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Memories and Condolences
for John Mikulski
Sue Samuelson
August 11, 2008
Dear Margie, John Jr., Rick and Andy,
During the late 80's, I had the most fortunate opportunity to work with John at OACS and to know him as my friend. I remember John's quick wit. Always sharing a laugh, playing a prank or joke, just to brighten our day. I remember the annual Splat Ball games and safety meetings that were held. Such wonderful memories.
John was a talented Teacher and such an inspiration to his students. He was our Music Man and Chicago's biggest fan.
But what I remember most about John was how much he loved his family and how proud he was of his sons.
John, you left us much too soon. You were such a good friend, so caring and concerned about us all. The most important gift you left us with, is that you made us much better people by knowing you. Say John- Does anyone really know what time it is?
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Durr Thompson
August 6, 2008
John, along with Liz C., was one of the most influential people in my life. Always encouraging the music in me throughout high school and remaining a friend for the past 22 years. One thing I did learn-when you have a xylophone solo, don't skip out to the Senior Foods class for a quick bite to eat...you might miss your solo...and the band teacher just might be miffed. God bless your whole family. My life is better because of Mr. M.
Rita Ciuffetelli-Merlo
August 2, 2008
Mr. Mikulski was such a great teacher. I often thought of him, even after I graduated school. He always took time out to talk with me. I remember he was the "cool" teacher because he would buy us soda from the faculty room once in a while. I remember him spinning his keys around his finger, drinking his coffee, and always having a funny tidbit to share with me. He gave me the nickname "chewy" because of my last name and I remember thinking...only Mr. M can call me that. He introduced the bands Chicago and Tower of Power to me...and I love the bands because of him. He touched my life and enhanced my love of music. He was part of the reason why I became a teacher myself. After I heard of Mr. M's passing, I went and got my yearbook out just to see him again. He had made an entry in my yearbook...and in typical Mr. M style had written something funny. I will always remember him as one of the great teachers in my life. I send my deepest sympathy to his family. Mr. Milkulski will be missed by all of us.
maureen denecke
July 26, 2008
Mikulski Family
I knew John from West Seneca West. I got to know John when he worked at Southtowns Wheelchair Van Service, for my dad Jerry Denecke. He used to drive me to work sometimes. He was one of my favorite drivers. We shared a lot of laughs. He was always friendly and kind towards me. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Andria D'Alba (May)
July 22, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. Mikulski. He was a wonderful teacher and mentor and everyone remembers him even if they were not associated with band or chorus. He was always the friendliest of teachers, always saying hello, and nodding, to you every morning. He was one of the greats, a sincere man, and we are all blessed that he answered his calling - to teach. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this great loss. Sincerely, Andria D'Alba (Class of 1993)
kellie zych
July 21, 2008
my name is Kellie and John Mikulski was my uncle. I am so touched by all your kind words about him. He was all those things and much more. Our family just aches at his loss. He has touched the lives of many.If you were one of them, then you were truly blessed. Thanks for your prayers.
Terri (Baker) Downs
July 21, 2008
Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. He was a wounderful man.
OACS has lost an icon. There an not many teachers like Mr. M. He helped me (and many others) more than he knew. I have many fond memories of him. Everyday weather it was rain, snow or shine he would drive by me while I waited for the bus. He always waved and gave me his gleaming smile. I was always able to start my day on a good "note" because of him.
He knew that the small things mattered, and that sometimes they meant the world.
He will be greatly missed!
Chris Covel (Cleveland 1985)
July 21, 2008
The planet has lost a wonderful person. The news of Mr. M's leaving us has left me so saddened. I am one of the lucky people who had him as a student in the 1980s and now my children have had him during the past few years in band and lessons. The great contribution that Mr. M gave to our community is that he not only taught instrument lessons but life lessons also. Every student and person that has had contact with him knows that he was just a great guy. He had the time for everyone and made every student feel accomplished and important. His sense of humor made him just that more amazing. OACS has such an amazing music program because of him. He made it fun and the kids want to be there and want to do well. I feel so sad that our community has been robbed of a great teacher who had so much more to teach in the next 4 years. I feel sadness for my kids who will not get to experience what I did during high school band years. My daughter was looking forward to graduating with Mr M because he had said that this year he was a freshman with our kids and he would graduate (retire) with them at the end of their senior year in 4 years. We so looked forward to the band trip that he wanted to take that year. I feel the most sadness for his family who should have had so many more years with him and enjoyed him so much more. He talked so much of his boys everytime that I saw him and of course since that little grand daughter came into the world, his twinkle in his eye has been so much brighter. He loved sharing her video of using FedEx to get milk for herself. My kids enjoyed that video many times with him. He told me in June that he was spending the summer getting Margie's list done because he was sure that there was a list of things for him to get accomplished this summer and since the boys did not need watching anymore, he had no excuses for not getting his chores done this year. The pictures that the family had at the funeral home were so amazing. It was great to see that he was a happy guy everywhere that he went, but there was no doubt about that. He will be so greatly missed by all that ever had contact with him. The OACS bands will be stronger in his honor because that is what he would have wanted for them. Sleigh Ride will be a very emotional song for a long time to come, it was a great song in 1981 or 82 when I first played it at OACS and it was the perfect song to play in his honor today. All that knew him will forever have a moment of rememberance when we hear a Chicago song just as we have always thought of him each time we have heard it in years gone by. What a tragic time of our lives, but we will continue to make the world a better place in his honor and keep up the good work for him, in his place. Take care Mikulski family as you learn to live your lives each day without him and you will have to bring Miss Sophia to a concert in the years to come to show her what a great place her Papa worked and where he taught kids to love music the way that he did.
Melanie Scroger (2008)
July 20, 2008
To a wonderful teacher and dear friend,
I can still picture you, standing by the drinking fountain, swinging your keys and hodling your clown coffee mug. You always extended your welcomes to everyone, no matter if they were familiar or not. You cared for all those around you, and we greatly appreciate it. Your jokes and smile could brighten anyone's day. Your passion, encouragement, and dedication in the music department, as well as in life, has motivated so many. Your impact at Oakfield cannot be measured because it is so large and widespread. You will truly be missed but one thing is for sure, your memories will always stay in the hearts of all you have touched. Music and laughter echo between the walls of O-A because of you and that is something we cannot thank you enough for. Sleigh ride, chicago songs, and louie louie are all familiar sounds that attach wonderful memories when i hear them played. Keep smiling! I am looking forward to seeing you again one day, to see you and hear your laughter as I had for my middle/high years. Thank you for your compassion and wisdom. We are all grateful to have shared friendships with you....God bless you and your family
Sarah Perkins
July 20, 2008
Mr M. was a great man. I was in band for a year in elementary school, and when he would come over to help us woodwinds, he always had a smile on his face. After I left the band, I joined Drama Club at OACS. Between him and Miss Bergman, we had fun rehearsals and shows. The one thing that always cheered me up was his wonderful smile and the famous clown mug he brought to the shows. We will miss him greatly and I wish the best for the Mikulski family.
Danielle Mcgiveron
July 20, 2008
In order to graduate high school, I needed to obtain a credit in music or art, which I had been dreading. The need for the credit, landed me in Mr. Mikulski's Foundations of Music class. At first, I was not sure I was going to keep the class. I had no music background and was in a class full of band geeks. It was Mr. Mikulski's great attitude that made Foundations of Music so great. Not only did he help me through the class, he also took the time to teach me to play bass guitar, which lead to my involvement in band and jazz band my senior year! His dedication to everyone of his students is truely inspirational and Mr. Mikluski will be greatly missed.
DeAndra Contangelo, Ryanne Dwyer, Whitney Taylor, & Erika Benham
July 20, 2008
I'm sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers.
Elena Infantino and Kaitlyn Downing
July 19, 2008
Our deepest thoughts and prayers go out to the mikulski family. Even though we didn't know Mr. Mikulski we new his son John the ela teacher. We are so very sorry for your loss and we will keep the Mikulski family in our prayers this coming sunday.
Bob Millich & Family
July 19, 2008
To recall Jackie as either "one in a million" or "unique", does not even begin to describe what a wonderul, beautiful, dynamic lady that she truly was. Jackie took grasp of this life and lived it to the fullest extent possible. Along that way, she taught many lessons as a mother, daughter, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend. With all of these, we feel a great loss, but cherish with smiles, laughter and love every moment we were blessed to have her with us.
Tim + Stefanie (Tretter) Clark
July 18, 2008
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Mikulski family. Mr. M was a great teacher and role model! He will truly be missed! He was an inspiration to all! Oakfield was very fortunate to have a teacher like Mr. M and he will never be forgotten!
Katarina Kreidler
July 17, 2008
Mr. Mikulski wasn't just my band teacher. He was also a friend. I would skip class bunches of times just to go to the band room to talk to him. He was more than just a good teacher, but a good man all around. I'm so glad I got the privilege to know him. I can honestly say he was my favorite teacher. He was such a good mentor to me and encouraged me to try my hardest to be the best. Mr. Mikulski brought out the best in everyone and knew how to make me smile when I was in a horrible mood. He will be greatly missed by everyone. RIP John Mikulski<3
Lisa (Sweet) Cooke
July 17, 2008
I just returned from vacation and opened my Alden Advertiser to see Johns smiling face. I only taught with him for 1 year at OACS but he helped me "learn the ropes" and always had a joke or two. I am saddened by his loss and hope you know my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this most difficult time.
Marie (Kabel) Cone
July 17, 2008
My condolences to Mr. Mikulski's family. He was a wonderful teacher and friend always there with a smile when all of us needed it. I feel very lucky to have learned so much from him and to have someone give us all the confidence we needed not only in band but to carry with us in our lives.
Diana Manges
July 16, 2008
To the family of MR. M, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Mr. Mikulski taught me many things about life and music as he did many. He will be greatly missed, mostly at Labor Daze parade, where I was able to catch up with him each year. All the memories of such a great man will live forever in the community and walls of OACS. We had our own "Mr. Holland" and one day we will all play together again!!!
RIP Mr. M
DianaRae (Radtke) Walker
July 16, 2008
To the Mikulski Family;
My deepest sympathy! I knew John (aka "Jellybean") while grwoing up. He was my older brother Carl's friend. He spent a lot of time at our house while growing up. He will be truely missed. I spoke with my Mom this morning after returning from a trip to Florida when she passed along the sad news and we shared some "Jellybean" stories.
I took to the opportunity to read the guest book and truely "Jellybean" became and was a gifted music teacher to many. May his teachings live on through those who had the chance to learn from him.
May the Lord continue to be with your family during your time of sorrow.
Debbie (Sharp) Weil
July 16, 2008
Mr. Mikulski made school enjoyable to go to. He always had a smile, and funny story to tell in front of the entire band or a new toy to show us from his platform. He always brought a smile to my face and was so patient in teaching anyone who wanted to learn. You are loved and missed Mr. M!
Lisa Frayne
July 15, 2008
I never got the privledge or honor to meet this wonderful man but I do have the honor of being one of his nieces best-friends. From what she tells me he was one of the greatest men that she has ever known and to hear this my heart breaks for her and his family. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God look over your shoulders and bless you every day. Also from what I have heard about him even though it may be almost impossible to do I'm sure he will want you to.... SMILE CAUSE HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE!!!! *He's probably on the 1st hole of the most beautiful green anyone has ever seen*~Lisa Frayne, Friend of Kerri .O.
Lisa Frayne
July 15, 2008
I never got the privledge or honor to meet this wonderful man but I do have the honor of being one of his nieces best-friends. From what she tells me he was one of the greatest men that she has ever known and to hear this my heart breaks for her and his family. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God look over your shoulders and bless you every day. Also from what I have heard about him even though it may be almost impossible to do I'm sure he will want you to.... SMILE CAUSE HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE!!!! *He's probably on the 1st hole of the most beautiful green anyone has ever seen*
Mary Lou Andrews
July 15, 2008
Today I had to say goodbye to a very dear friend. We only had three years of laughter and jokes but how precious are those memories to me. Margie, John, Rick and Andy I hope your memories help you through your sorrow. Now as John wished I am going to turn up the music and dance in the street! Love you buddy!
Arianne Currier
July 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you Margie, John, Rick, and Andy. I had the pleasure of working with John at OACS for two years. He was an incredible mentor and friend. John was always there for me and made me laugh and smile everyday. The world needs more people like John as he is an inspiration to all of us. He will truly be missed. But I do know that now he finally has a chance to fulfill his dream of opening a donut shop in the sky! R.I.P. Mr. Mikulski. You were loved by everyone.
Carolyn Giambrone
July 15, 2008
Mr. Mikulski was one of my favorite teachers. He taught me how to play the drumset and encouraged me to do solo fest each year. Not only did he teach me about music, he also taught me about life. I will never forget his jokes and his life lessons.
I looked forward to seeing him every year at Labor Daze. He always gave me a hug and stopped as the band continued on just to quickly catch up.
Everytime I hear Sleigh Ride, the Rocky theme song, or Chicago songs, I think of him. He was truly an amazing teacher and friend.
To the Mikulski family: You are in my prayers. He will be missed.
Susan Eick
July 15, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the entire Mikulski family. Never has there been, and never will be another like him. I looked forward to band practice every day and look back on it now with the fondest of memories. Mr. Mikulski will be greatly missed not only as our band leader, but as our friend.
Samantha Pangrazio
July 15, 2008
Mr. Mikulski wasn't just a wonderful teacher and man. He was much more than that. No matter how horrible of a day you were having, he would ALWAYS find a way to make you smile and share a few laughs. Mr. M told our class, the class of 2012 that we were his favorite class because we graduate the year he was supposed to retire. He even made up nicknames for me and my fellow woodwinds that we will never forget. The first day of school will deffinately be a tough one without this wonderful man, but we will stay strong and continue to make music in honor of him. He will be greatly missed by our entire community.
Stephanie Pillo-Kellogg
July 15, 2008
I have been priviledged to know Mr. M. since his first days at OA. I was in his first band...his very first first chair flute. I remember all the fun we had in rehearsals, how he would whistle when he wanted us to stop, and all the marching adventures we had. I would see him throughout the years and he always had a kind word and a smile. I am so sad that my daughter will not be able to know him as her band director. He was so excited to have Abby next year and I couldn't wait to be able to see one of my favorite teachers on a regualr basis again. I will continue to honor Mr. M's memory every time I pick up my flute and I know that he is looking down on all of us smiling that awesome smile...and reminding us to practice... With love and sympathy,
Kevin and Diane Skelton
July 15, 2008
John Mikulski was teacher to both of our sons, Jason (1997) and James (2002). He was a man who helped make our boys the good men that they have become. His example and friendship was a reason for them, especially James, to actually look forward to going to school each day. We always enjoyed the concerts and his humor during each of them. Also, the hard work that he did with Liz Conway to take their respective groups to Disney World was amazing. We had the good fortune to go along on the trip and it is a memory we will never forget. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, his family. And thank you for sharing him with ours.
Peter Pace
July 15, 2008
The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good. -Samuel Johnson
John's measure should be an inspiration to us all. I feel priviledged for having known John since our days back in Fisher Road Elementary School. John was special in many ways and touched many lives. Dear Margie, what can I say? I will be in touch.
Laura Ostrowski
July 15, 2008
Saying Mr. Mikulski was a great teacher and friend is selling him short. His life was valued by so many and the impression he left on his family, friends, and students is unbelievable. I skipped classes to hang out in the band room many times a week. This made Mr. Mikulski one of the cool teachers, but it also made him a lifesaver when he covered for me because he could tell I was having a rough day. Of course I wasn't allowed to leave until I smiled. He was genuinely interested in what I was up to and didn't treat me like I was a kid. Whatever mattered to me was also important to him, and that meant the world to me. He bragged about his family all the time, constantly showing us new pictures of Sophie and telling me that his youngest son wasn't too old for me. I honestly cannot find a way to convey how much of an impact he had on my life and on so many others. Like a real father, he told me boyfriends weren't good enough for me and was always encouraging me in school, band, and everything I did. My only regret is bailing on Solofest for the past two years. However, the very, very least I can do is to dedicate my solo this year to my teacher, mentor, and good friend, John Mikulski.
Bruce and Loren Penman
July 15, 2008
Marge, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dawn (Bush)Czaja
July 14, 2008
I was never a band member,but was in the chorus. Mr.M always had a smile for everyone. Now that my children are involved in the music programs at OACS, I had the pleasure of seeing John at the concerts. He always had a joking comment to make since we are both short in stature. OACS will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Dawn, RJ and Angela
Meagan Eckstein
July 14, 2008
As a child of 2 music teachers from Batavia I have very fond memories of growing up with Mr. M and hearing all of his great stories at any music events. Then many years later I was hired at Oakfield and as a scared, young new teacher my dad told me to find Mr. M and there I will find a friendly face. I will always remember his laughter and kind words. He will be truly missed. The love of music is perhaps the greatest lifelong gift that can be given. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Love always, Meagan (Hay) Eckstein
Hillary (Smart) Amici
July 14, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Denise and Kimberly Fiori
July 14, 2008
Dear Marge, John, Ricky and Andrew: Our prayers and condolences are with each of you during this difficult tragedy. You were always more than just neighbors; you were our friends. John had a way of making me laugh at life in a way that no one else possessed. He could see the humor in everyday events that the rest of us missed, and this special talent made life much more fun. Our prayers and love are sent to you, and we will keep John forever in our hearts.
Derek Weatherbee
July 14, 2008
I wish his family peace in this life, as I wish it for Mr. Mikulski himself in the next. A truly great man, one with a great love of all things music... He gave me my love of jazz, was always so understanding... He will always stand tall in our memories.
Derek Weatherbee ('99)
Rick & Judy Clark
July 14, 2008
Margie & family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of John's death. He was truly an amazing friend and teacher. Both our sons were fortunate to have John as a band instructor and we were fortunate to have John as a friend. We will always remember the great concerts and parades as well as the many laughs he brought to us. Our fondest memories are of the great BOCES Ground Hog parties - John really enjoyed them and we enjoyed attending with you both. He was so PROUD of his sons and I'm sure he was a great "Poppa" too. Our lives are richer for having known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rick & Judy Clark
Stephanie Cornelius
July 14, 2008
To the Family of Mr. Mikulski,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies and condolences on your loss. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing.
I feel fortunate to have received 6 years of his guidance and encouragement. He encouraged me to compete and work towards technical mastery. Later he encouraged me to take up a second instrument and branch out into other styles of music. I'm very pleased to say that this spirit has stayed with me, and I'm still playing away 15 years later.
With Kind Regards,
Pamela (Sharp) Brott
July 14, 2008
To the Mikulski family: How saddened my heart is to hear of the great loss your family has experienced. Mr. Mikulski was loved by all who knew him. The smile on his face never ceased to shine. He was an awesome teacher, and friend. His will be some tough shoes to fill. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. And may God comfort you during this time.
I remember, as many do, visiting in his room when there wasn't another place to be at the moment. His door was always open. And he always knew just what to say to lighten up the conversation.
And to Liz Conway: My condolences to you as well. I know you have lost a great friend and can't imagine the hole that now resides in your heart. Always remember all the laughs. I don't think I ever witnessed a serious moment between you two.
And to all those who have visited and signed this book: Thank you for taking the time to reflect on the life of such a wonderful person. May God bless you all.
Lynn Clark (Sambuchi)
July 14, 2008
I attended high school with John and remember him as someone who always had a smile on his face. It's been some 30+ years since I've seen or heard of him, but there are those few individuals you always remember because of their great personality...that's how I remember John. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your entire family.
Ron D'Alba & Family
July 14, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with the family at this sad time. I was on the School board when John was hired. The whole OACS family will miss him very much. He was a great man.
Rebecca Mynter
July 14, 2008
Marge and family,
My heart is heavy as I join you in your loss. As you are well aware, John was one of those individuals that made a mark on us all. With friends, co-workers, students and personally, with me. When I began my work at Oakfield, he was one of the first to welcome me and went on to become the person who warmly welcomed me to each work day. John was an amazing man and I am fortunate to say one who became an amazing friend. I am so sorry that you lost him far too soon.
Tina McCoy
July 14, 2008
Dear Marge and Family-
I was so saddened for you when my sister called me with the sad news of John's sudden passing. I can't help but smile when I think of the first phone call I got from John when I worked at BOCES Preschool - he was a funny guy. I always enjoyed hearing about your camping trips and later of the kids college plans when I'd run into you - your family was an inspiration to us all. I recently heard a saying that I thought was beautiful and would like to share: Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain. I hope that when the worst of this storm is behind you, you will all be able to laugh with your family and enjoy your memories of what a great husband, dad, teacher and musician John was. I am sure he would want it that way. With my deepest sympathy.
Tina McCoy
Denton Family
July 14, 2008
Dear Margie and family,
To you we send our deepest sympathy.
John was a fabulous teacher and an important part of both of our girls' lives. His classroom was always open to provide a fun place for eating lunch with their friends. It was also a place for each of them to practice on their instruments and escape from the pressures of being a teen in todays hectic world.
John had a way of challenging my daughter, Samantha, to her fullest; giving her music that helped her to grow far beyond any of our expectations. She wants to continue to honor Mr. Mikulski and plans to try her hardest to make it to All-State this year in his memory.
From a parent with no musical talent, I can not thank him enough for the sweet sounds my children have learned over the years.
He will be sorely missed, and we thank you all for sharing him with us, Perry and Andrea
Dear Mrs. Mikulski and family,
I'm sorry for your loss. Mr. Mikulski was one of my favorite teachers. He always had really funny stories, like one day he came in and told us about how his wife kept telling him to get off the TV literally. We will all miss him a lot, Brittany
Mikulski family,
Mr. Mikulski was my absolute favorite teacher over the years of middle, high and even the last years of elementary school. He really pushed me and I have come out with more musical skills than I ever dreamed and a very nice, expensive clarinet that he helped pick out.
A few things that stand out in my memory and I will never forget....
He swore there would never be a clarinet in the jazz band so when I finally, reluctantly joined as an alto sax, he let a clarinet in. Towards the end of this school year he bought two songs of which have clarinet solos.
I won't forget how it feels to have a fellow short person walk an elementary hallway, with small, child size lockers, and finally know what high school is supposed to feel like. On the way to a solo audition we were walking in said hallway and he said "I finally feel in place...so this is how high school should feel." I laughed, I was about to say the same thing.
The last memory is very recent. As were waiting outside my audition room for the dreaded all-state solo, many of the stereotypical crazy music people walked by. As these teachers and adults walked around, Mr. Mikulski said, "You know, you guys are pretty lucky to have a normal guy like me for your teacher." I nodded because it was true. As I did, a young student walked by us to peer his beady little eyes into the window of the audition room to watch the girl before me very closely. About the third time he did so Mr. Mikulski said, "Actually I am pretty lucky...to have normal students like you."
He meant so much to many of us. With sympathy, Sammi
Mike and Tina (Adamski) Bak
July 14, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. Mikulski's family. Great memories of a wonderful man. He continues to live on in our hearts and minds--and will be deeply missed by the many lives he touched while at OACS.
nikki royse
July 14, 2008
i was soo shocked to hear of mr mikulski's death. i didnt believe it. he use to chase me around the lunch room everyday when he had lunch duty. we use to hang out in his studyhall and talk about music. thats all we'd ever do. MR. JOHN MIKULSKI YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED!!
to his family- im soo sorry about your loss he was loved by everyone at the school.
Pamela Desjardins
July 14, 2008
Unlike most of the postings in this book, our family did not have the pleasure of knowing Mr. Mikulski. However, we were fortunate enough to make his acquaintance on May 20, 2008 on the evening of OA's combined school band concerts. As we entered the middle-high school that night Mr. Mikulski observed our jittery 4th grader looking for the band room. He approached her with a warm smile and calming words, and then saw to it that she was chaperoned there. What really impressed us was that after the concert was over, he saw her in the hallway, called her by name, and asked her if she had enjoyed playing in her very first band concert. He really cared about whether she had fun or not, and how he ever managed to retain her name after all he had on his own mind that night - we cannot explain. It must be a trait that goes hand-in-hand with kindness and sincerity. That is how we will remember him. May God give comfort to his wife, children, family, and our community. Richard, Pamela, and Baylee Desjardins
Tom, Michele and Erin Graham
July 14, 2008
Our family was so shocked to hear about John. His passion for teaching music to students was evident in every concert. John could really get those kids to play beautiful music. I also passed John every single morning on our respective ways to work, he to Oakfield, and I to Akron, I'll still wave and think of him every morning! Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this very difficult time.
Tina (Sharp) Rosenberry
July 14, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Mr. Mikulski. He was well-liked by all students, and left very impressionable memories for those who participated in band. I'll never forget his love for music, and his passion for teaching students. His door was always open, whether to come and play during a study-hall, or just to sit and shoot the breeze. I'll miss you- teacher, mentor, and friend to all. May God Bless the Mikulski family, and may you be comforted during this time.
Bill Snyder
July 14, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It was great working with John. My prayers and thoughts are with the family.
Duane Reiman
July 14, 2008
I was a pretty poor trumpet player, but I cannot remember a time when Mr. Mikulski had a negative attitude toward me, or anyone else for that matter. I am grateful for the opportunity to reflect on Mr. Mikulski and the impact of his life on so many around him. He was a true encourager who enjoyed life. Even when he was conducting as part of the interview process for his job at OACS (I was there!), he showed no nervousness, no jitters. The entire band immediately felt comfortable with him leading us. I can only imagine that the situation got better over the decades since.
His life is truly great, for he has positively impacted hundreds (thousands?) of people as he marched through it.
Valerie Pillo
July 14, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Mr. M's death. He made a significant impact on everyone he touched - on the stage and off. For me, he made learning music and playing the flute the best part of my day. I'll never forget him standing up on the black box and throwing his baton during band rehearsal or talking about how many times he had seen his favorite band - Chicago and then of course where they were playing next. He brought a smile to your face and could make you laugh about everything. He had a true love of music, teaching and family and will be sadly missed by all who knew him. My deepest sympathies to his family.
Valerie E. Pillo Class of '89
Henry Shoemaker
July 14, 2008
Margie & boys, I was shocked and saddened to read of the passing of John(Beans). I'd lost touch with John, since high school, we were pretty close, played some clarinet competitions together(though I was no match for John), baseball, football. I'll always remember his contagious laugh and the great times we used to have in Mr. Landers bands. May God grace your family at this difficult time, you will all be in my prayers.
Becky (Will) LeFever '86
July 14, 2008
Words can not express what a loss has been left in my heart for your family. I can remember our concerts and Mr.M. climbing on his little black box and he always had something funny to say before we performed. I also remember the tricks that he and Mrs. Conway would do to each other. It was always pay back time! I will truly miss the little guy as a flute player in the band or an actress in musicals he knew if you were the one that hit that wrong note. Such a talent for music and a love for his students truly a man with respect and honor for all he did for all of us. He will be sadly missed.
Kristy Abdella
July 14, 2008
Our family sends deepest condolences to the friends, family and students of Mr. John Mikulski - sharing the grief of many in his passing.
I am thankful that my children were graced with a teacher who was so genuine; who found real joy in his work and in his students. He will live on in all who knew him – an impressive legacy, indeed!
Darlene Warner
July 14, 2008
It was such a joy to attend the music concerts at school and observe His students as he conducted them. They truly loved him
David Herring
July 14, 2008
Dear Margie and family; We are all saddened by John's passing, an old neighbor and friend and all around great guy. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you he touched a lot of lives in a very positive way and made this world a much better place to live in be cause of his presence. May God comfort & Bless at your time of need. With love, David Herring.
LeRoy & Debbie Higgins
July 14, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with
you all. John left a wonderful legacy at Oakfield Alabama School and also the many many parades he did in our community. God's Blessing
Jennifer Kowalcyk
July 13, 2008
My deepest condolences to Mr. Mikulski's family. He was a great teacher and have so many lovely memories of him. His band room was always open and I will always think of him when I hear Chicago and Sleigh Ride. He'll always be the cute little man with socks he had to hold up with rubber bands and threw his baton so many times that we bought him a new one. He'll be forever missed.
Cherl & Paul Matla
July 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Mr. M. was one of our kids' favorite teachers, having taught Holly ('01) clarinet and Pete saxophone ('05 in Ohio). They both continued to play after moving here. I was in music boosters and fondly remember he had problems promoting our poinsettia sale each Christmas, stumbing over the word with a smile on his face. When the band and chorus flew to Disney World he encouraged and teased Holly about her first ever flight, something she vowed never to do again. The last I saw John was at Holly's graduation party the week before we moved, and he asked her to call him John, which she couldn't do. Anytime the kids went to Oakfield school to visit, the first place they'd go was the band room. Many fond memories, good friendships, and lasting positive influence by a wonderful friend and teacher. Because of great teachers like John, Kelly and Holly both became teachers and Pete is considering the profession. Thanks for sharing him and again, our prayers for the family, the community, and OACS for strength and peace in this time of sorrow.
Laura (Latko) Scarborough
July 13, 2008
I was so shocked to hear of Mr. M's passing. We were his first year of marching band (baton) and somehow got through it togeather from Niagara Falls to Batavia Pagent of Bands. He was the best and always had a great sense of humor about things. He really cared. He will be missed.
Kathleen McDonald
July 13, 2008
Dear Margie and Family,
We were gathered at my parents house to celebrate my Dad's birthday today. My brothers and sisters were sitting on the front porch recalling memories of John - AKA lovingly called "Jellybean", back in the Covington Gardens neighborhood. He was truly a great guy and to read the beautiful tributes, he never changed. We are so saddened for you loss. We will keep you in our thought and prayers. The Barnett Family
Lisa Yantz
July 13, 2008
Our deepest heartfelt sympathy to your family during this time of sorrow. Mr. Mikulski was such an amazing man who truely loved life and the children that surrounded him in it. As a parent of two of his students, my children didn't look to him as just their teacher, they looked to him as their incredibly funny friend and their COOL mentor! He enriched the lives of all who knew him and he will be so deeply missed. Our heart aches for your loss. The halls of our school will never be as bright without his million dollar smile!
Truely loved and missed.
Rob, Lisa & Melia Yantz
Chelsea & Mason McClurg
Scott Grefrath
July 13, 2008
I write this with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes as I just returned from San Antonio this morning to hear this very sad news. Mr. M. was a true gentleman and I know I treasured the times he and I (with others) would sit around and see who could come up with the funniest quips. Perhaps his funniest comment that I remember (and emulate) to this day was after they moved the nurse's office into his old office which he shared with his dear friend Liz Conway. He walked over to the bathroom door, opened it part way and said "don't get up". Of course no one was in there but we all rolled
laughing till the tears came pouring down.
When I decided I wanted to become a music teacher, although vocal and
not instrumental, Mr. M. took me under his wing. He tortured me with
difficult music theory challenges which later led to me being
Teacher's Assistant in college music theory. He encouraged me in my
junior and senior year to pick up new instruments and in fact gave me
an old trombone that someone had left behind many years before. He
also had me come down to junior high band during my study halls to
play trombone, tuba, trumpet and percussion (anything but my primary
instrument baritone horn). And then one day he bestowed an honor on
me. While busy preparing students for solo festival he handed me the
baton and taught me to direct so he could spend individual time preparing his students for their solos.
I will never forget the lessons he taught me. One day in lessons he
told me that I sing so beautifully but yet I played my instrument so
technically. He taught me to "sing through my horn" with the passion
that I sang songs with. From that day forward I was a different
instrumentalist. Mr. M. saw a spark in me and fanned that flame.
Although I am not a music teacher I will always cherrish the lessons,
the chats we had standing in front of the school while he leaned
against the building with one foot up smoking, but mostly for putting
a song in my heart that will always be there.
Rest in peace Mr. M. You will always be loved and never forgotten.
Scott Grefrath
OACS 1992
p.s. Does anyone remember the song by his favorite band (Chicago)
that he always said he wanted played at his funeral? He told me what
it was many times and sadly I have forgotten what it was. I know it
was from one of their earlier albums.
Kelley Schoenwetter
July 13, 2008
To Mr. Milulski Family and Friends. I am so sorry for your loss. I meet Mr. Mikulski though my cousin, Ms. Bergman. They always worked so hard on all the musicals at school. He will be sadly missed.
Deepest condolences for your loss.
Kathy McCarville
July 13, 2008
Marge & Family, I really am shocked and saddened by the news. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish i could of been there to see you all.
Michelle Will
July 13, 2008
My condolences to the family of Mr. Mikulski. I have many fond memories of him and am very fortunate to have known such a great man.
Rebecca (Kraatz) Korzatkowski
July 13, 2008
Mr. Mikulski's infinite patience first with my sub-par performance as a flutist and then wrenched attempt at the french horn were nothing short of amazing. The sadness at losing someone so dedicated to sharing his love of music with so many will be felt for a long time to come. His family is in my heart and thoughts.
Arlene Ehrich
July 13, 2008
Dear Mike, Terry and Scott,
I have read every message posted in this "book" and it makes me wish we had known John. He sounds a lot like you, Mike and the picture of him reminds me of you, too. That being the case, I can understand the loss your family and his students are feeling. May God grant his deepest comfort to you and your family at this deepest time of sorrow. Our deepest sympathy to you and John's family, and all those who loved him. There seem to be many.
With love to our friends,
Benn and Arlene
Susan Brion
July 13, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. John was dearly loved by his OACS family. I will truly miss him and his wonderful smile each and everyday.
Kathy (Wescott) Wommack
July 13, 2008
I was so sad to hear of Mr. M.'s passing. I believe he always had a smile on his face everytime I saw him in high school. What a joy he was to be around and what fun to witness the joking around that often happened between Mr. M. and Mrs. Conway! I will always remember the fun we had in colorguard and marching down the street with Mr. M.'s band to the tune of "Louie, Louie." My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Valerie Wadams
July 13, 2008
Dear Marge and family,
I am truly saddened that you have lost the "director" in your family. My daughter Carrie learned so much from him during her band days at OACS, and we always enjoyed the concerts. It was always fun to watch him step up on his little black box and get the baton swinging.
Marge...please accept my most heartfelt sympathy. I always enjoyed our time working together at BOCES. Anytime I am driving down Crittenden Rd (to my hometown of Alden), I remember you telling me so long ago about watching my speed; John drove it every day to Oakfield and knew first-hand of the police patrolling it!!
How different all of your lives will be now. I pray that you will find the strength and courage to carry on. John is now doing his "directing" from the big spiritual place in the sky.
Here is my favorite prayer of all time: "The Serenity Prayer"
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, ane the wisdom to know the difference. It has helped me thru so many difficult times in my life; I shared the love of this prayer with my beloved Mom.
Take care.
Love and blessings,
Val Wadams
Katie O'Brien
July 13, 2008
Margie, John, Ricky & Andy
My deepest condolences to your sweet family. My memories of Mr. Mikulski are vivid and will always make me smile. I remember him as "the candy man" because he used to bring bags of bulk candy over when picking up the boys. We would sing the candy man song from sing-along tapes and he would eat it up! What a blessing it was to have known him, my thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless
Joyce and Don Yunker
July 13, 2008
We are saddened by the news of Mr. Mikulski's death. Oakfield has lost a great person and outstanding music teacher. He always had that million-dollar smile as he greeted us anytime we saw him. My last conversation with John was around dance recital week. He always had a way of making me laugh during that stressful week. My condolences to his family.
Emily Robinson
July 13, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Mikulski family during this difficult time. Mr. Mikulski was a true friend and inspiration to all of his students. It was impossible to step into his room at school and be in a bad mood, as his sense of humor and smile made everyone else around him smile also. Mr. M was one of the main reasons I decided to become a teacher. He will never be forgotten, but always fondly remembered when we hear Chicago, listen to Sleigh Ride, or see a conversion van (with or without a roof) drive by.
Susan (Grefrath) Herman '89
July 13, 2008
Remember how Mr. M would begin every concert piece? By stepping onto the black square box platform and wiping his feet. He told us one time there was a pencil on there and although I don't know exactly what happened, this foot wiping became a ritual for him. I was in band back in the 80's when the new royal blue band uniforms with white cowboy-type hats replaced the black jackets with white overlays and furry gold helmets. They were supposed to be a great improvement. However, that was the era of skinny jeans and rolling your pant cuffs. Bell bottomed band pants were not cool! Mr. M actually permitted us to staple those pants into a more tapered style. He always listened, always made us feel important, & always encouraged us to shine. We will pray for the hurting hearts of your family and the OA community. We have some comfort knowing you are in paradise where they no doubt have great music.
Kim Yunker Maier
July 13, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Mr. Mikulski. He was truly an inspiration to us all. He was more than just a teacher... he was a friend! Even after graduation Mr. M. still showed a genuine interest in his former students. I will always remember his friendly smile and good nature he shared with us. He will be greatly missed by all of us who have been blessed with the opportunity to know and learn from him. Few people in life are able to make such a positive impression on so many people. Mr. M. was one of those people. OACS has lost a great educator, and a great friend. May you rest in peace, Mr. Mikulski, and may your family find comfort in knowing how special you were to so many.
James Skelton (Class of 2002)
July 13, 2008
Here's just one more tiny example of how great a guy Mr. Mikulski was. One day during finals I didn't have any tests and I was mowing my grandmother's lawn (her house is just a little bit down the road from the school). It was a hot day so mowing the lawn was certainly not the most pleasant task and as I was working I noticed Mr. Mikulski's conversion van (with roof intact at this time) drive by.
About 20 minutes later he came back in the other direction and pulled over to the side of the road, so I went over to talk to my friend and he handed me a bottle of water that he bought me at the dairy and said "Here, you looked thirsty". Such a small gesture, but one of true friendship. Mr. Mikulski, you have made such a great impact on so many lives, you taught us to love music, but most of all how to be a good friend. As I read through this message board it becomes abundantly clear that you've had a huge impact that has truly spread the world over. Thanks for everything you did for us.
Jennifer (Scroger) Kulikowski
July 13, 2008
John was a great band teacher. I will never forget when I graduated from college and came back to OACS to sub. He insisted I call him John. It was so hard, after calling him Mr. Mikulski for so many years. He was a great teacher and an amazing person. Thank you for all you gave to your students and colleagues. You will be missed.
Brian Thompson
July 13, 2008
Our deepest love to the Mikulski family. Though I was more of a jock and didn't find out I had any musical talent Mr. Mikulski always took time to talk with me and show interest in my life. He always was quick with a smile and a funny story. Even after graduation (1986) Mr. Mikulski always went out of his way to say Hi! or look me up when I stopped into the school. His encouragement and love also helped my future wife be a great musician and friend!! He will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Play on John, Play on!!!!
Dearest love,
Brian, Amy (Durr), Ethan, Olivia, Sophia and (Baby) Thompson (1986)
Jackie (Yunker) Davis
July 13, 2008
Deepest condolences to your family. Mr. Mikulski will be greatly missed by so many. He will be remembered not only for his gift of music in which he shared with so many, but for his laughter and for his smile. I personally will miss seeing him at the Labor Day parade - as the band went by, so would he with his great big smile, shaking is head in disbelief that my sister's kids and my daughter were growing so fast! Every year! He has left a great void in the community, and the hearts of many.
David & Judie Herring
July 13, 2008
Margie and family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear the news. We have such good memories of your special family when we babysat the boys some years ago. They were really great kids and easily taken into our hearts and family. Just took after their Father, I guess. You are all so blessed........you had the best.
Blessings, David & Judie Herring
Darcia (Bush)Golda
July 13, 2008
Mr M made such an incredilble impact on so many lives -I still tell my children stories from when I was in lessons with him - and now teach my daughter the flute with some of the methods that he taught to me....what an amazing man and wonderful friend. My heart goes out to Margie and the rest of the family.
Betsy (Summers) Riexinger
July 13, 2008
The world has definitely lost a wonderful man. We have all learned so much from Mr. Mikulski. God Bless!
Barb Barbur (Batavia City Schools)
July 13, 2008
Marge: May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Nancy Stocker
July 12, 2008
I was lucky enough to work with John at OACS about 14 years ago. He always had a smile on his face and was such a happy go lucky guy. He brought happiness to all. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Amanda Hofheins
July 12, 2008
Mr. Mikulski, you will be missed by so many and never forgotten! You have taught so many so much and have touched so many lives. We love you...............
Chante Davis
July 12, 2008
My heart felt condolences to Mr. M's family at this trying time. He was aways a riot to be around, making everyone laugh. He will be greatly missed.
Leann Racki
July 12, 2008
Marge and Family,
I was shocked to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you deal with your grief and life without John.
CHRISTOPHER Matteson Sr
July 12, 2008
I did not have Mr. M for any classes, but he was always there for me when I was in the nurses office after I broke my neck he always but a smile on my face and would tell me to always look up ( even though I could not with a neck brace on ha ha MR. M god bless and many thanks.
Heather Gayton
July 12, 2008
John has truly touched so many hearts with his smile, laughter, and gift of music. To John, everyone had the potential to be something great. To him, we were all great because he loved each and every one of us just the way we were without any strings attached. He always made time to say hello or offer kind words. He was a fabulous music teacher and my daughter adored him. John came into our lives and left so quickly. However, he left a footprint on our hearts and we will never be the same. He truly made our lives better just because of his presence. Our hearts go out to the Mikulski family. May your memories fill you with laughter.
Danielle Varnell
July 12, 2008
My family and I extend our deepest condolences to the Mikulski family during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. Mr. M was very special to all of us - I will remember his jokes, his smile, and mostly his wonderful encouragement. I pray that one day I can influence my students' lives in the same way he did mine. Mr. M - you will forever missed and forever remembered.
July 12, 2008
John welcomed my daughter into his
family and made her feel so loved, like one of his own. The legacy left behind by this special man shows in all three of his wonderful sons and in his beautiful granddaughter. There may be people on this earth as sweet and nice, but none sweeter, nor none nicer! I count myself as one of the lucky ones to have known him, though it was much too brief. John was definitely the top of the top, the best of the best, and will be missed deeply by all who knew him and were touched by him.
Margie, John, Becky, Sophia, Rick and Andy, you are in my heart, and my love and prayers are with you all!
Carol Dziewa
Jim Martino
July 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss.
I have many wonderful memories of Mr. Mikulski from when I was in band at OACS. It doesn't seem that long ago.
(Class of '83)
Sarah (Skeet) Norway
July 12, 2008
Mr. Mikulski, you will be missed so much by everyone whose lives you touched with your gift of music. May you be a melodic angel in heaven.
Scott Grefrath
July 12, 2008
If anyone knows how to contact the family tell them I would be honored to sing at the funeral.
Scott Grefrath (585) 356-1744
OA 1992
Renee Loeffen (O'Brien)
July 12, 2008
Margie, John, Rick and Andy,
I am so sorry for your loss. John was one in a million. Growing up we always enjoyed seeing the big conversion van pull up to the house because we knew John would have some stories to tell us and make us laugh. Wishing you all peace and strength in the coming months.
Love,
Renee Loeffen (O'Brien)
Vicki (Sturgeon)Showler
July 12, 2008
This came as a shock when my son told me this morning. He was a great person, always a joy to be with and an easy person to talk to. He will be missed by many. My prayers are with the family, I am sorry for your loss. We all lost a great person.
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