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Eileen OBrien Obituary

OBRIEN - Eileen M. (nee Sullivan) August 2, 2008, beloved wife of Philip F.; cherished mother of William (Veronica), Donald (Susan), James (Kathleen), Mary (David) Vogl, Jean (Philip) Pantano, Kathleen (Raymond) Burgess and Elizabeth OBrien; dear sister of Bette (John) Fuhrmann and the late John and Eugene Sullivan; loving grandmother of 20 grandchildren. Friends received on Monday and Tuesday from 4-8 PM at the NIGHTENGALE FUNERAL HOME, 1884 South Park Ave. (near Tifft) where services will be held on Wednesday at 8:45 AM followed by a Mass of Christian Burial from St. Ambrose Church at 9:30 AM. Friends invited. In lieu of flowers, contributions to Hospice Buffalo appreciated. Eileen was an active member of St. Ambrose Parish. Interment in Holy Cross Cemetery.

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Published by Buffalo News from Aug. 4 to Aug. 5, 2008.

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Ann Enger

August 26, 2008

Elizabeth and family,

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Our thoughts are with you.

Love, Ann

Kim Lickfeld

August 21, 2008

Dear Jean, Mary and families,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. You have been in our thoughts and prayers. May your fond memories comfort you during this difficult time.
Love,
Jack and Kim Lickfeld

Tim and Laura Stark

August 14, 2008

O'Brien Family,
Our deepest condolences to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dan Robinson

August 12, 2008

To Jean and your dear family....our hearts and prayers are with you

Anne Lopus

August 8, 2008

Dear Phil and Family, I'm sorry to say I did not learn of Eileen's passing until last nite. I so regret I did not get to extend my sincere sympathy to all of you in person, but please know I do feel so sad for your loss. In our days at Mt. Mercy we had so many fun and memorable times. I had just attended Kathy McGuire's wake and funeral and I was told Eileen was just going into Hospice, I should have been more alert. My prayers are with all of you to find strength and courage in the coming days and weeks. I will always remember that very Irish smile and strawberry blonde hair and her wonderful sense of humor.

Kate Lynch

August 7, 2008

To the O'Brien family
Your mom's passing was a sad day but alwayls know that memories of her will make people smile always.
Mike and Kate Lynch and family

joseph patterson

August 5, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sharon Lamb

August 5, 2008

Don and Family:
You have my deepest sympathy with the passing of your loved one. GOD BLESS!

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Chris Serafin

August 5, 2008

Mary and Family:

So sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy.

Frank Giaretto

August 5, 2008

To the O'Brien Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My condolences.

Matt & Mary Beth Sullivan

August 5, 2008

Dear Bill, Veronica, Don and the entire O'Brien Clan:
We're sending prayers and thoughts to you all during this difficult time. As time passes, the sorrow will slowly be replaced with smiles and laughter as you recall your Mom and the legacy of love she left for all the O'Briens.

Jennifer Louth CAP

August 5, 2008

Liz:
My deepest sympathy to you during this difficult time. Your IAAP friends send their prayers and support.

joann fisher

August 5, 2008

I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone. From the beginning to the end First our birth and then our passing but the most important thing is how we spend the little dash in between! Eileens dash has been well spent bringing happines to so many. I WILL MISS YOU MY DEAR FRIEND. Mrs. Fisher

Kate Fields

August 5, 2008

Don, you have my deepest sympathy on the passing of your mother. You children are a wonderful testament to her memory.

Kelly Havernick(chrzanowski)

August 4, 2008

Kathy and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I have known her since I was a little girl and have always loved her. She was a wonderful women, and will be missed. I can't say I know what your going through, but know I will always be here for you. Your memories of your mom will get you through this difficult time.

Sarah Di Natale

August 4, 2008

To the O'Brien family:

I remember Eileen from our employment with the Buffalo Board of Education, from bowling at Southside Bowling Alley, and from golfing at South Park Golf Course. We had many laughs and good times. She will be sorely missed.

My deepest sympathy to her family.

Patrick Finnegan

August 4, 2008

Don and Family,
My deepest condolences to you for the loss of your mother. May it be of comfort to you that she is at peace.

Sincerely,
Pat Finnegan

Lynn and Wayne Howard

August 4, 2008

Obrien family,
God bless you all in this time of sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Heather Reichmuth

August 4, 2008

Dear Kathy & Family-
We are truly sorry for your loss. Your mom was such a wonderful woman. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. The memories will get you through. We all now have another angel watching over us.

Pam & John Muller

August 4, 2008

Dear O'Brien Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you at this time. May God bless each of you and help you through the days to come.

"Donny O" if there is anything we can do please let us know. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Pam & John

Amanda Currie

August 4, 2008

I wish your family peace and comfort at such a sorrowful time.

Larry and Carole Rasp

August 4, 2008

To Phil and your dear family....our hearts and prayers are with you today as you mourn the loss of someone so close to your hearts....remember the good times...this is what will get you through this difficult time.....sending hugs to all of you....with deepest sympathy,

Lynn Talty-Carsrud

August 4, 2008

O'Brien Family,

I am sorry about your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Marsha Ashton

August 4, 2008

Bill and Family:

Prayers and thoughts have been with you since I first heard of your loss.

Deepest sympathy,

Marsha

Todd & Tina Ashley

August 4, 2008

O'Brien Family;

We are very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Barb Kane

August 4, 2008

Dearest Family,
I will always cherish my special times with Eileen....many talks and many laughs. She was so proud of each one of you...and loved you all dearly. My deepest sympathy.
Love, Barb

Madonna Keane & Family

August 4, 2008

May God bless you in your time of grief and sorrow. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Jackie & Jerry O'Brien

August 4, 2008

To the Whole O'Brien Family: Thinking and praying for all of you during your time of loss. You are a strong family with many, many family and friends that will help you get through this very hard time. We love you all! Love, Jackie, Jerry, Thomas, Camryn and Owen

Jeanne and Dave Roche

August 4, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Veronica O'Brien

August 4, 2008

We will miss you, grandma. We love you.

Amanda, Matt, Megan and Laura

Tom & Ann Sullivan

August 4, 2008

O'Brien Family

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mom was a wonderful woman. Our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you through this difficult time.

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