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Flavia Bari Obituary

BARI, Flavia (Ascolillo) Of Malden, formerly of the North End of Boston, December 5th. Beloved wife of Sebastiano J. "Jim" Bari. Devoted mother of Maria G. Bari of Malden and Carmelo D. Bari of Medford. Dear sister of Vito Ascolillo and his wife Carmela of Boston. Loving daughter-in-law of Maria Bari of Medford. Dear sister-in-law of Joseph Bari and his wife Kathy of Brockton and Philip Bari Sr. of Florida. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews and many cousins. Funeral from the Breslin Funeral Home, 610 Pleasant St., MALDEN on Tuesday Dec. 9th at 10 AM followed by a Mass of Christian Burial celebrated at Immaculate Conception Church in Malden at 12 Noon. Relatives & friends are invited to attend. Visitation will be held prior to the Mass on Tuesday only. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Congregation of the Sisters of Our Lady of Mercy, 241 Neponset Ave., Dorchester, MA 02122. For complete obituary, guestbook & directions visit www.breslinfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 7 to Dec. 8, 2008.

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Ron & Debbie Janowicz

December 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cathy Richard

December 9, 2008

Dear Jim, Maria, and Carmelo,
When I think of Flavia these words come to mind "Gentle Woman" from the hymn Hail Mary. As a friend and co-worker of mine, I will always remember her for her kindness, courage, compassion, gentleness and love. I share your sadness and loss of this truly beautiful woman. I will miss her. May you find peace knowing how much she has been loved.

Mary (Caso) Zingariello

December 9, 2008

To Flavia,
It has been said that God only takes the best, and He certainly did so when He took you. I will always have fond memories of you and of our days in the North End and JB.

I pray that God will give your family strenght to bear such a loss.

Kim Paone

December 8, 2008

Maria and Family,

I know that your great strength, family, and friends will help you at this time of loss. May your memories bring you peace and comfort in your time of grief.

Annie McLaughlin

December 8, 2008

Flavia was such a blessing to everyone who knew her. Please accept my deepest condolences.

rose giammarco

December 8, 2008

To Flavia ,

May God Bless you and give you repose in Heaven! I always remember you from our days at J.B.

May God give comfort to your family.

Rose

Gina Morello

December 8, 2008

Ms. Bari,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Although I never met your mother personally, I heard what a wonderful person (and cook) she was from Kayla & Jessica. We will keep you in our prayers.

Gina Morello
Kayla OLN '09 & Jessica OLN '11

Marie Colleameno

December 8, 2008

Dear Family,

I grew up on Baldwin Place and Flavia was always a kind, quiet young woman, my sincerest condolonces to all.

Marie Como Colleameno

Melissa Paige-Reed

December 8, 2008

With deepest sympathy. Maria, I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

The Connor Family

December 7, 2008

Maria and Family,
We are truly sorry for your loss, may you find comfort in knowing she is with God and smiling down on you.

Rosetta & Edmund Aliberti

December 7, 2008

Sincerest condolences, Jim, Maria and Carmelo. You are all in my prayers.

Rosetta (Tarantino) & Edmund Aliberti

Jerry Leabman

December 7, 2008

Dear Jim,

My thoughts are with you, Maria, and Carmelo.

Angelo Fiantaca

December 7, 2008

Dear Jim, I am sorry to hear of your loss of your wife. My sincere condolences.

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