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David
April 23, 2022
Thank you for always being a great example. RIP....Love ya bro and know you´d be proud. You´lol always be a hero in my eyes!
David
April 23, 2021
RIP brother. Much Love! Miss you and am so grateful for for time together on this earth.
Mark & Viv Johnson
May 10, 2009
Barb,
Viv and I just learned the sad news. We both worked with John a little over 10 years ago at BMY. He was a great man who will be sorely missed.
Janet Potter
May 6, 2009
Mrs. Hackenberg and Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you in this time of sorrow and sadness. You are all in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Daryl Gibson
May 4, 2009
I did not have the opportunity to know John for long, but in the time I did share with him, I found him to be very kind, caring and helpful. He has made an impact on me and he will be missed. May his family be comforted and protected in his absence.
Joe Klein
May 1, 2009
May 1, 2009
Dear Barb and family,
John and I were best friends since high school. I was John's best man in your West Point wedding. It came as a great shock to hear of John's passing. John sent me an e-mail this past Monday as he always did. We were planning to visit you guys on the 15 of May, 2009 just before my daughter's graduation from Gettysburg. I want to send my sincere condolences to you and the entire Hachenberg family. Your husband and dad was a great man. I am privileged to say I was his best friend from high school.
Jeanie Page
May 1, 2009
Barb and family,
So sorry for your loss. I have always had a special place for John in my heart. I knew him from the time he was 11 or 12.
He was a great guy. He was the glue that held the family together. So sorry I could not come down last night. I would have liked to.
His former sister-in-law
Jeanie page
Rosalind(Hill), Kevin and Kendall Payne
April 30, 2009
There are few words that seem adequate at a time like this. We are so, so sorry for your loss. John will be remembered as such a kind, pleasant man. Gone but never forgotten...he will be missed...but his memory will live on through those he knew and loved.
Matt & Hannah Waltz
April 30, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dave Snyder
April 30, 2009
I've known John since shortly after he started working here. He was a great guy with a big heart and great sense of humor. My prayers are with your family.
God bless,
Ron Jenkins
April 30, 2009
I worked with John for many years at BMY/United Defense. I always found him to be a pleasure to be around and eager to help me when I needed it. Overall, a great guy who will be missed.
Dan Sharp
April 30, 2009
I am so very sorry to hear of John's passing. I will miss him very much.
Bonnie & Chick Altland
April 30, 2009
Dear Barb and Family,
What a shock it was to hear about John's passing; he was such a kind, sweet person. He will always hold a special place in my heart. May God comfort and strengthen you during this most difficult time.
Jane Duke
April 30, 2009
Barb and family,
It was a pleasure to work with John. I am sorry I did not have a chance to get to know him better but he was always supportive. He will be missed. God bless you and help you get through this difficult time of deep sorrow.
April 30, 2009
Barb, Chris & Keith,
Our hearts go out to you at this most difficult time. We have known you for over twenty years and truly value your friendship. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. May it bring you confort to know that John will be greatly missed and always remembered.
The Hills
Bert, Betty, Rosalind & Anthony
Thomas Hook
April 30, 2009
It is my prayer that God will give you comfort and strength in this time of loss. John and I were fellow members of OCF and residents of Old South Barracks together. He was a great guy and will be greatly missed.
Thomas Hook, USMA 78
Jenny, Jarrod & Abigale Weaver-Flugum
April 30, 2009
Barb~
There are no words...We love you all.
Our prayers are with you and the boys.
Dan Ford
April 30, 2009
Barbara:
My condolences to you and your children of your loss. I remember John during our cadet days as a great person and friend. Well done John, be thou at peace.
Brent Johnson
April 30, 2009
Dear Barb and family,
My sincere condolences for John's passing. I knew him well at West Point as we were in the same company. He was always a breath of fresh air. John - well done, Sir, be thou at peace.
Brent Johnson, USMA 78
Kimberely DeFrain
April 30, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Robert Anastos
April 29, 2009
Barbara,
My condolences at your loss. I was a classmate of John's at USMA. May his memory be eternal
Karen Bogus
April 29, 2009
Dear Barb & family:
I was so shocked when I recieved the call about John. Even though I haven't seen him for quite some time I have lots of wonderful childhood memories. John, David, & Billy spent many hours in our home when we were young and he was a awesome cousin. He was always known as my dads honorary nephew because dad (Bob) was always so proud of him. My thoughts & prayers will be with you and your family. God Bless. Karen Bogus
Joe Pfanzelter
April 29, 2009
John was a great man, great soldier, great cadet. I am proud to be his classmate. Well done John; be thou at peace!
Tim Flugum
April 29, 2009
Barb, et. al.,
I am deeply saddened to hear of John's DEATH. I am remiss in not contacting you for so many years. John was the hardest working soldier I ever knew. Our days in the 94th live in the most sacred part of my heart. I know John is at peace. He loved his family more than anything.
You are a brave woman. You were always by his side and I admire and respect you for that.
John really aspired to our class motto, "Proud and Great, 78!
Barb ... I pray that you find peace in this difficult hour. tlf
[email protected]
Bob Hendrick
April 29, 2009
Barbara, my prayers are with your family, losing a good man from West Point, where I knew John for many years.
Tony Smith
April 29, 2009
Dear Barbara and Family-
John was a fine classmate, fellow Redleg, and a great friend. I am very sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our prayers during this difficult time.
Tony and Ellie Smith
April 29, 2009
Barb and family:
Although I haven't seen John for many years, he was a great friend and classmate at West Point. Always lit up the room with his warmth and humor, and the kind of guy you could count on to get the job done or help a friend in need. He was a great patriot that demonstrated one can selflessly serve your country both in uniform and out. You and your family will be in our thoughts -- and we pray you can all draw strength from the rich and full life John lived.
Sincerely,
Steve Anderson, USMA Class of 1978
BG, US Army (HQDA G43, Pentagon)
Rich VanOrsdale
April 29, 2009
I have known John ("Hack") since Beast Barracks 1974. He was always a helluva guy and one of the best comrades and classmates!
Well done, Hack!
Joe Buckel
April 29, 2009
Mrs. Hackenburg,
Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. It came as a shock when Mrs. Botterbusch told us in class today. Hang in there and let us know if there is anything we can do.
Kathy Byers
April 29, 2009
Dear Barb and family,
Words can not express the shock and sorrow that I felt when I received the call about John's passing. He was such a great guy and I will always remember the many weekends spent at the house with him and Uncle Ken and the boys. Please know you are my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Kathy Byers(cousin)
Dusty Pilcher
April 29, 2009
Barb,
I had the privilege and pleasure working with John for many years. He was a valued colleague and friend and will be sorely missed by all who knew him. I sincerely enjoyed his company professionally and personally and he spoke often of the pride he felt for his family. It is sometimes impossible to understand why events happen as they do, but I hope you and your family can find some consolation in this time of deep sorrow in the good life John lived and the positive influence he had on others. Know that he ran the good race.
Diana Crider
April 29, 2009
Barb and family,
I have known John for only four short years I have been with BAE; but he was always such a nice and funny man. He will be missed. My thoughts are with your family in this difficult time.
Phillip Heim
April 29, 2009
Barb & Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. John was a wonderful, kind, sincere, and compassionate man. I am so thankful for the opportunity that I had in working with him. May the Lord Bless you always...
Larry Smith
April 29, 2009
Dear Barb and Family,
John was always someone we could count on. I have fond memories of his support on the programs we were both involved in through work.
He was an asset to the team and will be both missed, and remembered fondly.
Laura Sciortino
April 29, 2009
Barb and family,
It was truly a pleasure to work for John. He was always supportive and good-natured--a genuinely nice man. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this extremely difficult time.
Julianne Snyder
April 29, 2009
Dear Barb and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. It is never easy to deal with and I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joan Dahr
April 29, 2009
Barb, Chris and Keith,
I worked with John for many years. He was a very compassionate, caring individual. I know how much he loved his family--it was evident his expression and voice when he spoke of you. He was always very supportive of the people who worked for him and was there when we needed him. He will be greatly missed and always remembered.
God Bless you and help you through this.
Jane and Steve Rash
April 29, 2009
Barb, Chris and Keith,
We were shocked to hear of John's passing. He was a great guy, a good friend, and a person whose company everyone enjoyed. We wish you all God's blessings during your time of grief.
Doreen Wonner
April 29, 2009
My thoughts and Prayers go out to the family
David Hackenberg
April 29, 2009
I love you brother. You were a great example of consideration and love. You will remain in my heart forever; your influence will show for others so they can benefit from the mark you left this side of Heaven..... you were a servant and a freind with a humble heart.
"The value of all service lies in the spirit in which you serve and not in the importance or magnitude of the service. Even the lowliest task or deed is made holy, joyous, and prosperous when it is filled with love."
~ Charles Fillmore
You enriched everything you participated in..... we are all better for having experienced your joy and enthusiasm.....
God Bless you as he has us through you,
Your brother,
David
April 29, 2009
Dear Barb and family,
Sally and I are thinking of you at this difficult time. May your memories of a wonderful husband and father sustain you.
Your friends are here for you.
Love, Sally and Sylvia
Tom Strickler
April 29, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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