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James Duffy Obituary

DUFFY, James Matthew Of Newton, November 2, 2008. Husband of Judith (Goddard) Duffy. Father of James M. Jr. of Brighton, Collette Duffy of Brighton and Jennifer Duffy of Newton. Son of the late Andrew R., & Marguerite Duffy Jr. Brother of Kathi Duffy of Newton, Anne Krueger of Watertown and the late Mary L. Burke and Thomas Duffy. Also survived by Aunts, Uncles, Nieces and Nephews. Funeral from the Blackington, Conroy & Hayes Funeral Home, 1479 Washington St., (Rte 16) WEST NEWTON, Friday, November 7 at 11:00 AM, followed by a Funeral Mass in Our Lady Help of Christians Church,, Newton, at 12:00 Noon. Visiting hours Thursday evening from 4:00 - 8:00 P.M. Relatives and friends kindly invited.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 4 to Nov. 5, 2008.

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Stephen Dalrymple

November 2, 2009

Jimmy,
One year has gone by since your death. Not a day passes without a thought of you. You are missed here. I hope you rest easy my brother

Karen Kincare-Cali

November 19, 2008

Dear Duffy Family,
I am overcome with shock and sadness to have just learned of the losses of both Jimmy and Mary Lou; we have lived far apart for many years but the family connection is always there. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this terrible time.
Love always, Karen KincareCali

Susan Reynold

November 16, 2008

We only just heard - our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Susan, Scott, Mike and Tom

Anna Lochiatto

November 13, 2008

Judy,
We are sorry to hear about your husband. If you need anything feel free to call. It makes you realize how precious life is and how it can be taken away so fast. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Anna, Jim, Allison and Eric Lochiatto

Chrissy Brashears

November 8, 2008

Judy, my prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. You know I am here for you if you need anything. Love Chrissy Brashears.

Patryce Lally

November 8, 2008

Dear Judy,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tragic time. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
With deepest sympathy, Patryce

Terri Wallace

November 7, 2008

Dear Judy,

I was shocked to hear of Jimmy's passing and I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere sympathy is with you and your family.

I am always here if you need me.

Debby (Bianchi) Torri

November 6, 2008

Judy, I was saddened to hear about Jiimmy's accident. My heart goes out to you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

Rich & Lauren Lawless

November 6, 2008

Judy, we are so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. You, Jimmy, Collette and Jennifer are in our thoughts. Continue as the strong person you have always been.

James Trano

November 6, 2008

Judy, Jimmy, Collette & Jenn... My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss. I remember coaching with Jim and the kind heart he had with the kids. My son enjoyed going to the baseball field and learned to love the game. We all enjoyed his smile while watching him coach. He will remembered in our family as a great person with a tender heart. You will all be in our thoughts & prayers..God Bless...

Alex Jasset

November 6, 2008

Judy, Jimmy, Colette, and Jenn,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I wish I could be there for the service, but know that I'm keeping you all in my thoughts. Your family has always been there for us, so if there is anything we can do for you, don't hesitate to ask. Again, my sincerest condolences.

Susan Carbone

November 6, 2008

Judy,

My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Helen

November 6, 2008

Judy, Jimmy, Colette, and Jennifer, I know that Big Jim, your dad, loved you all very much. I never had a conversation with him that didn't include his boasting about at least one of you. I also know he loved Jim Morrison, he was quite vocal about it recently, which made me think of two Morrison quotes; “That is what real love amounts to, letting a person be what he really is. Most people love you for who you pretend to be." & "Love cannot save you from your own fate.” You loved him as he was, and he knew this, and he loved you Judy, especially your strength, in letting him just be Jim.

Joe & Kimm DelGizzi

November 5, 2008

Judy I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know your and your children are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mindy Mitchell

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy, Susanne & Family

Sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.

Mindy Mitchell & Dr. Ed Keenan

Jean Deschamps

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy,

My heart goes out to you. If you need anything I will be there. Love you Jean

Julie Emmer

November 5, 2008

The Duffy family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Julie Emmer

Cheryl Jasset

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy, I was shocked and saddened to hear about Jimmy's accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you and your children comfort.
If there is anything at all I can do for you please let me know.

Jamie Emmer

November 5, 2008

To the entire family: My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
With Heartfelt Condolences,
Jamie & Julie Emmer

Janet Baldassarre

November 5, 2008

Judy, Jimmy and the entire Duffy family: Myself and my whole family was shocked and so saddened by the news of big Jimmy's accident. I'm so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my constant prayers.

Donald Lorusso

November 5, 2008

To the Duffy Family,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this sorrowful time. It was a pleasure to have (DUFFY) work on my crew.

November 5, 2008

Duffy Family, Your in my prayers during this difficult time.
Nicky Capello Franchi

Jim Reilly

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy,
I'm so sorry to hear about Jimmy. You and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers.

Janice Ciolfi

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy,Sue & Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, so sorry to hear of your loss, try to keep the faith and God Bless.

Janice Ciolfi & Family

Kathy & Steve Dalrymple

November 5, 2008

Dear Judy, Jim Jr., Collette & Jennifer

Steve & I want you to know that the
single most prominent thing we've always known about Jimmy is his love
for you Judy and for his son and daughters because he always shared that with us. Jimmy was 'family'/friend to us..we loved him like 'family' and were privileged to call him 'friend'. Our sincere sympathies are with you all.
Kathy and Steve Dalrymple

ROBERT BARBOUR

November 5, 2008

DEAR JUDY,JIMMY JR.,COLLETTE.AND JENNIFER.I JUST WANT TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND SORROW TO ALL OF YOU.ATLEAST NOW HE'LL BE AT PEACE.ANYTHING THAT YOU NEED OR THAT I CAN DO FOR YOU,JUST ASK.PLEASE EXTEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO JIMMY'S SISTER'S FAMILY ALSO,TWO TERRIBLE TRAGEDIES,THEY WERE BOTH TO YOUNG.

Patricia Duffy Barros

November 4, 2008

Aloha, Upon hearing of my cousin Jimmys death I was shocked and saddened. Although we lived far apart the 'Newton Duffys' were not far from our thoughts. Now that both Jimmy and Mary Lou have both suddenly passed many memories of our families spending time together have come flooding back. The world will not be as bright with them gone. You are in our thougths and prayers - Me ke aloha pumehana,
the 'Hawaii Duffys'

Curtis Evans

November 4, 2008

The Duffy Family. So sorry to hear about Jimmy. As a Veterans Representative I met Jimmy back in March of 07. I work at the Newton Career Center and we also work with the VCT Program in Bedford. Our deepest sympathy to the Duffy Family.

Lynne

November 4, 2008

To the Duffy family, Annie, Richie, Laura, and Kathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so sorry for your loss and pray that God will give you the strength to get through this sorrowful time.

Donna Beacham

November 4, 2008

Dear Judy,

Not sure if you remember me, Donna Beacham from Newton...we hung out as kids....I am so very sorry to hear about Jimmy...keep faith....We just lost our Mom (Eleanor) suddenly on Sept 15th..So I know the numbness and the loss...
You are in our thoughts and prayers !

Donna, Diane and Karin

Aunt Mary Alice Duffy

November 4, 2008

Dear Duffy family,
Our sympathy and condolence upon the death of Jimmy. My memories of him as a young boy are full of love and laughter. With the death of his sister Mary Lou on the same day our family is in shock and dismay. We send our support, prayers, love and aloha.

Debbie Locke

November 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jim's entire family. The Veterans Construction Team (VCT) will miss him a great deal. He was a man who proudly served his country and who was a skilled trades man.

Debbie Locke

November 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jim's entire family. The Veterans Construction Team (VCT) will miss him a great deal. He was a man who proudly served his country and who was a skilled trades man.

Sue Tresca

November 4, 2008

Dear Judy and family,
I am thinking of you and praying for your comfort at this very sad time. I am sorry that I am unable to attend the services as I am away but will see you when I return. With love,

Debbie Cononico

November 4, 2008

Dear Judy, I am so sorry about Jimmy. If you just need to talk contact me anytime. After losing Steve in July, I know what you are going through. Times will be tough. After awhile everyone will go away and you'll feel as though you are alone. You are not. There are many of us out there. So if there is ever a time when you feel you need someone to talk to call me. Feel free to contact me if you ever need anything,
Sincerely,
Debbie

Anita Campanella

November 4, 2008

Dear Judy,

Your are in our thoughts today. We are so sorry to hear about Jimmy. We wish we could be with you to help you through this difficult time. It gives us comfort to know you will be surrounded by the kids and alot of good friends.
Take care,
Anita & Bart Campanella

Sandy Janvrin

November 4, 2008

Judy,
So sorry for your loss. I think of you often. Jimmy was a great guy. God bless you and your family.

Wanda Gilbert

November 4, 2008

Judy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this tragic time. Aunt Jean, Wanda, Sandi, Melanie and Alexa.

Edward Desmond

November 4, 2008

To the Duffy Family,
you are in my thoughts and prayers during this sorrowful time.

Edo

Dino Rossi

November 4, 2008

Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with your family. We will not be available to attend services but wanted you to know we are thinking about you.

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