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Benjamin Cutonilli Obituary

CUTONILLI-Benjamin J. April 22, 2008 of Grand Island; beloved husband of Shirley (Coutts) Cutonilli; devoted father of Cheryl (Paul) Roeder and Darlene Cutonilli; dear grandfather of Kelly, Lisa, Shannon and Stacey; cherished great-grandfather of Ashley, Mark, Jed, Mary, Nichalous and Maya; brother of Kay Gaurino, Mary Russell, Eileen Acquiso, Guy Cutonilli and the late Clara Terrana and Vincent Cutonilli; also survived by several nieces and nephews; son of the late Gaetano and Linda Cutonilli. No prior visitation. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday at 10:00 AM at St. Stephen's Church, 2100 Baseline Rd., Grand Island, NY. Flowers gratefully declined.

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Published by Buffalo News on Apr. 24, 2008.

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Maureen Upton

April 25, 2008

We would just like to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Love & Prayers Mo, Paul, Kristie & Stacey Upton.

Carol Nottingham

April 24, 2008

Darlene, You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

Dave & Brenda Dawson

April 24, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

GINO & JOE D'ADDARIO

April 24, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Eileen Farrell Kelchlin

April 24, 2008

Darlene - it's been so many years since we've seen each other but I wanted to extend my condolences on the loss of your Dad - may the cherished memories you have of him see you through the days ahead.

Nancy Weisbeck

April 24, 2008

So very sorry to hear of your loss - while you know it is going to happen someday, it is still hard. At least you know he is now in a much better, more peaceful place!

Dorothy Sterlace

April 24, 2008

Deepest sympathy to Darlene and her family. From your friends at the CRC.

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