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Paul John "Jack" Murray

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Died unexpectedly June 25, 2008 at his home in Ft. Myers, Florida. A Lowell native Jack proudly served his country for 24 years in the United States Army before retiring 1984. After retiring from the Army he worked for the City of Lowell Police Dept. He moved to Ft Myers in 1992 where he began working for the City of Ft. Myers and he officially retired in 2004. He is survived by his wife Avis Murray of Ft. Myers, his daughter Heather Murray of Leominster, sister Madeline Brennan of Lowell and sister Carol Fuller of Ft. Myers, Florida. Also survived by stepdaughter Cindy Statho and her husband Dennis Statho of Ft. Myers, stepson Mark Servin of Lowell, granddaughter Alannah Servin of Chelmsford as well as many nieces and nephews. A mass will be held on Monday July 21, 2008 at St. Michaels Church 543 Bridge Street Lowell Massachusetts at 7:00pm.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 17, 2008.

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Deb Parsons

July 21, 2008

Mark,
I am so sorry to hear about your Stepdad. I hope you are doing well and will get to see your mom soon.

Lynda Du Shane

July 19, 2008

Heather,
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your father. His love for you is timeless, and pride in the strong woman you are will remind you of the roots of that strength. May that love and strength never be far from your and your family's hearts.
Sincerely

Michelle

July 18, 2008

Heather, you are a great friend and I'm very sorry for your loss. Just know that I am here for you when you need anything.

Craig & Clifty

July 18, 2008

Dear Paula, Please know that we are thinking of you and your family at this time of sorrow. Jack's memory will always live in your heart. May you find comfort in the days ahead. With our deepest condolences.

Craig & Clifty

July 18, 2008

Dear Heather, Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your Father. He was a very special person. He loved you very much and was proud of you. Please know that our loving thoughts are there with you and your family at this time.

Norm Anne-Marie

July 17, 2008

Your Dad was special in many ways.
His love of family and country speak volumns of his character. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Dean Baron

July 17, 2008

Heather, I'm so sorry for your loss. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Hilary Ross

July 17, 2008

Dear Paula,
My thoughts are with you at this time of loss and grieving.

Hilary Ross

July 17, 2008

Dear Heather,
The loss of our father and mother are the toughest ones to bear. I know you will be strong and make your daddy proud as he continues to watch over you and love you.

Bob Ross

July 16, 2008

Tall and strong, smilin' Irish grin, firm handshake, and kind words, that's how I remember him.
You are in our prayers.

Billy Miraglia

July 16, 2008

Heather, my condolences to you and your family. Jack (Sarge)... A great soldier and a better man.

Melissa Croteau

July 16, 2008

Heather, my sincerest condolences for the loss of your dad.. I know how much you truly loved him and I know how difficult this must be for you. Keep your memories close to heart, they will help you get through the toughest of times... I'm so sorry - I wish I could take all of your pain away with a hug... you were a wonderful daughter to your dad and I'm certain that he knew that all too well... your love for him is apparent in all circles of your life, we as your friends have witnessed it first hand. You are an amazing person, daughter and friend and somehow you will gain the strength you need to get through this... Be "strong like bull" my friend... I'm always here for you....

John Graceffa

July 16, 2008

Jack, I am so glad that I got to meet you and have you stay with us. I am thankful for the time we had together and the great weekend we had. I enjoyed myself a great deal. I am honored to have met you. You will never be forgotten.

Heather Murray

July 16, 2008

Dad, My life will never be the same without you. I will miss you for the rest of my days and carry you with me always.
I love you.
Heather

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