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Lauri Bortolotti Obituary

43, of Newton, June 6, 2008. Beloved mother of Kevin, Michaela, and Erin McTomney. Fiance' of Joshua E. Davidson. Cherished daughter of Fred Bortolotti and the late Barbara Bortolotti. Dear sister of Alfred Bortolotti of Hanover, Catherine Simisky of Shrewsbury, Sharon Bjorkman of Marshfield, Barbara Connick of Hull, Dale Bortolotti of Hyde Park and Frederick Bortolotti of Hull. Lauri was a dedicated third grade school teacher at Memorial Spaulding School in the Newton Public Schools. She enjoyed coaching young children and was a Little League head coach and a champion of children with special needs. Most of all, she was a loving and dedicated mother to her beautiful three children. Ultimately, Lauri succumbed to leukemia which she fought with courage and grace, under the care of the wonderful doctors, nurses and staff of the Dana Farber Cancer Institute. Funeral Mass Wednesday at 10:30 AM in Our Lady Help of Christians Church, 573 Washington St, Newton. Interment in Newton Cemetery. Visiting hours Tuesday 4-8pm in the Andrew J. Magni & Son F.H., 365 Watertown St, Rt. 16, NEWTON. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Lauri's name would be appreciated and may be made to the: Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, P.O. Box 9025, Pittsfield, MA 01202. www.magnifuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Jun. 8 to Jun. 9, 2008.

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Michaela Mctomney

April 19, 2020

I miss you. It been getting tougher as I get older. In school i've been learning on how to help patients cope with loss and I don't know if thats what has been getting to me these past couple of weeks or its the fact that I am finally grieving you. I always wonder how it would be if you were here. Kevin and Erin are two of the most amazing people I know in this world and im so lucky I get to have them forever by my side. Dads really great too, he is the best dad we could have asked for so thank you for choosing him. We love you and miss you so much.

Chuck Martin

April 5, 2012

I had the distinct pleasure to know Lauri our senior year at Westfield State College. Anytime I ran across Lauri on campus she would give a big hello and flash that wonderful smile. God bless you Lauri.

Anonymous Anonymous

June 6, 2010

Erin, Kevin, Michaela... I hope you guys are doing alright. We miss you around here and love you so much

Anonymous Anonymous

December 10, 2009

Ms. B,

I have been debating whether or not to write this for many months now. I hope that, somehow, you can see what I am about to say..

You are one of the most amazing people I will EVER know. As a former student of yours, I am lucky enough to have many memories of our time together.

One memory that still stands out loud in clear in my mind is right before the MCAS test. This was the first time we had ever took it, and we were scared out of our wits. You, being the incredible person you are, took this oppertunity to have some fun. You made every single person in our third grade class stand atop our chairs. Then, you stuck your hands in the air like a bear might, "ROARR!!" We were shocked. After all, no yelling in school! You instructed each of us to do the same thing, screaming all of our fears out. When it was time for the test, we were as loose as can be, laughing and smiling.

Another day, there was a huge thunderstorm. Some kids were crying, but even those who weren't were terrified. You swiftly ended our lesson, saying, "There are more important things..." You turned off the lights, leaving the classroom pitch black. This scared us even more. What was Ms. B going to do next? You instructed us to sit down in a circle on the carpet. You pulled out a flashlight...and we told ghost stories!

Anyone reading this should now be able to tell how truly, truly extraordinary Ms. Bought-A-Lot-Of-Tea (This is how she helped us learn to pronounce her name...) was and that she will live in our hearts and minds forever.

To Kevin, Michaela, and Erin, I want you to know the way your mom talking about you to us. One day she came into school upset. We all asked her whats wrong, and she told us, "Erin woke up today and she wasn't in a good mood. I didn't know what to do to make it better." Just the fact that you were unhappy distracted her for the whole day. Your mom came in everyday with a story about you guys, and every single time you could just feel the energy and love she felt towards you.

To Josh,

Every time you would show up in our class, whether it was to drop off a lunch or just to say hi, it made our day. Whenever Ms. B knew that you were going to be coming, she would tell us, over and over again, "Josh is coming in today during science." And then, during science, she would keep looking over at the door, as if saying "When's he coming??" I know that you know she loves you, but I want you to know that she carried that love into our classroom.

And, finally, to Ms. B,

We love you. We always will love you. And I promise, we will never forget you.

Love always and forever,

Your Students, 3rd grade of '06

June 14, 2009

Hi Barbara and the rest of the Bortolotti family.
I want to let you all know that I presented a scholarship to an eighth grade graduate from St Agatha's this past Friday night.
It was an honor to do so.
On behalf of all of our 1978 St Agatha's classmates, we gave a one time scholarship for $1300.00 to a wonderful girl and presented it in Lauri's name!
God Bless.
Love,
David Clifford
P.S. If possible please send me an email and I can forward you the photo.
[email protected]

June 7, 2009

Not a day goes by that I do not think about you and how much I miss talking to you.
Much Love!!!!!

Roseanne Davidson

February 22, 2009

Well its been a bit of time, I knew it wouldnt get easier. But I didnt know I would think of you at the oddest times......... still. Still miss you hon , always in my thoughts.

Sheila Regan

October 8, 2008

Hey Lau,
Just got back from a wake of a co-worker's Husband, He passed away at 47 from Leukemia. Please welcome him into your beautiful place. I told him about you, so he is waiting to meet you.
I miss you crazy!!!

XXOO
Sheila

October 2, 2008

Hi Lau,
Still really missing you. Would give anything in the world right now to talk to you and hear your voice.
I thought it got easier with time.
I was just looking at Halloween pictures--made me smile, especially when you walked in as a gorilla!!!
Miss you something awful!!!
xxoo ME

September 11, 2008

Hi Honey,
Spoke with your girl---she likes a boy in her class, she is too cute and a lot like you. Hoping to catch one of Kevin's football games. I guess he is doing really good and likes it.
Miss you crazy!!!!!!!!!!!
ME

September 10, 2008

Hey Lau,
Happy Anniversary!
Jost send the Christmas present you got me------------Thanks, I loved it.
Hey I am going to write you a lot and want you to know if the words are misspelled it is because I am PATTING MY EYE----NOT RUBBING THEM----I know you remember Jim's advice. You sooo made us smile!!!!

Roseanne Davidson

August 31, 2008

Hey Lauri, its been almost 3 months and I gutta tell ya the cape is just not the same for me, only been down twice, which you know isnt me. I soooooo miss you, love ya.

Sheila Regan

August 11, 2008

Hey Lau,
Just got off IM with Michaela---They all talk through the computer now. I am planning on picking them up tomorrow for Patrick's B-Day party. I sooo wish you could here to see Michaela do her stunts in the pool. They are spending a couple days this week. We will be doing Canobie at the end of the month.
Framed lots of pix of you and the kids----OMG---I miss you soooo much!!!!

Pool Fun!!!

July 26, 2008

Friends Forever!!!!!

July 26, 2008

Fun at Canobie Lake

July 26, 2008

OMG----You guys need to fo to bed!!! NOW!!!

July 26, 2008

READY FOR A DIVE----OH I MEAN BELLY FLOP

July 26, 2008

How Cute am I?????

July 26, 2008

Hey Mom look t me!!!!!!!!

July 26, 2008

July 16, 2008

Hi Babygirl,
I miss you sweet-stuff. I miss you with all that I am. I love you with all of my heart----Thanks for always being with me----I will be with you
Love Big Sister Barbie

Laura (Geary) Halpin Deckel

July 15, 2008

I worked with Lauri at BCBSMA from 1988 through 2001. I was just made aware of her passing and it saddened me deeply. I will always remember her bright smile and her kindess. I could always cound on Lauri to lift me up when things got crazy. I will keep Lauri and her family in my prayers.

Laura (Geary) Halpin Deckel
Plymouth, Massachusetts

July 14, 2008

Hey Lau
Making plans to take the kids!!! I can not even express how much I miss you. I went out to breakfast with my friend Karen--you met her at my Halloween Party. She was talking about her job as a caterer----OMG----remember when I hit the guy in the head with my tray when we attempted that???? I got fired and you were AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!

July 10, 2008

Hey Lauri, LAte as usual but a hppy bday, when are we going out to celebrate, penners, LOL. I miss you more than you will ever know.
Happy birthday sweetie

Sheila Regan

July 6, 2008

July 6, 2008

Hey Lau--------feel the need to talk---I miss you sooo very very much, but thanks for being with me in the ways you have been!!!
Love you!!!
S

Sheila Regan

July 2, 2008

Happy Birthday Day Lau---Just minutes after your Day---The way it has always been!!!!!
Think about you daily!

XXOO
Sheila

Charlie & Debra Porzio

June 13, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sean & Doreen Browne

June 11, 2008

We are sorry for the loss of your loved one. You will be in our prayers.

Louise Haddad

June 10, 2008

My deepest to all of you. I shall remember her in my prayers.

Diana (Hidalgo) Eysie

June 10, 2008

Sharon & family,
I was so saddened to hear about your sister and although it's been many years since we have seen each other, I think of you and your family often. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Scout & Liberty Grow

June 10, 2008

Our prayers go out to Josh and Lauri's family at this time. May God keep you all in the palm of his hand during this time of sorrow and loss.

Carla

June 10, 2008

Such a loss to a wonderful family... No words come... just that I am so sorry for your loss of Laurie. Hold her memories close. My love to you all... Cousin Carla...

liz mctomney

June 9, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Tony Paone

June 9, 2008

Deepest sympathy to you and family.


Tony & Louise Paone

Anonymous Anonymous

June 9, 2008

I loved Ms.B more than anyone could ever imagine. I am so sorry to Josh, Kevin, Michaela, and Erin. They remind me so much of Ms.B and they are just as kind and caring. She was a fabulous teacher and the world will not be quite as good of a place without her.

Kathy Jewett

June 9, 2008

I worked with Lauri at Blue Cross Blue Shield over 20 years ago. She influenced me with her vibrant, cheerful and considerate personality. I loved working with her and will never forget her! She was such a good sport at our department softball games and always brought Dale along. She loved to play tricks on us (supervisors) at BCBS, and was a very cunning practical joker as well. I recall she hid my dancing raisin desktop toys ("I heard it thru the grapevine") in the mens room and I had to pay an employee to go in their and get them. I always enjoyed working with her and often wondered where she went. I was so saddened to hear of her passing, but am very fortunate to have come into contact with her, as she was a pleasure to know and love.

Bob and Susan Soldani

June 9, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to you, Sharon and Phil on the death of your very special sister and sister-in-law. God has taken her much too soon, but we pray that the wonderful memories you have of her will give you the strength to walk on. We are thinking of you.

Robin Shaye

June 9, 2008

Lauri was always vibrant with a sparkling smile. She was a loving, caring mother to her gorgeous children Kevin, Michaela and Erin, who reflected their mother's gentle kindness. Lauri was amazing, with so much energy and exuberance! We had long, heartfelt conversations during some difficult times and she always stayed positive and hopeful. Her spirit will live through Kevin, Michaela and Erin; and may the strength she's given them help them through this difficult time.

Glenn Lymous

June 9, 2008

Lauri has fought and won her battle. We will now cherish the memories and share loving thoughts of her times here with family and friends. Her presence will be missed.(Glenn Lymous, Charlotte, NC)

KYMBERLY & Keith Davidson

June 8, 2008

Lauri will be very much missed.But I know that her love an courage will blanket us all. My deepest love to her family, thank you for bringing such a shining light into all of our lives.

Rose Young-Stewart

June 8, 2008

Remember Laurie, God and Take her by the Hand as you Cross The Great Divide.

Ryan Fleming

June 8, 2008

I had the privilege of knowing Lauri, albeit for all too brief a time. I had the chance to see her in one of her elements - teaching children. Even though I only got to see her interact with her students for about an hour, I learned that she was someone who really loved what she did and cared about the impact she made on those around her, in particular her students. Lauri made a difference, and the world is a better place for her having been a part of it.

My heart aches for Lauri's family and everyone to whom she was close. Though she is no longer with us in her physical form, her spirit will live on through those whose lives she touched. I hope you find strength in one another during this difficult time, and that your memories of Lauri will bring you comfort. You are not alone in your sorrow, and you are in our thoughts.

Love and peace,

Ryan Fleming

Hank Van Putten

June 8, 2008

On behalf of the faculty at the Oak Hill Middle School, I extend our deepest condolences to Lauri's family at this most difficult of times. You all are in our prayers as you go forward from here each day. May peace be with you.

Hank Van Putten
Principal
Oak Hill Middle School

Bill Flaherty

June 8, 2008

I watched Lauri grow from a cute little girl to a beautiful woman over the last 40 years.It is sad that she is taken away at such a young age but I am sure the Good Lord has a special place for her. My thoughts and prayers are with all the "Borts"

Roseanne Davidson

June 8, 2008

My heart goes out to her children and family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lauri was a shining star on this earth and will be missed dearly by all that had the privledge to have known her. The cape will never be the same without her smiling face and a hug. She fought this battle with courage and pride, as she did all lifes ups and downs.

Rest in peace my friend, I will miss you dearly.

Marilyn Johnson

June 8, 2008

We send our sincere condolences to the Bortolotti family. Marilyn and George Johnson

Terri White

June 7, 2008

Lauri and I worked together at BCBS right after she graduated from college. Lauri was so beautiful on both the inside and outside. Laurie gave me a coffee mug that I still have that reads, "I like you just the way you are" (I was 9 months pregnant at the time). We lost touch throughout the years but I always wondered about her and where she settled down. I always hoped our paths would cross again.
She loved all of her family so much and spoke about you all daily. I was so saddened to open the newspaper today and read about her passing. Please accept my sincerest sympathy for this great loss.

Rita Casadio

June 7, 2008

You are all in my thoughts and prayers especially during this time. I may be far away but you are all a special part of my memories that I will alway cherish.

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