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Kim Opoka Obituary

OPOKA - Kim (nee Schoelles) July 17, 2008 of Town of Tonawanda, NY; beloved wife of Bernard J. Opoka; loving mother of Ashley and Robert; dear daughter of Donna and the late Robert Schoelles; dear sister of Debbie Schoelles and Robin McMullen; sister-in-law of Michael (Patricia) Opoka; loving companion of Dante; also survived by aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. Friends may call Saturday and Sunday 3-8 PM at the LESTER H. WEDEKINDT INC., FUNERAL HOME, 3290 Delaware Ave. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Timothys Church (East Park Dr.) Monday at 11:00. Kim was a life time member and past President of the Sheridan Park Volunteer Fire Company. Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice Foundation.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jul. 19 to Jul. 20, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Kim Opoka

17 Entries

Sandra Scarpena

July 17, 2018

My Dear Kim,

I think of you all the time! Thank you for visiting me often in my dreams, it's nice when we are together again. I'm thinking about you especially today, on the anniversary of your death. All the wonderful times we shared, and all summer fun will remain apart of me as long as I live. Missing you always.

Love,

Your Sandy :)

Lisa Hague-Pasiak

August 8, 2008

I was so lucky that I had Kim in my life we worked at Pizza Hut together for about 7 years together and she was my right hand. She always helped out and was dedicated and honest, we used to have so much fun we would play jokes on each other. Remember Vach he would play the most jokes on Kim, by hiding things on her all the time. I was so gald that I was able to see her (only acouple of times before she passed), but she was still the same Kim, I know she was worried about her kids always, her life was being lived for her kids, she loved you guys. The people that had come to know Kim Know that she was one of the best people on this earth, and she will be missed dearly. I think of her everyday, and remember all the good times we had with a little chuckle. I wish the best for her family and the kids. Kim will always be in my heart because she touch me she was a great friend. I'll miss her alot. Remember Kim you are loved by alot of people! And well deserved.

Kim Opoka

August 7, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived
okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here
is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up
and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.

There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for
me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's
chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life
on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not
be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But
one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a
time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will
give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day
was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the
way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick
him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember
you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Debbie Schoelles

August 7, 2008

This is to all my sisters friends and aquaintences. She was the best, my sister,my bestfriend I miss her terribly everyday. I want to thank you all for being in her life, for being her friends and for touching her life. She truly loved you all, and you all know who you are. I want to thank Sheridan Park Fire Company for fullfilling her dream of following in her fathers footsteps as a firefighter. She truly did at one time love that company. I don't know what more to say other than thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything you have all been to her, for making her life just a little more special. She will be greatly missed and NEVER forgotten !!!!

Jim Kerr

August 6, 2008

My Dearest Kimmy,
I, as most others will be fighting back tears as I write this. Your time here was cut too short. I will miss you. My fondest memories go back almost 30 years. I will never forget the good old days with the Gang at the Slipped Disco and Military Grill. Those days were the best. I will also never forget the look on your face the day I was able to tell you that after several attempts, you had become a member of the Fire Company. It was an honor to be the one to tell you, and as a member I can say that you will be truely missed. Weekends at the Lake, Bowling Touranments, Fish Frys and too many other activities to mention would not have been the same without you.
May you now Rest in Peace, and Please say Hi to Billy for me...

Jay Trietley

July 26, 2008

Ben, Donna & Debbie,

I was so sorry to hear of Kim's illness and eventual passing...I have many memories of us growing up together at Mil-Sher Lanes...Those were the days! Kim touched many people in her short life and my wife even recalled her infectious laugh...She accomplished many great things in her life and her family was I am sure the greatest...All of you are in my prayers during these difficult times.

Samuel & Mary Manfredo

July 23, 2008

It was always great to see Kim greet us with her smiling face at Save-A-Lot. She always took the time to say hello and ask how we were doing. As elderly people in our mid-eighties, it's hard to except a young, beautiful person dieing so young. We hold many fond memories of Kim and our daughter Sandra (Sandy) as they grew up together sharing life to it's fullest and getting into mischief at every turn. They were the best of friends. The memory of Kim will remain apart of us forever. We will miss her. Our deepest heartfelt condolences goes out to all the family. May God's peace surround all of you during this very time difficult time.

With Sympathy,
Betty & Sam Manfredo

Kathy & Jamie Rider

July 23, 2008

To all the members of Kim's family, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Husbands & children should lnot loose their wife/ mother so young and no parent should ever suffer the death of their child. I know that Kim will be missed by all who loved her. The volunteer fire service has lost a couragous pioneer. Keep the good memories alive and she will always be with you.

Gary Stuff

July 22, 2008

Ben,
Very sorry for your loss, Kim will be greatly missed around the lanes and other functions. She was always a pleasure to be around. Will keep you and your family in our prayers. The Stuff's

Jocelyn Parker

July 22, 2008

Dear Benji-I'm so sorry to hear about Kim. My heart goes out to you and the kids. Kerry always told me how the two of you were doing. Remember always the wonderful memories that you both had. I will keep you in my prayers. With all my love-Jocey

Jamie and Dick Gleason

July 22, 2008

Dear Bernie and Family,

We are very sorry for your loss. It's hard to know what to say at this sad time because your loss is so great and because Kim will be missed in so many ways. No amount of time can prepare us for a loss and no one can fully understand your sorrow. But even though no words can truly comfort you, perhaps they can in some small way express the care and concern that's felt for you now. Many hearts are with you, hoping you will have the strength you need to see you through this difficult time. May memories keep Kim always in your heart and mind. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Jamie & Dick

Jennifer McKeel-Aranyosi

July 21, 2008

Debbie & Family,
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Love and Blessings,
Jen

Sandra Scarpena

July 21, 2008

Dear Kim~
You were apart of my life for many years. I think of all the happy times we shared growing up togehter. We shared our geratest joys and deepest hurts. Revealed the secrets of our soul. Understood each other silence. Counted on each other when times were tough. Our friendship was loyal to a fault. The day we reunited was the best, it was like no time had past. We shared stories and our hopes for tomorrow. It meant so much, only you and I would know how much. Looking back on all the happy times we shared, there are non to compare. As I write this I'm fighting back my tears. As you wished, I granted you your yellow roses. I dedicate this special flower to our friendship, love, warmth and the greatest of memories. Rest in peace my beloved friend. I miss you. You will always be in my heart forever.

Dear Debbie ~
Thank you for being such a wonderful sister and friend. Kim express her appreciation and Love for you often to me. Everything was beautiful.

Dear Mom Schoelles ~
It was amazing seeing you again and talking about our memories. As always listening to your wisdom ispired me. I love you. I wish all of the family strength, peace & love.

With Love & Compasion,

Sandy Manfredo Scarpena~

tara penfold

July 21, 2008

Kim was such a great lady, I enjoyed many times sitting with her watching the kids play baseball. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Christopher Zunner

July 20, 2008

Such fond memories of growing up with "cousin" Kim and family visiting on summer weekends. She always glowed with such a wonderful smile. My love, prayers and condolences to her whole family.

Tracy Trach

July 19, 2008

Kim was a wonderful person and friend! Although we lost touch over the past few years, I've thought of her often, and will continue to do so.
She will always be my "Officer Olio".
I Love you!!
To the family, My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. May your memories of her help you get through.

Mary Frankino

July 19, 2008

Dear Pat and Michael, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

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