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Matthew Thielhelm Obituary

Of E. Falmouth, formerly of Marblehead, age 27, died Sunday, May 25 at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. He was the beloved son of Philip and Mary Jane (McColgan) Thielhelm, and the brother of Tara and Philip John, and brother in-law of Ossama Hamdy. Raised in Marblehead he briefly attended the Marblehead Public Schools before going to the Kennedy Day School in Brighton. Matthew resided at Crotched Mountain Rehabilitation Center in Greenfield, NH for five years. He currently attended the program at Habilitation Assistance Corporation Systems, Pocassett. Matthew's current residence was run by Community Systems, Inc. MA on Cape Cod. There he enjoyed the tender loving care of his devoted staff. Matthew brought much love to all those who knew him and cared for him. He will be greatly missed for his loving spirit, sweet charm, and good humor. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, 85 Atlantic Avenue, Marblehead on Thursday at 10AM. Relatives and friends respectfully invited. Visitation will be on Wednesday from 4-8PM at the Eustis Cornell Funeral Home, 142 Elm Street, MARBLEHEAD. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Tuberous Sclerosis Alliance, P.O. Box 79953, Baltimore, MD 21298-8132 and Community Systems, Inc. MA 280 Route 130, Building A, Unit 1 & 2, Forestdale, MA 02644. Please visit the online guestbook for Matthew at www.mem.com

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Published by Boston Globe on May 27, 2008.

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Lynn Reed

June 2, 2008

Mary Jane, Phil , Phil & Tara
My thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you

Cre Ann Dorey

May 29, 2008

Mary Jane, Phillip, Phil and Tara,
There was something "magical" about Matthew's smile and the twinkle in his eyes. It is what I will always remember about Matthew.
My thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.
Cre

Jean and Bob Vecchiarello

May 28, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Kimberly Staples

May 28, 2008

MaryJane, Phillip and Family,
Words can not express how saddened we were to hear of Matthew's passing. Please know that he is amongst the most special angels there are. Ranger Pete will take special care of his friend.
With Love
Kim Staples and The Sawin Family

Mary Mahoney

May 27, 2008

Miracles visit us in so many hidden ways; Mattie was surely one of those gifts, sent to enrich all the lives of those he touched. His touch is felt by all who know his family, especially those of us privileged to work with you, MJ, his dear mother, and our exemplary coworker. The Hood School 101ers were so sorry to hear of your loss. Their serious little eyes would warm your heart. . . a tribute to all you give to all of us every day. What you and Mattie have given will surely come back to you.
With heartfelt thanks and hopes,
Mary Mahoney

Sheila Batchelder

May 27, 2008

My prayers are with your family. May God's spirit help you through these hard times.

Nancy Ford

May 27, 2008

Hi Matt: So glad that your dear brother Philip and I got a chance to see you and have a lovely visit before you left us. You will be very much missed by many, especially your brother who loved you so very much! Love, Nancy Ford

Cynthia(Cindy) Jokinen

May 27, 2008

I read the obituaries daily, to find out if any former neighbors or classmates have passed way; I was raised in Cambridge and now live in Greene Maine. My youngest son is 27 and I had to let you know how sorry I am you lost Matthew. My daughter has a terminal disease and I do know as a mp0ther hw it feels to k0w u will loose your child. I hope he did not hve a great del of pain. My very heartfelt to all; whoi knew and lolved hoinm . Cindy a complete stranger who cares.

betsy cabral

May 27, 2008

so many things to remember about our mattie. even tho i only saw mattie a couple of times in the last two years, i have many memories with matt. going out for pizza, watching and walking along the boardwalk at the falmouth marina, looking at the boats, walking on the beach, snuggling on the sofa watching sports, his great sense of humor and there was such a sweetness that was so much a part of mattie. i love mattie and he will be missed by all who knew him. xoxo betsy

shannon merrifield

May 27, 2008

matty baby, you will be missed by many every day. WE all love you so much.. over here at hanson circle everything is just not quite the same without our big boii matthew.Matty youve personall touched my life forever, words can not exspress the impact that you have made on all of us. Our handsome boii matthew we miss you everyday, im blessed to have gotten to work with you everyday and was given the oppertuity to take care of you.. these 3yrs ive been at hanson i came in smiling n left here smiling everyday beacuse of you.You always had this abliity to make the saddest person in the room leave smiling on the regular. The happiest most lovable boy thats touched so many ,I love you babi and i know your happy dancing with all the angels and eating all the oreo cookies you can get your little hands on.Your smile and big blue eyes lit up our hearts everyday and you made hanson a family. we all love you and your going to be missed everyday hansome, the dinners and dances will never be the same but we know your up there dancing with the angles teaching them all your moves...our beloved matthew i want to thank you so much for being in my life n im sure i speak for many in saying that matty will always be remembered as a happy strong boy that touched everyones heart with just one encounter... matty your truly a blessing.we all going to miss you, forever in our hearts.<3shannon staff at hanson circle. matthews quote ""If you stumble make it part of the dance."

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