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Nicolai Sowpel Obituary

53, of Simsbury, CT and 20 year resident of Boston was Born in Hartford, CT July 2, 1954 and died March 23, 2008 in Orange City, FL. He leaves his parents, Elvia & Nicolai Sowpel Sr. of Orange City, FL; his beloved Mindy Sherman of West Roxbury; 2 sisters and brother-in-laws, Kim & Jeff Lary of Vernon, CT and Karen & Ralph Jacob of Weatogue, CT; 2 nieces, Sara and Katie Jacob of Weatogue; a cousin and wife, George & Patricia Sowpel of Dennis; and many friends. Kip graduated from Simsbury High School, attended Ricker College in ME and graduated from Nichols College in Dudley, MA. He received his teaching certification from Westfield State College. Kip was a special education teacher at COMPASS School in Jamaica Plain for 18 years. He also worked at a group home through Delta Projects in Needham. Kip was an avid sports fan, playing and coaching a variety of sports throughout his life. He pioneered the first public school girls' ice hockey team in CT at Simsbury High School in 1987 and remained their head coach thru 2008. He received numerous awards throughout his coaching career, including a coach of the year sportsmanship award in 2005. In 2007, Kip was honored by having the CCGHL championship trophy renamed the SOWPEL CUP for his dedication and endless support of girls' ice hockey. Kip devoted his life to coaching hockey and teaching and caring for some of the most vulnerable people in his community. Calling Hours will be held on Fri., April 4th at Vincent Funeral Home, 880 Hopmeadow St., Simsbury, CT from 4-7. A service to celebrate Kip's life will be held on Sat., April 5th at First Church of Christ, 689 Hopmeadow St., Simsbury, CT at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his name to The Kidney Foundation.

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Published by Boston Globe on Mar. 31, 2008.

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March 4, 2009

Kipper, You have left a vast mountain range of dedication and service for the sport of girls ice hockey in CT. Even today phones ring with your influence in the sport.........Your Mom and Dad are very proud and so are the fellow coaches that understand the humanness that comes from mentoring the players over the two decades. You are the Best ! We carry that torch, my friend.
Respectfully, your CCGHL confidente.

CHAD DE BONIS

July 6, 2008

I COACHED FOOTBALL WITH KIP AT SIMSBURY HIGH. HE WAS ALWAYS GOING FOR THE SCORE, LEAVING MY DEFENSIVE TEAM IN THEIR OWN TERRITORY.
WE HAD GREAT TIMES WITH THE PLAYERS AND STAFF OVER THE YEARS.
I THOUGHT OF HIM OFTEN .
I JUST RECEIVED WORD OF HIS PASSING.
MAYBE HE IS STILL GOING FOR THAT BIG SCORE---HOPEFULLY HE WILL GET IT.
GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
CHAD DE BONIS-NC.

Simsbury Hockey Team - 2007 Remembered

April 15, 2008

Erika Millstein

April 5, 2008

In my fondest memories of a beloved ice hockey coach, Kip is standing sneaker-clad under the bright lights of the newly renovated Simsbury Farms Ice Rink. It is late, probably 10 or 11 pm, on a cold Monday night in January, and Kip is slaming his hockey stick on the ice. Bang... bang... bang. He says nothing, just slams his stick and watches with a serious face. It is a simple but effective warning. Skate.
With dedication and love, if not always with patience, Kip shaped a generation of Simsbury girls. In his demand of us to "be the best" he instilled a strong work-ethic, self-confidence, discipline in his girls. We will carry these gifts throughout our lives, so that in his passing Kip leaves a legacy of love and the insititution of women's ice hockey in Simsbury.

I wish Kip's loved ones comfort and peace during this time of mourning.

Dave Norris

April 4, 2008

My deepest sympathies to all of Kip's family and friends. He was a unique individual and one of the few truly nice guys in the world.

Paul Cialfi

April 4, 2008

Mr. and Mrs. Sowpel, Karen, Kim and families,

I wanted to express my heartfelt condolences to you all on Kip's passing. He was a good friend and we had similar "temperments", which made our many discussions over the years interesting, exciting and above all entertaining for us and all who were around us. I will miss him very much. Even though I had not seen Kip regularly for some years, when I did we connected as if we had spoken the previous day. I was fortunate enough to see him some weeks back after he had returned to town and we spoke for a few minutes. He gave me one of those famous bear hugs, as he always did, and with that I will always remember the kind heart, kind soul and good person he was.

The Lou Family

April 3, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The day the Kip Cup came home!

April 2, 2008

kathleen phelan

April 1, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Kips loved ones at this time. It is with gratitude that we remember the time Kip spent with our girls on the ice these past two years..."Be the Best" will always be a part of Simsbury High Schools girls hockey team...thanks Kip.

David Manzo

March 31, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Kip’s family, Mindy and all those who loved him. I’ve known Kip for 35 years as a friend, employer and fellow NEBL owner. I always appreciated how much the big guy relished life and how much he let his genuine care for others shine through.

At COMPASS we worked together for 15 years, I watched Kip touch the lives of many very troubled inner-city young men and women. Kids who had been abused or neglected were treated with respect by Kip and the students returned that respect to Kip. For many years Kip would take our students to Gettysburg and Washington DC during the spring. For nearly all, this was their first travel experience. Kip had them well prepared for the historical sites and would somehow find a way to see a baseball game a Camden Yards.

A citizen of two cities, Boston and Simsbury, he will be greatly missed in both.

Debi

March 31, 2008

Kip was my hockey coach many many years ago. I was a member of the first girl's team at Simsbury High School ('87/'88-'90/'91). Kip would commute all the way from Boston to teach us so much! I went to a girl's H.S. game a couple years ago and was SO impressed with how he had brought the team to such great levels! He will be missed. May God bless his family.

March 31, 2008

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May you treasure your many wonderful memories of a life well-lived. You are in the thoughts and prayers of many. Romans 12:12.

Chris DeRocher

March 31, 2008

I am happy I had a chance to meet and work with Kip. He will be missed

Tamra & Ralph Ginise

March 31, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mindy and the Sowpel family during this difficult time. Kip was a such wonderful guy with a big heart and he will be sadly missed.
With deepest condolences,

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