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for Alastair Hudson
Sponsored by Robert Taylor of Chelsea, London, best man at Alastairs wedding and a friend and admirer for life.
charles cross
May 31, 2011
I worked with Alistair on renovating a house in North Andover in 2003. I resolved a building inspector's beef, doing the necessary inspection, measurements, engineering calculations and drawings. I did some other work with the property also following that. It was really cool to meet a fellow Englishman and Alistair was an interesting and warm person. He invited me to his house and we had a beer. After that, I moved to PA and I had a shock when I returned to MA years later, I started to go about contacting him and found out the news. It is hard news to bear - I am a father myself and that brings it home harder.
Jean Clements
July 12, 2009
When I worked at Net-Temps I had the good fortune to meet some truly wonderful people, with my boss Alastair Hudson easily topping that list. This past Thursday I enjoyed a long overdue visit with a couple of my former co-workers after not having seen them in about 5 years. Somewhere between the first and second cocktail, Alastair’s tragic accident was mentioned and the girls were horrified to realize that I hadn’t known about it. The rest of the evening is a blur to me as my brain tried to comprehend what I’d just learned. Thinking that they must surely be mistaken somehow, arriving at home I immediately turned to Google and was directed to this page. The letters and words on the screen seem wrong – like they’re saying something that can’t possibly be true.
Jessica, as I read through your messages here on these pages, I can picture Alastair’s face and his smile when he talked about you. His delight in you, your relationship, and your two little boys, was so palpable that it didn’t even matter what he was saying – it was the way he said it. It made me feel as though I knew you even though we only met a couple of times, and I got a real chuckle out of watching the two of you chase your boys around at a co-workers cookout in NH, what seems like a million years ago. I still have the NY Firefighter T-Shirt that you and he brought back from Ground Zero for my son Carter. And the email that Alastair sent me in response to my request for a job reference a few years ago included details of how he had surprised you with going to not one but two Paul McCartney concerts… He told of how you two actually ran into Paul McCartney after the show, and Alastair’s wit shone through as he described how you held McCartney’s hand throughout the conversation.
Alastair had to fire me from my sales job (I was pretty bad at it… he tried to help me as much as he could) and I’ve thought of that moment fondly over the years. It was hysterical. He was sad, downtrodden and completely miserable, and I was the one consoling him! One of my favorite things about Alastair was that while he was patient, kind, and understanding, he was a very smart man and a hard worker who did not suffer fools gladly. He possessed rare qualities that made him an inspiration to those who had the privilege of knowing him. To say that I am saddened by his death is inadequate and I wish that I had known when it happened. Then again, we lost my husband’s father in a hit and run accident last July 18th, and if I’d been reeling from the shock of Alastair’s accident at that time I don’t know how I could’ve been of much use to anyone.
Thank you to Mr. Taylor for arranging to keep this tribute page online, providing a place for remembrances as well as condolences. And thank you to Alastair Hudson for being someone worth remembering.
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Jessica Hudson
June 18, 2009
I can hardly believe a year has passed since we last got to hold Alastair. I remember that last morning as if it were yesterday. It was a beautiful sunny morning. Alastair had already left for his over-night trip when I heard him pull back into the driveway. I was in the back yard hauling trees and branches that he had cut down the day before. I went to the driveway to say hi and to see what he forgot. (Alastair often came back home after he left for the day to get all the things he forgot). He was in such a good mood. He was excited for his over night trip...he loved getting out on the road and traveling. We talked about Davids play-off game the following night and how Alastair would make sure to be home for it. David was the first Hudson to ever make it into a baseball play-off game. Alastair was bursting with pride. We kissed and said good bye. As with every time he left the house, my parting words to him were 'drive carefully'. I always worried when he was on the road and felt like I was casting magical protection on him when I said this. He never left the house without hearing these words from me. I wish I said it louder- I wish I shouted it.
Joshua Nichols
June 18, 2009
Raise a glass to Alastair Hudson, A close friend, and awesome employer, and a loving family man. IT was a year ago that he was in a fatal truck accident. He died not saving the world, not preventing the apocolypse, but working and providing for his family. His death carries within, an inherent nobility. I wish I could be more like him.
He was an example of everything someone should be. A loving father, I remember one day, He had just come back from a round trip to new york. He had left at 3ish that morning and had just gotten back that evening. We were talking and, as his kids got home, he excused himself from the conversation, as they ran up to him and gave him a big hug. To this day I cant decide if he was happier to see them or if they were happier to see him. It was right there at that moment, I knew what kind of man I wanted to be when I grow up.
During the many projects I completed at his house, I couldnt help but notice all of the pictures of him and his wife, Jessica. They were always smiling, you could tell the smiles wern't the kind of smiles we all faked during our senior pictures of high school. These were facial expressions conveying true happiness.
He owned a real estate investment firm. He hired me to work for him, at first tracking down houses, and later helping managing projects and doing everything from electrical to painting. He was always so impressed with my abilities. He always made me feel wanted and needed. I felt like his right hand man at work. I felt irreplaceable. He was the first person, employer or not, to make me feel that way. He was always polite and never screwed anyone in any business dealing. In fact, his good nature was played upon once by a laborer we had hired to do some work. He had such a positive outlook on life and mankind. A quality I wish I posessed.
I remember, when I was in college and broke. I needed a replacement laptop. I frequently used the laptop for work and he offered to loan me the money to purchase a new one. I was so amazed by his generousity. He didnt have collatoral and I could have just as easily skipped town. But he trusted me, i made sure never to betray that.
Alastair always trusted me. Whether it was babysitting his kids or fixing his minivan, he always had trust and faith in me and my abilities.
I worked on so many houses with him its hard to keep them all straight. There were many good memories. My one regret is not being as much of a friend to him. Whenever we saw each other it was always for work. We never got a beer outside of work, I never realized how alike the two of us were. Jessica later told me how many things he and I had in common. I wish we had talked more.
A year ago he left his house to do a drive to new york. He went underneath a semi-truck and was killed on impact. He died taking care of his family. Doing what it took to provide for them. That is, in my opinion, the nobelest way for anyone to die.
I remember getting the call from his father-in-law. I was outside washing my car and my cell rang. It was his home number so I assumed it was him. I had just finished putting in a pool pump and fixing up his new van. I answered the phone with mixed emotions. Half glad that he was calling me as it was the possibility for more work, half worried that one of the two repairs (the van or the pool pump) had let go and broken. I remember feeling in my pocket for my keys, ready at a moments notice to head over there just incase something had gone wrong.
I answered the phone to hear his father in law's voice. He told me what had happened. I collapsed in my driveway. Ashley (my fience) came running over to me and was gref-stricken by the news as well. That was the worst day of my, (and im sure many other people's) life.
I miss him dearly.
Marrianne
May 10, 2009
Dear Jessica,
Thank-you for your note regarding Alastair. I had looked him up on the uship site after not hearing back and was absolutely floored to find out what had happened and was sorry that I had even sent the e-mail as it would logically be painful for you to continue to receive communication after Alistair's passing. I am so very very sorry for you and your family to have sustained such a tragic loss. Alastair was such a lovely man and spoke so kindly and lovingly of you and his children... I can't imagine what a loss this has been to all of you. As for me .. it has served to make me think about how very precious life is and how we should not take anything for granted. I wish you and your family the very best and will keep you in my prayers.
Regards,
Marianne
Robert Taylor
March 22, 2009
Am sure Big Al was jumping up and down yesterday as Ireland's rugby team won their first Grand Slam in 60+years - I know that today we would have been on the phone talking about all the action from the last 12 weeks of International Rugby - I really miss those chats with Alastair...
Thinking of you all
Kindest
Robert
Robert Taylor
March 15, 2009
Jessie....
As you may know I havent been in contact with Nick and Fiona for over 8yrs, however this morning we spoke for the 1st time after my quest to track him down succeeded...
Both Fiona and Nick and their 2 boys send their best wishes to you and will make a prayer for you all, especially Alastair... am sending them your contact details later today...
Am sure Al is watching the English football Leagues wondering what will happen especially to our beloved Nottingham Forrest, its also the Rugby 6-nations too atm, something he would be glued to the box in some Boston Irish bar watching with total focus... its at times like this that I miss being able to gauge his opinion on whats going on with english sport and contrast with the amercian games...
Kindest regards and love to all
Robert aka "the magic"
Donna Cowie
March 12, 2009
Jessica, Andrew and David. I am so shocked to hear of Alastair's passing. He was a wonderful person. Please call me Jessica at 781-944-2900 if you need to talk. I've been through the passing of my husband when my 2 sons were 12 & 14 almost 16 yrs. ago. I am so very sorry.
Donna Cowie at Argeros Insurance Agency
Great Dad!
December 13, 2008
Proud Uncle of Dylan
December 13, 2008
Proud Uncle of Erik
December 13, 2008
A wonderful son
December 13, 2008
Rain or shine we loved being together
December 13, 2008
December 13, 2008
Giggling with the kids
December 13, 2008
Dedicated Brother-in-law
December 13, 2008
Uncle Alastair and Dylan Christmas
December 13, 2008
Fun in Florida
joella wieselquist
December 13, 2008
Some sweet photos. With love.
Jessica Hudson
October 24, 2008
We are now into another season without Alastair. Autumn was always Alastair's favorite time of year. World Series, The Patriots, crisp air and bright blue skies.
Yesterday I was mowing the lawn and thinking about him. First off, it was his job...but secondly about how much he loved a green lawn. When Andrew was a baby and a young toddler, Alastair would carry Andrew on his back in one of those baby back packs while he mowed the lawn. Andrew would crank his neck over Alastair's shoulder and watch as his daddy mowed the lawn. Once Andrew got too big for the back pack, he would walk next to Alastair, pushing his own toy mower. The two of them loved to mow the lawn.
Thanks to our neighbors and friends, we have a pretty strong front lawn growing in. It makes me sad that he is not here to enjoy it. When Alastair put down grass seed, he would go out every morning and pick up ONE seed and check to see if it had started to germinate. He would put the seed back.
Nothing is as fun without him. I missed making fun of him while this lawn grew in. But funny, I never had to tell the boys to stay off of the grass while it was growing in.
*sigh*
Like father like son...
October 24, 2008
October 24, 2008
Victoria Bolles
August 28, 2008
I see I am not the only person who met Alastair Hudson but once and yet was touched by his good humor, kindness and intelligence. I bought some antique furniture from him a little over a year ago. The arrangements he and I made so that I could see this furniture before buying it were highly unusual, but as Alastair said at the time, "I won't bore you with the details." Once we had agreed that I would take the furniture, Alastair was kind enough to volunteer to deliver it, as picking it up myself would have been a hardship. When I told him where I live, he said, "Oh, I know where that is; I used to live around the corner." So I learned that Alastair and his then-future wife were neighbors of mine for a while, and I never knew.
So Alastair came to my house the next day, having disassembled this bed and bureau, taken them out of the house they were in and brought them to me. When I shook his hand I wondered if he had an extra joint in his mouth to accommodate that amazingly wide smile! He not only brought the furniture into my house but carried it upstairs for me -- I couldn't believe it. I'd never dealt with someone so helpful and gracious -- and fun! It was a pleasure just talking with him for that brief time.
So I was deeply shocked and saddened to learn of his death. My heart goes out to Mrs. Hudson, her two boys and the rest of their family. I was lucky to have met Alastair once, and I grieve for those who were fortunate to know him well and love him dearly. God rest his soul.
Pinched Tennis Ball
Jessica Hudson
August 24, 2008
It was last year at this time that Alastair brought the boys and us down to NYC to see the US Open. As usual the three of them knew everything about every player and what not (I was keeping my eye out for a pink tee to bring home!). The boys collected US Open balls that the players practiced with...reaching their thin arms underneath the chain link fence. They had such a good time.
We also went up the Empire State Building (again)....Andrew cant get enough of that place! We brought the boys over to Ground Zero to pay our respects and discuss the monumental tragedy of that day. And the four of us got to experience our first trip over to the Statue of Liberty.
It feels like just yesterday, yet an entire life time ago.
What a long, painful summer this has been.
John and Pauline Hudson
August 14, 2008
Yes Jessica we, Ian, Stephen and families will raise a glass in rememberance of Alastair. We will remember his zest for life, even from an early age. His single-mindedness for what he wanted to achieve, whether it be studying, sport or travel. His total loyalty to his family and friends. But most of all just being Alastair.
He packed so much into his shortened life, enjoying and participating in all forms of sport (especially if it included a ball of any shape or size), and particularly with his boys. He had a passion for travel, spending two years trekking round the world. He visited and experienced more places than most of us could ever achieve in a lifetime.
His biggest and proudest achievement however was his family. We are so lucky that he chose Jessica as his wife, a beautiful and kind girl who we think of and love as a daughter. In Andrew and David he has two wonderful sons who have inherited his love of sport and also his sporting skills. He was so proud of them.
We know that Jessica is continuing to bring them up as Alastair would have wished and feel sure that they will grow up to be like him - honest, loving, trustworthy, loyal, funny and a great person to be with - a true gentleman.
Remembered, with love, today and always.
John and Pauline Hudson
Jessica Hudson
August 12, 2008
Thursday will have been Alastair's 45th birthday. The boys and I had been planning on surprising him with a ferry ride and picnic on Georges Island. Weather permitting, we still intend to do it.
I hope everyone can make a little toast to Alastair on August 14th.
Can you find Alastair?
July 20, 2008
fun last summer
July 20, 2008
July 20, 2008
Dear Jessica,
I am in tears as I read this sad news...I am so sorry for you and your family and feel that my words are so meaningless at this time...
You know...its funny how a voice or words can transend so much about a person...There was somthing about Alastair that made you want to know him...I never met him as he delivered an item whill I was not present but I had the pleasure of talking with him on the telephone and chatted over numerous e-mail messages...I thought that I would someday meet up with him and then the picture wold be complete...I felt him to be a gentle person , someone that you could trust and someone that you could laugh with and not have to be serious...like in french we say..joie de vivre..meaning that he knew how to enjoy life...
I can t even begin to understand how you feel and what this all means for you...my prayers are with you ...I can still hear his voice with that beautiful accent and thinking that this is a nice human being...I don t know how that I could ever be helpful ...
I do so much thank you for letting me know as I was thinking that it was unlike him not to get back to me... am very touched that you took the time to let me know in such a difficult time for you..we just never know from day to day..we must be thankful for having had the opportunity to have shared some part of who he was...I won t forget him and may God Bless you all...
The piece of furniture that he delivered for me will speak to me during my living time....
My Deepest Sympathy,
Michael
Mandy Stowe
July 17, 2008
Jessica,
Since hearing such sad news that is so hard to accept, just to say my thoughts are still with you and the boys....have contacted you but feel I owe it to Alastair to make an entry here too. At the age of 17, Alastair was 'Head Boy' at school here in England and I was his counterpart 'Head Girl'....as a bit of a shy girl I found some of the duties a bit nerve wracking, but even at such a young age Alastair was calm, assured, couteous and kind, grown up and fun at the same time and always just full of goodness. He was destined to be special, to find someone special and I am glad he followed his dreams. It is heartbreaking that he had to go so soon. So many fitting tributes to such a deserving guy.
Thoughts and warmest wishes to you all,
Mandy Nott (nee Stowe)
bob crilly
July 15, 2008
When i read the entries that go before it is obvious, as you would expect, that Alastair was dearly loved by thoes who were lucky enough to know him really well. What is remarkable however, is the impact that he made on people who only met him briefly or on a few occasions and yet were able to instantly recognise the depth of his character. How likeable he was, how genuine, how he loved his family. I fall in to the latter catagory. I first met Alastair & Jessica & the boys in the snowy February of 2002 and was welcomed into their home like a member of the family. We shared the Patriots unbelievable win against the Rams in a local bar together with his great friend David Wilson...(now sadly reunited Jess.) That game was played in the Superdome, New Orleans, Louisiana. Three years later i find myself living on the north shore of Lake Ponchatrain, when Hurricane Katrina swept through. Once the dust settled and power restored i found i had recieved an e-mail from Ali'...."just wanted to check and see how you had gotten on with Katrina....thinking of you and hoping for the best. let me know if i can be of help in ANY way....shipping supplies,taking care of any business matters on your behalf.you're very welcome to stay with us up here in MA until the worst of things is resolved". That was Alastair T. Hudson to me. A generous, genuine, sincere, and thoghtful man that i was proud to know.
Alan, Erica, Elizabeth and Chris Hanson/Vickers
July 14, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew and David,
We are so shocked about your terrible loss and are so saddened by the news. No family of such joy should bear your burden.
We hope that you will quickly reach the time that Alastair's love and memory will give your aching hearts warmth and comfort for the time that you had together, and help heal your sorrow.
Keeping you in our thoughts,
Bob Soper
July 8, 2008
Dear Jessica,
I was saddened to recently learn of Alastair's passing. I have many pleasant memories of his visits with me.
I want you to know that you and the boys are in my prayers.
Jenson Kaithamattam
July 7, 2008
To Andrew,David and Jessica
I feel so sorry for all of you.
My family and I have each one of you in our daily prayers. We will always remember all of you.
Iain O'Brien
July 5, 2008
Jessica, Andrew & David
It was with immense sadness that we heard of Alastair's tragic death.
I first knew Alastair through the Territorial Army and got to know him a lot better over a few beers as students at Trent Poly , later doing the same in London during his time in the City and with the books. Your wedding was such a wonderful occasion and is a treasured memory for us. Simply I remember Alastair as a great guy, someone who you wanted beside you, to depend on, some one who was strong, who did the right thing and who made a big impression for him to be remembered by.
Jackie Jesso (Carrigan)
July 5, 2008
Jessica,
I received the terrible news from Catherine Aziz. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for you and your children at this difficult time. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Sue Beard
July 3, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew, & David,
I am so glad that I was able to meet Alastair. He was a perfect gentlemen in everyway. He was always helpful to me. All I had to do was ask and he was there. I learned alot from him. He would tell me everything I ask about England. Alot better then a book. He always made me laugh.
Jessica I wish I could be there to help you with everything. But you are and the boys will be in my prayers.
Love you for-ever,
Sue
Matthew Collins
July 3, 2008
I have just heard this terrible news from my brother who still lives in the town Alastair ( or Ali as I knew him ) grew up in - Daventry, Northants, UK. I was at school with Ali from the age of 11, and played Rugby with him at both school and club level. He was a good friend of my brother and I, though we lost contact with Ali in our 20's however I knew of his desire for the States. I have a son of similar age to Ali's sons who is sports mad also - though not baseball ! I feel very sad hearing this news today and can only offer my condolences for the family he leaves behind.
Yours sincerely
Matthew Collins
Surrey, England.
Jackie Swaney
July 2, 2008
Flattie,
I am Cathi's friend Jackie--and I am so sorry to hear about Alistair. I cannot imagine the pain and shock you must be in. Please accept my prayers.
Jackie
Roberto Acción
July 2, 2008
My condolences.
Mary Ann Sardina
July 1, 2008
Jessica,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot begin to imagine the shock and sadness you and your boys must be experiencing. I wish I had some words of wisdom or comfort for you but I am truly at a loss. Please know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.
The DeRoche Family
July 1, 2008
Hi Jessica, Andrew and David-
I have been reading the entries in the guestbook and they are really wonderful to read. Alastair touched so many people in wonderful ways. My family and especially Andrew and Matthew were so upset about Andrew and David's dad. He was just coaching the tournament on Father's Day and I had to tell the both of them about their friends dad, they were speechless. We visited his grave sight today and said a prayer for him. He was such a great, nice and happy person. My boys were amazed that David and Andrew had 2 filled passports. They thought that was so cool. They keep asking me where they have been. I said all over the place obviously. After reading all the notes I think Alastair lived a happy and content life and had no regrets. He loved his family and his life. It sounds like you have so many happy memories with him and you will always keep them in your heart and when you think about him the only thing you can do is smile and I bet that is what he wants you to do. We are so sad for your loss and if there if anything we can do please call us. You will be in our prayers.
Molly
July 1, 2008
Jessica,
The day I met your husband he was helping me move out of NYC. I don't do change very well and had been sobbing all morning scared to leave my job and life behind. When Alastair arrived, he was immediately supportive and his mere presence was comforting. Perhaps it was the day or the time of my life that let me open up to a stranger, but I truly feel your husband left an impact on my heart. I will never forget that in those fleeting moments I was able to recognize a truly wonderful and happy soul, such a rarity in this world.
Unloading in Boston, he met my family and my brother and father ended up chatting with him about sports for 30 minutes (during my mom's birthday party!) They nearly invited him to stay but he had to get home for it was getting late on a Friday night.
I have cried several times since I heard of the loss of your wonderful husband and my support goes out to you and your family. Your love for each other sounds like a story book. :) I can only really say that from meeting him and reading this page, that as a young woman I hope to someday have the happiness, love, and success the two of your achieved together. My strength goes out to you and your adorable boys.
Best,
Molly
Amy Bartram
June 30, 2008
Dear Jessica,
When I read of Alastair's death, my heart sunk. He was so full of life and love.
Seeing him attend all those Little League games last year, sitting in his own chair, he watched those games intently and was so proud of his boys. When I teased that he should be out there coaching, he laughed and joked "I'm a bloody Brit! I don't know about coaching American baseball!" Yet he did an exceptional job with his own sons. Andrew and David are two of the best baseball players for their young age. It was obvious the joy and pride Alastair had for them watching them play.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Call on me for anything.
Herbie Batchelder
June 29, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew, David and Family,
I wanted to take a minute and express my sincerest condolences to you and all of your family during this difficult time in your lives. I personally did not know Alastair, but the time i visited your home while working, for a fire alarm activation call, i could tell you have a very nice and happy home filled with everything a person could ask for. Jess, even though I don't see you often, I just wanted to express my concerns to you and your family. After all we did survive Mr. Venti's french class in High School. I wish you and your family the best, and if you ever need anything please feel free to call me or send an e-mail. Take care......
Catherine Sandor
June 29, 2008
Oh Flattie! I just got your IM. I know we've never met, and I only spoke with Alastair twice on the phone but I could tell he was a wonderful man. Please call if you need a new shoulder to lean on. Wish I was closer.
George Elis
June 29, 2008
My Wife and I met Alastair and Jessica about 3 years ago. Like many relationships you form as adults - it was our kids that first brought us together. Andrew and my son were born 1 day apart in July 1998. This led us to travel in many similar circles at the Hood School and youth sports teams.
How many times did we cross paths at the Little League field, IRP, or the basketball gym? Hundreds? And everytime Alastair had a big genuine greeting.
Last year we took our sons to a Revolution game. I can still remember how excited Alastair was about being there.
This spring I was fortunate to coach youth soccer with Alastair. He was great to be with on the sidelines. He always had words of encouragement for the kids. His soccer experience far exceeded my own, but he never once made me feel anything but his equal. He also had a special fondness for my son and I will always remember him dearly for that.
On June 17th my son asked me to go to the Little League field to see some of his friends playing that evening. This was unusual for us, as we rarely made it to the field unless we were playing. As fate would have it, I crossed paths with Alastair that evening. We spoke briefly and he was his usual friendly self. We shared a few laughs and went on our way. I am a happy that I got that one last chance to see him, and I am glad that it was in an environment that he loved so much.
Rest in Peace,
The Elis Family
Ronald Ponte
June 28, 2008
Jessica,Andrew, and David
I only spoke to Alastair maybe 5 times. He always had a smile and It was always a pleasure to talk to him. The few times that I spoke to him I could tell he was a Great Dad . I read all the visitor entries and looked at the pictures which were great. Alastair great spirit will guide you through lifes adventures.
Sincerely
Ronald A Ponte
Laurie Powell
June 28, 2008
Dear Jessica,
My heart breaks for you, and yet I rejoice at the wonderful memories that you have. A beloved man like Alastair was worth having for all the days he was lent to you.
Sorry I wasn't able to be there with you. Believe me, I was with my family in spirit as they came to be with you, and my heart shares the grief of all who have lost such a great man from their lives.
God's peace to you at this time.
Chris Currie
June 27, 2008
Jessica,
I worked with Alastair at Net-Temps with Joe, Greg, Kevin, Gregg and PJ and was very saddened to hear the news about his passing. He was always talking about the boys, you and a pint of Guinness. He was a huge sports fan and we would talk for hours about the Red Sox, Patriots and Celtics. We both would call WEEI Sports Radio and chime in about the latest sports news. Going to work was always fun with Alastair, he always had a nice thing to say about everyone, always a smile followed by him saying "Brilliant!" or in his best Austin Powers voice, "groovy baby!" God bless all of you and your family, I will be sure to hoist a glass of Guinness tonight for my good ole friend, Alaistair.
Nancy Andreoli (Fiorello)
June 27, 2008
Jessica -
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Keith G
June 26, 2008
my condolences for you and yours during this hard time.you are in my prayers
Jessica Hudson
June 26, 2008
On my first official date with Alastair, he and his Irish room mate (Robert you remember little Mal) came to my apartment in Melrose, that I shared with a friend (again Magic Fingers, you will remember Margo)...the other two were kind of 'forced' on that date. It was funny, because he came with a six pack of Guinness. We each had one before we went to NYC Jukebox club (ugh clubbing!!!). To this day I have the final Guinness in my fridge. We just kept if for some reason and it has moved with us from house to house. Its over 14 years old now. I have no idea if it is drinkable, but I cant imagine ever getting rid of it.
Its easy to grumble with the day to day grimes with your spouse, but let me tell you, let the little things slide and hold your loved one closer. You just never know. The last words I said to Alastair were 'Drive carefully!' , as was my superstitious habit.
I thank everyone who has posted in here and hope to see 100 more. This page is like a soothing balm for my heart and soul.
xoxo Jessica
Last day of spring soccer, June 14, 2008. Our team.
Richelda Gonzales
June 26, 2008
Alastair was my son's soccer coach this spring. He was so great with the kids. My son Jared loved having him for a coach. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Joe W
June 26, 2008
Jessica-
I knew Alastair while working together at Net-temps. He was a good man and was always talking about you or the boys. He had an enormous sense of pride and spirit. I can recall the day he became a citizen like it was yesterday, as he shared his excitement and nerves.
His work ethic and will to succeed were impressive. He often shared stories about his days as a waiter and how much he learned and apprecaited being, just in general...he had a great sense of appreciation.
He always had a story or two about his buddy David.
My thoughts and prays go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Joe
Catherine Fiorello Aziz
June 26, 2008
Dearest Jess and family, my deepest condolences go out to you and your loved ones during the loss of your beloved husband, Alastair. Though I hadn’t the chance to meet him, I sense Alastair was a loyal, loving and exceptional husband, father and friend who deeply touched the lives of so many around him. May you find peace in his everlasting spirit.
All my best to you and yours,
Jamie Perullo
June 26, 2008
Jessica,
In support of you and your family at this difficult time, our hopes and thoughts are with you.
Edward Nicosia & Family
June 25, 2008
Our thoughs and prayers go out to you. So sorry for your loss.
Peace.
Karen Gentile
June 25, 2008
Jessica, Andrew, and David,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We took for granted our last moments with Alastair last week. Now we are so grateful to have had that time with him.
Karen & Angelo Gentile
Doug Syer
June 25, 2008
Alastair was my son Adam's soccer coach this spring.
He did such a great job with the boys. He really loved soccer and you could clearly see it because the boys fed off of it.
From the moment I met him I liked him. I am sure many others felt the same way. What a great guy. We are still shocked by his loss.
Our prayers are with your family and if we can help in any way during this tragic time please let me know.
Julia Slavin
June 24, 2008
We are truly sorry for your great loss.
You, Andrew and David are in our prayers.
I remember how Alastair could make everyone feel at ease and bring a smile to our faces.
I didn't share with you how one time Liam had soccer practice and only two other boys showed up. Emily, Hannah and I waited for a while and thought he would pack up and call it a day. Nope, it was business as usual.
They played their hearts out. The twins and I were spectators but enjoyed every minute of watching them scrimmage. They joined a pick game with another team at practice and we set out for the playground.
When we returned he said it was a great practice and how Liam gave it his all. Liam smiled from ear to ear and boasted about all the goals he made. There really was only one, if that, but nobodies counting... He was just having a great time with his best friend Andrew and Andrew's Dad.
Please know that we are here for you and the boys if you need anything.
Jim Romano
June 24, 2008
How do I say goodbye to my friend?
About an hour before I received the call about Alastair’s accident, I was reminiscing about a night we went “out on the town” last year. I have no idea why I happened to be thinking of him at that moment in time – maybe God was preparing me for the call that was about to come.
I was remembering a night when we went to a local restaurant/bar to catch up. After a great dinner and discussions about business, family and life, we found ourselves sitting at the bar with front row seats for karaoke night. We had more than a few chuckles at many of the participant’s expense. We ended up closing the bar that night and wisely determined that neither of us was fit to drive home. Being much too late to call the wives, we decided to walk home. Luckily for me, I lived fairly close, but Alastair lived on the other side of town. Despite my repeated invitations for him to bunk at my house, Alastair insisted that he walk home. The next morning, a tired, hung-over Alastair called me to give me grief about letting him walk home. We both laughed for quite a while.
How do I say goodbye to my friend? I cannot. What words can I say to Jessica, Andrew or David besides offering my help whenever or wherever they need it? I have none. I feel totally helpless in my inability to reverse, explain or even comprehend how this horrific event happened. But what I can do is hug my wife and kids a little longer and try to live my life a little fuller. And be thankful I had the chance to know Alastair. He was a great person, husband, father and friend. And he will be sorely missed by all that knew him
Steffanie Sinclair-Steeves
June 24, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew and David,
Words can not begin to express the sorrow felt at the loss of your husband and father. He was a wonderful, caring, sincere and funny man who will be deeply missed by all.
The love you two shared for each other and your boys was clearly evident every time you were together. I remember sitting with you both at the Lowell Spinners game admiring how happy you all were to be together as a family. It was clear to see that his family was the most important thing in his life and that his boys were his pride and joy.
My thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
Jessica, please do not hesitate to call should you need anything at all.
With my deepest sympathy.
Your friend,
Steffanie
June 24, 2008
Jessica your uncle Paul & I are so sorry for the loss of Alastair.
Paul feels so glad to have had the time it really get to know him.
We feel so sad that he will not get the chance to spend a lifetime with you and the boys and not see them turn into men with their dad's help and love.
He will always be with us in spirit and we will see him through his sons.
Take care Jessie and know Paul and I here to help in any way.
Love Ya!! Auntie Ann and Uncle Paul
John DaCosta
June 24, 2008
I met Alastair at the Topsfield Soccer Tournament this Father's Day Weekend. I admired his passion for the game and for the children on his team. It was clear to me he had a gift for working with the boys. I was looking forward to getting to know him. On behalf of the Topsfield soccer coaches and program please know we share in your loss.
Patti Onessimo(Poirier)
June 24, 2008
Jess,
I remember you sharing the story of how you met Alastair in Boston on the park bench, you had such a sparkle in your eyes when you told it to me. Seems like yesterday. I was so sad to hear about the accident and your loss. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
Love, Patti
Sharon and Michael Nichols (Joshua's parents)
June 23, 2008
Jessica,
Our hearts go out to you and Andrew and David. Although we only met Alastair a few times, we knew immediately that he was a very kind, and caring man. Joshua has told us many wonderful things about Alastair and he enjoyed working for him over the past 6 years. I wish we could have known him better. Alastair’s warmth and caring had a very positive impact on Joshua and we are grateful that he had someone like Alastair in his life. We will hold a special place in our hearts for him. If there is ever anything we can do to help you and the boys; please don’t hesitate to call.
Our love and thoughts are with you.
Wendy Martin
June 23, 2008
Jessica, Andrew & David
On behalf of the entire staff at Dynamex, our most heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time in your lives.
Alastair exemplified the best in what we look for in our drivers and he was always kind, courteous and extremely professional in all his deliveries.
I personally enjoyed listening to his accent and his sense of humor. We will miss him very much as a driver but more importantly as a fine human being.
If there is anything we can do for you, please do not hesitate to call
God Bless
Brian Riley
June 23, 2008
Jessica, Andrew and David
I cannot imagine the sudden difficulty that's been forced upon you all. My heart goes out to you.
I’ve known Alastair for over a year as he worked independently for Dynamex in that time. He was a guy you knew you could count on without fail. His willingness to do exactly what was needed along with his professionalism and courtesy to our customers were unmatched and appreciated. I’ll always remember Alastair for our middle-of-the night meets and his pleasant jolly-good accent. He was a highly regarded integral part of our operation and will be sorely missed.
For a good and decent hard-working family man to be taken without warning is brutally unfair. Hopefully through renewed strength of your family you'll endure the difficulty and remember the good things Alastair brought to this world and those lucky enough to have met him.
God Bless you all.
Gina and Mike Kmito
June 23, 2008
Jess,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Michael Gustafson
June 23, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew and David,
we can not express how sorry we are for your loss. Alastair was a great guy and we will miss his friendship and smilies.
North Reading Alps
June 23, 2008
French Alps
June 23, 2008
Fenway, rain or shine!
June 23, 2008
Trouble times three...
June 23, 2008
Love is All Around.....
Jessica Hudson
June 23, 2008
This was our wedding song. A song we both loved.
LOVE IS ALL AROUND
I feel it in my fingers
I feel it in my toes
Love is all around me
And so the feeling grows
It's written on the wind
It's everywhere I go, oh yes it is
So if you really love me
Come on and let it show
You know I love you
I always will
My mind's made up
By the way that I feel
There's no beginning
There'll be no end
'Cause on my love
You can depend
I see your face before me
As I lay on my bed
I kinda get to thinking
Of all the things you said, oh yes I did
You gave your promise to me
And I gave mine to you
I need someone beside me
In everything I do, oh yes I do
You know I love you
I always will
My mind's made up
By the way that I feel
There's no beginning
There'll be no end
'Cause on my love
You can depend
Ooh, it's written in the wind
And where I go
So if you really love me
Come on and let it show
Come on and let it show...
Denise Costantino
June 23, 2008
Jessica -
My heart goes out to you, Andrew & David. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss.
Although I did not get a chance to know Alastair very well, I remember from the times we spoke how proud he was of his beautiful family.
I remember first meeting Alastair at David's 5th Halloween-themed birthday party. The entire family was in costume for the occasion & you had invited the whole kindergarten class over to celebrate. Alastair seemed to take the houseful of noisy, happy 5 year olds in stride & just focused on the most important thing which was the look of sheer joy on his son's face. His absolute devotion to his family was apparent.
Please know that Paul, the girls & I are here for you. Please do not hesitate to call on us if we can do anything at all.
Love,
Denise
Richard Holmes
June 23, 2008
Dear Jessica, Andrew & David
I cannot express in words how shocked & sad I was to hear of Alastair's accident.
I know you were all his pride & joy. He loved all of you so much which just makes it seem so unfair. Alastair was a wonderful friend, a fanastic dad and a devoted husband.
We will all miss him and hope with time your pain and loss will heal even if just a little.
Michael Sweeney
June 22, 2008
To the Hudson Family,
I will keep Alastair and all of you in my thoughts and prayers. He was my teammate on the Over 40 team in North Reading for a few seasons. We bonded from the first game(me being from Ireland) we discussed Rugby/Football/ and anything and everything related to the UK and Ireland. Alastair was such a great competitor on the field and we spent many moments after a match discussing our boysi I have two lads and we often compared growing up on the other side of the pond.
I will always remember our great conversations and his love of family.
May he Rest in Peace.
Michael Sweeney
Ashley Gresek
June 22, 2008
I only met Alastair a little over a year ago, but I knew from then that he was an awesome guy--very friendly, loyal, and caring. He has a amazing family whom I care for dearly. I am sorry for the loss.
Alastair and his family are in my prayers.
Ann Catalano
June 22, 2008
I did not know Alastair well, but I will forever remember him at David's baseball game sitting in a beach chair with Andrew on his lap cheering for David's team. I remarked to Jessica about how lucky Alastair was to have his 9 year old son still wanting to sit on his lap! Jessica beamed and said Alastair is all about the boys! Jess, I pray that you hold memories like those close to your heart forever. May they help you through the difficult times, and know that you and the boys have many friends who will be here for you.
With love and sorrow
Joshua Nichols
June 22, 2008
I first met alastair by complete chance. He was in the business of rehabing homes at the time and I had answered a posting he made to the bulletin board to the local general store in north reading mass. I gave him a call and became a driver for him tracking down houses. I started doing laboring for him and then began working on rehab projects with him. We became friends over the five years working together. I babysat his kids, worked on his house, fixed his cars. He made me feel like my talents were valueable and needed. He made me feel like more than just someone who liked working on houses, he made me feel like part of his famliy. I felt so important to him. He was older than I but was my best friend. He helped me out when I lost my job keeping me busy with work, when my fience at the time and I broke up, he was always there. He was more of a friend than an employer to me.
I remember the last time I saw him. I had repaired his new van and installed a new pool pump for him. He was so appreciative of the work that I did. He was thrilled that everything worked out. He made me feel like I had a true talent.
I watched his kids and how happy they were when he came home at the end of the day, how excited they were to see him, and how excited he was to see them. That day right there, I realized the kind of man I wanted to be when I grow up.
Whenever I was at his house he was always offering me a beer or a soda. He was a great role model and an even greater friend. I will miss him dearly.
Joshua Nichols
Bruce Knutson
June 22, 2008
I knew Alastair as a friend, housemate, ski buddy, drinking buddy, someone to pick up at the end of the bus line at 2am after he had fallen asleep and ridden past his stop, a hiking companion for 14,440 feet to the top of Mt. Elbert (where another hiker lent him a Union Jack to hold for a picture) and someone who took great pride and joy in having a wonderful family. Most importantly, he was someone who had extremely high standards for his personal integrity, always took into account how others would be affected by his decisions and made those around him want to act in a similar manner. There will always be a hole in my heart, but I feel lucky to have known him, to have learned from him and to have been able to call him my friend.
Tina LaPlante
June 22, 2008
Jessica, Andrew and David,
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
I love you and I am here for you day or night.
With love,
Tina, Jess, Jake and Joey
Jessica Hudson
June 22, 2008
When I met Alastair I knew that day I would marry him.
The first thing I did when I got home was to call my friend Kim and tell her I was going to get married.
The second call I made was to the boy I was dating to tell him I would not be seeing him again.
Alastair was a man who knew what he wanted and would go out and get it. Well, I guess he wanted me too, but he didn’t realize that I felt the same way so I let him court me and write me love letters.
He would call me and have wonderful things to say. But for some reason the calls would always end abrubtly. What I didn’t realize at the time was that Alastair would write a checklist of the things he would talk about and when he reached the end of the list he would end the call because he was too nervous to improvise. At the time he didn’t realize that I could have carried the phone call on for a good hour on my own!!
For those who know me well, you know Monkey. Monkey was my 4 foot, orange sleeping companion that I slept with for 24 year. Alastair tolerated Monkey in our honeymoon bed for one year. On our one year anniversary, Alastair stayed, Monkey went.
Alastair was a hard worker with strong ethics and a high moral value. He would often be surprised when he found other businessmen didn’t hold the same high values. He just assumed everyone was as honest as he was.
Alistair’s pride in Andrew and David bubbled over…and Alistair wasn’t one to bubble. He had such dreams and plans for the boys. He wanted to show them the world…at their tender young age, our boys already have filled two passports.
At this point he was in the midst of planning a baseball stadium tour around the north east, a trip to Washington DC and to Niagara Falls.
Alastair took great joy in teaching the boys every sport ever invented. They golfed, skied, played baseball, soccer, rugby, tennis and basketball.
I think that the only real regret that Alastair would have right now is not being able to be here to watch and take part in the boys growing into manhood.
I will forever miss and remember Alastair and all the different ways he touched my life. Andrew, David and I are blessed to have been such a special part of his life.
Kim Graham
June 22, 2008
To Jessica, Andrew and David...
There are no words I can say to take away the pain of what you are feeling, but please know how much I care and love you all.
Alastair was a wonderful man and will be
missed greatly..Thankfully there are
so may wonderful and funny memories of him. Those memories are what will keep him alive in our hearts and minds everyday.
I am here for you, for anything you and the boys need....
Love you...
Nanci Sanders
June 22, 2008
To my dear friend, Jessica, and her family,
My words of sympathy will not suffice today, nor will it the next.
My prayer is for you to find comfort and solace from your family, and through friends who can actually put their arms around you.
From NYC my arms are around you right now, my friend.
Please know that there is a circle of love that totally surrounds you.
Respectfully,
Nanci Sanders Sieradzki
Ted Morrill
June 22, 2008
Jessica, Andrew and David,
I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. Alastair was a wonderful person and true friend. My prayers are with you during these tough times.
Rena Sances
June 22, 2008
I remember the day when Jessica said, "This man will change my life." Shortly after we stood by their sides when they became man and wife.
We smiled and cheered because we knew how special they would be,
and before we knew it they went from a family of two to a family of three!
Happiness surrounded them as they got the news there would be one more, and quickly they went from a family of three to a fulfilled family of four.
Their home was cheery and full of love with Alastair at the lead, making sure that his lovely wife and kids had all that they could need.
He had a genuine interest in all of us and the events within our lives, there were lots of laughs and jokes and smiles along with alot of high fives!
He made each of us feel special when we'd chat and shoot the breeze, something about that Alastair just set your mind at ease.
Although we can not see him he is with us high above, cheering for us in our daily events and showering us with love.
Thank you Alastair for enriching our lives with your charm and unique ways, your in our hearts and souls forever and will be missed till the end of our days.
All our love,
Rena, John, Anthony & Angela
Deborah Berman
June 22, 2008
Jessica, Andrew, David and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you through this most difficult time.
Love,
Deb
Claudia Ludwick
June 22, 2008
Jessica, Andrew and David,
There are no words to express how sorry I am. I wish I would have know Alastair better. If there is anything I can do Just know that I am here for you all. You are in my my heart and my prayers. I love you.
Your Cousin Claudia
Jenna and Alexis Send there Love too.
The Wieselquists
June 22, 2008
We will miss you dearly. You were a super Uncle!
I love you Jess and will always be here for you.
I know Andrew and David will make their Dad proud.
He is ALWAYS with us.
Not all great man are famous, Alastair I am proud of you
Robert Taylor
June 22, 2008
I have never, nor perhaps will ever know a more loving, caring and decent man than Alastair. He always helped and listened to others, was always there when you needed support whether you lived next door or an ocean away in his native England.
Alastair always dreamed of finding a princess and moving to Boston from the UK, he found no less, in fact much more in Jessie and they have 2 wonderful children that I have no doubt will grow and carry on their fathers legacy. If anyone should follow a mans example in life then it should be Alastairs and his foot print will last eternally via a scholarship his beloved wife and mother are setting up. Many children, not just his own, will morn the loss of this truly great man as he did significant community work not just in MA but back home in the UK before he moved to the United States.
He loved sport, all sport both UK or American. This was part of the attraction of Boston as he could take his boys to see his childhood heros of the Celtics, the Sox and the Patriots whilst also show them English Rugby and of course, his beloved "soccer" - and in that I attach a photo that I know gave him a smile of me with one of his heros in life, I so so wish you could have been there with me Al, I know how much you would have loved it.
His wedding day was one of my happiest days of my life and I am honoured to have been his best man and to see him marry a lady that he truly loved and cherished... Its hard to find a soulmate in life, and Jessie and Alastair are testimony to all that no matter if you are an ocean apart, your true love is there somewhere...
I shall miss him eternally, but may he rest in peace and look down on his family and friends with pride as we try and emulate his lost presence...
I sadly cannot find a way to come to MA on Monday from London due to my own family circumstances but I wish all that are there to give Alastair a smile from me, Jessie my love is with you and the children, always your friend, and always here for you all...
Robert Taylor
Chelsea, London, SW3
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