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Mary Bonitati Obituary

BONITATI - Mary Rene (nee Galvin) Of Sloan, NY, died July 17, 2008 after a long courageous fight against lung/brain cancer; beloved wife of Anthony; cherished mother of Kristy, Joseph (Diane), Brian and Andrew Bonitati; loving grandmother of Alisea and Kylie; beloved daughter of Mary (late James) Galvin; dearest sister of Julia (Robert) Coyle, Cynthia Galvin and James (Cathy) Galvin; daughter-in-law of Joseph (Alice) Bonitati; sister-in-law of John (Cheryl) Bonitati and Marc (Lynn) Bonitati; also survived by many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins. Funeral Services commencing at the DANIEL R. SMOLAREK FUNERAL HOME, 2510 Union Rd., Cheektowga (2 blocks south of William St.) Monday morning at 8:45 and at Queen of Martyrs Church at 9:30. Family will be present to receive friends Sunday 2-9 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospice Buffalo.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jul. 19 to Jul. 20, 2008.

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Sue Pogorzelski

July 23, 2008

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to the Bonitati family in the loss of your wife, mother, friend, daughter, sister and friend. Mary was both a model mother to her children as well as my two children, Danny and Kelly; she treated them like they were her own.
I was blessed to be a part of the Bonitati family while I lived on Jackson Street. Mary was my confidante and best friend; I'll miss her. I’ll always remember Mary for her world famous pizzelle cookies. My heart and prayers are with your family in this time of sorrow.

Gigi Jankowski

July 23, 2008

Mary was a kind and gentle soul who showed patience with me as a new realtor that I will remember always. She was gracious and just plain nice. I'm very saddened by her passing and I'm sure she's watching over her family now.

Joseph Bonitati

July 22, 2008

Dad,
I just wanted to let you know how much I look up to you now more than ever. Everything you have been through, especially the past couple months, in taking precious care of mom, (and doing an AMAZING job) and still staying strong and being there for us your children. I cannot express how thankful I am to have you as a father. Your an amazing man, always have been and always will be. Mom would be so proud of how you kept us all together in the toughest time of our lives. Please know that we are here for you just as much as you are here for us. Thank you for everything. We love you so much.
Love, Joe

Mary Beth Orsolits

July 21, 2008

Don and I are very sorry to hear of the passing of Mary. We are in New Mexico and it was on my E mail. Mary Beth and Don Orsolits Crescent Beach

Denise Reinhardt

July 21, 2008

Dear Alisea and Kylie;

Your Mimi's time here on earth was merely a "Precious Moment". Always remember her love for you both is truly everlasting.

Aunt Denise

Nancy Brown

July 21, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the entire family on such a great loss. Mary was a wonderful person and it was a privelege to know and work with her. Please find comfort in your memories and knowing Mary is at peace.

Tammy Rydza

July 21, 2008

Our dear family,
Words cannot express how sorry we are about Mary's passing. She was a very strong and courageous woman who fought a long and intense battle. Our hope for you all is that soon these recent sad memories will be replaced with those of much happier times. Our thoughts and prayers remain with you all at this most difficult time.
With much love and deepest sympathy, Tammy, Kyle and Ryan

Darcey Stotz

July 20, 2008

I feel very privileged to have known Mary over the past few years. Mary is one of thee most geniune people I've ever met. Her poise and dignity in dying has hopefully taught us all how precious and fleeting life is and how we should conduct our lives. My prayers will remain constant for you, Tony, and your amazing children.

Mary Certo

July 20, 2008

Bonitati Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mary was the kindest and most gentle person and I know she will be missed by all who knew her. I will always consider her my friend. My god bless you all in your time of sorrow.

Thomas Glomb

July 20, 2008

I did not have the pleasure of knowing the Bonitati family for very long before Mary fell ill and regret missing all of the good times I have heard about. I did, however, witness how they lived these days when life became seemingly too hard to manage. In every instance I saw them, they were strong for each other and brave for the rest of us. They should be proud not only of Mary and the tremendous courage she displayed, but of how they have handled themselves with dignity and grace throughout these trials. I stand in awe of their character and pray that they find solace in the peace that Mary has found.

miriam treger

July 20, 2008

i am so sorry for your loss. Mary was always a pleasure to chat with at work and well loved. she will be missed.

Tom Brennan

July 20, 2008

To the Bonitati Family:
Our deepest sympaty is with your
whole family.We will keep you in our
prayers.God Bless All !!
Tom & Samantha
Brennan & Family

Emma Pfeiffer

July 19, 2008

To the Bonitati Family: I send my deepest sympanies. Mary was the most kind, gentle, and giving person I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. I feel so fortunate to have known her both as a friend and secretary. She is at rest with her Jesus now. God Bless you all.

Barb and Chris Keller

July 19, 2008

Kristy,
You know that my heart is breaking for you. Your mom fought so hard because she wanted to be a part of so much in the past months, and she was. Even though she is not here physically with you, always feel that she is right by your side.

Kimberly & Timothy Salerno Hunter

July 19, 2008

Dear Family,
We want you to know that we are holding you deeply in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. We love you very much.
Kim, Tim & Luke Salerno Hunter

Lora Ridlespurg

July 19, 2008

For all of the smiles and laughs you brought to me every morning at work, I have, and will miss you deeply. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Toni Shahak

July 19, 2008

Dear Tony and familyand Aunt Alice and Uncle Joe,

We are so sorry that we can't be with you at this time. Please know that you are always in our hearts and prayers. Mary was a wonderful human being who shared her love of life with everyone she met. We will hold those memories in our hearts forever as well.

All our love,

Toni and Family

Bertha Rosati

July 19, 2008

Dear Bonitati family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your loved ones. I am sorry for your loss.

Francine and Bruce Pleskow

July 19, 2008

My dear cousins, we are very sorry that Mary is gone.
She leaves behind a beautiful legacy of children. She must have been so proud of you all, it's no wonder she fought so hard to live. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Francine, Bruce ,Aaron, Brendan, Jordan and Uncle Fran

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