Shirley Ann Wigley

Shirley Wigley Obituary

WIGLEY, Shirley Ann (Forbes) In Danville, VA, formerly of Newport News, VA and long time resident of Framingham and Ashland, MA October 29th, 2008 in her 76th year. Beloved wife of 46 years to Captain Lawrence S. Wigley U.S. Navy (Retired). Devoted and cherished mother of Sharon Branam and her husband Robert of Danville, VA, Son Wayne Hudson and his wife Nadine of Danville, VA, Daughter, Cynthia Wagner and her husband Ken of Weston, MA, Grandchildren; Aaron Reynolds. Miranda and Quinton Hudson, Justin, Greg and Lauren Wagner. Shirley leaves 11 brothers and sisters (2 predeceased) and many nieces, nephews and friends. Private service will be held in Newport News, VA. Contributions may be made to Shirley's favorite charity, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105, www.stjude.org in the memory of Shirley A. Wigley.

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 31 to Nov. 2, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Wigley

8 Entries

November 11, 2008

Dear Shirl, we will all miss you. You were always wonderful to Bill and I and Will, Chris and Mike when we visited you. They remember the great meals, especially the hams that you cooked. You're in peace now. Love, The Willis'

Nadine Hudson

November 10, 2008

To Family and friends ,
Even though Shirley was only my Mother 'n ' law . She meet so much more to me .Its hard to express the love I have for her. When I read the paper I will see the Ad for Ginger Bread store and I cry Because that was her favorite store.My Life will not be the same with out here.I miss her so.

Sharon Branam

November 9, 2008

Dear Friends and Family,
Dad, Wayne, CiCi and I want to let you all know how much we appreciate all the thoughts and prayers that have gone out for mom. We all miss her very much.
It has been a difficult time for us all but we know that she is not sick, hurting or sad any longer. Love to you all....

Tammy

November 6, 2008

I just wanted to say that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I know the heart ache that comes with losing a parent. It is unfortunate that any of us have to go through this. But rejoice in the years you shared together and the memories you will have forever in your hearts. Aunt Shirley was a special women as I believe all the Forbes women are! Living so far away from all of you I didn't get to spend as much time with everyone as I would have liked to, however I do have some very special memories that I spent with Shirley over the years that I will cherish forever. I am so glad I had the opportunity to visit her and Larry a few years back at CiCi's beautiful home. I've grown up over the years with so many wonderful stories my mother has shared and passed on to me about her sister Shirley. I know it's really hard for my mom as well not being there. I know she will miss Shirley greatly. God Bless you all and help you through this time.
Love Always Cousin Tammy from California

David & Gloria Forbes

November 3, 2008

Larry and family
We are so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. She has gone to a much happier place to be with our Lord. Oh Happy Day when she arrives to see her mother and father, sisters and her extended family. Some day we should all meet together again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love

debbie goode

November 1, 2008

Dear Uncle Larry. my heart goes out to you I know ant Shirley was your best friend , you two had alot of good memories that you can go back on now , ant shirley lived life to its fullest with you . she always knew exactly what she wanted and didnt let hold back she was someone I always wished I could be like. I loved her with all my heart . She and you gave me a part in my life , no one can ever take from me I just hope that she knew how thankful I was. please know I think of you often.my heart is with you love Debbie

debbie goode

November 1, 2008

dear, sharon,wayne, c c ,there is no bond as great as mother and child,I can only imagine your grief, as when I lost my mom I didnt want to go on but that (forbes) voice of hers kept at me that I had to,just as you all have to.Its been ! year now, and I know shes with me, some days are really hard , I just want to call her to talk, I wish I could say its not that hard but it is . But what really helps is thinking of her and crazy things she would say or do and things she loved like daisies. Your mom was very special to me she taught me alot of things . she was so smart and gave me wisdom,and that family really is a village, she also always watched over my mom through out life my mom looked up to her . I ll always cherish that your mom was a very strong woman again thats what all the forbes girls were and still are , they put family first. As you all go through time now know your mom would want you all to stay strong. and if THeres anything I can say or do please call.

debbie goode

November 1, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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