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Joseph Topor Obituary

TOPOR, Joseph J. October 31, 2008, age 87. Beloved husband of the late Dorothy E. (Shepard) Topor. Loving father of William J. Topor of CA, James J. Topor of Tewksbury and Barbara A. Ventola of No. Andover. Devoted grandfather of Giovanna & Francesca Ventola of No. Andover, Joseph James Topor II of Tewksbury & Nicole Topor of CA. Cheriched uncle of Jon, Jamie, Jennifer & Jocelyn all of Wilmington. Funeral from the Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster St., MELROSE on Thurs. Nov. 6th at 8 AM. Funeral Mass in St. Mary's Church, Herbert St., Melrose at 9 AM. Relatives & friends invited. Visiting hours Wed. 4-8 PM. Interment in Wyoming Cemetery in Melrose. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Mary's Church, 46 Myrtle St., Melrose MA 02176. WWII Marine Veteran, Iwo Jima Survivor & Purple Heart Recipient. For obituary, to order flowers or sign guest book please visit www.gatelyfh.com Gately Funeral Home 781-665-1949

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 3 to Nov. 4, 2008.

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Maryann and Tom Fitch

November 22, 2008

Uncle Joe, Your warmth and love will forever be cherished within our hearts. You now rest with your beloved and beautiful Dot.

Our condolences to cousins Bill, Jim and Barbara and their children.

FUCCI FAMILY

November 6, 2008

Crossing the Bar

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The Poetry Foundation

JOANI FUCCI

November 6, 2008

Topor Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Your dad was a wonderful man. He worked for many years with our dad at the post office.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Our Deepest Condolences.
The Fucci Family

Mike Casey

November 6, 2008

Mr. Topor,
Sir, as a fellow Marine I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the USMC during WW II-especially at Iwo Jima. It was the history and accomplishments made by you and your fellow Marines there that all of us Marines who followed in your footsteps have always tried to live up to. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Semper Fi Devil Dog!
Mike Casey USMC '85-'89

Carole McKay

November 5, 2008

Joe was our letter carrier on Highland Ave. in Malden for many years. My 5 children looked for him daily and thought that he was the best.
We all thought the world of him, he was always so kind and cheery!
We had no idea of his incredible sacrifice to our country, and our respect and admiration has grown further.God bless your family, and know that so many others will think fondly of him and keep him in our prayers.
The McKay Family
355 Highland Ave, Malden

Kim Rosa

November 4, 2008

Dear Jim, Helen & Joseph,

We are sorry for the loss of your Dad & Grandfather. I remember a father's day gathering where my dad and Joe were trading war stories...it is a priceless memory. Talk about him often and know that he is watching over you all.

Love, Rob, Kim, Stephen, Brandon & Michael

Semper Fidelis

November 3, 2008

Carry on Marine!!!!!

John Fucci

November 3, 2008

Topor Family, We were sorry to read of your Dads passing. We have many memories of our work together at the Malden Post Office and in the Edgeworth neighborhood. He lived a full life and will be missed by his family and friends.

Nancy Cadigan

November 3, 2008

Dear Jim, Helen and Joseph,

We are all so very sorry for the loss of your Dad and Grandfather. He was a nice man. There were always pleasant conversations with him at your family gatherings.Our prayers are with your family. God Bless.

Nancy, Steven, Bridget and Conor Cadigan

Kevin Jarvis

November 3, 2008

Joe, we will all miss you! You were always a big hit with the young and old Marines at the Semper Fidelis luncheons and other Iwo Jima reunions. You were always faithful to friends, family and country. The Marines would always line up to get their photo taken with you. Say Hi to my Dad! Semper Fi, Kevin

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