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Evers, Thomas F. III SCHENECTADY Thomas F. Evers III, 41, died August 14, 2008 at his home surrounded by his loving family. Born in Fairfax, Va., he moved to the Capital District as a child. The son of Ruth Mahar Evers and the late Thomas F. Evers Jr. of Glenville, Tom was a graduate of Scotia-Glenville High School's class of '84. Tom received his first Holy Communion at St. Joseph's Church in Scotia and with his family, attended for many years. He was active in sports and followed the NY Yankees and Giant teams. Proud of his Irish heritage, he was also a Notre Dame Football follower from way back. He married the former Debora A. Puleski on August 26, 1995 in Rotterdam, later moving to Schenectady. He loved spending time with his wife and their two children. He was employed the past nine years for the city of Schenectady. Survivors include his wife Debora; son, Thomas F. Evers IV and daughter, Jenna Evers of Schenectady; his mother, Ruth Evers; brothers, Todd Evers of Glenville, Justin of Scotia and Zachary of Glenville; sisters, Stacie Evers and companion John Mancini of Scotia, Rachel Evers-Wiley (Joe) of Rotterdam and Amy Cremo (Pat) of Scotia. Beloved grandson of Arline and John Mahar of Wynanskill, N.Y.; son-in-law of Inga Puleski of Schenectady; brother-in-law of Joanne Puleski of Scotia and Robert Puleski of Charlton. He leaves behind 16 nephews. The family would like to express their gratitude to Community Hospice of Schenectady, the AMC staff, especially Drs. David R. Shaffer and Brian Valerian and also to Steve Raucci and the Schenectady City School District. Funeral Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday 9:30 a.m. at St. Joseph's Church, 226 First St., Scotia. Calling hours Sunday 6-9 p.m. at the Glenville Funeral Home, 9 Glenridge Rd., Glenvil-le, NY 12302. Interment St. Anthony's Cemetery, Glenville, N.Y. Memorial contributions to the Evers Children's Trust c/o First Niagra Bank, 1742-1744 Union Street, Schenectady, NY 12309 www.glenville funeralhome.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Aug. 15 to Aug. 16, 2008.

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Amy Cremo

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers Day!! We all love and miss you so much. We went to the cemetary today and wrote on balloons and let them go for both you and Dad. You should be here with Jenna and Thomas but I promise that I will always be there for them both. We love and miss you sooo much. I think about you everyday.. xoxoxo Amy

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers Day Daddy, it's another first without you, we only have our memories left. Thank you Daddy for teaching me how to play baseball- my team won the majors championship. You were a great dad. Love Thomas
Daddy thank you for dancing and singing with me Love you Jenna
PS I hope you liked the flowers

June 17, 2009

Happy Birthday Daddy we love and miss you so much. Our 6th. grade graduation is next week and you will be with us in our hearts.
Love Tommy and Jenna (Boss)

Amy Cremo

June 17, 2009

Happy Birthday Tommy!! I love and miss you sooo much.. There is not a day since you left us that I have not thought about you. Life went on but my heart has not healed. I miss seeing your perfect smile, but see it sometimes in Thomas and Jenna. I know I will see you again, until then I will continue to keep my promises to you and never forget how lucky I was to have a bug brother like you. I LOVE you. xoxo

Amy Cremo

April 16, 2009

Hey Tommy. I just want to drop a note, for some reason writing on these things helps me believe that you are hearing me, and it helps me make sure that you will never be forgotten. I think of you everyday, the pain still hurts unbelievably bad. I miss you but, I do find peace that you are with Dad, MomMOm and PopPop, and no longer in pain. You are always on my mind and in my heart. My amazing strong big brother I love you. Rock on Tom-O!!! xoxoxo

Tommy

April 11, 2009

I miss you so much dad. I think about you all the time. You will always be in my heart and I will never forget you. Love you

Lou Carol Comley

January 28, 2009

Dear Ruth - Having seen you yesterday at the loss of yet another friend and coworker's husband, reminded me of what a strong, spiritual person you are. Much wiser than most of us. I know you understand and believe that you will see Tom, Ben, Tommy and all those who have gone before us. Loosing Tommy is something most of us can't even imagine, but then again, I believe you are much stronger than most of us. You have the face of an angel on earth and I'm sure you have a lot of teaching to do. You and your family continue to be an inspiration (hope) for many of us who look on, trying to find the peace you emit.

Amy Cremo

December 31, 2008

Hey Tommy, the holidays have come and gone and as we approach the new year I just want to say you are not forgotten. We talk, laugh and cry about you often. I miss you so much. My heart breaks still when I think about you, but I find comfort in knowing you are at peace, and that you live on through your kids. I love you so much and look foward until we meet again. xoxo

Kathy Burnetter(Young)

September 4, 2008

Dear Ruth and Rachel and entire Evers family, Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I am so very sorry for you loss. Take care of each other as you always have.

Susan Fraley

September 2, 2008

Dear Ruth and Family, I am so sorry for your loss and have you in my thoughts and prayers.

Maureen Stevens

August 23, 2008

To Ruth and family,
I was very saddened to hear about your son and brother's passing.
He was so lucky to have such a large and loving family to help him through his time of need. You have all been in my prayers for several months.
May God be with all of you.

Maureen

Nancy Jenkins

August 21, 2008

To all the Evers family I would like to express my condolences. I pray that God will comfort you and help you deal with your loss . Please know that you remain in my prayers.
Nancy Jenkins

Dawn Newcomb

August 19, 2008

Dear Ruth and Stacie & the rest of the Evers family: My deepest sympathies in your time of sorrow and grief.May you find comfort in knowing he is not suffering anymore.You now have a beautiful angel to watch over you and guide you.Remember the good times you shared.Sending you thoughts and prayers...............Love,Dawn Newcomb

Sharon and Paul Ruddy

August 17, 2008

Ruth, We are so sorry for your loss and continue to keep you and your family in our prayers. Love Sharon and Paul Ruddy and family

SUE BURCH

August 17, 2008

TO DEBBIE AND FAMILY
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS R WITH YOU.HE WILL BE MISSED.. FROM SUE BURCH AND KIDS

samantha ganswith and family

August 17, 2008

TO DEBBIE AND FAMILY,
I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TOMMY WAS A GREAT MAN AND HE WILL BE MISSED. YOU AND THE KIDS WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.GOD BLESS YOU. SAMANTHA GANSWITH AND FAMILY

Carole (Gabriel) Norton

August 16, 2008

Ruth and Family. God bless you all during this time of sorrow. His strength is yours at this time.

Frank & Leanne Conron

August 16, 2008

Dear Ruth, and the entire Evers Family: Leanne and I were deeply saddened to learn of Tommy's most untimely death. Be assured of our love and prayers Always. He goes now to join his namesakes: his dad, Tom, Jr and grand-dad, Tom, Sr. one of Leanne's favorite uncles.

Pat & Brad Hicks

August 16, 2008

Rachel & family - we are so very sorry for your loss. We shall keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Please find comfort that his suffering is now over and he is at peace.

Stacy Burckhard

August 16, 2008

Rachel and Evers Family,
So Sorry For Your Loss! My Thoughts and Prayers Are With All Of You!

VINNY GABRIEL

August 16, 2008

TO RUTH AND FAMILY,
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY, AND PRAYERS AT THIS TIME ! MAY GOD GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND BLESS YOU !

Paula Reynolds

August 16, 2008

Stacie, John and family,
Please know that you are in our constant thoughts. We pray that the pain you feel in your hearts will in time be replaced by wonderful memories of Thomas. And Stacie, remember that Thomas will always live within you and your children, he is a part of you forever. Know that you honored your brother and his family through all of the love and support that you gave them throughout his illness. This will give you comfort always. May all of us who have brothers know the kind of love you gave to your brother.
With love, your friends,
Paula and Craig Reynolds

Beth Ferracane

August 16, 2008

Rachel, Joe, Justin and family,
We are sorry for your loss and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Donna, Beth, Laura, Bob and Jason

August 15, 2008

Rachel, Joe, and entire Evers Family-
I am so sorry to hear about Tom. God bless your family in this difficult time.
Lori Ira

Diane Wood

August 15, 2008

To the Entire Evers Family,

All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Michele Feiden

August 15, 2008

To the entire Evers family especially Debbie, Tommy and Jenna. You all have endured so much with Tom's illness. Try to take some solace in knowing that the suffering is over for him. Remember all of the good times you all shared together, and speak of them often with your children. All of us at Elmer are deeply saddened by your loss, but cannot wait for you to come back to work. We love you Deb, and we will continue to be there for all of you as much as we can. With my deepest sympathy....

Scott and Jeannie Autrey

August 15, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. We are truly sorry.

Bea Hansen

August 15, 2008

Dear Evers Family,
To know you all is a blessing. Good memories of Tom and your wonderful family unit will sustain you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
With Fondness,
Bea

Jamie-Lyn Grugan

August 15, 2008

Rachel and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know times have been hard for you all. Your in my thoughts and prayers

Ginny Ritz

August 15, 2008

To Ruth and FAMILY~
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time..I know your kids are your whole life,and I always admired what a great mother and strong lady you were. I pray God gives you and your family the strength to get through this difficult time.

Lara Pelham

August 15, 2008

I am so sorry for the loss of Tommy, and for all of the tough times your family has endured. Growing up with all of you I have some awesome memories and I know what a great guy Tommy was. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Michele Mahar - Guynup

August 15, 2008

Ruth and Family:
I'm so sorry for your lost. Tommy will always be in our prayers and forever in our hearts!!
Love,
Michele, Liam, Meghan, Brian and Hannah

Donna Moran

August 15, 2008

To the Evers Family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your friends and old neighbors,
Donna Moran (Szmyr) and Family

Jill & Sammi A2 Surgery CLinic

August 15, 2008

To the Evers family,
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. May the love of family & friends carry you through your grief. Our prayers & thoughts are with your family.

Kellie Gervais

August 15, 2008

Stacie, Rachel and Family,

I am very sorry for your loss. May all the love of your family and the great memories keep you strong through this difficult time.

Lou Carol and Paul Comley

August 15, 2008

To The Evers Family - There are no words to express the sadness we feel for you. Your family has had more than it's share of heartache over the years. The strength you have all shown has been an inspiration to all that know you. We know you are a family of tremendous faith. We pray, as God carries you through this very difficult journey. Know that your co-workers, extended family, neigbhors, and friends are there for you, as you have always been for us.

Gale Hollingsworth

August 15, 2008

Ruth & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Gale & Sam

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