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Richard Matre Obituary

MATRE - Richard Age 74, of Charlotte died on September 12, 2008 surrounded by his loving family. Richard was born in Buffalo, NY on June 4, 1934. In 1977, Richard and his family relocated to Charlotte, NC where he resided throughout the remainder of his career, retiring as president of American Santex in 1997. Richard is preceded in death by Joan R. Matre, wife of 29 years. Richard is survived by his best friend and companion Sandra Brunson, sons Douglas Matre and wife Susan; Scott Matre; Richard Matre and wife Julie; grandsons Kenneth Michael and Connor Matthew; brothers and sisters Christine Kole, Joann Boyle, Don Walczak, and Tom Matre. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Matthews Catholic Church at 1:00 pm Wednesday, September 17, 2008, 8015 Ballantyne Commons Parkway, Charlotte, NC. Memorials may be made to Mi Casa (http://www.micasaonline.org/) in lieu of flowers. McEWEN FUNERAL SERVICE PINEVILLE CHAPEL is in charge of all arrangements.

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Published by Buffalo News on Sep. 16, 2008.

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The Dollyhighs

September 17, 2008

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awake in the
morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush.
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am soft stars that shine at
night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there. I did not die.

Love from Laura, Sammy, Jack and Forever Colton Dollyhigh

Jack Rybarczyk

September 17, 2008

Dear family and friends of Dick,

My brother-in-law Dick was a father figure, brother and friend to me. We shared many moments and here is just one:

In the 1960's there was little to no hockey on TV. Dick was a mechanical genius, electronic expert and of course a big hockey fan. The following event illustrates all three of his talents.
The only hockey games one could watch came from Canada before cable TV. So, in typical Dick Matre style, he would carefully arrange four or five carton boxes on top my mothers' kitchen table reaching close to the ceiling. Then he would send me up to the top holding rabbit ears (antenna) just so - to get some reception of the hockey game from Toronto. We could barely make out the players, not to speak of the puck, but watched the action nevertheless.

Dick was the only fan who could be heard from the top of the old Memorial Aud down to the ice. That booming voice and spirit got him an unusual position with the Army. He traveled as a catcher with the forts' baseball team,wearing a catchers mask and carrying bat rather than a helmet and gun.

From a kid at Seneca Vocational HS in Buffalo, NY, Dick was regarded as a top textile expert and lectured at NC State. He was a natural teacher to his boys and I. He will be greatly missed but remain as Nat Cole sang
"UNFORGETTABLE TOO".

Lisa Massey

September 15, 2008

Hi Susan and Doug,
Our thoughts are with you during this time.
Lisa and Hannah Massey

Jeannie Poissant(Adams)

September 15, 2008

Just want you to know that I am thinking about all of you right now.

Tom & Frances

September 15, 2008

Doug, Susan, Kenneth & Connor,

We are sorry to hear of your recent loss, you have our deepest sympathy. May God give you strength to get through this time of sorrow.

May God Bless,

Lisa Lorello

September 15, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Stephanie Kailos

September 15, 2008

Scott, Rich, and Doug-

I am very sorry about the loss of your father. I pray that the lively, loving, laughter filled memories of this wonderful man you call DAD, quickly quench the pain and sorrow of his passing.

Tom & Frances Campbell

September 15, 2008

Richard, Susan, Kenneth & Connor,

I am sorry to hear of you recent loss, you have our deepest sympathy. May God give you the strength to get through this time of sorrow.

May God Bless,

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