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Norman Grandmaison Obituary

Prominent hotelier, 79, of Hampton, NH and Fort Lauderdale, FL, passed away peacefully, with his loving wife Joyce by his side, at Hyder Hospice House in Dover, New Hampshire early Saturday morning, August 30, 2008. Norman was born in Haverhill, Massachusetts on July 10, 1929 the son of the late Fred J. and Agnes M. (Duchesneau) Grandmaison. Growing up on Hampton Beach, he worked alongside his father and uncle who owned the "Diamond C Market" a favorite local grocery store and bakery. He was a graduate of Mount Assumption Preparatory School in Plattsburgh, New York Class of 1947 and later advanced his studies at the University of New Hampshire. In 1951, Norman enlisted in the United States Army serving his country in the Korean Conflict, and was the proud recipient of three bronze stars.Upon returning to the New Hampshire Seacoast, Norman soon found his business-niche on his familiar Hampton Beach. Together with his late brother Paul, Norman purchased the Ashworth by the Sea Hotel building a prominent facility that still thrives today. A half century saw the Ashworth welcome heads of state, members of the clergy, numerous national politicians, and state wide officials. The Ashworth served as a pied-a-terre for the Hampton Beach summer lineup; a who's who of celebrities, entertainers and musicians. Perhaps the guests that Norman enjoyed most of all were the yearly regulars. These were the people that breathed life into the hotel and gave it both charm and history. Norman's kind, gentle demeanor and understated presence made his hotel a home. A family affair, Paul's son John joined the partnership in 1975. The three worked in tandem until Paul's death in 1986. Together with their wives, Norman and John managed the Seacoast landmark until its sale in May of 2006, book-ending some fifty years of family ownership and happy memories of hospitality and friendship. In 1976, Norman and Paul were instrumental in purchasing the Hampton Beach Casino. Norman and John, together with their business partners, continue ownership of the complex that is Hampton Beach's main attraction a venue for such excitement as: the Casino Ballroom, numerous food concessions, gift shops amusements and a penny arcade.A communicant of Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal Church in Hampton, Norman was a former director of the Hampton National Bank and the Hampton Beach Area Chamber of Commerce, and active with countless civic groups and philanthropic organizations about the New Hampshire Seacoast. An avid golfer, Norman was a longtime member of the Abenaqui Country Club, Rye Beach; a haven for his favorite pastime. Norman and Joyce shared a life of love and laughter, complimenting one another beautifully. Ever the consummate gentleman, Norman was an unassuming and kind presence while Joyce was forever devoted, infusing a dynamic vitality and energy. Protective of one another, they treasured their privacy yet nonetheless reveled in the company of their many friends, family members and hotel staff & patrons. It was not uncommon to see Joyce and Norman sitting in the Ashworth lounge after a long day, enjoying one another's company and watching the world go by. Cheers, dear Norman: To a life well lived. He is survived by his devoted wife Joyce (Wesson) of Hampton, New Hampshire, his beloved daughter Linda G. (Mrs. T. Scott) Vivona and their son Alexander S. of Davis California. Norman is further survived by his nephews John P. and his wife Patricia B. "Pat" Grandmaison of Hampton, New Hampshire and Bart Crowe of Santa Rosa, California. He leaves further nieces, nephews, grandnieces and numerous dear friends. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Theresa of Lisieux Church, 820 Central Road, Rye Beach, New Hampshire on Thursday morning, September 4, 2008 at 10:00AM. Family and friends are invited to call to the Robert K. Gray, Jr. Funeral Home, 24 Winnacunnet Road, Hampton, New Hampshire on Wednesday from 2-4 and 7-9PM. Interment in the family lot High Street Cemetery, Hampton, New Hampshire will immediately follow his Funeral Mass. In his memory contributions may be directed to Rockingham VNA and Hospice 137 Epping Road Exeter, New Hampshire 03833. Arrangements under the direction of the Robert K. Gray, Jr. Funeral Home, 24 Winnacunnet Rd, Hampton, NH 03842. www. robertkgrayjrfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe on Sep. 2, 2008.

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Albert Howes

September 8, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the Grandmaison Family and to Joyce on the loss of Norman...Norman had that smile and twinkle in his eye whenever I saw him while working behind the front desk...I will miss his positive attitude and his knowledge of the hospitallity business. Rest in Peace, Norman.

Paul Hartgen

September 5, 2008

I have incredible memories of my 15 or so years working at the Ashworth with the Grandmaison's. Norman had a great way with the guests and the staff. One of my favorite lines was when Mr. Poirier, a long time regular guest, thanked Norman for the new carpet in room 355 and Norman without missing a beat thanked Mr. Poirier for wearing the old one out. Classic Norman.

At times like these I wish I still lived in the Seacoast.

Joyce, Pat and John - I'm thinking of you.

Val Robichaud

September 4, 2008

Dear Joyce and family,
My heart breaks for you. My memories of Norman are all so wonderful - he was such a bright spot in the day at the Ashworth. Joyce, I know you miss him and my prayers are with you.

Chuck & Elaine DiPietro

September 4, 2008

We will always remember our discussions with both Norman & Joyce during our fequent visits to the Ashworth. Norman would come to our table to tell a joke or share stories about his many business adventures.
Our condolences to the Grandmaison family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Judy Kirkland

September 4, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Norman's passing. My thoughts are with are with you - Joyce, John, Pat and family.

Linda Coish

September 4, 2008

Deepest condolonces to Joyce and the entire family. Norman was a wonderful man who I feel honored to have known. I'll never forget his big smile when he'd walk past the front desk of the Ashworth, heading home for the night... And he'd always say "There's my girl!" He was such a positive presence and I will miss him terribly....

Diane Symonds

September 3, 2008

The seacoast has lost an icon and a dear friend. Our prayers and blessings to Joyce, John, Pat, and family.

Jane and Joseph Bresnahan

September 3, 2008

We are sorry for your loss. We remember Norman most at Sea Ranch in Florida and always enjoyed talking with him. He was a great man.

Rick Wesson

September 3, 2008

Norman was a dedicated husband, a loving father, grandfather, and uncle, a generous brother-in-law, a man with many loyal friends, and an entertaining storyteller. I believe that, by his grace, courage, and strength in the face of age and failing health, he embodied these lines from Dylan Thomas’s famous poem “Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night” ––

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day:
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And, by his quiet example, he taught me the essence of the following lines from “The Lord’s Prayer” ––

And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.

Those lines and his memory will stay with me forever. Thank you Norman.

Susan Cincotta

September 2, 2008

To the Grandmaison Family:

We were honored to have had the opportunity to know Norman. He was a wonderful and kind man. Our deepest sympathy.
The Hampton Staff of Citizens Bank on Winnacunnet Rd

Wesley & Alta Varney

September 2, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Norman Grandmaison. He was a true gentleman in all my business dealings with him. Mr. Brand Salads.

PAULINE GLEASON-WILK

September 2, 2008

OUR SINCERE SYMPATHY ON THE PASSING OF NORM. ALWAYS REMEMBERED AS ONE FINE GENTLEMAN.

Steve Bottomley

September 2, 2008

We've lost a great man and a true gentleman who touched many lives. Norm will be missed by many. With deepest sympathies.

chris dolan

September 2, 2008

Norman always went out of his way to say 'Hello' to us, always made people feel important, those were the keys to his success, a Good Guy!

Brian Doherty

September 2, 2008

To Mr. Grandmaison's family, please accept my sympathies on your loss of this very great man.

Some of my fondest memories of Hampton Beach, including the successes, the shortcomings, the community's characters, large and small; involve Norm Grandmaison and the Ashworh Hotel. So many great stories were related and hijinks unfurled at the Asworth's "family table" that I honestly wouldn't know where to start . . .

Thank you, Mr. Grandmaison, for all you did for Hampton Beach through the years, and thank you for being my friend.

Brian Doherty

Mike Casey

September 2, 2008

Mr. Grandmaison,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army in Korea. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Coleen Doyle

September 2, 2008

I feel truly blessed to have had the honor and the pleasure of knowing Norman.

My condolences to the family and especially to Joyce.

Love,

Donna Damphousse

September 2, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Grandmaison Family. I had the pleasure of starting my hotel career working at the Ashworth for many summers and it was always a pleasure seeing Norman. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Bill Shea

September 1, 2008

Norman:

We'll miss you so much.

Bill Shea,

Bev McClellan

August 31, 2008

May loving memories of the wonderful times spent with family, friends, employees and the guests who were so graciously welcomed at The Ashworth, bring peace, comfort and joy to Norman's loved ones. He will be remembered fondly by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Marianne Chaisson

August 31, 2008

To a great man I had the priviledge of knowing. You were an inspiration to everyone. The Ashworth will never be the same without you!! Say hi to my Dad up there I am sure you have a lot of golf stories to share. You will be so greatly missed but will live in our hearts and memories forever!

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