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Smith, Wayne A. Jr. TROY Wayne Arthur Smith Jr. passed away suddenly October 19, 2008. Born in Feura Bush on October 5, 1968 to Wayne and Susanne Smith, Wayne graduated from R-C-S in 1986, graduated from SUNY Albany with a bachelor's degree and Maria College with a nursing degree. He was a nurse at Albany Medical Center for five years on E8 and recently with Darryl DiRisio, MD. He also worked for Albany ARC at the Rapp Road House. Besides his parents, he is survived by his life partner, John Hanson of Troy; sisters, Suzee (Bob Williams) Smith of Selkirk and Sheri (Dan) Dawson of Ravena; brothers, Edward (Lynn) Smith of Ravena and Chad (Sara) Smith of New Baltimore; nephews and nieces, Zachary, Tyler and Brianna Smith, Candace and Matthew Dawson, Brandon Williams, Lily, Ashlyn, Jenna and Cameron Smith; grandmother Elizabeth Smith; and many aunts, uncles and cousins. Wayne was predeceased by his grandparents, Arthur V. Smith and LeVere and Mary Fuller. Wayne had many friends and was loved by all. He was a terrific person, so compassionate, loving and wonderful. A celebration of Wayne's life will be held 10 a.m. Friday, October 24 at the Babcock Funeral Home, Ravena. Burial will follow in Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, South Bethlehem. Friends may call at the funeral home on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. Contributions in memory of Wayne may be made to the Mohawk & Hudson River Humane Society, 3 Oakland Ave., Menands, NY 12204.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Oct. 22 to Oct. 23, 2008.

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October 19, 2009

Wayne,
It's been a year today that you have left us, we all miss you very dearly. Ashlyn often cries for you and says she wishes you were her. But I tell her that you will always be with her in her heart. We all love you very much. Love, Chad, Sara, Lily, Ashlyn, Jenna, Cameron

Aunt Marion and Debbieng Hotaling

December 24, 2008

John,Wayne and Sue and Family,
As it is Christmas and we know you all are feeling an emptyness in your hearts. We wanted you to know that the world has lost an extraordinary person. Wayne was truly an amazing person and we are so greatful that we had the privilege of being a part of his family. Wayne touched our hearts as well as many others. Wayne truly was a blessing in all our lifes. Wayne will be remembered by all.
Love,
Aunt Marion and Debbie Hotaling

GG Roberts

December 22, 2008

Dear John and Smith Family,
My prayers are for Wayne and you on this upcoming holiday. Although things will never be the same and Wayne is missed by so many may you find comfort with each other and in the fact that in such a brief time Wayne touched so many lives. My thoughts are with you during this bittersweet season.
Always,
GG Roberts

Michael Adams

December 20, 2008

Merry Christmas, Wayne. This Christmas is empty without you. I can't believe you are no longer here, Wayne! I want to hear you tell me to "shush." You understood me; were always there for me; and we always forgave each other for our nonsense. I miss our friendship; I miss our laughter; I miss my friend so so so so very much. You are my longest friend; my special friend. I will always always think of you and miss you. I hope, somehow, you hear my words and know how special of a friend you are to me. You will always be in my heart and never forgotten, buddy. I love you!

Tammy Ridner

December 2, 2008

To Wayne's family and Friends:
Sorry to hear this so late but Wayne took care of my brother on E8 and I have never meet such a wonderful man in my life, he cared for his patitents and thier families.I am a employee of the hospital and he would call if there was a problem and even just to say the my brother was doing well. I know he is looking down and sending his love to you all everyday...GOD BLESS

Diane LaMora

October 28, 2008

John, I just heard. Our hearts go out to you and John's family. The world will be a little smaller and minus one giant heart. Someone must have needed an angel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Diane & Nancy (from bird store)

Tereasa Bouyea

October 26, 2008

I met Wayne almost 10 years ago. I will always remember the twinkle in his eyes, his easy smile, and his mischievious giggle.

He loved his family, his friends, his career, and was fortunate enough to find the person to compliment and complete his life. I know Wayne was happy.

There will be an empty spot in the many lives that he touched but Wayne left a shining example of life as it should be lived.

My thoughts and condolances to all who were fortunate enough to have know Wayne. He will be missed.

Carole Pepe

October 25, 2008

John
Many people come in and out of our lives. Memories of Wayne will stay with me forever. I am so sorry that I was not in town to embrace you during the first terrible days. I love you and want you to try to be encouraged by the knowledge that Wayne loved you so much.

sonja fitzgerald

October 25, 2008

wayne,
i miss you so.you knew i loved you, i told you so often.how can i live the next 40 years with out you.i will wait
to see you in my dreams.
love you to the moon. your friend always sonja

Tia Gomes/ Williams family

October 25, 2008

to the smith family and john, words cannot express the love i have for wayne he was a kind hearted person always willing and doesnt know when to say no, he will be deeply miss tia E8

michele e

October 25, 2008

Wayne,he was really an angel to us.we came in this country as foreign but wayne embrace us.he was so kind to us that we did not have a hard time adjusting the first time we came.he showed us kindness and friendliness.i'm so sad for the loss of this man with a good heart.wayne your always in my heart and prayer..

Brigid Rockwell

October 24, 2008

Dear John,

I am so sorry for your sudden loss. Wayne seemed a steady companion and gentle soul who complimented your being so well. I only found out this morning and have thought of little else all day since I was unable to attend Wayne's funeral. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to ease your pain during this difficult time.

Cindy O'Donnell(Wilsey)

October 24, 2008

Monga, Ponga and the gang,
I was so shocked and sad to hear of Waynes passing. I hope you all know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Wayne was such an awesome person and friend. I will always hold dear to our friendship and time together at CVS. He will be truly missed and will hold a place in my heart forever, as will all of you. I know where his kindness and caring came from in knowing all of you all those years ago. I am truly sorry and will be thinking of you as the days past.
Love, Cindy(aka "Sninser") O'Donnell

Charisse Whitney and Thomas Evers

October 24, 2008

Words can not express the sorrow in our hearts for the loss of such an extraordinary individual. Wayne's kind and compassionate manner will surely echo on in the lives of all he knew.

Curtis and Renee Powell

October 23, 2008

John,

We are sorry for your loss. Although we met Wayne only once about 3 weeks ago, we are glad to have known him. We spent an evening talking on various subjects; Wayne made a warm and lasting impression on us.

Jessica Horne

October 23, 2008

To Everyone Who Knew And Loved Wayne,
Wayne was one of the nicest people I've ever known. He always had kind eyes and a smile for everyone. I worked on E8 with him for 2 years and I can't think of anyone who didn't immediately love him. He will be sorely missed..

Fred Pratt

October 23, 2008

John - We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
Uncle Fred & Aunt Joan Pratt

Jan Schoen

October 23, 2008

We're so sorry and shocked by Wayne's passing. Be comfiorted by your wonderful memories of such a kind, and sweet soul. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. Love, Jan and Neal Schoen

Carmela Martinese

October 23, 2008

I'm truly sorry for your loss. Wayne will always live in my heart and prayers. Love, Carmela

Michael DeSantis

October 23, 2008

I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you. Love always, Michael

October 23, 2008

Wayne was the type of person we all would like to be, kind, compassionate, giving and thoughtful. We were all touched by Wayne. May we take comfort in knowing such a special person and hold his example to create a positive and lasting change in all of us who knew him. Thank you John and the Smith family for sharing such a treasure.

Richard Rappold

October 23, 2008

Hi John, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Dick and Linda

Lizette & Alan Strait

October 23, 2008

Johnny,
Please accept our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Matthew Blodgett

October 23, 2008

Wayne and John Live in my building and I would see him in passing all of the time. My deepest sympathy and heart goes out to his family and loved ones. I'm truly sorry for your loss. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Belland

October 23, 2008

Johnny,
Our hearts are truly heavy from your loss. I wish I had magic words to make it all better.
Love, Cousin Karen & John Belland

Sandy Farmer

October 23, 2008

If there was ever one person who we could say would consistently step up to the plate to help and support others, whether fellow staff at Albany Medical Center or his patients, it would be Wayne. He was always willing to listen, smile, offer encouragement, or a shoulder. He was never selfish with his time when he sensed that he was needed by others. Wayne's patients would often praise his encouraging, kind, caring, and attentive personality. It's difficult not to smile when thinking of him. It is sad that such a wonderful man was taken from us so suddenly. He was well loved and well respected by so many people from so many walks of life. We were all blessed that Wayne was a part of our lives at one point in his lifeline or another. Wayne was everyone's mentor and friend. Although we have heavy hearts, I believe we will laugh and joke with him again. God Bless YOU Wayne - You will be sorely missed.

Megan Mazurek

October 23, 2008

I worked with Wayne for a little over a year at AMC E8. He was a great guy, always cheerful and smiling. My deepest sympathies to all of his friends and family.

October 23, 2008

Dear John-

We knew Wayne form Valentes Restaurant where you guys would come to eat on monday nights. you were our favorite customers. we are so sorry to hear about your loss.

Brittany and Liz

Damian Bisagni

October 23, 2008

My sincere condolences to Wayne's family, partner and friends, as Wayne will be greatly missed! I came to know Wayne through his lifelong friend, Michael. From day one, Wayne made me feel comfortable and made me laugh. Wayne was such a gentle soul; a genuinely kind, fun, caring guy. I am very saddened by his passing but glad I was fortunate enough to have met him. My heart goes out to each and every one of you in your loss of precious Wayne. May he live forever in our hearts.

Michael Bullock

October 23, 2008

Ever since I first met Wayne and John I was touched with the caring and devotion they showed to each other. Visiting the store frequently brought the pleasure of Wayne's smile, good humor, and company. Our hearts are with John and with Wayne's family, and all who loved Wayne and felt the warmth of their love for each other.

Christl Mueller

October 23, 2008

Dear John and the family of Wayne:
We are so sorry for your loss. Wayne was such a great guy! He was such a kind and compassionate soul. We especially enjoyed his kindness and gentle rapport with children, and toward animals. We will truly miss him being with you at family gatherings.
With love and sympathy,
Christl, Clark, Kylee and Chris

Mark Wells

October 23, 2008

Missy, Wayne & family,
My heart goes out to you at this time of sorrow and in the days ahead.
Love you guys,
Mark

Katie (Harrington) Bruce

October 23, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Smith and Family and Friends

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Wayne was a great individual to work with. He always had a smile and a great sense of humor. A great nurse. My heart felt prayers for the family and friends he has left behind.

Keith Lloyd

October 23, 2008

My heartfelt condolences to John and the entire Smith family. Wayne, you and I grew so close over the years. A chance meeting, and we bonded and became immediate friends. Had I known on Sunday when you called me that it would be the last time I would have said so many things...You were such a sensitive, loving and compassionate man. I learned so much from you. I will miss you but you will always be in my heart. All of the good memories in my heart will get me through.

I love you Wayne

Inga & John Barker

October 23, 2008

To all of Wayne's family,

My husband and I met Wayne and his partner, John, at the Rensselaer Bird Center where we spent time over the past few years discussing our mutual interest in parrots.

Wayne also took care of my father when he was in physical rehab on E8 at Albany Med several times over the past couple of years. I already had sensed how compassionate and understanding Wayne was through our mutual love of parrots but I saw that tender, caring side with his patients at Albany Med - not just with my father but with all his many patients. He will be missed.

We are so sorry for your loss. May happy memories help you through these difficult times.

Evelyn Shields-Poole AMC E8

October 22, 2008

Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family and John
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel at the passing of Wayne. He is such a large part of the family on E8. His smile and since of humor made new staff feel at home. May you all take comfort to know that Wayne was loved by many and his family was his joy. You all are in my prayers.

Sherry Pannone

October 22, 2008

Wayne's passing has made me realize how short our time on Earth can really be. God has his plan for us all, and I can honestly say that Wayne is one person that in 40 years -has done so much more, and touched so many more lives than most will do in a lifetime. He was a man who was never afraid to stand up for what he believed in, and always held a special spot for our clients at New Visions, and they certainly held him close to their hearts as well. Wayne always helped people see the glass half full, always reminding us to keep positive and count our blessings. I know he loved his family so much and talked of them continuously. My heart aches for you all, yet I know his ray of light will continue to shine brightly down on us all through this rough time. With Deepest Sympathy, Sherry, Nathan, Meghan & Reilly Pannone

Carolyn Callner

October 22, 2008

Dear John: I think of Wayne as an exquisitely kind and gentle man who took such good care of Dick and comforted him with great sensitivity. I am eternally grateful to him. I hope you can find comfort in the years, albeit too few, you were blessed to be together. Much Love, Carolyn

Lisa Travis

October 22, 2008

Dear Mr.& Mrs. Smith, Ed, Lynn, Sheri & family, I haven't seen Wayne in quite awhile, but always kept in touch with him through you. He is a wonderful, unique person with a heart of gold. Each thought I have of him, makes a smile come to my face. Whenever I think about the days working at CVS, I only have good memories of the times we worked together. Wayne made work so much fun and boy, did we always have something to laugh about. Everyone was assigned a nickname and "Waynester" had given me mine: "Bulkster!" As I recall, I think everyone had the "ster" on the end of their name. I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to know such a wonderful, caring person. I hope you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know your family is extremely close and this will be difficult for all of you. Always know that Wayne will be with you; your special Guardian Angel!

Cheryl Brush

October 22, 2008

Ed, Lynn, Mr and Mrs Smith and Family, I am thinking of all of you during this sorrowfull time... and hoping you find comfort in precious memories. With Deepest Sympathy.

Allen Hyserman

October 22, 2008

Wayne, Suzanne, John and family...I was shocked to hear of Wayne's death. I was so proud of him when he graduated from nursing school...being the second RN in our extended family. Please accept my condolences and I will see everyone in December.

Ron and Lisa Crowe

October 22, 2008

John, we are so sorry to hear about Wayne's passing. You two always seemed so happy. May God be with you in this terrible time.
Ron and Lisa Crowe (from the bird store)

Ali Lanfear

October 22, 2008

To John and the family of Wayne,

As you grieve please try to find some comfort and peace in all your wonderful memories of Wayne.

Having worked with him for only a few short months he has truly left huge impact on myself and all of my coworkers. He was an amazing person-with such love, compassion and kindness in his heart. We will all strive to make Wayne proud.
He will truly me missed by so many!

Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers,

Ali Lanfear
w/ The Dept of Neurosurgery at AMC

Royah Ansari

October 22, 2008

To John:
I can't even begin to find words that express my sorrow for your loss. Please know that so many people are thinking of you now, and we're sending lots of love and strength in your direction.

To Wayne's Family:
My heart goes out to you all. May you rally around each other in this devastating time and find comfort in the memories of his life.

Gail GG Roberts

October 22, 2008

Dear John,
How tragic and awful for you and Wayne's family. My deepest condolences for your loss. I'm in shock as are so many of your friends. I wish I could have gotten to know him. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Sincerely,
GG Roberts

Melody Morse

October 22, 2008

John -- We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers always. Love cousin Melody, George and family.

Judi Bodnar and Tom Moore

October 22, 2008

To John and all of Wayne's family-we were so very sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. He was a sweet and kind person. Our sympathy for this tremendous loss.

Jamie McGuire

October 22, 2008

John-
I am so sorry to hear of Wayne’s passing. He was a sweet loveable man and he will truly be missed. You are in my thoughts.

Barbara Smith

October 22, 2008

John,
We join your large circle of friends and family who wish to bring you consolation during your time of grief. Wayne, the RN, will be missed for his kind and compassionate care. Wayne, our friend and colleague, will be missed for his patience and gentle humor. It was an honor have Wayne in our lives. May you find comfort in your fondest memories of your life with Wayne.
Barbara Smith, RN
Nurse Manager
The Neurosciences Institute
Albany Medical College

Delphine Kerzick

October 22, 2008

John-
I was so sorry & shocked to hear of Wayne's passing. He was a wonderful man & I know it will be hard for awhile. Hold dear in your heart all those special times the two of you shared to help you make it through the difficult times ahead.
My love goes out to you- Delphine

Dorothy Englander

October 22, 2008

John, I'm so sorry that I am so far away as you celebrate Wayne's life. I will be there in spirit. May your goodbyes to your beloved be as gentle as possible.
With loving thoughts, Dorothy

Dodie Smith

October 22, 2008

Wayne was one of the kindest, most compassionate people that I have ever met. It was an honor to work with him, and to call him my friend. Wayne has been an inspiration to many, and I will miss him dearly.

Brian French

October 22, 2008

Wayne, you taught me alot and I will never forget all the great times we had at work. As you told me before live life to the fullest because you never know when it will end. I can,t believe your gone I never had a chance to say goodbye, as you will be missed by all you are forever in my heart.

Robyn Washburn

October 22, 2008

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I worked with Wayne at New Visions for several years.. He was a wonderful person

Ann Marie Phipps

October 22, 2008

I am in complete shock, as are many others right now. I am so incredibly sorry for this loss and my deepest sympathies go out to John and Wayne's family. Wayne had such a gentle nature and always had a smile for everyone. He will be terribly missed by all who knew him.

Daria Mallin

October 22, 2008

Wayne was such a lovely lovely man. I am shocked and sad to find that this has all occurred. John, you are so fortunate to have had him in your life, and I am truly sorry you have lost him. Please don't hesitate to reach out to us for anything. My thoughts are with you.
Love,
Daria

Debra Gorgos

October 22, 2008

Wayne was such an amazing, kind, warm and sweet person. The world is a better place because of him.

October 22, 2008

A golden heart stopped to soon. For whatever reason God wanted you, Your smile that spoke to everyones heart, Your soft gentle voice that comforted and soothed. We all will surely miss
You did your best to earse our fears. Whatever they maybe. You made peace with all you did. For all of this you will surely be missed. You touched more hearts then we will ever know. Both your loved ones new and old. We all share one beautiful thing which was knowing you, so may you rest in peace and sore with your new found angle wings, give us a nudge to let us know your watching us, until we see you once again
Our Dear sweet Friend
Rest in peace,
With oh so much love
Love all of us,
in the
Neurosurgery Clinic
Albany Medical Center

Heidi Kelley

October 22, 2008

Wayne,
Your compassion, smile, and energy towards life, will always be remembered....
Heidi K.

Juanita Pasquini

October 22, 2008

To Wayne's Partner & Family:
Wayne will be remembered for what a kind, gentle soul he was. He was one of the most compassionate people I have ever met and had the pleasure to work with. He was loved by everyone. My deepest condolences to you all at this most painful time.

Ed @ Lisa Van Horn

October 22, 2008

John and Waynes family, Lisa and I were so sad to hear of waynes passing. He was a great guy and we were so glad to have know him, Our prayers are with you John, we are going to miss the couple of JOHN WAYNE

Sandra Cluett

October 22, 2008

I am so sad at the loss of Wayne. He was a dear friend. Wayne was a wonderful person. I worked with him at Rapp Road for 10 years. It was so good to see him at his birthday party just days ago. He seemed so happy and I was so glad for him.
Sincerely, Sandy Cluett

Cristen Demmer

October 22, 2008

Dear Sheri,
It has been a while since we have seen each other, but I want to express my sorrow for your sudden loss. Although I didn't know Wayne too well I had only heard good things about him. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers today.
Cristen Demmer
[email protected]

Maria spadafora

October 22, 2008

I am utterly in shock, my condolences to your family. I worked with Wayne for many years at Rapp Road and he was one of my inspirations to go to nursing school. I will miss his compassion and humor!
He was a good man! My prayers to your family.

Lora

October 22, 2008

Suzee and family,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. You have my deepest sympathy.

Tippe and Tony Miller

October 22, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Linda DiVirgilio

October 22, 2008

Wayne---such a gentle and kind person. I'll remember those twinkling eyes and that impish sense of humor.

Vikki Ogborn

October 22, 2008

John,
I am so sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. May the memories that you have and shared with Wayne be comforting now and in the days ahead.

bella masse

October 22, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with John and wayne's family.
Wayne will always be remembered as a very loving man.

Kim Boring Ruiz

October 22, 2008

Mr and Mrs Smith, Sheri and family, I am so very sorry to have heard about Wayne Jr. There are no words that can comfort a person in a time like this. I wish I was able to be there to offer a shoulder but I am there in spirit. Please contact me if you want to talk.

Joli Pizzigati

October 22, 2008

Wayne was a great guy, so loving and compassinate. He will be so missed. John you are in my prayers.

Tammy Frodyma RN

October 22, 2008

The staff on C8 at Albany Medical Center, send their sincere condolences to Wayne's family and friends. Please know we are all thinking of you and praying for you at this very difficult time.

October 22, 2008

John, my heart goes out to you. I know how devistating it is to suddenly loose someone you love so much,for so long.He was a wonderful man we all loved him and will miss his smiling face.Easier said than done but try to stay strong and know all your friends are here for you!!
Love Teena

Kara Filardi McGovern

October 22, 2008

There are no words to describe the loss of such a tremendous life. Wayne was truly a special man. A gift to us all, really. I was honored to call him a friend. My deepest sympathy to John and Wayne's entire family who were so precious to him.

Michael Adams

October 22, 2008

My dear friend, Wayne. You were my first friend in my life and remained that throughout our lives. In my heart I will continue that friendship. I remember when I met you on the playground at Jericho School; we were 5 years old. I can't believe you are gone! I feel as if I lost a part of me. You are such a kind and caring person and I am so happy you are part of my life. We had our ups and downs, yet we were always able to get past them. That is a true friendship. I will miss you so much, Mister! Remember, we will be friends forever and ever! I love you.

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