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OTHMER, Robert J. Sr. "Yashew" Of East Boston, formerly of the West End, on Nov. 20. Beloved husband for over 49 years to Joanne (Zirpolo) Othmer. Devoted father of James Othmer and his companion Annmarie, and Joseph Othmer all of East Boston, Dennis Othmer and his companion Barbara of Revere, Cheryl Othmer and her companion Jack, Charlene Albanese and her husband Raymond, David Othmer all of East Boston, Sean and his wife Jacqueline of Revere, Michael of East Boston, Stephen and his wife Angela of Revere, and the late Robert Jr. and Richard Othmer. Dear brother of Edward Othmer and his wife Patricia, Janice Noseworthy and her husband Gordy all of Medford, Mary Risser of Somerville and Kathy Lupo of Melrose, cherished grandfather of Danielle, Christine, Ashley, Shana, Tiffany, Raymond Jr, James Jr, Isabella and Dennis Jr. Adored great grandfather of Michael Jr, also survived by many fond aunts uncles and cousins. Funeral from the Ruggiero-Mazzarella Memorial Home, 971 Saratoga St., (Orient Heights) EAST BOSTON on Monday, Nov. 24 at 9:00am, followed by his Funeral Mass in Sacred Heart Church, Brooks St., East Boston at 10:00. Relatives and friends respectfully invited, visiting hours Sunday 3-7. Services will conclude with Mr. Othmer being laid to rest in Holy Cross Cemetery. Funeral home is handicapped accessible. Courtesy valet parking front entrance of Funeral Home. For complimentary transportation to and from the funeral home please call 617-569-0990. Ample off street parking with attendant in our 3 parking lots. For more info or to send the Othmer family an online condolence www.ruggieromh.com Ruggiero-Mazzarella Memorial Home Orient Heights, East Boston

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 22 to Nov. 23, 2008.

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Ray Albanese

May 2, 2009

Papa,

Yesterday was my first game playing without you in the bleachers cheering me on. I was just shy of a home-run yesterdaywhich would have been for you and Papa Sammy. I pitched the 1st 5 innings with giving up only 3 runs. I scored 3 runs in the game.

Ray

michael othmer

December 10, 2008

dad you was my best frieind there is a day that will never go by that i dont think of you my life will never be the same 16 years ago i gave you a grandchild named ASHLEYand i know it was one of the proudest moments of your life and for that i will never forget you were our heart /soul and life and i will never forget that day daddy /papa i love u and i will miss you more than you will eva know love foreva your son /michael /and granddaughter ashley othmer

Louise LoPresti

November 28, 2008

Jo Ann, you are in my thoughts & prayers

Carol Sullivan

November 27, 2008

Dear Joanne, Charlene, Ray, Cheryl and the entire Othmer family -we will all miss that friendly smile that Bob always had -He was a great husband, father, grandfather and friend, and he will be missed by all, but I'm sure he and "Papa Sam" will have a great time exchanging family stories.

Love to all -

Carol, Sully, Katie & Erin Sullivan

william mcdonald

November 25, 2008

to the family of bob othmer, so sad for your loss, i had so many good times with him i work with him at the elderly comm for the city of boston, their where never a dull moment, he made everybody crack up, what times we had as a friend he will never be forgoten. bobby o you were the best, your great friend billy mac.

Charlene & Michael Goodwin & Family

November 24, 2008

To the Othmer Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.

Sarah & David Natt

November 24, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We're so very sorry for your loss.

Lisa Tortorici

November 23, 2008

Othmer Family,

We are so very sorry for you loss. You father was a great guy. I remember he would take my father in the shuttle to the VA. My father always enjoyed his rides with Bob.
Take Care and we're thinking about you.

Lisa & Shawn Tortorici

Mary Risser

November 23, 2008

Dear Brother,
As a child growing up, I know that we were loved by Ma, Dad, Aunty Jennie, Uncle Eddie, and most of all “Nana.” You know you got your name “Yashew” from Nana because she couldn’t say Robert or Bob.
What I can remember most from those days growing up is how handsome you were and how wild -- You gave Ma a run for her money, didn’t you? And boy could you dance!
As the years went by, you started to mature and then you met Joanne, the love of your life. That was one of the happiest moments in your life and ours. As the years past, we might have gone our separate ways, but we never forgot to see or call each other.
As I sat in your kitchen I could see the love from your children and grandchildren. They loved you very much. I might not have said it often, brother, but I loved you too!

Jimmy DiPaolo

November 23, 2008

Dear Joanne, I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with your whole family. I have known your family most of my life and love them all. He was a great guy and will be missed. God bless you all.

Laurie Cinelli-Penta

November 22, 2008

To the Othmer Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to each of you. May your memories of your dad comfort you in the days ahead.
Laurie & Tony Penta

janice and gordy noseworhty

November 22, 2008

To my brother Yashew, who I loved so very much. I know we never took the time to say "I love you", but we didnt need to. We saw it in the times we had together. Happy times in the back yard at ma and dads house and gettogethers we always had good times. Im so proud to know how very much you were loved and you couldnt have picked a better wife than my sister-in-law Joanne. She is trying to be so very strong for the family, but she has all my beautiful neices and nephews and grandchildren to hold her up. You both did a wonderful job bringing them up. Love you and miss you. Your sister Janice and brother in law Gordy

Kay Mastroppolito

November 22, 2008

Dear Joanne & family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Just remember Bobby is in a better place looking down on you all. Michael sends his condolences also & wishes he could be for all of you.

Kay Mastroppolito
& Michael Mash

Debra L. Noseworthy

November 22, 2008

Dear Joanne+Family : My heart goes out to you and all my sympathy for your loss.You are in my prayers.

Joyce Carville

November 22, 2008

Char,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.

Marc Heath

November 22, 2008

Auntie Joanne and the entire Othmer family-I am at a loss for words... Uncle Bob was a true "Great guy"-true to his roots and family.
Uncle Bob, please continue to make fun of Delores..I have never laughed so hard in my life. Please say hello to the many family members who passed before you-I know they welcomed you with open arms and are with you now.
My deepest sympathies to auntie Joanne and family.

Marc, Liz, Marc Jr. and Briana

Bonnie Battite

November 22, 2008

Auntie Joanne & Cousins, I am so sad for you. I know Uncle Yashew loved you all. He will surely be missed. He did a great job as a dad as all of you are so respectful and loving. I always feel comfortable when I'm around our family, which is not often enough. I hope this changes. I miss all our stories, and boy do we have them. Your in our hearts always, Bonnie, Gary and the girls

Doreen and Sal Colombo

November 22, 2008

To Auntie Joanne and the whole family, I am so sorry for your loss. Uncle Bob will be sorely missed. As long as I can remember you were all there there for me and my family in good times and in hard. You are the closest and most loving family I know. We love you all.

November 22, 2008

To the Othmer family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

Sue, Bob & Sam Kelly

November 22, 2008

To Joanne and Family: Words cannot express how sorry we are. Bob was a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. He was always there for my niece Tiffany and nephew Ray. Having just lost my Dad I know that nothing anyone will say or do can take away this pain. Know now that he is in a much better place watching over you each and every day.

Diane, Rich, Richie & Michael Cardinale

Denise Paolillo (Noseworthy)

November 22, 2008

Uncle Yashew, I just had a thought - while we're all sitting around over the next few days telling stories and sharing memories, I can just hear you saying "don't be sad - I'm having a great time", and I'm picturing you sitting at a table (like the one on Edgar Ave or the one at the Hampton Beach cottage) with Grandma and Grandpa, Uncle Sonny, Bobby, Richie, Auntie Jenny and Uncle Eddie. I think there's quite a few of us that would love to listen in on that conversation! Anyway, it made me feel a little better, knowing you were surrounded by others who love you.

Della Heath

November 22, 2008

Auntie Joanne & family, my uncle Bob will be sadly missed.... We will always remember LasVegas and the wonderful time we had with him, and now my mother will have a gambling partner in that casino in the sky... Our prayers are with all of you. Love, Della & Stucky

William and Linda Magnusson

November 22, 2008

My wife and I were sorry to hear about Bob's passing, I worked with him at Hertz and I will miss him. He was a nice guy, pleasant to talk to and work with.

Denise Paolillo

November 22, 2008

We love you, Uncle Yashew - you will be sorely missed. Even though I didn't get to see you that often, your warmth and sense of family always made me feel like no time had passed. You truly knew what was important in life, above all else - family - and you passed this down to your children and grandchildren. The loving nature that shines through my cousins is a tribute to you and the kind of dad/papa you were to them. You have touched so many lives. My heart goes out to Auntie Joanne, all of your children, their spouses and girlfriends, your grandkids, your sisters and brother, your nieces and nephews, cousins, friends, and all of those who loved you so dearly. May you rest in peace as you watch over all of them. They need you more now than ever. For those who will miss you most, may God wrap his arms around them and comfort them through this very difficult time and may their memories of you keep him alive in your heart. You will always have a place in mine. God bless you. Love, your niece, Denise

Nicole Coppens

November 22, 2008

Dear Robert and his family,
I am so sorry about your loss of the Father in Law. I know he is the great father to eveyone in his family.

Stephen Othmer

November 22, 2008

Dad,

You are my best friend and father and I will miss you so much. I have so many great memories of you that I will keep with me forever. We had some great times togeher that I will never forget, you were the best Dad anyone could want, you were there for me always and I love you so much. God bless you and rest in peace. Love your son, Stephen

Angela Othmer

November 22, 2008

Bob (Papa),

Words cannot express how much I will miss you. I have been honored to have had such a wonderful, loving father in law. I will cherish our time together. I promise I will take good care of your son Stephen. Until we meet again, God bless you and I love you more than I can say. Love, Angela (p.s. I'll be raising my hands so you will always know where I am)

Ray-Ray

November 22, 2008

Papa,
I miss you so much you never believe it! I can't believe how it happened so fast! I have so many memories that I will remember every single one of them like it was yesterday! I will miss you very much but I know you and my Papa Sammy will be having so much fun talking, playing cards, and watching over me! Now I have not 1 but 2 angels sitting on my shoulders watching over me. I was your last grandchild to see you outside of my house when you and I were making fun of Auntie Cheryl before the accident.

I have so many funny stories because when you were on the phone looking for Tiffany, I would say it is Tiffany when it was me. We would talk for a long time and you still did not realize it was me. Then you would call back and ask to talk to Ray and I would say Papa I just talked to you and I said I was Tiffany and you would say don't lie to me and you would ask my mother if it was me. When ever I was cooking dinner and you called I said Papa I will call you back I am cooking or eating and you yell at me over the phone. Saying why didn't you call me back? I would say I had to shower. I'm very lucky to have had such a wonderful Papa who would do anything for me and never so no. I will miss you from not picking me up from school, I will miss you from not being at most my basketball and baseball games cheering me on. I will love and miss you forever.

Love your Grandson,

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