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Floyd Heckman Obituary

HECKMAN - Floyd B. Age 68, of the city of Tonawanda, unexpectedly July 23, 2008 at Kenmore Mercy Hospital. Loving husband of 38 years to Nona L. (nee Goff) Heckman; loving father of Tara L. (Paul) Scolese and Lynn M. (Matthew) Burke; loving Papa of William F., Meghan M., Morghan L. and Caiden M. Burke; son of the late Jacob S. and Sylvia Heckman, brother of Bessie (late Frederick) Barber, Helena (Donald) Wattam, Jacob S. (Lillian) Heckman, Blanche (Thomas) Gipp, Robert (late Jenny) Heckman, Priscilla (late Norman) Bisher, Sylvia (Joseph) Malinowski and the late Helen Sexton and Jewel (late Theodore) Fox, brother-in-law of Thaddeus Sexton, Kenneth (late Jean) Goff, Ronald (Aeolah) Goff, Richard Goff, Marjorie (Robert) Thompson, Joyce (James) Haines, Joan (Paul) Pascoe, Nina (Donald) Sullivan, James (Josephine) Goff and the late Clyde, Carl and Leslie Goff. Also survived by 86 nieces and nephews. Friends may call Saturday and Sunday from 2-4 and 6-8 PM at JOHN O. ROTH FUNERAL HOME, INC., 25 William St. (between Morgan and Broad Sts) in Tonawanda. Funeral services will be held Monday at 10 AM in Tonawanda Free Methodist Church, 207 Grove St. in Tonawanda. Friends invited. Burial in Elmlawn Cemetery.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jul. 26 to Jul. 27, 2008.

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Kathy Andrews

August 5, 2008

Dear Lynn, Matt, William, Meghan, Morghan and Caiden, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. You are a wonderful family who will get through this storm with the love you all have for each other. All my love.

Nancy (Haines) Yenser

August 1, 2008

Aunt Nona, Tara, and Lynn,
I am so sorry to hear of Uncle Fats passing. He was such a great uncle. He was so happy always. I have many fond memories of family events when he would spend his time with us kids playing! He will be truly missed!!

Kelly (McNally) Meyers

July 30, 2008

Mrs. Heckman and Family,
I know you do not know me, but I would like to offer my sincere condolences to all of you. My Mom was Sally McNally from Roadway and over the many years she worked there I heard the name Floyd Heckamn many many times in her stories. Losing someone you love so much so quickly hurts terribly, I know, but I hope you all find comfort in your friends and family at this difficult time. Take care and know he is with you always.

Joan Pascoe

July 29, 2008

I am so proud to call you my brother-in-law. I know Nona will miss you terribly as will your daughters, sons-in-laws and grandchildren. I will cherish the memories of our many Thanksgivings together...they were so great. Thank you for the wonderful memories and I will miss you forever.

Heather Blasius (Drees)

July 29, 2008

Lynn and family:
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I just heard and am thinking about all of you. I spent alot of time with Floyd in my highschool years and he was truly a great man. My sincere condolences to all of the family.

Judith MacDonald

July 28, 2008

Dearest Nona, Lynn, Matt, Tara, Paul, Will, Meghan, Morghan, Caiden,
What a wonderful man Papa was! He was a super friend, staunch supporter, and confident. He will be missed so much-Nothing will ever quite be the same.
Love,
Mimi

Jennifer Rauth-Piper

July 28, 2008

Tara & Lynn,

I am so sorry for your sudden loss of of your Father. Great, great man. I know you have thousands of cherished memories with your Dad, keep them close to your heart, it will put a smile on your face and get you through those hard times. He will be sadly missed. Go Bills!

Love & God Bless,
Jennifer Rauth-Piper

Derrick Pizur

July 27, 2008

Wow I don't know what to say. These past few days have been really tough, but I try to think of all the good times I had with Floyd.

I looked at him like a second father, he means so much to me. He took the time to teach me how to drive and always was around for advice or to just to talk.

I will never forget the endless conversations about the Bills, the one fantasy football draft where Floyd picked all Bills players and going with him to get the old Bills seats when they were remodeling the stadium.

I don't think watching a Bills game will ever be the same but I know Floyd will make sure he has the best seat in the house, cheering as loud as ever.

Mary McCullough

July 27, 2008

Our sympathy to you and your family, Nona.

Tom & Mary Zimmerman McCullough

Krista Fischer

July 27, 2008

Entire Heckman Family,
There is no doubt that your husband, father, grandfather will be missed by all of you. My Tuesday & Friday mornings will never be the same, he was a kind, gentle man who loved his family. I will always remember how he had to buy "snacks" for all the kids. My sincere condolences to you all.

Paul Scolese

July 27, 2008

Floyd
We met 7 years ago.It was a good 7 years. Bills games,free comp meals and gambling at the casino.Christmas and late night snack runs after you already ate your supper.Nobody can fall asleep with there hand in a bag of potato chips like you could and wake up choking like you could.Its nice to know that one man can give so much to everybody as evidenced by the people who come to pay tribute to a fine man.Go Bills and have a great day.Thank You for the pleasure of having known you.As you would say thank you for sharing my day with me.

Lynn Burke

July 27, 2008

Daddy- I am so lost without you. There is not 1 minute that goes by that i do not think about you. I know the Bills will have an angel on the field with them. I miss you and love you. you were my best friend and my life. The kids will be lost without you at every function or just you big hugs and phone calls. They love you so much. You are the best Papa ever. Rest in Piece Papa and Daddy. We love you and miss you terribly.

Matt Burke

July 26, 2008

It’s unbelievable how one man can touch so many lives. I met Floyd three years after the loss of my own father. Not only did I get to marry the love-of-my-life, but I also gained a new father. He was everything a father should and could be. I’ll miss you Dad – Go Bills!!!

rena cino

July 26, 2008

dear nona and family,
so very sorry for your loss-my prayers are with you all. love,rena cino & family,

Kristen Skobjak

July 26, 2008

Lynn,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. From what I can remember of your dad only meeting him a fews times back in high school...the relationship the two of you shared was an amazing one. Please know that I am thinking about you. Kristen Skobjak

Peter Horn

July 26, 2008

The Odd Couples was an interesting group of people of which Floyd was an intricate part. For eleven years our once a month meeeting was a means for our friendship to grow. Listening to Floyd talk about his daughters and grandchildren on the way to the meetings you would become as enthused about their accomplishments as he was. He was infectious with his joy.
I was to blessed know him and call him my friend.
I know his new job will be coaching the Bills. "GO BILLS"

Robert Gaynor

July 26, 2008

Dear Nona and Family,mere words can not express my emotions. Floyd was like a father to me.We bonded the first time we met. I knew he was a great guy from day one. Floyd was the first patiet that I thought I ever helped. He helped form me into the physician I am today. I am a better person today because of Floyd. He will be missed greatly. Bills games will not be the same but Floyd will be there cheering them on! So we all need to raise our glasses high to toast The #1 Bills Fan Ever! Love Rob , Janice and all our children.

Tim, Sharon, Jessica, Katie & Jimmy Stuart

July 25, 2008

How fortunate our family has been to have known and been loved by such a great man. The depth of his devotion to his family, and "adopted" families, had no boundaries. We will love you and miss you always. Rest in peace Papa.....

Gary Sullivan

July 25, 2008

Maybe I'm still in Shock, but I still think I'm going to see him at the home opener. It's starting to set in though, and it really sucks! My wife has only seen me cry 3 times in 7 years and 2 of them were this week. I will miss my Uncle Fats more than I ever even thought about. Later old man... I'll miss you SO MUCH !!

Eric Sharp

July 25, 2008

I spent many nights working late at SK, and Floyd was one of the main reasons it was bearable. His encouraging and lovable demeanor were always present. Even in the short time i knew him, i could tell his deep love for his family and his Buffalo Bills. He was always in a chipper mood and will remain as a memory with me for a long time

Crystal Dowdall

July 25, 2008

Aunt Nona, Tara, Lynn and families,
You have my deepest sympathies. I will always remember his smiling face, his laughter, and his kind heart. He will be missed. I will never forget him.

Cindy

July 25, 2008

Floyd,
Thankyou for being a part of my life.

Lindsay Mang

July 25, 2008

Mrs. Heckman, Tara, Paul, Lynn, Matt, and Kids:

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family! We are all going to miss him so very much! Every memory I have of Mr. Heckman is a happy one! He truly was one of a kind. We will always keep him in our hearts!

Love-Lindsay & Jeremy Mang

Marilyn Ryan-Calfee

July 25, 2008

To The Heckman Family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of Fats. I'll always remember him and the times he and my father would go to the Bill's games.

Brian, Suzette, Rylee, Brick and Aiden Harpe

July 25, 2008

We are very sad to hear about your loss. Floyd made everyone laugh and smile with his contagious sense of humor. I am truly grateful for having him be a father and friend to my family. We are sending lots of hugs and kisses to you all and may the love of your family comfort you. God Bless.

Grant & Sheila Wolcott

July 25, 2008

Nona and Tara,
I am so sorry and so sad to hear of your loss. I know there are no words that can make it better, but just want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Jeeves

July 25, 2008

Please except my deepest sympathy. Floyd will always be in my fondest memories. The Science Kit warehouse crew will always remember his kindness.

Kathy Goff

July 25, 2008

Aunt Nona,
My thoughts and prayers are with you now. Uncle Fats was such a special person, always laughing and joking with all. He will be sorely missed.
With all my love,

Kris and Jason Balling

July 25, 2008

Floyd was like a 2nd father to us. He was "Papa Floyd" to our kids. He was one of a kind! When Nikolas had chocolate stains on his shirt, we knew Papa Floyd picked him up from pre-K that day! We will always remember his charming sarcasm. We will cherish all the memories we shared, especially the Bills games. We love and miss you! Go Bills! Love, Jason, Kris, Hope and Nikolas Balling

Jack and Terri Fletcher

July 24, 2008

Nona, Tara, Lynn and families,
We were so sorry to hear of Floyd's passing. He was such a good ,kind hearted man and loved by every kid who knew him (especially Andy who would seek him out when he wanted to get away with something). He will be missed by so many people. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Love,
Jack and Terri

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