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for Matthew Aronica
May
August 15, 2024
Rest in peace Little Matty. You will always be thar beautiful Little cousin I shared my childhood with
may Muscarella
August 15, 2023
Rest in Peace beloved cousin
May and Ron Muscarella
August 15, 2022
Remembering you today with love and prayers
Mark Aronica
September 2, 2009
Dad, I meant to post this on father’s day but just couldn’t find the right words at the time. I am still not sure this says all I want to say but here it is anyway. While I will always be grateful that you were able to meet Anthony, sometimes I am angry you couldn’t spend more time with him. I remember you driving up to meet us in the hospital the day he was born. You said, “Isn’t it amazing how much love you feel for a baby even just knowing him for a such a short period of time.”
I didn’t want to say anything, because at the time I didn’t understand what you meant. In fact it took a while for me to feel that way. I’m not sure why and I am not sure if other father’s feel this way but the bond you spoke of, between Anthony and me, did not develop for some time. Don’t get me wrong, its not that I didn’t have any feelings for Anthony or that I didn’t care for him, I just didn’t feel that bond you seemed to describe the day of his birth. Yes, I was overjoyed at his delivery, happy we had a healthy baby, happy that Katy did so well during the delivery, but the strong bond just didn’t seem to develop right away.
Perhaps it was the fact that I could play little role in his care during his infancy. After all, he was breast-fed and for the most part all I could do was roll over when he cried, while Katy held and nurtured him. Perhaps it was the time we spent apart so that you could spend more time with him. During your illness, Katy decided to stay in Buffalo for two weeks while I had to return to work. I know you enjoyed that time with Anthony, because you told me so. During the rest of your illness I often returned to Buffalo, without Katy, to help, it was a difficult time for all but I don’t regret the time I spent with you.
Over a year has passed now since you left and Anthony continues to grow. Each day he would do something new was like another window opening in my heart. Every little smile and gesture, every babble and scream. Then one day, out of the blue, came an awareness and recognition. There are many unforgettable moments I have with Anthony, but there are two that are ingrained deep in my memory. Two memories I will never forget and made an indelible impression on me. The first came one morning; Anthony awoke and was calling and crying, trying to get our attention. I walked upstairs and opened the door to his bedroom, he was standing in his crib and he immediately stopped crying when he saw me, and with a smile and a stray tear still on his face he pointed his finger at me and said ‘da’.
The second came a few weeks later; Anthony was crawling pretty well, not just the army crawl that he seemed to enjoy so much, but actually getting up on hands and knees. I went to pick him up from his daycare on the first nice day of summer. I walked in and all the kids were outside playing. I signed the paper stating I was picking Anthony up and walked outside to the play yard. Anthony turned and saw me and then let out this big scream and came crawling towards me as fast as he could, stopping to sit in front of me and reaching his arms up, waiting for me to pick him up.
I think back to that first day in the hospital, you said to me, “I think you’re going to be a great Dad.” I was unsure then, and still worry about it now, but I know that the love I feel for Anthony is like nothing I’ve ever felt before. I realize now what you were saying that day. I think of Anthony everyday, especially when I am not around him. Just as I think of you every day since you have left. I look forward to the day I can feel the love that a Grandparent has for his grandchildren. But I know the love a parent has for a child, the love a Father has for his Son. I will always do my best to make you proud and I strive to be as Great of a Dad as you were.
Much Love,
Mark
May Muscarella
August 18, 2009
AUGUST 19, 2009
Remembering you with love my cousin, "Little Matty"-gone so soon.
In contemplative moments, we mourn the
doors of our childhood that are closed forever, but through the memories we keep, we are able to embrace our blessed past in an idyllic setting: our mothers in their kitchens, our fathers in their new cars, our garden with its flawless vegetables,four cousins drawing with chalk on battered sidewalks in front of the big house on Busti Avenue. Rest in Peace dear cousin and God bless and keep you until we all play together in the garden of the Lord.
Love, Maymie
May Muscarella
June 6, 2009
Happy 67th birthday to my cousin, "Little Matty".
"Where is the heart that doth not keep,
Within its inmost core
Some fond remembrances hidden deep
Of days that are no more." (from Howarth's "Tis but a Little Flower").
Recollections of a wonderful childhood with Donna Lou, Matty, Michael and Maymie in the big house on Busti Avenue.
Love Maymie
June 5, 2009
Today is your birthday, but you are not here. I know you live on in the hearts of
those who love you. You are always in my thoughts and forever in my heart.
Happy Birthday Matty, I miss you.
Love Donna
Dad and Mom in Italy, 2005
November 12, 2008
Patrick Johnson
September 19, 2008
I worked with Matt for 14 months. I am sorry to hear of his passing. He ALWAYS made me laugh! He was such a wonderful man to work with as well as a wonderful man to know. My heart is deeply saddened. My deepest sympaty goes out to his wife, family and friends. I'll miss you Matt.
Paula Ott
September 19, 2008
Lori & Family,
I just found out the other day about your father's passing. I am so sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Matt & Carreen
September 12, 2008
Matt n Donna
September 12, 2008
Matthew and Anthony Aronica
September 9, 2008
Joe Cefaratti
September 5, 2008
Careen and Donna'
It's been along time I'm very sorry to hear about your husband and brother. My deepest symphony to your family.
Love
Joe
Donna Lou
September 4, 2008
Matty,
My brother for 66 years. Our childhood years were happy and filled with family. We were 21 months apart had the same friends and enjoyed many good times together. We had a double wedding ceremony, honeymooned with our spouses together, and have since shared many vacations, dinners, holidays, laughter and tears.
You were always the big brother. I can hear your voice saying "oh Donna" when you were a little miffed
with one of my bright decisions. You and Carreen helped me through my darkest time that started April 20, 1993, and I will be there for Carreen supporting her in her darkest of time that started Aug. 19, 2008.
Matty, you were a big part of my life and I miss you terribly, but I know you will always be close in thought. I love you.
Michele Menkiena
August 29, 2008
Carreen, Matt, Carole & family,
My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was my pleasure to be able to have met and known Matt. May his spirit always live on in all of us.
Liz (Griffiths) Pettit
August 26, 2008
Carreen& family, news of your loss has reached me here in florida. I will remember Matt as a very kind,gentle man. I will never forget when he braved the blizzard in 1977 he went out and found a toothbrush for your unexpected house guest. My deepest sympathies to all of you
Monica Perez
August 22, 2008
God has truely removed an Angel from this earth and taken him to heaven. Know that Matt made me laugh and he/ and the memories we shared will be kept in my heart forever. I pray that everyone in your family and ask god to left your heavy heart. My thoughts are with you.
JoMarie Desmore Westbury
August 22, 2008
Careen and Family-I will always remember Matt from my childhood. He was so patient and kind to a little girl that adored him. Later in life I had the opportunity to babysit for his children before I was hired at GBP-what a small world. My sincerest sympathy is extended to all of you
Tina Gatti
August 22, 2008
I am so glad I got to work with Matt again when he came back to HSBC a few months ago. Matt was truly a great person who loved to laugh. We always had a good time, and he will truly be missed. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Mary T. Farrell
August 22, 2008
I just heard this very, very sad news. My memories of Matt are ALL so wonderfully warming--of smiles, great chats about nothing, the pride & love he had for his family, his easygoing and kind, gentle nature. And laughter. Much laughter. My heart breaks for all of you (my Donna), and I can only hope you will look for the signs that he is still with you. Keep your eyes, ears and minds open, and you'll know. Trust me. All my love--Mary T.
Kathy Rice
August 22, 2008
Correen and Family,
The Rice family (Ohio) extends our thoughts and prayers to your family. You are very much on our minds.
Matt and you always made our family feel so special when we got together for whatever the occassion, being my son, Michael coming up for his NY summer with Mimi and Papa and having dinner at your home, eating holidays meals together or meeting for dinner at Curley's. I used to say when we got together, I hope Matt Aronica is bringing the dessert !!!
Both Michael and Matthew mentioned the great memories they have of Matt and you over the years.
Kathy, Todd, Michael and Matthew Rice (Columbus, Ohio )
Pat Mulligan
August 22, 2008
To/From Matt’s Family
It was 35 years ago when I met Matt at Greater Buffalo Press where he was an accountant. He had the patience of a saint when explaining balance sheet reconciliations, cost accounting and “press cut-offs”. Matt was smart, funny and just a great person to be around. We all loved him at GBP and we were all family. When GBP was being sold off, we went our separate ways but stayed in touch. Later, Matt joined Marine Midland Bank [now HSBC]. A whole new group of people, yet the same feelings about Matt emanated. He found another family who loved him for his humor, intelligence and respect for all! He was truly a blessed man to have so many people that loved and respected him. To Carreen and Kids: God puts wonderful people on earth to help us grow as good people. We truly feel your pain and loss but know that you will continue his great legacy by being his beloved family!
MARK & SHEREE MARTINELLI
August 22, 2008
DEAR MATT AND CAROLE, WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR FATHER, IF YOU NEED ANYTHING WERE RIGHT UP THE STREET.
Maria Bussenger
August 22, 2008
Mattie & Carole, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! Love and Miss you!
Maria
betsy feuerstein
August 21, 2008
Carine and Family
Matt was truly a special person and a good friend. I loved speaking with him over the years and I know that everyone at HSBC loved having him in their lives. He will be truly missed. I am glad that last year the two of you went to Italy and enjoyed your time together. Keep in touch and I will keep you in my thoughts.
Betsy
Dennis Wojnar
August 21, 2008
Matt,
It's been a long times since we've seen each other, I'm truly sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. My prayers include you and your family in this time of grief.
Dennis
Jeff and Kathy Kuryla
August 21, 2008
Matty and Carole - You are in our thoughts and prayers. Matty your father was one of the nicest people I worked with I was so sorry to hear of his passing
marie dziewa
August 21, 2008
Careen - Matt was truly a wonderful man and will be truly missed. You guys have been true friends and we will really miss Wayne's "buddy". We love you and are always here for you. Don't ever forget that.
Love,
Wayne, Marie, Sarah and Patrick
Jim Golombek
August 21, 2008
Dear Carreen & Family, Sorry to hear about Matt's passing. Expressing my Deepest Sympathy to ALL.
Love, JIM GOLOMBEK
Robert "Bob" Billoni
August 21, 2008
Carreen I am so sorry for your loss. Matt has been a great friend for most of our lives. I'll always remember the great times we had with Matt as kids. I know he will be terribly missed. If I can help you in any way, let me know. Bob and Michele.
DAWN COCHRANE
August 21, 2008
MATTY,CAROLE,JESS,AND MELISSA OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU!!! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED ANYTHING AT ALL!!! WE LOVE YOU ALL LOTS!!!
thomas mancuso
August 21, 2008
Dear Carreen and family, Please accept my family's deepest sympathy. While we have not kept in close touch over the years, I always considered Matt a dear friend. He was a wonderful person. Tom Mancuso
May Muscarella
August 21, 2008
Beloved "Little Matty", I cherish the memories of our childhood, four Aronica cousins growing up in the big house on Busti Avenue aurrounded by love and so much fun. Rest in peace dearest cousin and may the Lord comfort your wonderful family and somehow help them to understand why you left so soon.
Love, Ron and May Muscarella
Marcia & John Carr
August 21, 2008
Expressing sympathy is always difficult; may it help, in some way, to know that friends are sharing your sorrow. May God Bless.
Kim, Rich, Ronnie & Richie Jones
August 21, 2008
We will truly miss Papa Matt! He was very special and loved by us all very much. We will remember him always.
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