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Jason (Paddle) Pawlowski
September 15, 2008
To the DeLong Family,
First I would like to say that I give my best and only wish I could help take your pain away. However only time can make that happen.
I have had the honor of knowing Tom for approximately 15 years, and through that we have went through some everlasting memories. Throughout high school we had our days of playing NHL 95, to always having a new bike to fix and then sell, to playing hockey everywhere possible. The laughs we had will never be forgotton. Tom was the definition of a gentleman, always respectful of everybody.
At this moment even though we may be sad and full of pain lets remember the positive outlook of how Tom was, and how he was able to make our lives better. Tom would want nothing else. He was a great man and we will never be able to forget him.
Tom I miss you and someday we will meet again!
Maliszewski-Family
September 14, 2008
May you have the strenght to carry on............ You are in our Prayer's.
Amen
Monica Lewis
September 14, 2008
Lee & The Delong Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. Stay strong and prayerful.
Monica Lewis
Jody (Ezzo) Peccia
September 13, 2008
Dear DeLong Family
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing, he was a wonderful man who will be remembered fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Liz Bertucci
September 13, 2008
To the DeLong family,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I only knew Tom through passing, but I always said Hi. I live in the upper apartment (4) in the building. He always was in good spirits and usually working on a vehicle of his choosing outside. I wish I could have known him better, for he was a good man.
My prayers go out to you and yours.
Heather Stiles (Donnelly)
September 13, 2008
Melissa, Lee, and Mr. & Mrs. DeLong,
I'm so sorry to hear about this terrible tragedy. I went to school with Tom, Melissa, and Lee. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this tough time.
Melinda Michalak (cardinal)
September 12, 2008
DeLong family: I'm so sorry for your loss.I worked with Tom (at cardinal),and he was someone to be proud of.Hard working,hillarious(sometimes I would be crying from laughing so hard) also, a good listener and always willing to help if he could.Tom, will be missed very much by all, who's lives he touched along the way. Rest in peace "cowboy"
Aaron Hejmowski
September 12, 2008
To the DeLong Family,
You are all in my prayers during this tough time. Though I hadn't seen Tom in quite a long time, we had some good times growing up on Lanc. Ave. whether it was playing bball, football or wrestling in the backyard. My God Bless you.
Lara Feller
September 12, 2008
You have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was such a wonderful person. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Richard and Linda Roesch
September 12, 2008
Our hearts and prayers go out the Delong family.God Bless you.
Linda Schnaufer
September 12, 2008
Tom, Joanne and Melissa, it was such a shock to find out what happened and we are all so very sorry. You can tell by all the previous entries that Tom was very well liked and loved, you should be very proud of him. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Lin and Dave Schnaufer
Michele Ribbeck
September 12, 2008
To the Delong Family and Lee: I am so very sorry about your loss. Tom was a wonderful person. You are all in my thoughts and prayers
Gary Schillinger(Penske /Cardinal
September 12, 2008
My sympathy for your loss. In the little time I knew Tom, He was a pleasure to work with. I'll miss "hounding " him on how to load my truck properly.
Mike Ryznar
September 12, 2008
I knew Tom during the high-school days and concidered him a great guy and good friend. I just want to send my reguards to the family. He will be missed.
Jen Walters
September 12, 2008
To the DeLong Family,
I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss, Tom was a great guy. I used to work with him at BK years ago, good times!
It's such a terrible accident.
RIP in Tom, you will be MISSED !!
God Bless you all!
Robyn Repman
September 12, 2008
Lee and the Delong Family,
My heart is saddened that you are all going through this. I only met Tom briefly at the fair this year, but I seen the glow in Lee's eyes, that he truly was wonderful to her. My children Corina and Vaughn spoke so highly of him after they heard the news. They only spent the one day with him and he truly impacted their hearts. I am so sorry to hear about this heartbreaking loss, but I do know that he will always be watching over you from the stars.
Kristin Isaksen
September 12, 2008
To Tom's Parents,
I am so sorry for your loss. Though I have only known Tom for the past 7 years or so, he will forever be in my heart. You raised a wonderful person and I know he'll be there waiting for all of us when our times come.
To Lee,
I am so sorry for your loss as well. In the 7 years I've known Tom, I've never seen him as happy as he has been since the two of you got together. Thank you so much for making sure he experienced true happiness while he was on this earth.
To Melissa,
As a sister myself, I can only imagine how you must be feeling. You should know that Tom always spoke very highly of you and worried about your safety and happiness. I know he'll still be looking out for you even though we can't see him.
To All of Tom's fmaily and friends,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this difficult time in your lives. I hope you know how loved Tom was and how much he loved all of you.
Gail
September 12, 2008
Lee, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. From the Syracuse Station
Jennifer Moore
September 12, 2008
Dear Lee & the DeLong family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I only met Tom one or two times, but he was always smiling and I know he brought you so much joy.
My heart goes out to you at this time of grief and I hope that as your hearts heal you know that you have the love of family and friends around you and with you.
Bob, Roxanne & Rhett Romanczak
September 12, 2008
Lee and the Delong Family,
Words can never express how much Tom meant to us. We've not only lost a very close friend but a part of our family. He could make the worst times better just by listening and the best times even better by being there. He was loved and will forever be missed. In time, the pain may fade but the wonderful memories never will. God bless...
Jo Ann Zyblewski
September 12, 2008
To the Delong family and Lee, I am very sorry to hear about Tom's passing. Tom was a wonderful and funny man. He will be missed by all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul N Susan Ryan, Please accept our Sincere Sympathy...
September 11, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Kim Zlotek
September 11, 2008
Lee, Sorry for your loss of your best friend. Be strong and Keep your head high. Tom is going to be in my prayers.
Meghan Fedeson
September 11, 2008
To The Delong Family We are so sorry for your lost.Tom was a amazing person and had a heart of gold. He will be truly missed.We will never forget you Tom rest in peace. All of our love Meghan Creeley-Fedeson&Amber Fry-Hill
Chris and Tim Obringer
September 11, 2008
To Lee and Tom's family, We are greatly sorry to hear about Tom's passing. Tom was always very nice to us and he was great with Timmy. I never seen him in a bad mood. He will be missed and if you need anything don't hesitate to let us know. Again I am truly sorry
jason zotara
September 11, 2008
melissa and family
tom we had a lot of good times back in school. it was great seeing you last year. you will be truly missed. god bless
Mike and Debby Flowers
September 11, 2008
Dear Melissa, Joann and Tom,
The right words escape me right now. I am still in shock and I can't remember when my heart felt this heavy. I only wish there was something I could do to take your pain away. God has a plan and someday we will find out why this had to happen. I can still hear Tom's laugh in my basement with the gang from the middle school and high school. He was always such a good friend to Jason. I can see them playing street hockey on Doris. Oh, for those simple, uncomplicated days...and Melissa, the last time I talked with Tom, about 5 months ago, he talked a lot about you and how he worried about you way out there without family around. He was so happy to see me and was always so polite when he would see me. A real gentleman. I will keep all of you in my prayers and if there is anything we can do for you, we are here, a place where Tom always seemed to feel at home.
With sympathy,
Molly Brzezicki
September 11, 2008
Melissa, Lee, and Mr. & Mrs. DeLong,
I'm so sorry to hear about this terrible tragedy. I went to school with Tom, Melissa, and Lee. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this tough time.
Michael Reukauf
September 11, 2008
Tom Was a good Kid. It's sad to have to say I knew him, but I'm glad I briefly had a chance to know a great man. I'd be a proud man if my children can have hearts as good as Tom's when they become men.
May God ease our hearts and minds, in this time of grief and loss.
Michael D. Reukauf
Margaret O'Neill
September 11, 2008
I knew Tom back in elementary school. I am so sorry to hear about this...I am sending many prayers for Tom's family and everyone that was close to him!
fellow LHS alumni
September 11, 2008
I was truly sorry to read in the paper that Tom passed away at such a young age. I remember him & Missy from bus rides when I was at LHS. He always kept us laughing. My thoughts are with you all as you journey through this difficult time.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Shannon Wolfe & Eric Haley
September 11, 2008
Lee & the Delong Family
Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. May your memories of Tom keep him alive in your hearts forever. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nate Neubauer
September 11, 2008
Lee,
Sorry for your loss, stay strong.
Shannon Chojnicki (Pieper)
September 11, 2008
To the DeLong family...I am so very sorry for your loss. I have known Tom since we were in elementary school. He was a wonderful person and will be missed.
Mary & Roger
September 11, 2008
We're so very sorry for your loss. You're all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you. With our deep sympathy,
Bill and Jenn Costa
September 11, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lee talks about Tom a lot, nothing but great things!
Kim Hoch
September 11, 2008
Lee,
I can't begin to say how sorry we are for your loss. You both loved life and were never afraid to show it! Tom could walk into a room and have a new friend in a minute, but remember them for a life time. You both gave the best year to each other! He really was an "Alright Guy" We love you! Kim, Pete, Ryan, Lauren and J.P.
Doris Jordan
September 11, 2008
You are with God Now Tom, sleep well. Love Aunt Dorie & Cousin Lorie.
Marlene (Hirsch) Engle
September 11, 2008
DeLong Family, Sorry for your loss. Tom will be greatly missed. I knew him 1st as my brother's school friend & then later as a neighbor until the fire. I will, as I am sure many others will miss him.
Keith Armstrong
September 11, 2008
Tommy will always be with us. Every time you see a poolhall, volley ball court, Camareos, Trans Ams and Firebirds or a Dennys you can see his smile. Because thats what always made him smile. Thanks for the memories buddy.
Kristen Lawrie
September 11, 2008
To the Delong family and Melissa and Lee. I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Tom left all of us with many fond memories, I am so glad I got the chance to know him in high school and reconnect with him a year or so ago. He was an amazing person there will never be another one like him. May he rest in peace.
Jeffrey Priester
September 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Kelly Hucul
September 11, 2008
Melissa, Mr. & Mrs. DeLong
May your wonderful memories comfort you as you mourn and celebrate Tom's life. I wish I could pay my respects in person but please know you and all who love Tom are in my thoughts.
Jolie Young-Palmer
September 11, 2008
Lee & The DeLong Family.
My heart is saddended by this sudden loss. I really got to know Tom while he/we put together the Big Wheels. A conversation i will treasure always. Thanks for sharing him with us all.
Cori Greenawalt
September 11, 2008
My heart goes out to you all. I am so sorry to hear of your sudden lose. I was a graduate of Tom's at LHS. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rich & Mary Ann Benson
September 11, 2008
Lee & Mr.& Mrs. DeLong,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
IRVETTE HORGAN
September 11, 2008
Our prayers are with your family at this time of great loss. Praying your strength and your peace. Staff of Jefferson Family Medicine (UB Family Medicine - Ardel)
TOM AND KIM @ INFINITY
KIM GOSTOMSKI
September 11, 2008
MR.&MRS. DELONG, MELISSA, AND LEE,
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU. TOM WAS AN AMAZING PERSON AND ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. HE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME AND ANYONE HE CARED ABOUT NO MATTER WHAT TIME IT WAS OR WHAT HE WAS DOING. I HAVE SO MANY MEMORIES THAT I'LL KEEP IN MY HEART FOREVER. ONE THINGS FOR SURE GARY ALLAN CONCERTS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT HIM. WE WERE ALL SO BLESSED TO HAVE HIM IN OUR LIVES!!!!!
Loretta Nolan
September 11, 2008
You are with God Now Tom, sleep well. Love, Cousin Lorie & Aunt Dorie.
Crystal Hisel
September 11, 2008
Melissa, Mr & Mrs Delong:
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember grade school with Missy and Tom and then I moved and all of a sudden finding them again in Middle School and becoming friend's again, of course not as close but friend's, that was a great memory!! I wish you and your family all the love and happiness in this time of need. My thoughts are with you all.
Danielle Dewitz
September 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was always there for me and a great friend. He has touched so many people and will be greatly missed. Forever in my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to Lee and his family.
Wendy Mariani
September 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Jerry Sturtz
September 11, 2008
Our deepest condolences to the DeLong family on your loss. Tom was a great co-worker that brought alot of laughter to us. He will be missed by everyones lives he has ever touched. We will miss you "Cowboy Tom".
Leah Doremus
September 11, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tom was a really great person!
Beverly (Borucki) Bray
September 11, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to Tom's family and friends. You were a great guy and cherished by many. I feel honored to have known you. May you R.I.P
Amy Barrett
September 11, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Braun family
September 11, 2008
Lee and DeLong family
While we only knew Tom for a short while, he permanently touched our hearts and lives with love and laughter. He will always be fondly remembered but sorely missed. Our sincere condolences to everyone. Love, Ron, Leza and the
Jill Ahearn-Massingill
September 11, 2008
Melissa, Mr. & Mrs. Delong,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God eases your heartache, you are in my prayers.
Sandy, Mike, and Robert Lodowski
September 11, 2008
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Tom was a great man, a wonderful friend and an awesome neighbor. He came over quite often to say hello to my husband and myself. We will truely miss our country boy!!!!
Leighann Lodowski
September 11, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Toms family. He was a good person and will be deeply missed by everyone who has ever known him.
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