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Debbra Cole Obituary

COLE - Debbra Ann Twardowski July 15, 2008, loving mother of Kathryn; dearest daughter of Richard and Dolores Twardowski; dear sister of Richard and Joseph (Marilyn); also survived by aunts, uncles and nieces. Funeral from the KOLANO FUNERAL HOME, 396 Amherst St. (near Grant) Saturday 9 AM and Assumption Church at 9:30. Friends are invited. Family will be present Friday 4-8 PM.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jul. 17 to Jul. 18, 2008.

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Peter Thijssen

August 18, 2025

Known her and her brothers from a holiday back in 1971 in the netherlands. Nice person

Lester Bluefire

August 11, 2008

So a little wren tapped the shoulder of Debbra one cool day and whispered the intentions of the earth and the moon.
Debbra danced across the Texas tundra, flew through the falls of a Niagran mist and built a Buffalo out of Indian dreams.
She lived life...swell.
Well...let us not cry, but emote joy for a girl, a gal who took, gave, loved, laughed and affected our souls in the days of her flight and came to rest early.
So we smile. Yes, life is short. Dammit man...here's to Debbra!

William Martens

August 9, 2008

hey Katie,

I know there's nothing i can say that hasn't been said already, but I'm sorry you lost your mom, and I can't do much, but if you need anything, let me know...

Your old friend
-Bill M.

Sarah Jane

July 22, 2008

Dear Katie:
I cannot express how sorry I am that your mother is gone. I, too, lost my mother when I was young. I know that God is granting you the grace you need to learn and grow through this change in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sarah Velarde

July 20, 2008

Katie,
I'm so sorry about your mom. I know it's hard to lose a loved one, but I hope you know they are never truly gone. I'm sure your mom is with you right now. Stop by to talk any time you want. You and your family are in my prayers. Love ya

Toni Taber

July 19, 2008

Dearest Kathryn,
You could not have asked for a better "Mom". I worked with Debbra for years. Within this time-frame, for two different companies. The job may have changed, but Debbra's focus in life never did, it was always on you. I (we) always looked forward to hearing your dear Mother speak of you. Her face would light up and more so than not, the story she told in apparent delight was humorous and with loving thoughts of you. Debbra loved being your Mom. She was a loving, caring person & she was also a lot of fun to be around too. I simply trust she has instilled in you her wonderful ways and will be close to you in heart forever. May God Bless you and hold you dear always.

Louie Nordbye

July 19, 2008

We once sailed together Debbra, Katie and I.

It may seem you are alone now Katie but she will be with you, keeping the wind in your sails, keeping you on course. Love, Louie

Zachary Lancaster

July 19, 2008

Katie, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. She was a great woman. You are in my prayers.

Mario Williams

July 19, 2008

Katie,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Know that you're in my prayers and if there's anything I can do, just ask me. Don't worry she's still watching over you...
love you always

Mario Williams & Adrianne Mostiller

Sharla Peek (Hurley)

July 18, 2008

Sorry for your loss, even though I had only met Debbie a few times she made me feel like family and always showed she cared. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

July 18, 2008

Dearest Katie and Mr. & Mrs. Twardowski,
We are all so truly sorry for your loss. Our love and prayers are with you at this time and always. Katie, please know that your mother has been and always will be with you by your side...in our thoughts, our words, and our hearts. We love you Katie!

Jim and Mary Ellen Jordan
~and the boys.

Jill Degener

July 18, 2008

Katie; My heart goes out to you... Your mom with always be in mine and Jakes prayers

Phil, Ruth & Alana Hromchak

July 18, 2008

Rich, Dolly & Katie-

We send our love and prayers at this time of need. Debbie is looking down from heaven - god bless.

Marci Hurley

July 17, 2008

Richard, Delores and Katie We are so sorry for your loss. Debbie was definitely part of our family also and we all loved her. She will be greatly missed. Love the Hurley Family

Richard Scardina (NTC)

July 17, 2008

Katie:
My heart goes out to you for your loss. I will miss your Mom and the stories about you and the family. I can only say to never feel your Mom is not with you and never forget the great times you had with her.
Rest in peace Deb the pain is finally gone.

Lisa Gallivan

July 17, 2008

Katie, we are deeply sorry to hear that your mom passed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Gallivan Family,
Dennis, Lisa, Brenan and Ryan

David Fern

July 17, 2008

Debbie:

I remember all the times we talked through the fence when I lived on Grote St. and the great times at Assumption. I pray that you are sitting up in heaven looking down on all of us and seeing everyone who cared about you as you touched many a life.

Rich and Dolores:

My deepest sympathy to you and the rest of your family. Debbie was a great school time friend. I will let my Mother, Estelle, know about it.

With deepest sympathy,

David Fern

Mary Ellen Marlette

July 17, 2008

Kathryn,
So sorry to hear about your mom, what cool lady she was. I am pretty sure she's up there talking the wings off of somebody about you. You and your family are in our prayers.

Mary Ann (Peszko) Barone & Sharilyn Kiebzak

July 17, 2008

Twardowski Family and Katie,
We knew Deb as our Assumption Grammar School classmate and haven't seen here since our reunion in 1996. Our thoughts are with you all in your loss.

DAWN VELARDE

July 17, 2008

Katie,

We're so sorry to hear about your Mom. I wish I had the right words to ease your pain and sorrow. Always remember you can call or stop by anytime. Sometimes talking to someone who has also faced a loss can be helpful. We're here for you and keep you in our prayers.

Love, Velarde family
Dave, Dawn, Jeff & Sarah

Paula Walter

July 17, 2008

It was just Monday when we last talked and then Tuesday you are gone. You were to young to die. I pray for you, your mon and dad, and for Katie. She was the true love of your life! Rest in peace my friend.

July 17, 2008

Warm Summer Sun

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.

By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation

THE MOSERS FAMILY RESERVATION ST

July 17, 2008

DEBBIE

TOO YOUNG TOO SOON. YOU ALWAYS SEEMED SO FULL OF LIFE, I CAN NOT BELIEVE YOU ARE GONE. JUST THE OTHER DAY YOU WERE WALKING THE DOGS OR THEY WERE WALKING YOU.
GOD HAS CHOSEN YOU TO BE WITH HIM WE WILL NEVER KNOW WHEN OUR TIME IS HERE,OR WHY BUT IT WAS YOUR TIME, SO REST NOW AND SLEEP WITH THE ANGLES.

Gary Ewert Sr.

July 17, 2008

No one loved her family and friends more than Deb,and that love was returned.We are all so sorry you had to leave us so soon.

Sam & Mercedez Hromchak

July 17, 2008

Rich and Dolores, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your daughter Debbra. May she have eternal rest in her heavenly home. May our Lord bless all of you during this difficult time.

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