in spite of difficult obsticles, will be cherished here for as long as anyone who had the honor of working with her must now work without her.
Joe Grondahl
August 18, 2008
Joe & Loretta & all who loved Cindy -
I don't remember my life without Cindy, my parents having opened their doors to her as a college student in 1974 when I was 4. She fast became an informal member of the family, and so often joined us for holidays or Sunday afternoons it seemed odd when she was not there.
As a kid I remember she was completely full of life and joy - she was almost like a kid herself. She was quick to laugh, and always laughed the longest. In church she sang so loud you could not hear yourself next to her. She taught us how to play ping-pong and could really move. She hummed all the time.
As I grew older I came to realize that she was also the smartest person I'd likely ever know. It seemed like she knew everything, retained everything, and remembered everything. Legend has it she got a perfect score on the LSAT, though she never used it. When she didn't know something, she always knew how to devise some ingenious plan to find out what she needed in the most efficient way possible. Whenever we got really stuck in school, my folks would say 'why dont you call Cindy?' And she would come through.
As an adult, I came to respect how she used her gifts. While she could have accomplished anything she wished, she chose to make her impact quietly, one person at a time. Tutoring people. Inspiring confidence in others. Keeping her department running for the sake of all those it helped. Listening more than she spoke, though she could have won any argument. She even used her academic mind when it came to her faith - never wavering in her love for Jesus yet never fearing to attempt to discern where Biblical truth departed from human interpretation.
The first thing I thought of when I had heard that Cindy passed was Jesus' instruction about Heaven. How the most honored in Heaven will be the people who were humble and faithful on earth, and the least honored in Heaven will be those who enjoyed much wealth and acclaim on Earth (the first shall be last and the last shall be first). Cindy took some real lumps in life – she lost her mother as a child, suffered from chronic health problems, never owned a home, never got to travel, never knew the wonder of falling in love or the joy of having a family of her own. Yet she loved God, shared freely of her gifts with all who asked of them, and was quick to warm a heart with her smile. Surely right now, she is among the first in heaven and is happy beyond belief.
I will miss her, but celebrate an amazing woman who lived an amazing life.
Rob and Barbara Scofield
August 16, 2008
Cindy and I shared a college dorm room, Greek class, and prayer. She was and editor for some of my academic writing and a support and encouragement to me. Rob and I were blessed by her friendship.
Michele Reedy
August 15, 2008
There are not enough words in the entire Universe to describe what a wonderful and caring person Cindy was. She was always willing to lend a hand where needed, even if both hands were full. Cindy also helped me gain the self esteem and presence to know that I could do anything I put my mind and heart into. Cindy will forever be a part of who I am because she will never leave my heart. Our paths will cross again someday, and "Kay Scarpetta" will have solved many more crimes for us to discuss!
Cathy Oliver
August 14, 2008
Cindy, “I cjktm’satiac”. Just to phrase a famous quote between you and me. Ah to be back at 112 State and the simpler times or it seemed that way at the time. We all know, that it’s the person behind the scenes running the show, Thank God that we had you. Where do I start to tell you how much you were appreciated, loved and how much you have been and will be missed? There aren’t enough words in the world to begin to tell you how much I appreciate you, your friendship and all the support you have given Tiffany and I all these years. Tiffany would come to me and ask if I thought that she should call you with a problem. I would say; What did Cindy tell you to do? I would hear her on the phone talking to you and figuring out what she was working on and what she had problems with, sometimes for hours or maybe; a minute or so. But, always there, no matter what. I will never forget your kindness. Starting from day one. I admired your drive to help those who were less fortunate and your determination to help them succeed. I don’t know what we would have done without your help. I am sitting here thinking of how to put my feelings into words, and my mind went blank. You know, I was never too good at putting down the words and making them seem coherent. You could always read between the lines and figure out what I was trying to say, anyways. That was a confidence booster. I do miss those times. I miss my little improvised corner of FS. “Don’t touch the little yellow box” no matter what. Just to quote another famous person I know. I smile every time I think about that. I am sitting here thinking of our Sunday breakfast and a quick stop at Borders. I was always in the Spiritual section and you and Tiffany were off exploring the rest of Borders. You knew where to find me. I miss those days. Borders, then a quick stop at maybe Price Chopper or McDonald's for an Iced Tea. I know you will be watching over us. I hope the spirit world is ready for you. If not, you'll have them whipped into shape into no time. See you soon.
Love you, Cathy Dwileski, Appio,Slocum, Oliver
Tiffany M. Dwileski
August 14, 2008
This is a story of a young mind saved by a selfless act of another. This was I, just twelve years old – a young adult struggling with life; with few goals and aspirations, failing grades and little hope for success. My mother – desperate to help me, asked Cindy to tutor me; she being the brightest woman my mother ever knew…and Cindy happily agreed.
Our relationship started this way, starting from once a week telephone calls to daily help with assignments. My failing grades dramatically rose, and so did my self-esteem. Our goals were inspired by Spencer Johnson’s “Who Moved My Cheese?” - a book explaining the obstacles that get in the way of reaching our goals and how to overcome them.
We would meet every Sunday for breakfast at the Circle Diner in Latham, her favorite place, and we’d talk for hours about science and math, about her teachers and mine. We never had a dime to spare to pay her for helping me, though she never wanted for any. Our breakfast would always follow by a trip to Borders, browsing through the study guides pertaining to my classes at the time. Cindy would extend her generosity and buy me books to help me when I needed it.
When I got my acceptance letter into my first four-year college of choice, she was the first person I called. Cindy was so proud of me; she knew I could do it. At that point I knew I could too. Something changed about me, indirectly Cindy had taught me self-trust and confidence with every math problem, every writing assignment, and faith in my self with the decisions I made.
Cindy continued to help me throughout my college career, through phone calls and emails. We would still go for our Sunday breakfasts’ on occasion when I was home from college. When it came time that I didn’t need help so much anymore, I told her of all the student requests I’ve seen online desperate for tutorial help. This was all Cindy needed, from there she went on to help many other students over the web to achieve their goals.
Three years after graduation with a major in Biology, I’ve pursued a career in Ophthalmology, working with patients’ everyday and under the influence of eight medical doctors. I learn more and more everyday from the doctors and my patients, and I give back to them selflessly the way Cindy gave to me. In my heart she saved me. Fourteen years later I look back at what I may have become if she hadn’t walked into my life. My life will forever be enriched by her teachings and her strength. She taught me that all I need is patience and a dream, and I would be able to find my way. I plan on going back to school to study Nurse Anesthesia, and I know she will be right there behind me, cheering me on. Tiffany M. Dwileski [email protected]
Pat & Ed Shannon
August 14, 2008
For Cindy's family --
Cindy Myers has been a fellow Albany County employee with us for many years. In that time we gained a lot from her knowledge, experience, perserverance and talent.
We also gained a lot from sharing her unique perspective toward life and her work. She has been an incomparable resource and when she was on a job or project, everyone would just know it was going to get done, no matter how long it took, or how hard it was and it would get done right.
She will always be remembered for those characteristics and equally for her ability to make every one around her smile and enjoy life just a little bit more than they would have without her.
Deepest sympathies for your, and our, loss.
Allen Rhoades
August 14, 2008
Although I met around God's word with Cindy only a handful of times, she was always a blessing to me. I was blessed when she shared of her personal experience of God's providence through a town flood; sharing her immense knowledge of Greek with serious matters and even with a sly laugh at us parents not wanting our kids to use the word 'stupid' when Paul said those 'stupid Galatians'; or her great discernment between submitting to God and not submitting to human claims.
I feel that she was taken away too soon; however, I know she is receiving the praise of 'Well Done' from One much greater than we are.
Debbie Kirsch
August 14, 2008
Dear Joe, Loretta, Warren and Joselynn,
Very sad to receive an email (and a dear tribute) from Billie, about Cindy. We shared a strong faith, and a love of research-digging. When she called me at the library, I knew I'd really have to sharpen up my research skills; it was always a wonderful challange. In later years, I enjoyed talking with her as we very occasionally tried out different area restaurants. I'm happy she is with our God, but I know she'll be missed.
Charlene McAvoy
August 13, 2008
My friend Cindy,I know that you are Home with the Lord and for that I rejoice.I am so thankful for the times we have shared. We did have some real good laughs. And now when I think of you, It will be with a smile on my face.I will miss you. Thank you for being my friend.
Gwen Kirk
August 13, 2008
Dear Joe, Loretta, Warren and Joselynn,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Cindy. She was truly a unique friend, and I enjoyed working with her on several projects, including her own Index of Bible Citations.
Rev. 14:13 "...Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord...so that they may rest from their labors, for their deeds follow with them."
Roger and Gwen Kirk
Mary Dinelle
August 13, 2008
I only knew Cindy for a short time some 20 years not nearly long enough to obtain only a 1/4 of what she knew about the food stamp program. I will miss being able to call and get and answer to any question I might have had. I'm hoping that our heavenly father was waiting with his arms outstretched for your arrival. We'll all miss you Cindy God Bless.
laurie daprile
August 13, 2008
why did you die "suddenly" love u.
Margaret Grondahl
August 13, 2008
Dear Joe, Loretta, Joselynn, and Mike,
Where do we start, what do we say? For the past 34 years Cindy has been one of the most special, unique, loved persons in our family circle. She has been a friend, mentor, "extra aunt" to our boys, an example of courage in spite of struggle, and so much more. We will miss her until the day we are reunited once again. She was truly a walking encyclopedia and usually won every game we played! We especially enjoyed talking about our mutual faith in Christ and, in the midst of our present loss, rejoice that she is now safely Home. Our prayers are with you all.
Love, Clay and Margaret
Judi Van Vorse
August 13, 2008
I worked with Cindy in the food stamp unit in the eightys. Cindy was one of the most gifted and talented problem solvers I have ever known. Im sure the agency she so loved will miss her sorely. May she rest in peace.
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