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Mary Dobert Obituary

Dobert, Mary G. DELMAR Mary G. (Gifford) Dobert, age 67, died October 26, 2007 at Albany Medical Center with her family at her side. Mary was born in Syracuse, N.Y. to Laurence S. Gifford and Catherine B. (Barry) Gifford (both deceased) and moved to Delmar at an early age. She attended Bethlehem Central schools and graduated in 1958 from Bethlehem Central High School. Mary was a 1962 graduate of Saint Rose College in Albany with a bachelor of science degree in chemistry. She started her career at Sterling Winthrop Drug in Rensselaer but soon left to raise her family. Mary was a gifted seamstress and, to raise money to help send her children to college, she started a business with her good friend Barbara Van Aernem, designing and making elegant gowns for wedding parties. After her children were grown, she went to work for the State of New York and retired in 2006 from the comptroller's office retirement call center. Mary was a wonderful Tole painter and active participant in the Tuesday Tolers, a painting group in Delmar. She loved cooking for family and friends, and was also an avid gardener and voracious reader. Mary's family was the center of her universe. She is survived by her husband of 43 years, Thomas J. Dobert. They have two devoted children, Shawn Dobert St. James and her husband Brian of Delmar and Timothy J. Dobert and his partner Betsy Heartfield of Crested Butte, Colo. She had two wonderful granddaughters, Nieve (8) and Ainsley (6) St. James, who were the lights of her life. Mary is also survived by her brothers, Laurence S. Gifford Sr. and his wife Pat of Belfair, Wash., Barry J. Gifford and his wife Barbara of Scituate, Mass. and James K. Gifford and his wife Shirley of Danville, Calif. "Aunt Mary" was adored by 11 nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to call at Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar, N.Y. on Monday, October 29 from 4 to 8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 9:30 a.m. Tuesday, October 30 at St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church, 35 Adams Place, Delmar. Those desiring may send a remembrance in Mary's name to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, PanCan, 2141 Rosecrans Ave., Suite 7000, El Segundo, CA 90245.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2007.

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Ginny Smith

May 12, 2008

Jill and family:

So sorry for your loss. God Bless you and your family during this time.

Andy Lane

November 5, 2007

Dobert Family

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Dobert. My memory of her goes back to wrestling season in the winter of '84. She and your entire family were a tremendous source of kindness and encouragment when I needed it. My prayers are with you all.

God Bless

Michael Annal

October 31, 2007

To me it seemed that Mary was much
like the Rose Kennedy of her Family.
She seemed to be a strong yet Calming force. I only wish I had been her next-door neighbor. I would
have visited often. Miss ya Mary,
Love....
Michael:

Betty Wall

October 31, 2007

Shawn and Brian,

We are so saddened to hear the news of Shawn's mother. She was a vibrant and a lovely person.
Sincerely,
Betty, Dave, Ryan and Evan Wall

Dianne Bittermann

October 30, 2007

Mr Dobert, Shawn and Brian,
I'm so sorry to read that Mary has passed on - I have wonderful memories of her during her time at State Ed. She was a delightful woman - full of witty stories, wonderful recipes, and a huge heart. We kept in touch briefly after she left, but she remained in my thoughts always.
My heartfelt prayers go out to all of you as you get through this difficult time.
Mary will be missed.

Erin Lynch

October 30, 2007

To the Dobert & St. James families,

I am so sorry for the loss of Mary. I worked with her for many years in the Call Center and missed her so much when she retired. Mary had such humor and wit, and compassion with everyone she came into contact with. I'll always remember her stories about her family, especially the girls and their escapades when she would watch them. Her passing has definitely left an empty space here.

October 30, 2007

Dobert Family,

I was so sad today to hear about your Mom. She was such a good person.
I remember when a single path ran through the woods between our houses, and the day you built your swimming pool.
I wish you all to be well right now and know that everyone is thinking of you in their thoughts and prayer's.

Tom Quinlan

Barbara Schreiner

October 29, 2007

Dear Tommy,

You may not remember me, but I graduated with Mary from Saint Rose and last saw her about four years ago at a little reunion dinner at the restaurant in Armory Garage with Gail Anderson and Judy Maguire. We had such a good time and Mary was her usual upbeat self. My husband has been very ill for some time and I know what you and you family have been going through. Mary was a very special person. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy.

Sincerely,
Barbara "Bargie" LaPorte Hiney Schreiner

Pat Cebry

October 29, 2007

Tom & family, I'm sorry to hear about Mary passing away. She will be greatly missed by all of her friends. She was a nice person and a wonderful friend to many. My deepest sympathy to you, Shawn and Tim.

Ron Linstruth

October 29, 2007

Its been many years since I've seen Marry. She lived down the street with her brothers Larry, Barry, and Jimmy. She was my baby sitter and taught me the card game Fish. I am sorry to here of her passing. My thoughts and prays are with you all.

Diana Drew

October 29, 2007

Tommy, Barry, & Jimmy,
I am so sorry for the passing of your dear wife and sister Mary. I have very fond memories of her when I lived in Delmar. She was such a fun and wonderful person. She did not deserve to leave us this soon.
Hopefully she is surely now at peace and free from all pain.
Fondly,
Diana Drew

Laura Davis

October 29, 2007

Mary was a cowoker of mine and we ret. togethere. I miss her and will always think of wonderful Mary

PAUL KENIFIC

October 29, 2007

TOM
ITS BEEN MANY YEARS SINCE I'VE SEEN YOU. JUST WANTED TO SAY OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOURS
PAUL KENIFIC

Valerie Clark

October 29, 2007

Mr.D, Shawn, Tim and Family: I am so sorry to hear of Mrs. Dobert's passing. I have always held fond memories of her from our childhood years. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Michael Czwakiel

October 29, 2007

To the Dobert Family,
Mary was a wonderful person & a classy lady. I missed her very much when she left the Education Dept. My condolences to you all & take care.

Gail (Wroblewski) Kidder

October 29, 2007

Tom,Shawn and Tim,
My heart is heavy to learn of your loss. Mary was a wonderful person, always positive, always giving. There are no words to soften the pain but I know you have wonderful memories to treasure. May it help in some way to know that you are in the prayers and thoughts of many who share your sorrow. May you find peace in your hearts.

Katrina Snyder

October 29, 2007

Dobert Family,
Mary was the most wonderful person I knew. Talented and giving, generous and always good natured. I will always cherish the years I worked at the State with her, she was like a mother to us all. I am truly sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing such a beautiful person with us all.

Ed Mann

October 29, 2007

Tom and family;
We are so sorry for your lose. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

The Officers and Firefighter from the East Derry Fire Company, Lewistown, Pa.

Bev Hays

October 29, 2007

Tommy - I am so very sorry -Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers-
Bev Hays

Erma Catanzarita

October 29, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Sarah Antonacci (Perrotte)

October 29, 2007

Mr. Dobert, Shawn and Brian: It's been a long time since I've seen you all, but you haven't been far from my thoughts. Our days in the Dept. of Medicine seem forever ago, but the memories are still there. I remember Shawn how much you raved about your mom and dad. There is no doubt that you love them very much. May those memories and the support of your family be with you during this difficult time.

Edna Stokes

October 29, 2007

Dear Tom and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God give you the peace and comfort that you need in the next days and weeks. God bless.
Edna Ventura Holcomb Stokes
Tom, contact me

Greg and Lucy Gould

October 28, 2007

Tom and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mary was a wonderful person. She will be greatly missed. We are here for you if you need anything.

Seifert Family

October 28, 2007

Mr. D, Shawn, Timmy and Brian and family: We are sorry that we can not be there with you. But you are all in our thoughts each and every moment of the day. Mrs D was such a wonderful person and we will miss her dearly. Love and prayers from Colorado Tim Kris Kaitlyn and Patrick

Ravena Fire Dept

October 28, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Judi & Paul Woodin

October 28, 2007

Dear Tom
Please know that our thoughts are with you. Even though Mary is no longer suffering, and that is a good thing, the ache in your heart is still there. Hold on to your memories of the many good times the two of you shared.
We remember some good times with you both from many years back.

Toni (Palmer) Overacker

October 28, 2007

Barry, Larry and Jimmy,
I was so sad to hear of Mary's passing. What wonderful memories I have of our days growing up on Burhans and I will always remember Mary with a big smile on her face whenver I saw her as a child or adult. She was a good lady.

Virginia Ertel

October 28, 2007

Mary and Tom were Godparents to my daughter, Cyndi and Mary will be greatly missed by our entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Roberta (Bertie) Farrell

October 28, 2007

Tom and family: We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Shantell & John Vogel

October 28, 2007

Mr. Dobert & family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Shantell (Nicolla P.T. office)

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