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Eleanor O'Brien Obituary

O'BRIEN, Eleanor C. (Bowen) Formerly of Brighton, in Mjddleboro, December 7, 2008. Beloved wife of Cornelius W. "Bill" O'Brien. Devoted mother of Cathy Auchterlonie, Pat Chandler, Donna O'Brien, Jo Farmer, Debby Naughton, Cornelius Billy O'Brien, Michael O'Brien Connie Peters and Chris Derubeis. Sister of Robert Bowen and Eunice Owen and the late John, Ted, Joe, Jim, George, Leo, Walter and Barney Bowen, Mae Lillis, Anne Carlin, Margie McClory and Dorothea Moran. Also survived by 16 grandchildren, 5 great grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. Funeral from The Lehman & Reen Funeral Home, 63 Chestnut Hill Ave., (nr. Brighton Courthouse) BRIGHTON Thursday at 8 am. Funeral Mass in St. Columbkille Church, 321 Market St., Brighton at 9 am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Visiting hours Wednesday 4-8pm. Interment St. Joseph Cemetery, West Roxbury. Member Ladies 121 Club. If desired contributions in memory of Ellie to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place, West 6th Floor, Brookline, MA 02445 would be appreciated. Funeral Home handicapped accessible. For Directions and Guest Book please visit www.lehmanreen.com. Lehman & Reen Funeral Home Brighton 617-782-1000

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 9 to Dec. 10, 2008.

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MOM'S FAMILY

November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving Mom. We all miss and love you so much and today is the last major holiday since your passing almost a year ago, and it's been tough but us O'Brien's stick together, always have and always will because that is the way you raised us. Mom, you are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.
Always and forever....
Your loving husband, children, grandchildren and great-children.

Sheila Gallagher

August 8, 2009

To Donna and Family

Hi Donna

Sorry to hear about your mom's passing. She was such a nice lady. I remember her and your father cooking breakfast for us. I hope her memory brings you peace and comfort in the days and years ahead.

Christine DeRubeis

May 10, 2009

Mom, today may be the hardest of them all, I think about you everyday and wish you were still here, we all do. Happy Mothers Day Mom, I love you so much but miss you even more.

Tracey Burke

January 26, 2009

To the O'Brien Family,
I've just recently heard of Mrs. O'brien's passing. She and Mr. O'Brien were one of my favorite patients! My thoughts are with you all during your time of grief.
Tracey Burke, M.A.
Harvard Vanguard Medical Assoc.

Jo

January 21, 2009

Hi Mom, here it is one month and 14 days and I find it still unbelievable that you are gone. I miss you so much and I think about you every day. I love and miss you so very much. Jo

Debby

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas mom. I love & miss you so much. Really sucks without you.

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas, Mom. This is our first Christmas without you. I miss you so much. We all miss you. I Love Always, Cathy

Christine DeRubeis

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas Mom, We love and Miss You So Much!!!!
Always
Christine, Mario and Jagger

Connie Peters

December 18, 2008

Hi mom,love and miss you. Happy birthday
Love,Connie

Jo

December 18, 2008

Happy Birthday Mom. I love and miss you so much. Jo

Kayla Peters

December 18, 2008

happy birthday nana! I miss you and love you veryy much

Debby

December 18, 2008

Happy birthday mom. I love & miss you very much.

DAVID AUCHTERLONIE

December 18, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA. I MISS U VERY MUCH. LOVE ALWAYS YOUR LITTLE MAN

December 18, 2008

Happy Birthday, Mom. I miss you so much, but I will always have our wonderful memories, escepcially our 'Dad adventures and Dad parking spaces'. Don't worry about Dad, we will all take excellent care of him.
I Love You Forever, Cathy

Christine DeRubeis

December 18, 2008

Happy Birthday Mom, I Love You!!!
Christine

December 18, 2008

Happy Birthday, Mom. I miss you so much, but I will always have wonderful memories, especially our little 'Dad adventures and Dad parking spaces'! Don't worry about Dad, we will take wonderful care of him. I Love You Forever, Cathy

chris auchterlonie

December 16, 2008

nana i love u and will miss u

Beverly O'Loughlin(McGuiness)

December 13, 2008

My thoughts and love are with you at this very sad time.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Stephanie Brooks

December 11, 2008

I dont really know what else to say except-What a wonderful person with a beautiful family. You have a family that is so close, filled with so much love and you should be so proud that you and your husband were the ones that made it all happen. You are an unforgetable soul mate, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, friend and much more, but now you are a guardian angel. I wish I could have gotten to know you better, but from what I could see with all those that surrounded you today, at the funeral, it wasn't hard to see that you will be missed more than you could possibly imagine. R.I.P<3

Always smiling!

December 11, 2008

Debby

December 11, 2008

No mom, I love you the most. Pay no attention to your baby, she is after all the baby.

Christine DeRubeis

December 11, 2008

Hi mommy, I just wanted to let you know I luv you most!!!

Donna O'Brien

December 11, 2008

My Mom,
Funny, warm, loving, caring and giving. I am so blessed to have had such a wonderful Mother, not just to me and my family, but to all of my friends, who she gave her love and support through their hard and rough times. She will be missed clearly by all who knew her and loved her. I love you Mom and I will miss you dearly.

Love,

Donna

karen werra

December 11, 2008

our condolences on the loss of your wife and mother, she was a wonderful person, from the day my husband met her, he called her ollie not ellie, that is how we will remember her. rest in peace ollie

Maureen and Jerry Colomey

December 10, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Katelyn...Keshon Sampson

December 10, 2008

Hey Nana O'brien.....You will Surely be missed by many...You have the best personality from the day i meet You...Tell Dad John we said hi...an my love goes out to the O'brien family

Paula Sampson-Burkett

December 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your moms passing. I know she will be missed by many. She was a HOOT!!! Her joyful, fun spirit will be welcome in Heaven.
Sincerely,
Paula M. Sampson-Burkett
Melbourne, Fl

Deborah and Gene Lacey

December 10, 2008

There aren't many words to express how much your mom and wife meant to me. She was my other "mom." How many times did Patty and I run back and forth from each other's homes. I have known Ellie since Kindergarten where I met Pat. Ellie has been an inspiration to me my entire life and I'm a better person for having known her. She had such a sense of humor (not always clean, but FUNNY!). I'll always love her and will always smile when I think of her! Deb
PS Of course, Gene will always remember her visits to Brooks in Allston! Both of us will miss her dearly! All our love and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time!

Pat McDonald

December 10, 2008

Aunt Nora will surely be missed by many. But it certain that she's laughing with her sisters, playing cards with her brothers or maybe even doing the jitterbug with Ted. I'm sure she's also remembering giggles with nieces and nephews as well as the tremendous love she has for all her own children and Uncle Connie. YFN. Pat

Alexandra Greenway

December 10, 2008

Sometimes you have to wait for the door to open. There is no time frame; you don’t know when it will be there to be opened, but once it opens, the death of a loved one returns like a butterfly.

Suddenly you are capable of remembering all the moments in the good things you tried to think of, but couldn’t quite fully reach in such a disturbingly upset state. It’s hard to truly remember the actual moments you had when initially, all you can think of is how wonderful the person was, why it couldn't have ended differently, perhaps how you didn't get to say good-bye in the way you wanted to, how nothing will ever be the same, and what made them who they were and no one else.

It’s a beautiful thing when this door opens. Once the door is opened, you can really remember the moments. These moments are so precious and ultimately lead to acceptance of what seems to be such a great, great loss. Suddenly you are capable of forgetting about the how, why, and when and begin feeling the moments you remember along with the wonderful spirit of the person who made those moments what they are, in the deepest of your heart. It will make your insides smile.

It snowed lightly on her day. It was beautiful for her. She has a wonderful family, (and friends, even acquaintances), who love her and will keep her spirit alive. She will never leave any of your sides. I’m sure she will be there to give you a push if you need it and hold you up when there’s no one there.

I put no rush on it because we all have our own timing and our own ways, but I wish you quickness in finding that magnificent door to peace, an inner smile, and forgiveness.

My sincerest Condolences

Rest in Peace

~

December 10, 2008

Ellie:
You are and always will bethe best Mother-in-Law one could imagine to have. Thanks for the wonderland daughter that I married.
Love always,
Rich

Krystle Ashley A.J Camren & Urijah naughton

December 10, 2008

Hey Nana aka NanO ...& u know that other nickname i had for ya!
what can i say you were a great person so happy an good too us Naughton kids!We will miss you dearly We are thankful for the memories we shared so that everytime we get sad we can look back at them and smile like you would want us too!! It sucks !! sry i just had to say it!! But give our dad the biggest hug and one day we will all be together again...we love you nana &
Papa aka PapO we love u too and u be strong nana wouldnt want it any other way..x0x0x

December 10, 2008

Ellie: You will be greatly missed by all. It was our honor to know someone like you.
From your fellow football loving buddies known as the Shed Gang in Man Town.

December 10, 2008

my darling nora I Am going to miss you terribly but each time i do i just have to look at the wonderfull children you have given me and there you are! untill we meet again in heaven my dear,keep my side warm! I LOVE YOU BILL

Tricia

December 10, 2008

Mom,
I will miss you so much. You were always there for me when I needed a shoulder to lean or to cry on. I am so proud to say you are my mom. You are my strength.
Goodnight and God bless you. I love you.

Brian Chandler

December 10, 2008

I will always love and miss you nana. I wish I could have gone in your place.

Elaine and Arthur Tallini

December 10, 2008

Jo, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of the MANY joyful times that were spent with your Mom. We loved your Mom and will miss her smiling face. God Bless!

Ducky

December 10, 2008

Nana, though I only met you a few time, you always had a smile on your face and big warm wonderful heart. may you Rest in Peace. You will be missed greatly.

Nancy Moran

December 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
I always think of Eleanor as such
a fun person.

Louie and Renee Blaine

December 10, 2008

Rick and Family,
I know that Heaven is having a lot more fun now that your Nana is there. Every time I met her she always had a smile, or a witty comment, or she was telling Eric to sing the Ricky Dicky Doo song.


I also have great memories of your Nana on your wedding day.

From having the honor of walking your Nana down the aisle.

To having her look at me funny when I was so excited to make the biggest PB&J sandwich at the hotel

To her partying it up with us late into the night and not even caring that she almost got pushed into the tub by a bunch of crazy animals.

I know you have many great memories so remember those times.

Our sincere condolences to you and all your family at this time.

Love

Susan O'Toole (Senske)

December 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

You made us smile

John and Valerie Bowen

December 10, 2008

We are so sorry for your Loss, Eleanor will be missed very much. She always had a way of making people smile and laugh.

Maureen Leavitt

December 9, 2008

My precious Auntie Ell, So much love,so much laughter, so many memories that will live forever in my heart. Uncle Bill and the "gang" my heart just breaks for you...love, Moe xoxo

Dan Farmer

December 9, 2008

Nana, i love you so much and i will miss you each and every day. you will never be forgotten. I'll always remember the best times we had. ILOVEYOU

Kayla Peters

December 9, 2008

Nana,thank you for being the best nana anyone could ever ask for. i miss you so much and i honestly dont know what im going to do without you,nothing will ever be the same but you will always be in our hearts and you will never ever be forgotten. i love you so much and i promise i will take care of papa for you and thats a promise that will never be broken.
Love always,kayla

Ricky Doo

December 9, 2008

We love you Nana. Rest in Peace. You were an amazing woman and will be missed immensely. And we all know you'll be an angel looking over your entire family. Any memory of you will forever bring a smile to my face.

December 9, 2008

To the O'Brien Family,
I am sorry about your loss.
Debbie Shippie

Cheryl Callahan

December 9, 2008

Heavens Angel
You opened your home and heart
With your Inviting smile, and a few good joke's. You always made me feel at home.Truly a mom to everyone. I Love you.

Jeanne Barry

December 9, 2008

Bill, Our thoughts are with you and your family. Even though we only knew Ellie for a few years we always enjoyed her company and wit. Jeanne and Ed Barry

Dee Shaw

December 9, 2008

Connie and Chris ,
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom..
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.!!
Love you all Dee

Christine and Mario DeRubeis

December 9, 2008

Hi Mom, it's me your baby, I love you and will miss you forever and ever, thank you so much for giving me the best childhood and adulthood
We will never forget the great times we had and still will have at your expense.
love always,
christine, mario and jagger

Cheryl Farmer

December 9, 2008

Our thoughts & Prayers are with all of you. Miss Ellie was one-of-a-kind. She will be missed. I will never forget her singing "Delilah". May GOD bless her & the whole family. Love, Bill & Cheryl Farmer

Sheila McDonough

December 9, 2008

Mrs. O'Brien,

I remember sitting around your kitchen table and you were so funny making faces, keeping us in a roar. Glad I got to see you this past 4th of July. See you at home someday. Love Sheila

Matt Farmer

December 9, 2008

Nana you will be missed by us all. May you Rest in peace. I love you

Caitlyn Farmer

December 9, 2008

I love you Nana. I will miss you very much but I know you will always be with me. In my heart and in my memories. You are the best nana. I love you so much
Say hi to john for me and my grandma =)
Love Caitlyn

Jen and Michael O'Brien

December 9, 2008

Nana, we love you and miss you but we will always remember the good times.

Jo

December 9, 2008

Mom, you were the greatest mom anyone could ever imagine. I will miss you so much. You have left us with so many great memories that we will cherish forever. I love and miss you so much already. Give Johnny dough boy a big hug and kiss from me. Love and miss you Jo

Connie,Roy,Kayla & Jay

December 9, 2008

We love you mom/nana. Be proud of yourself,you did a wonderful job. See you again someday.

Love,Connie,Roy,Kayla & Jay

Lynn Farmer

December 9, 2008

I will miss her so much. She was a remarkable woman. She was one of a kind. I loved her alot. My thougts and prayers are with her family. Love You all!!
Lynn Farmer

Billy O'Brien

December 9, 2008

I love you mom, I'll miss you forever.
Love Billy

p.s. Say hi to John and all the restof your family.

Debby Naughton

December 9, 2008

I love you mom and I will miss you so very much. Give John hell when you see him.

Debby

DAVID AUCHTERLONIE

December 9, 2008

WE LOVE YOU NANA AND WILL MISS YOU

December 9, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers. From all of us at Brisol County Savings Bank.

Louise Russell

December 9, 2008

To the O'Brien family,

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May she rest in peace.
************
"Perhaps, they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings
where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy."
--- Eskimo legend

December 9, 2008

We will miss Ellie so much. She was a wonderful woman and we loved her very much. Our deepest sympathy to the whole family. We love you all and will do anything to help you through this difficult time and any other times.
With all our love, Tom, Terri & Tim Farmer

Julie Schneider Paul DeRubeis

December 9, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to the O’Brien family for the loss of a remarkable Woman, Mother, Wife and Friend. She will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.

In the weeks and months to come if there is anything you need, please let us know. We are always here for you.

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