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for Marshall Darling
Trish McGuire
October 28, 2025
I knew Marshall from the Maple Root Inn, CT. He showed me some of his work one day. When he noticed my emotional reaction to this photograph titled "No Fishing in Bristol" he said, you must have this.
Condolences to family and friends of this unique man.
Eric Newmark
August 10, 2024
Marshall and I were in the army together in Viet Nam. I thought of him on a recent visit to Cape Cod . I just looked him up today. Condolences to his family. Eric Newmark. Marshall was the guy who carried me to the aide station when I was wounded...
Lance Diskan
November 22, 2008
It's been a long time since we shared time at Darrow, but condolences to Marshall's family. Hoping you all take comfort for the loving life he lived and the obvious gratitude of those who were touched by his courage and bright attitude.
Lance Diskan
Darrow ' 64
mary jo grosso
November 8, 2008
dear christine , julia ,ian and aragorn:
We are painfully aware that life can never be the same again, that yesterday is over,that relationships once rich have ended. There is , however,
another way to look upon this truth .
The fact that this individual left behind a place that cannot be filled is a high tribute
to this individual.
Life can never be the same after the
loss of a treasure and the rascal that he was. I am blessed with fun filled memories of our youth in Madrid.
all my love ,
mary jo
Pittsburgh, pa / Madrid , Spain" the corner"
Grant Bowry
November 5, 2008
Christine, I received an e-mail from Alex Heddinger at Darrow School about Marshall's passing. I am deeply saddened and send my deepest sympathies and condolences to you and Marshall's families. I had the great fortune and honor to having spent many wonderful months with Marshall during his years at Darrow. As all of us who knew Marshall and as you well know, Christine, he had a wonderful sense of humor, loved nature, acting, photography, and was one of the most gentle people that I ever have met. I had the opportunity of speaking with Marshall for the first and only time since our graduation in 1963 about a year ago. I couldn't get over his wonderful outlook even though he had gone through so much. I guess that is the legacy that he will leave in my mind which is a true gift from him. I hope some day to have the honor of meeting you and your children and give you a big hug and tell you how sorry I am to hear of Marshall's passing. Love, Grant Bowry, Darrow Class of '63.
Mike Casey
November 5, 2008
Mr. Darling,Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in Vietnam. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.
Judi Robinson
November 3, 2008
I worked with Marshall at Provident twenty years ago and attended him as his nurse more recently. In all of my experiences with him, he made me laugh and smile. He had a special gift for that. I feel blessed to have known him and offer his family my sincere condolences.
john Smith
November 3, 2008
I feel sorry for the family rest in peace for now and forever your in the prayers of every one Amen
Jessie Lambiase
November 3, 2008
I am very saddened to hear of Marshall's passing. He brightened many of our days at Provident and will always be affectionately remembered as one of the "stars" in our crew.
ellie chute
November 3, 2008
We here at Wingate at Brightons Acitivites Department send you and yours aour deepest sympathy.
Ellie Chute
Janice Caffray
November 3, 2008
Christine, I am so sorry to hear of Marshall's death. We have known one another since high school. I am sure these last few years have been very difficult for your family. Marshall was always very witty and clever and a fabulous interesting person. Janice Caffray
J S
November 3, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
lahey clinic
November 3, 2008
To the Darling Family
We at the Lahey Clinic..are sad to hear the loss of Mr Darling
He was a great guy and he will always be remembered as a strong good hearted man
rest in peace
Your friends at Lahey
Jeffrey Herbin
November 2, 2008
cristine,ian,julia,laney,aragon i am truly sorry for your lost i had the pleasure of meeting yous breifly as well as marshall(champ) and marshall and yous have touch my heart in such a short period of time that has made my life better and for that i send my deepest condolence and love to my friends and wish that life treats you the best it has to offer and thank you for letting me be a part of your family again(thank you)very much
Marcelle Gregg
November 2, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Marshall's death. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Marcelle Gregg
Merrill Blum
November 2, 2008
The time I spent with Marshall was limited but he was always erudite, witty, had a unique way of looking at the world and the people in it.
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