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TROY - Harold W. Of Lackawanna, entered into rest May 30, 2008; beloved husband of the late Rose Marie Troy; devoted father of Rose Ann (Joe), Billy (Theresa), Ann Marie (Paul), Jimmy, Robert (Chris), Patricia (Skeet), Tommy (Barb), Elizabeth, Elarie, Edward and the late Sharon and David; cherished grandfather of 20 grandchildren, 33 great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild; loving son of the late Harold and Cecelia (nee Delaney) Troy; dear brother of the late Jack, Jimmy and Betty; also survived by relatives and friends. Relatives and friends may visit The LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Southtowns Chapel), 3060 Abbott Rd., near Lake Ave., on Sunday from 2-4 and 7-9 PM. A graveside service will be held in Lakeside Cemetery on Monday at 1 PM. Interment Lakeside Cemetery.

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Published by Buffalo News on May 31, 2008.

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AnnMarie

July 1, 2008

tonite is the end of the writing in the book but Dad just wanted you to know I dont think you ever get over the loss in your heart,you haveto acknowledge the fact that someone you love is gone and youre going to missthem very much. Life is going on but you will never be forgotten not ever Dad you were a great man anda good friend to me. I love you and you will always be in my heart.

Patricia

June 29, 2008

Dad,
I'm writing to you again because the book ends tomorrow. I'll always love you and Mom, and I'll never forget you both. We all had good times with the two of you at Christmas and at family picnics. Nothing will be the same with out you. Dad, I'm still watching your Yankees, and Mom, I'm still going to bingo. Finally, being with each, I know it is beautiful.
Love you with all my heart,
Tricia

Patricia

June 28, 2008

Dad,
It has been a month and i miss you so much, I miss the laughter, the making of the bread, and playing cards. I hope you and mom are happy to be together again. You will celebrate birthdays and anniversaries with each other. I love you both very much and I miss you both. Happy birthday Mom, and happy anniversary to you both. We all love you.
Love,
Tricia

June 27, 2008

tommy

June 27, 2008

as this book will close, it will close on the story of what a wonderful man and father he was. And what will be called his "reason to believe."A man who taught us to find meaning in life and how to build a house of meaning in life which we all live in today. This was a man of integrity,knowledge, smart, talanted with astonishing wisdom. a man who said that in life there was no majic pills, no cures, no simple answers,no round trip to utopia, but in fact many of todays hard choices were made by past attempts at easy answers. If we all looked and examined the facts and guard against such irrelevance that we could make real progress in life so that we would be a stronger,more united and prosperous family. A father who taught us always to move more vigorusly and securely and always in the right direction and to move forward and faster never backward and always to remember that the yesterdays are the histories tomorrows are the mysteries and always accept each day as a gift. A father who gave us a name, strength and many reasons to work together to continuosly yeild for positive changes and never to preach, but only to practice the virtues and values we all cherish to express them, reaffirm them to recognize mistakes we have made and make the changes that need changed and at the same time seek to gratify our personal needs and desires and to appreciate and respect the members of your family. We may close the book and acknowledge your presence not here but your memory will always be alive along with your hopes and dreams in the hearts of your children you left behind that we will build a house of one again and to reunite and to think and teach as you did to us to show our children an example so big and so sweet and joyful that they will be brave and face the challenges in life to envelop them in the warmth of our ideals, successes and failures as you had enveloped us in your love. You taught us fairness, a great sense of responsibility and offered all your own eloquent examples of hard work humility self sacrifice and perisitence. You were a man of quiet strength whose values positively impacted all our lives. We will be forever in your debt for showing us the meaning of life. You are a special soul on this earth more highly evolved than most And for us we lost the most extrodinary heart and soul who were fortunate to call you dad received the better end of the deal. You are one of those truly individuals who simply by your presence made this life a better place to be.And so for now with this tempory separation we bid you farewell and rest in the paradise of Heven in the hands of God until our spirits and bodies again reunite and we are all brought forth triumphantly through the air to meet you again before the pleasing bar of Heaven in one house again.Sadly missed,but never forgotten.

June 17, 2008

Grandpa...

Father's Day was not the same without you. It was very hard to go a minute without thinking of you. You are missed very much and I love you always....Your Granddaughter Debbie

AnnMarie

June 15, 2008

Dad today is your day,I wish you were here to spend it with us.We all miss and love you so much,so I want to say HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAD.LOVE YOU

Rev. Daren Drzymala

June 14, 2008

My prayers go out to the family, may in the days ahead you find strength through the LORD Jesus Christ.

Richard Welch

June 13, 2008

Tom and Barbara,

On behalf of the Command Security Team in Buffalo we wish to send you our condolences and let you know that your in our prayers.

TOMMY

June 13, 2008

DAD ''MY HERO''
It's Father's Day and you are so sorely missed, but I have so many cherished memories. We all know everything in life is temporary, because everything changes. And you a man of tried and trusty valor. A good man who kept his word worthy. A self respecting man. A man that had great strength and courage to love us all. A man who taught us how to love someone and each other knowing that it may end at any time. You always said ''Keep the faith, and faith will get you through''. As we celebrate this Father's Day in your memory you will watch over us from above. And on this Father's Day you have now finally been reunited with our loving Mom, brother and sister that you have so sadly missed. You are now in their presence. For those you left behind, it is not your presence here that brought meaning to life, but the way you touched our hearts gave us life. So dreams do come true in life and in death and your dream has come true. As you watch from above as we celebrate your day, you will contine to push us to our limits and test us beyond our endurance to continue to bring us together and make us one as you have always wanted to see. We will live life with a joyful heart and keep your spirit young and free. We will stay true and firm, become one and be the best we can be as you were. For me dad my life and my heart has been filled with your love and special care, and I savor it all. I could not have asked for anything more in this life from a father like you. HAPPY FATHER'S DAY I LOVE YOU

ANN MARIE

June 9, 2008

DAD ITS BEEN A WEEK ALREADY AND IT FEELS LIKE A LIFETIME SINCE I SEEN YOUR FACE.I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH BUT I KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE AND THATS WHAT COUNTS JUST NO THAT I LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY VERY MUCH

LISAMARIE TROY

June 9, 2008

condolence to troy family especially for u tom i know what the path ur walking through right now just dont forget im always here behind u walking with u...... i never knew whats ur father look like or what his character is but i do believe that he is a great dad coz ive seen all the mssgs here and what u hav said he is ur HERO

VINNIE & Christopher Shattuck

June 5, 2008

Great Granpa,
We will miss you, I'll never forget when we sat on the floor and went through our kennedy half dollars together .We LOVE YOU

Laura (Mona)

June 5, 2008

Grampa was a wonderful man and he touched all who had the privilege to know him. LOVE AND KISSES TO YOU

AnnMarie

June 5, 2008

,,To all my Brothers and Sisters, Dad has a message for us "CELABRATE ME" as best you can this will help you all get through the difficult times ahead, your Mother and I will watch and listen.

MIKE MUSCATO

June 5, 2008

TO THE ENTIRE TROY FAMILY,
MIKE,EILEEN,SEAN,LANE,ANNDREA,
DOMINIC SEND THEIR DEEPEST CONDOLANCES TO YOU.WE HAVE LOST ANOTHER GREAT RELATIVE IN OUR FAMILY.
EVERY YEAR WHEN I'D COME BACK TO BUFFALO, I'D MAKE IT A PRIORITY TO VISIT W/ UNCLE HAROLD.MY MOST MEMORABLE TIMES ARE OUR CONVERSATIONS ABOUT BASEBALL AND HIS SMILE WHEN WE SAW EACH OTHER.
GOD BLESS YOU UNCLE HAROLD .

Ann Marie

June 5, 2008

DaD words cannot express my sorrow with losing you,you had a special place in my heart.The last 4 months I learned what a geniune man you were, you were never afraid to speak your peace and back up your words.I can go on knowing you are at peace and theres "NO MORE PAIN" .Heaven is blessed with you now,and I am certain that MoM met you with open arms and said What the hell took you so long Irish. My memories keep you close to me Dad,my memories of you and Mom give me my strength and courage.God must have been in need of a couple of good people.When your up there in heaven sit back and lite up one of your garcia vegas and relax,you deserve it.We just lost a great man but our memories are here to stay forever thanks to my Dad Harold Troy I LOVE YOU DAD

Trisha

June 4, 2008

Dad, I love you and miss you so much. I got so close to you it hurts. Not to see you and mom anymore, thank you so much Annmarie,and Paul you did a wonderful job if it wasn't for you I wouldn't never made it through this.Dad would have been proud of us all. Betsy you did a wonderful job too, He would have been proud of the dutches. I thankyou and love you all for helping me out. When i couldn't get anywhere. Robbie and Tommy I hope the family sticks together like you said. Love you both. Dad give mom a great big kiss and a hug love you both very much. Love Trisha

tommy

June 4, 2008

paul
you definetly are not forgotten and i cannot find the words to describe adequately my profound grattitude i have for you i am humboled .your patitence your time your willingness and your outstanding love and devotion to your family your presence has strengthened annmarie and kid's you have been by her side every minute of the way you have been her knight and shining armor over the years as she has so desperately needed. your love,honor, and devotion to your family,your way's your thought's your actions's your attitude are a resembelance of one person and there are very few words to describe about you the only thing i have seen and say is i can only compare you to one person a person we loved and miss so much and will never forget and always remember and look back on in times of trouble and direction and that is "DAD" and when anyone can be compared close to a man such as that then that is an "honor" and something to be proud of and and i am proud,very proud ,and definetly look up to you i "thank you" for being there thank you for your love and devotion to your family you have. you have .and are still doing .a great job and i thank you also from the bottom of my heart

the good times and the future ahead

June 4, 2008

the grand kids of the past but not forgotten and loved who set with garama and grampa then you have the present of strong and mighty to carry the name proudlyand the you have the up and coming pwerfull ad mighty to keep it goig just as graa and grampa asked ad dreamed of

June 4, 2008

grand kids

June 4, 2008

Grandpa
we miss and love u very much

Grand kids

pat

June 4, 2008

love and miss u dad and mom

love pat

betsy

June 4, 2008

love and miss u dad

love betsy

Rick Fletcher

June 4, 2008

grandpa

I love u very much an miss u very much you'll always b in my thoughts
don't worry there will always b enough bread for everyone i got all your bread pans so ill make sure there always b enough

love an miss u
Rick

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June 4, 2008

Tom-

My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.

Scott HSBC ARENA

June 4, 2008

Tom and Barb
So Sorry For Your Loss My Prayers Are With You All

Keith H.S.B.C. Arena

June 4, 2008

Tom And Barbara
My Condolences To You Both And Your Family

Christopher G. Buffalo Bills

June 4, 2008

Tom and Barb
I Have Never Met Your Parents. But Only Heard Of Them. And The Stories Of There Life And How Wonderful They Were And As I Read Some Of The Sayings Here I See Now Where You Both Get Your Strenghth And Courage From On A Sunday Dealing With 80,000 People And A Job Well Done We Needed A Dad Like Yours My Heart Felt Feelings And Condolences Go Out To You And Your Family God Bless You All In This Time Of Greif

Chris Geary

June 3, 2008

Dad, The only one I really had in the true sense of the word, rest in peace. Know that the peace that finally came to you after such a long wait, has spread...and in that peace you are living on in the hearts of those you have left behind. May that peace remain with us all until we see you again.
Love Chris

Tammy Parris

June 3, 2008

Dear Dad,
I'm so happy that I was able to be apart of your life as long as I did.You always accepted me and I thank you for that.I am glad that I am apart of your family and your apart of mine.I thank God for the time that we did have together,so rest in peace and now you and mom can be together again forever.Love you much,think of you often and your always with us no matter what.

June 3, 2008

Dear Papa and Grama Troy,
We are sorry for the loss of your daddy. We love you both!
Hugs & Kisses, Katie and Frankie

Love your Dutches (Betsy)

June 3, 2008

Dad
You were the greatest, you were the best. When they say worlds greatest dad that means you.

I love you and miss you. Give mom a hug and kiss for me. Tell her i love her and miss her too.

You will always be in my heart. The hardest word for me to say to you was no. I was always was so afraid to say no to you because i was so afraid of loosing you. It was unfair because i had to loose you anyway.

I have the most precious thing of you, that i know no one could ever take away from me, the memories of your love, your hugs, and your kisses.

Hugs and kisses to you dad.

david troy

June 3, 2008

grandpa there are no words in this world that could be said about how my i miss you. I still can remenber how you use to tell me about how you got those marks on your leg and sitting there and telling me stories about the family and watching bonaza. I know you are in as better place and with gram and the rest of the family. Ill miss and love you always. Tell gram to keep a watch over us to keep us together as a family Love David

Elarie

June 3, 2008

Dad
you are going to in our hearts forever we are going to miss you so very much

June 3, 2008

tommy

June 3, 2008

TO ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS
over the years when are troubles were overwhelming and we needed guidance and direction we ran to mom and dad for answers and depended on them for the answers and not to each other.well they are gone now the sun has set there job was well done and well appreciated with much grattitude and love and very well thankfull they will never be forgotten and we will never forget.the sun has set for them and now the sun has risen again and now it is a new begining for us all we should all now look back and think we no longer have them to turn to for the guidance and direction we now only have each other and it is now when we all need to come together and become one as we were all taught to be with a new sunrise comes a new beginning and the new begiining should start let bygones be bygones forgive and forget lets move on and come together and start the new beginning in life lets teach our children what we have learned let them follow our guidance and direction so that when the time come there children can foolow there guidance and direction in all the right ways with a positive attitude and with a great out look in life,but the only way that is going to be possible is by coming together as one the sun has risen today so now is when the new beginning has started its never to late in life for anything we live and learn something new each day each minute each hour regardless of age lifes challenges comes up with something new each day challenges that may need one another for the right answers and right direction challenges that may need called upon for each other and if we don not have each other or come together as one we will never get the answers we were looking for lets carry this name on as it has for generations lets carry this name on to what we were taught to do by the ones we just lost carry it on and be proud of the name we have mom and dad are gone but away now to a better place but they still live and still see and it is now when we should let them rest comfortable and watch from above and see us all become the one that they worked hard for and dreamed of if it was by there leaving that gives us a new beginning then that is what was meant to be so let them rest now and lets pull together and do what they have always exspected of us be proud of the name we were given by the two we loved so dearly and cherished lets finnaly show them as they look down on us and watch our continued life and the next generation of grandchildren and great grandchildren the loved so dearly and were proud of that we are strong we are one we will not be here to judge but we will be here to lead them in the right direction we will gude them through there trials and tribulations we will be there in good times and bad times life is short as we well see so it is now where when you need someone to talk to where you can pick up the phone knowing that without hesitation or worry that before the call is made that one on the other end is already there for you lets start our new beginning lets be strong and powerfull and not let lifes troubles or problems get us down but pull us together more powerfull and stronger and show that during times like these we cant be defeated and if you feel you can be then take a moment and think back and look back and see that our mother and father could not and would not be defeated or be brought down and had never given up and it is then when from above you will be given the strength to do what seems to be impossible become the possible just as they had shown and proven to us we have all and continue to go through rough times we have all learned that never regret growing old that it has been a privelage denied by many in this family so lets begin our new life today as the sunshines on us all lets finnaly give mom and dad the rest they so deeply deserve and to show them that there may be a saying of "an army of one" but there is also a family of one

Debbie

June 3, 2008

Grandpa..
You were the best. Words could never describe the man you were and always will be. I will treasure every moment I spent with you and every smile you gave me. You were the grandfather every girl would love to have and I am so glad that you were mine. You will always live on, not only in my thoughts but in my heart. When I become a grandparent someday, I want to give my grandchildren wonderful memories like I have with you. Rest in peace Grandpa and someday I will be able to hold you again and you can rub that beard upon my cheek like when I was litttle. Give Grandma a kiss and let her know that I love her and miss her. I love you always and until we meet again. All my love to you forever...your granddaughter...Debbie

tommy

June 3, 2008

robby
my apologize for not including you and thanking you for you heartfelt and dedicated love for what you have done i did not know until today and i am deeply sorry but you also deserve to be commended and to be added to the list of our proud american soldier you also have been there in everyone times of need so please include yourself into the article that i have written previously about our soldier my understanding was you also were the storm trooper who came in and took control and stayed with him during his time of need when he needed someone the most you stayed and became the guardian angel that he needed to watch over and protect our father so i love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart for what you have done also my apologize go out to you for not includeing you we have always been close and when you left again another part of the family had gone but by the grace of god he sent you back to us to become one again and to put you into action and again you become a stormtrooper and also deserve the medal of honor you will be loved forever for your bravery

Robert Troy

June 3, 2008

Dad
Your time has come to say goodbye but we know it's only to let us know that your taking your journey home .Your pain is gone .We find comfort in knowing that you can again smile because your safe with all those we have loved and lost.You are not forgotten our loved one ,nor will you ever be,as long as life and memory lasts we will remember thee.We miss you know our hearts are sore as time goes by we'll miss you more,Your loving smile, your gentle face, NO ONE could fill your place.You will always be our hereo.

Jamie Lynn Fryer

June 2, 2008

Grandpa,
You were always there for me when i needed you. I want to thank you for always being proud of me. All i ask you to do is look down on me and protect me. Thank you for justs being you. I love you.

barbara

June 2, 2008

dad
in 1994 when i needed someone in the time of turmoil it was you that took me under your wing and guided me through and i love you for that but i also had my own father and i cant pick and choose because to me you were both equally the same and i had to fathers not one two proud gentle men with high ideals-strenghth-courage and wisdom and i loved you both so much in the same way a bond that could not and never will be broken and even though you both have departed the bond is still strong and not broken love you always

tommy

June 2, 2008

to betsy-patricia-annmarie
our dad was a proud american soldier and the motto goes in many sayings "the few the proud" "be all you can be" and so on and during times of trouble that soldier depends on his fellow soldier for help and the past few months our soldier needed help and all three of you were there when needed and i commend you and love you all so much for that you all desreve a medal of honor you made dad proud and stood behind him and helped him in his time of need but to my most loving sister annmarie you my love deserve not only the medal of honor you also deserve the medal for bravery you came in like a stormtrooper you being the very out spoken one used your talent-your courage your strength and your knowledge and put it to work without hesitation it was you that made him back to the man we all loved and knew it was you that took control and led him in the right direction it was you that gave him back what he once gave you you dedicated yourself to him your time your effort your knowledge of what he taught you you gave back to him and put him back in control of his life it was you that made him one of the few again and the proud not only proud of himself again but you made him proud of you because are strong soldier had finnaly seen what his work over the years he did for us go into action and seen the wonderfull job he had accomplished you completed your mission with high honors and much to be proud of for sure and in the end he did not loose the battle or the war his partner of over 50 years came to save him and took over where she left and took him to safety never to face any more battles again and for that annmarie i will always love you and never never forget how you came into battle with your strength and courage and without fear to free our american hero you did a wonderfull and an outstanding job with high honors love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart xxoo

tommy

June 2, 2008

my tribute to my dad on the final goodbye. dad i stood there and watched you rest but as i watched i know your mission was yet to be accomplished so i had tried my best to put myself in your shoes and to think what would you have said and to try to get across and to finish you and mom's dream of having a happy family and a strong family with an unbreakable bond and what you exspected from your siblings in your life time your shoes were hard to fill when it comes to speaking and could not be filled by nobody my only wish is that what was said on the final goodbye that it be taken to heart and give you back what you have given to us and try to fufill the dream that you both tried so hard to do so you can both rest comfortable and watch from above of what you have exspected form us all so if we would all just stop and think for one moment of what you both have really accomplished by giving such a large loving family it just may happen even though you both are not here to witness it but you are both above to still and always direct us in the direction you both so desired you both faught for us all without hesitation and you faught all the way to the end and you both inspired us all not only to fight for ourselves but to fight for others who could not fight for themselves and to be there for each other whether it be for dicispline or for the direction of policy you taught us well you both were so talented with astonishing wisdom with much love to give and to offer and to go all the way to the end without giving up on us or yourselves me personally i cant thank you enough and for all of us and for all who knew you both as a permanent spring of earth we have all lost the most extraordinary heart and souls in our lives but it is still through you both that the fight continue to accomplish what you have dreamed of and hoped for and that the fight will continue until you sucseed here on earth or in heavan because you taught us all what is usually right is usually neccessary and that in helping one another we also help ourselves and you both still had a good scensce of humor and proved that the fight never ends you always said success is a mission and a mission accomplished is a job well done i cant thank you both enough for the guidance and direction the job you both have done you both are exceptional you both will never be forgotten and with your guidance still from above you will sucseed what you have almost completed you dad will always be my hero and i will always look back on your thoughts when times get tough and try to follow what you have taught us and what you exspected and how you would have accomlished the mission at hand and to remeber as you said when the sunsets at night your troubles are forgotten when the sunrises in the morning is a brighter and better day with a new beginning new hopes new dreams you are both sadly missed and very well loved and you will never will be forgotten again thank you both for a job well done

Cami Zelle

May 31, 2008

Tom and Barb..

I am so sorry for your loss. You will stay in my prayers

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tommy

May 31, 2008

my dearest dad
there have been bad times,sad times,good times up's and down's you faced life with many tough challenges with raising a large family of children you worked hard you struggled through you did the best of what can be exspected from a father you gave it your all and hung in there until your final moment you never gave up you fought the fight and in the end you are still the winner you never lost never gave up and thats all a person can ask for you are home again with mom you are together again as you both were meant to be but you were the best father anyone could have had you were cherished by all it may not have been shown out side but on the inside it was you have made us strong you gave us the right direction you taught us to always stand are ground and to beleive what was right was right and to do things for ourselves never depending on nobody you did an outstanding job something we will never forget we will always remember and never for get or regret you will be sadly missed but always cherished kiss mom hello and we will all meet again soon love ya you are the best

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