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James Demetri Obituary

Of North Reading, August 11. Beloved husband of Helen (Alex). Father of Gregory James and his wife Maria, Lynn Demetri; Scott James Demetri and his wife Anita, all of North Reading. Brother of Charles Demetri and his wife Rosalie, Shirley Bellavance and the late Peter Demetri and Louise Hicks, all of North Reading. Grandfather of Gregory Jr., Alexis, Alyssa and Zachary Demetri. Relatives and friends most respectfully invited to attend Funeral Services for James in St. John the Baptist Albanian Orthodox Church, 410 W. Broadway, South Boston on Friday, August 15 at 11 AM. Calling hours at the Cota Funeral Home, 335 Park St., (corner of Park St. & Rt 28), NORTH READING at Reading line, on Thursday 4-8 PM. Interment Riverside Cemetery, North Reading. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Jim's memory to the Angel Fund, 649 Main St., Wakefield, MA 01880. Jim was co-owner of Boston Thermo King Co. in Boston. www.cotafuneralhomes.com. Cota Funeral Home 978-664-4340

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Published by Boston Globe on Aug. 13, 2008.

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Donna Whitney

August 26, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

MARIE LOVELL

August 20, 2008

DEAR GREG AND FAMILY, YOUR FATHER WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON
I WILL NOT FORGET ALL THE GREAT THINGS HE DID FOR US. HE LOVED HIS FAMILY AND CHERISHED THEM. HE WILL BE SORELY MISSED.

Kathy (Canavan)Sumner

August 17, 2008

Lynn,
Here is a special poem I recieved. May it help you, maybe just a little. A Message From Heaven
Perhaps you aren't ready yet to have to say good-bye...Perhaps you've thought of things you wished you'd said--well so have I. For one thing, Id have told you not to worry about me...I'm with the Lord in Heaven now--you knew thats where I'd be. I'm sorry that you're feeling sad, for I'm so happy now...I've asked the Lord to ease your hurt and comfort you somehow. Its hard at the beginning, but I know you'll make it through...I hope it helps to know that I'll be waiting here for you.

August 16, 2008

This poem was shared with me from one of my terminally ill patients:

What is Dying?
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says 'She is gone'

Gone where?

Gone from my sight, that is all.
She is just as large now as when I last saw her.

Her diminished size and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.

And just at the moment when someone at my side says she is gone there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout 'There she comes!'

That is what dying is. An horizon and just the limit of our sight.

Bishop Brent

Helen And Patrick McBride

August 15, 2008

May the lord bless you,Friends family and all who knew you.
You were a wonderful man and an excelent friend
you will be missed terribly and loved always!!!

Michelle (Dyment) Doran

August 15, 2008

Dear Demetri Family- I am so sorry to hear about Jim. My thoughts are with you. I hope he was peaceful.

Ron Morales

August 15, 2008

My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the Demetri family. Jim, although it has been many years since I have seen you, I will always remember and cherish the good times we had with your brothers and sisters. Your brother Peter, who was my brother-in-law, was like a big brother to me. Rest in peace my friend.

Joe Veno

August 14, 2008

Jim will always be in our prayers. He was a wonderful man and always so plesant every time we met him. We will all miss him very much.
Joe & Diane

ginny diranian

August 14, 2008

Dear Charlie and the entire Demetri family. My thoughts and prayers are wiith you and have been for a very long time. It is very sad that this time has come, Jimmy will be remembered always. I see Michael and Dino and it is like seeing Charllie and Jimmy together years ago. May God Bless You All and give you the strength you need. Fondly Ginny from Drydock. (Cathy's cousin)

Zoltan Lamperth (Friends from Zanotti)

August 14, 2008

Greg, Scott, Lynn, Mrs.Demetri, and Family
Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss. Though I did not know your Father personally, I can only imagine the character of a man that raised such a fine family, as he did in you. Your commitment and dedicaton to those that are in your association, appears to be, from what I hear, a direct reflection of your Father. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve Rankin

August 14, 2008

My condolences to Jim's entire family.As I dealt with Jim in business matters it was easy to become close and trusting of a kind soul. His bright smile we'll continue to see through his sister Shirley. Take good memories forward and trust that you will all be together again some day.

Andrea Paterna - Merenda

August 14, 2008

Greg, Lynn & Scott

May you and your families cherish all the wonderfully memories you have of your Dad. He was wonderful man. He will surely be missed by all. My families thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Matthew Dyment

August 14, 2008

Scott and Family,

Your father was a man I always looked up to. The love and pride he took in his children was there for all to see. A very special man who was a fixture on the sidelines at all of his kids games. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know he will be missed. Know that he will still be watching and smilling at all of you from a better place.

August 14, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Melo Family

The Mihal Family

August 14, 2008

Jim, you were such a great guy. Ma and Dad (May and Phil aka Grammy and Grampy) have so many great memories with you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May Mihal

August 14, 2008

I can still remember the way you used to dance with your brother at the parties and weddings. Jim, we will miss you. Say "hi" to Phil for me. You, Helen and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you.

Ernest Sheehan

August 14, 2008

Dear Helen and family,
Please accept our sincere sympathy in the loss of Jimmy. He was a very special person and friend. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Red & Pam Sheehan

Barry Haight

August 14, 2008

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Jim was often, and will remain, in my thoughts.

I was blessed to be able to call Jim and Charlie my friends.

Melissa Perkins

August 14, 2008

Lynn and Family,
May you find peace and love in the memories you cherish. You are in my thoughts and Prayers.

Peter Thanas

August 13, 2008

While many years have passed since Jimmy and I played in our youth, I feel a deep loss. My heartfelt sympathies are offered to Jimmy's entire family.

Michael Ray

August 13, 2008

The Ray family will always remember Mr. Demetri's love for his children and support of North Reading athletics. Our thoughts and prayers are with you right now.

Nancy and Charlie Arbing

August 13, 2008

Dear Helen,Greg,Lynn,Scott and Family

Your Husband and Father was and will always be thought of as a very special person. He will be missed by his family and all who had the privilege of knowing Jim. In time may your memories of Jim bring you comfort and happiness to replace the sadness of Jim's passing.

With Sympathy

John and Jessica Guard

August 13, 2008

we are very sorry for your loss. we send our deepest condolences to you and the rest of your extended family. he was a special person to not only us, but the many other people he touched in his years.

Tina Bishop

August 13, 2008

Oh Helen, tho I have not been there to see Big Jim in a while, he has always been in my thoughts and prayers. when I think of Jim I smile because he made me smile thru all the years I worked for him. my heart goes out to you, you and Jim are like peanut butter and jelly, you just go so well together and I am sure he is up there watching over you like he did when he was here. I hope all your memories of Jim help you to get thru this. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask. Jim will be missed.

Heather Adams

August 13, 2008

Lynn and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you always feel your Dad's presence and know how much he loves you all.

Jen (Whitney) Mahoney

August 13, 2008

Lynn & Family - Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
Jen & Scott Mahoney

ANNETTE RANKIN

August 13, 2008

HELEN, THE LOVE THAT YOU AND JIM SHARED, WAS THERE FOR ALL THE WORLD TO SEE. YOU WERE HIS ROCK, AS WERE HIS CHILDREN. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL.

Don Porthan

August 13, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Melissa Bellavance

August 13, 2008

We all knew this day would come..We all have spent the last 7 years watching as this horrible diease slowly and painfully took you away from us.It robbed you of just about everything except your brain. all through it though you never complained. you never lost your love of life and all boston sport teams. as sad as i am that your gone i know all your pain has stopped and your better now. you were my husband uncle but sometime over the past few years you became my uncle too. don't worry we will take care of auntie helen for you.
Love Always,
Billy Melissa Tyler and Makayla

Bruce Canadine

August 13, 2008

Jim, You were one of the very best & will be sadly missed,
Bruce & Maria Canadine

Serrao Family

August 13, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jim was a wonderful person who will be dearly missed.

August 13, 2008

Our loss is heavens gain. Jim will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy to his loving family.
Ray and Heidi VonAsch and Family

Delanne Corvino

August 13, 2008

Jim was a special friend to me and my husband Bob. I will never forget all the wonderful times we had with him and Helen. He was fun loving and always had that beautiful smile. He will be missed by everyone who knew and loved him. I hope all your memories of the good times will forever keep him alive in your hearts.

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