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Phyllis Kessel Obituary

KESSEL-Phyllis (nee White) Of Hamburg, entered into rest April 22, 2008. Beloved wife of the late William C.; devoted mother of Joyce and Paul; dear friend of Leanna; loving daughter of the late Harrison and Helen (nee Rae) White; cherished aunt of Barbara, Robert, Harold and their families; also survived by many good neighbors and friends. Relatives and friends may visit the LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Southtowns Chapel), 3060 Abbott Rd. near Lake Ave. on Friday from 3-8 PM. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated in SS Peter and Paul Church, 66 East Main St., Hamburg on Saturday morning at 10 o'clock. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Phyllis's memory to Father Baker Manor or St. John's M.C.C., 805 Glenwood Ave., Raleigh N.C., 27605.

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Published by Buffalo News on Apr. 24, 2008.

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Kay Daley

May 1, 2008

Dear Kessel family- It was my longtime friendship with your mother that I will always cherish. I do not get the news and I am sorry I failed to hear of your loss and mine.

Calvin Woods,Jr

May 1, 2008

Paul,

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during your time of loss. Even though we man not understand, everything is apart of GOD'S devine plan. At this time when you feel like you can't carry on, just remember God is here to carry you through.

Rev. Carlton Rutherford

April 27, 2008

Paul, please know that you have my deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers that the sweet memories of your mother will reside in your heart and warm you each time you think of her. May God continue to bless you as God walks with you on this part of your journey of life.

Brian Newcomb

April 27, 2008

My prayers are with you during this time. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of a great life on earth, in your faith that you will be reunited in heaven, and in your knowledge that your mother's suffering is over.

Lisa Boone-Geib

April 26, 2008

Paul,
I have been in prayer with you and your family for quite awhile. Your Mother, like mine, loved God and was a fighter and lover of life. It was so obvious that she loved her family and that all of you loved her.I never had the opportunity to meet her here on earth, but I know she will be at the gate to greet all of us and welcome us with a hug. Know I love you and you and your family are in my heart and prayers.

Valerie Webster

April 26, 2008

Paul:
May the Grace of GOD continue to comfort you and your family during this time of sorrow. May the spirit of GOD fill you with joy and praises as your other is embraced by GOD and those who proceeded her. Just imagine the celebration! GOD BLESS!

Michael Sullivan

April 26, 2008

Dear Paul and Family,
I know that this journey is difficult, lean on one another, lean on God as your touchstone, find quiet times to contemplate and give thanks and know there is a whole host of folks here in NC willing to talk, listen and pray.
Love, peace and comfort,

Jim Manchester & Kevin Meadows

April 25, 2008

Paul,

Your mom was one who loved the Holy, High Ground. Her love for you and your family showed that to everyone. We praise God that you loved her in return. So now she is standing on the Holiest and Highest Ground of all!

We look forward to your safe return. God bless and God speed!

Jim & Kevin

Deacon Charles Leake

April 25, 2008

Dear Paul and Family,
Please know at this time of your lost, you are thought of and loved. May the Blessing Christ comfort you now and in the days to come.

Debbie Carraway and Kara Stinnett

April 25, 2008

Dear Kessel Family,

We know it was a difficult journey, but it was also filled with your love for each other. We admire your family. We offer our sincere sympathy and well wishes.

Sincerely,

Terri Steed

April 25, 2008

Paul and Family
We have been praying for you all for such a long time. I am grateful to know that you all were there with your beloved mother to the very end. We will continue to lift you up during this most difficult time. We trust and serve a God that allows Mom to be in a better place, free from all hurt and harm. May we rejoice in knowing that we will meet her again.

Much love and many blessings
Rev. Terri S. Steed

Ron Livingston

April 25, 2008

May the Lord be your strength, fortress, and refuge during this time. May your sadness be eased in the comfort and warmth in memories of the life that was lived. Prayers will be thousand-fold for you and your family.

Jason Long

April 25, 2008

Paul, as always, you are in my thoughts and prayers! What a glorious time for your Mother, to be with God and everyone waiting for her. Be safe, and know that I love you!

Gerald Lamm

April 25, 2008

Paul,

Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeanne Kreavy

April 25, 2008

Joyce and Paul,

My deepest regrets; you can both feel proud for your love and concern over the past weeks and through life as your Mom knew before. I will miss your Mom very much. Be strong and call if I can be of any help. I'm out of town but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Jeanne

Paul Hodan

April 25, 2008

Dear Joyce and Paul
I was deeply saddened to learn of your mother"s death. Phyllis and your dad were one of my earliest connections with ECC. She was always cheerful and dedicated to her work at the college within the many offices she was attached, including mine. She was a very gracious lady who will be missed. I am sorry that I am currently visiting my daughter and her family in California and will not be back in time to pay my respects in person. Phyllis remains in my thoughts. Again my deepest condolences to you both.
Sincerely,

Cat Lambe

April 24, 2008

Dear Joyce and Paul:
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your Mom.

To me, your mother represented elegance, compassion and true grace. She was always a lady in every sense of the word.

I am glad that my parents picked her to be my godmother, I would have picked her as well.

Catherine (Fries) Lambe

Roxie Gold

April 24, 2008

Paul -
You're in our thoughts and prayers. Much love, Roxie, Terry, and Katherine

Sue Eckhardt

April 24, 2008

Dear Joyce and Paul, I was so sorry to hear about your mother's passing on. She was always such a wonderfully positive person! She and Your Dad were the reason that my parents met, and they were always a part of our lives. Your Mom was such a blessing to my Mom with all her visits. My sympathies are with you at this time.
Sincerely, Sue (Benning) Eckhardt

Sherrie Kelley

April 24, 2008

Mary Ann and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Please know that we love you and are here for you.

Tracy Brown

April 24, 2008

Paul,

I am sorry to hear about your mom. Hang in there and know that she is in a better place and is suffering no longer.

Cosmo Fratello

April 24, 2008

Our condolences and deepest sympathy to the family of Bill & Phyllis Kessel. They were dedicated to their work with students and faculty at ECC-N. Prof. & Mrs Cosmo Fratello

Suzanne Hugus

April 24, 2008

Our sincere condolences to the family of Phyllis Kessel. May grace be with you to comfort your hearts as you grieve and reflect on the life of someone so special to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The NC Cooperative Extension Service Administration office at NC State University.

Teresa Pearce

April 24, 2008

Paul & family,

I am so sorry about your mother. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Teresa

Patty Brown

April 24, 2008

Dear Kessel Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your mom. It's so hard to lose a parent, but she'll be watching over you from heaven. I'm sure she was comforted by having you at hand.

Bill and Winnell Newman

April 24, 2008

Paul,
Bill and I send our empathy to you and your sister Joyce. Even though we did not know your Mother personally, we know you - that part of her we are glad she shared.
Fondly, Bill and Winnell

Jennifer Sasser

April 24, 2008

I am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you during this time.

Jacob Bullard

April 24, 2008

Paul, you are in our thoughts and prayers. You and your family are going through a lot of emotions right now I am sure, but with God's blessing the pain will subside and the wonderful memories of your mother will take its place. God Bless.

Jerry Mammoser

April 24, 2008

Dear Joyce & Paul, Your Mother was a dear friend of mine as I used to treat your Dad in my chiropractic office. After he passed, I'd always see your Mom in the laundramat and we'd talk about things. She was always a sweet and uplifting person. I am sorry to hear of her leaving us, but as one door closes another opens. My sympathies are with you.

Respectfully,
Jerry Mammoser, D.C.

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