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for Philip Marquard
Elaine Marquard
November 27, 2023
I miss you every day my love. I treasure all of the happy memories we shared. You will never be forgotten. Until we meet again~
Elaine Marquard
July 2, 2008
IN LOVING MEMORY Phil "Dino" Marquard July 2, 1938 to November 30, 2007. Sometimes it seems like yesterday, when we began to share a life. One of the happiest days I'll ever know is the day I became Phil's wife. For those who knew Phil, loved him, he was very rarely down. Our days were truly precious; more smiles than there were frowns. He was my lover and my mate and of course, was my best friend. We had so much in common and our love will have no end. Our love has been a special one, it was cherished every day. I only hope that he now knows, by these words that I convey. I love you, Philip, and always will; and I hope that you might see, your love meant more than life itself. It meant everything to me.
Happy Birthday, Darling
All My Love, Elaine
July 2, 2008
Elaine Marquard
June 30, 2008
Our family would like to thank each and every one of you not only for coming to celebrate Phil’s life but for sharing in his life. Phil brought such exuberance to our lives he will be forever and sorely missed. Everyone that met Phil was touched by his uniqueness – as soon as someone met Phil they somehow felt as though they had known him forever. He had a knack for making everyone around him feel at ease.
Phil was honored with many titles over the years including husband, father, grandfather, brother and uncle, however the one that he was most proud of was friend. He had an easygoing personality and no matter what the situation, he was always able to make friends easily because of his charm and grace.
Phil was a very loving, kind, sensitive, funny and generous man. He was my husband, my friend, my confidante, my honey bun and my soul mate. Phil’s children feel that he was the best Dad they could ask for – he was ALWAYS there for them when they needed him. And of course we know how much he adored his grandchildren – he was just the best Papa. His grandchildren will always remember Papa handing out all of the Christmas presents.
Phil was born and raised in the North End of Boston and had a successful career with the Federal Government. For most of his career, he delivered medical equipment to veterans’ homes; for a short while he modified orthopedic footwear for active military members. After retirement, he delivered flowers for Louis Barry and always brought happiness to the receivers. He was not shy and would often sing an appropriate song to the receiver and added to their special day!
Phil loved many things; golf for one and another singing, especially in the style of Dean Martin. Phil even perfected his art of impersonating Dino and became a professional singer in Naples, Florida, albeit a short career. He was so very relaxed on stage one would almost think that he was performing all of his life. He was definitely not shy! When Phil was in “his element”, he shined like the brightest star in the sky. One of his most cherished accomplishments was that he was selected as a finalist in the Boomer Idol’s singing competition held in Naples, Florida just last June. We know that he is in heaven right now singing with Frank and Dean and is being welcomed at the newest member of the Rat Pack.
One friend recently told me,(quote) “ I remember sitting at the Isle of Capri with Phil and listening to his enthusiasm and thankful approach to life”. Another friend wrote, (quote) “While riding around the golf course, Phil told me his philosophy on life. Phil was determined to enjoy life to the fullest and not let his illness get him down. I am so thankful to have played golf with Phil that day as he was so positive and inspiring”.
When Phil was diagnosed with cancer he did not waver one bit. He never asked God “why me” –he only asked the physician what the next step was and he bravely stepped up to the plate, over and over. For one month shy of three years, Phil subjected his body to chemotherapy, hoping that some day he would receive a clean bill of health. Phil NEVER was resentful or angry; he always told me that God had chosen him for a reason. His faith in God never wavered. Until the very end of Phil’s life, he was encouraging other cancer patients to remain positive and to believe that they would beat the battle. Phil was a most remarkable man.
In the enduring words of Frank Sinatra, Phil did do it his way, living his life to the fullest and enjoying every precious moment of it. We ask you to keep Phil, my beloved husband, his children’s’ loving Dad, his grandchildren’s’ adoring Papa and your devoted friend, in your memories always. Please know that he truly cherished all of your friendships and was always grateful for his family and friends, during the good times and the tough times.
I idolized him – his children cherished him – his grandchildren adored him and all of his extended family members and friends loved him. Now, that’s Amore!
Patcharin Gardner
December 22, 2007
Dear Elaine, Phillip, Janine, Virginia and John-John,
Uncle Phil's passing came as a tremendous shock as I read his obituary this morning. My sister, Alisa, and I have always adored Uncle Phil. He was great fun to be around, a genuine person, great singer and dancer and always made us laugh. Uncle Phil will be remembered with an overwhelming fondness in our hearts.
With my deepest sympathy & lots of love,
Pat (Mam)
Lucy Ciavattieri
December 21, 2007
Dear Elaine,
My love and prayers are with you at this sad time. Phil was a warm, wonderful man who will be greatly missed. I'll never forget him singing at my 80th birthday party - the highlight of my day! He brought joy and sunshine to all who knew him. May your memories of your beloved Phil bring you comfort.
With much love,
Lucy
MaryLou Vozzella
December 18, 2007
Dear Elaine - I am so very sorry to hear of Phil's passing. I remember him as very pleasant and always smiling. You have many wonderful memories that will help you through this time. You take care. You're pretty wonderful, too, as I remember.
Love, MaryLou
Mae LeFevre
December 13, 2007
Elaine and family - Words cannot tell you how sad I feel over Phil's passing. God bless him; he struggled a long time. Elaine, you are in my prayers, Dear Friend. With love and true sadness, Mae LeFevre
Roger and Ruthann Janson
December 11, 2007
Elaine,Philip,Virginia,Janine and John,
Our heartfelt condolences to you. We are proud to have called Phil our friend. His approach to life -"I love my life"- is an inspiration to us all. We all should have someone like Phil in our lives. The world would be a much better place.
Rosemary & Carl Galasso
December 10, 2007
Elaine,
What can we say except What a Guy.
Always positive and happy and a great voice. We always enjoyed his conversations which would most often end in laughter or a song.
Phil was an inspiration to anyone who crossed his path of life.
God Bless you.
Love Rosemary & Carl
Marie Toland Kates
December 9, 2007
Dear Elaine, Phil was a most wonderful man and will remain in our hearts forever. He may be the most positive person I ever knew--always putting a good spin on everything. You two had such fun together. Then, recently, you two went through more than most could tolerate. Phil had enormous courage and perseverance, right till the end. You, Elaine, were the rock and the beacon right till the end. I am very proud of Phil and I'm very proud of you. Phil, your angel above, is now shining on you and all of us down here. You, Elaine, will continue to do your own shining on all of us who are lucky enough to be apart of your life. Love, Marie.
Jeannie VanTine
December 8, 2007
Dear Elaine Although I did not actually know you or Phil I heard many wonderful things about you both from Roberta I just wanted to say how sad I feel for you and that time will help ease your aching heart Jeannie vanTine Englewood Florida
Adam Keough
December 7, 2007
Phil was a great guy with a huge heart.I respected him very much and will miss him dearly. He was funny, easygoing, and a hell of a singer. Being a proud Italian in South Boston makes him brave as well.
I will never forget all the wonderfull St.Patrick day parties we spent together and the laughs we shared.Thanks for everything.
Elaine-I am truly sorry for your loss. Phil was an amazing man, and I know how much he meant to you. The great moments and memories will live forever in all of our hearts.
With Love,
Adam
Richard Ruggiero
December 7, 2007
Dear Elaine and Family we are deeply sorry for your loss.I was stunned when I heard Philip passed
away.Lefty and I grew up together went through St.John's School and worked in Uncle Dave's grocery store.We laughed and played I was either in his house or he was in mine.We spent our early years together up to High School.We would see each other over the years at one of the North End Feasts.I will always remember Lefty
and I can still see his laughing face.I will remember him in my prayers.
God Bless You and Your Family.
Richard Ruggiero and Family
Katie McSweeney
December 6, 2007
Dear Elaine,
I am so sorry for your loss. Phil will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Bob Martell
December 6, 2007
Barbara and I will pray for you and your loss. He was an inspiration. We sang 'That's Amore' in his honor last night at Karaoke.
Bob & Barbara Martell
December 6, 2007
Dear Elaine: Phil was such a happy person and loved to be with people. He will be missed. Last night at Karaoke we had a short tribute to our friend. Bobby sang one of Phil's favorites "That's Amore" (of course not nearly as well as Phil sang it). Everyone stood and sang along. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Mike & Jill Ciavattieri
December 5, 2007
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Phil was a great guy and he will be deeply missed.
Resto nel caro amico di pace
Jill Ciavattieri
December 5, 2007
To Elaine, and all of Phil's beloved family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope that in the days and weeks and months ahead you will find yourself remembering Phil, the Phil who smiled, laughed, and played every day, the Phil that he wants you to remember. He is the kind of guy that anyone is lucky to know - "good people". I'll never forget the first time I saw him singing, which was with microphone in hand, and I know he was always his happiest doing so, and it showed. I am thinking of you Elaine, Frank, and Rob, and sending prayers for your peace and healing.
carol scioli
December 5, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Connie Rivard
December 5, 2007
Dear Elaine I have never met either you or Phil but I felt I knew you through Roberta. I know it must be difficult for you at this moment but Phil is finally free of all his pain and is at peace. I know he fought a good long fight. You know he will always be watching over you and you will savor the wonderful memories you shared together.
Nick & Mary Salij
December 5, 2007
Dear Elaine and Family,
We were so saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved Phil. He truly was a joy to know, a wonderful spirit, and source of positive energy for us all. We will miss seeing him in front of the condo in Naples. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.
Lester and Estelle Sutton
December 5, 2007
Phil was the greatest.
A lover of life and a great friend.
Always enjoyed his exuberance and singing even on the golf course.
He will be missed.
Amos Noons
December 5, 2007
What a guy Phil was. I remember first meeting him at Robbie (Roberta)'s house on St. Patrick Day parades. He always made it a point to let me know that No, he was NOT irish! And then he always found a way to sing. But he had class when he did it, and a great voice so we loved him for it. A very warm man to his wife and to his friends, Phil was part of my family, too. You will be missed, sir. And THAT's Amore.
All my love.
Jim and Maryann Guilfoyle
December 5, 2007
Dear Elaine
Our deepest sypathy to you and your famiy We so enjoyed visiting with you and Phil in Florida.Our prayers are with you.
Cindy McGann
December 5, 2007
Elaine,
We are so sorry for your loss. Being out of the loop and to hear that this happened seemed to be so sudden. You are in our thoughts as well as our prayers. Every time I think of you and Phil I am always brought back to his crooning and song at the few get togethers we had with Robbie and Uncle Frank. It seems to trite to say that he is not gone, but watching over you now, but I really feel it is true. He will always be with you in thoughts as well as spirit.
With love and sincerest sympathies,
The McGanns
Tim, Cindy, and Lily
Roberta and Frank Keough/Ciavattieri
December 5, 2007
Phil....our best bud...We will never, ever forget you - your warmth, your laughter, your great heart and tremendous courage.
The four of us had such great times in Southie and Florida - playing golf, singing karaoke and being entertained by "Dino Marquardo!" And most of all, just being with our two dearest friends.
Elaine.....the love of Phil's life...we are here for you, always, and know that Philly is watching over you.
Phil - we'll love you forever,
Rob & Frank
Diane Waldman
December 5, 2007
Elaine,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Phil. We will always remember him as a fun person to be around. He will be missed dearly by both friends and family. He will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Waldman Family
Diane & Mike
Jim & Carol Boyd
December 4, 2007
Dearest Elaine,
We are saddened to have lost our best friend and neighbor in Glen Eagle. Phil was a joy to know and he entertained us with his songs and dance at Karaoke. We always enjoyed our gatherings with you and Phil ,out in front of the condo with jokes, chit-chat, lots of treats and watching the woodpeckers. Great fun was had by all.
You and your family have our deepest sympathy.
Love and prayers,
Jim and Carol
Frank & Rosemarie Alfe
December 4, 2007
Dear Elaine, children,and family of Phil (Lefty, as we knew him).
Our deepest condolence to you all. Lefty was a great person, fun to be with, and a good friend---loving husband, father and grandfather. He was fortunate to have you, as you were to have him. God bless you through these dark hours.
Fondly, Frank & Rosemarie Alfe
Jack Sullivan
December 4, 2007
Elaine,
It was a pleasure to have known Phil.He was friendly,funny and had a
great positive attitude. I looked forward to our times on the golf course in Naples.He taught me a lot
and was very patient.He was the neighbor people dream of having.
My wife Rosellen and I will sorely miss Phil, but we will always cherish the memories forever.
God will cherish Phil as we did.
Catherine and Sonny Schepici
December 4, 2007
ELaine and all the family, We are sorry for your loss.You are in our prayers. My fondest memories are of our childhood we had great times.He will always be lovingly remembered.
My heart is with you.
Love
Phil's First Fish...A Keeper in Naples!
Darrin Boyd
December 4, 2007
Elaine,
It has been a pleasure to have you and Phil as friends in Naples. My parents adored Phil. I know they consider the two of you some of the best friends they have ever had in their lives. They will be there for you for whatever you need in the future. You and Phil have been a true blessing to them since they decided to retire in Naples. They would do anything for you so don't hesitate to ask.
Our family will always remember doing things with you and Phil like dinners together, breakfasts after church, golfing, helping Phil catch his first fish, going to the pool, and karaoke. Our kids always loved being around Phil because of his enthusiasm and fun attitude. He was like a big kid to them.
Phil's grace and class in the wake of his battle with cancer are an inspiration to all of us. Phil is now in a better place and he is feeling all of the love he experienced and gave to others here on earth.
May God bless you and all of your family during this time.
Darrin, Heidi, Matt and Lizzie Boyd
tony and barbara la marca
December 4, 2007
Dear Elaine,What a wonderful man, in the short time we knew him, we were honored to have him as a friend. Phil made our life in Naples more enjoyable and made us feel truly at home in you and Phils presence. We have had many good memories at Kareoke. Any time we hear a Dean Martin song, Phil will be there in our presence. Our prayers are with you and your family, Phil will be missed. Love Barbara and Tony LaMarca Florida
Steven DeLuca
December 4, 2007
My deepest condolences to the entire Marquard family. I bid a sad farewell to a legend in our old neighborhood. Say hello to Francis Albert for me.
Nancy & Dave Chenoweth
December 4, 2007
Phil truly was an inspiration to all of us. Elaine, you can take great comfort knowing you were the "best medicine" he could have during his difficult time. We shall certainly miss him.
Love, Nancy & Dave Chenoweth
Ralph and Barbara DeAngelis
December 4, 2007
To Elaine and children of Philip,
Our deepest sympathy to you all on the passing of Philip. Barbara and I pray that Philip is resting in peace.Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Fondly
Rose Marie and Johnny Long
December 4, 2007
Dear Elaine and children of Philip,
Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy go out to you all at this most saddest time.Philip will always be remembered for his wonderful sense of humor and voice of Dean Martin.May the angels carry him to heaven and may he rest in peace.
Please stay in touch. Our prayers are with you all and with Philip.
with love
Rose Faherty
December 4, 2007
Elaine, please accept our condolences. We are sorry that we cannot be with you in person, but know that we are there in spirit and share your loss. Phil was a fun loving, wonderful person and everyone whose life he has touched will miss him terribly. You and he will always be in our prayers. Rose & Coley
Mario Tosti
December 4, 2007
Phil was an inspiration to all who knew him.He handled his decease with dignity and courage and it was a pleasure to have been his friend.
Rest in peace, dear friend...
Warmest wishes, Mario
Paul and Holly Cagle
December 4, 2007
Dear Elaine and Family of Phil Marquard,
Our love and condolences to you. Phil was such a wonderful Light. He was always so upbeat and sunny. It was a pleasure to know him and see him. In my memory, he will always be on the lawn chair in front of the house in Naples with a smile, a wave and a good word for a neighbor.
Well, as one of Phil's friends said,
"Ain't that a kick in the head", his pal Dean Martin. Whenever I hear it, I will smile and think of Phil.
Our love and prayers are with you now and always,
God bless, Holly and Paul
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