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Dee
September 21, 2025
Thinking of you especially today. You were good people and missed by many still. The forever chapter has new members and I'm sure you were there to grDe r eet them. I hope you will be there for us. Much love Mike and Dee
Carolyn
April 22, 2023
To my cousin Mark, when i married in 2010 I decided that purple was going to be the color and that is because I wanted to include you even though you were no longer with us. We was confirmed together and graduated together. So on my special day I wanted you with all of us so purple was the color. It was away to honor and remember you. I have a picture of you in my brother's wedding and the picture sits on our TV stand. I am the one who puts the purple flowers at the cemetery for you. Love and miss you my cousin. One day we will be together again in heaven.
Love cousin Carolyn
Katie White
November 27, 2022
I think about you often and today came across our album. Some great photos and great memories. You are missed.
September 20, 2021
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September 20, 2021
Still missing you like it was yesterday, keep watching over your family.
Love you forever
Mom and Dad
December 14, 2020
Missing you on your 50th birthday
Love you forever
Mom and Dad
Dee
September 21, 2020
Thinking of you today. Have a lot of great company in the forever chapter. Not to many left here! Ride on Viking!
September 20, 2020
Another candle another year, still missing you terribly.
Mom and dad
Dee Cravatta
June 3, 2020
Still thinking of you! Especially when that song comes on by Earth Wind and Fire. I will always remember that day. Till we meet again. Dee and Mike
Gibson
December 14, 2019
Missing you on your 49th birthday!
Love you forever
Mom and Dad
Mom and dad Gibson
September 20, 2019
Thinking of you with love.
Remembering you Mark on the tenth anniversary when you left us, but not forgotten.<br />Love you forever<br /> Mom and Dad
Anneliese Gibson
September 20, 2018
Anne Gibson
December 14, 2017
Missing you on your 47th birthday and always.
Love you forever.
Mom and dad
September 22, 2016
Mom and Dad
Mike and Dee
September 21, 2016
Thinking of you today, we will meet again!
mike quimby
December 14, 2015
Happy Birthday brother. You often come into my heart, I know you are with me. May God bless you can't wait to see you in Heaven.
Anne Gibson
December 14, 2015
Hard to believe you would have been 45 today. Miss you much. Enjoying time with your children.
Much love Mom and Dad
Big Brother Steve
December 13, 2015
Well bother dear. Raising a toast of "Angel's Envy" Bourbon in Honor of your 45th Birthday..all be it a day early...miss you Bud
September 21, 2015
Seven Years and counting.Its still hard to believe. Miss you.
Love
Mom and Dad
December 14, 2014
Thinking of you today on your birthday and every day.
Love Mom & Dad
martin and karen VeRost
December 16, 2013
remembering a fine young man and his family this Christmas who is watching over his family like the shepherds as an Angel . . . hugs, karen and marty verost and families
December 14, 2013
Another birthday and you are not with us here only in our hearts with warmest thoughts.
Miss you so very much
Love
Mom and Dad
Anne Gibson
September 21, 2013
Five years already its really hard to beleive.
Missing you
Mom and Dad
and Pauline and Mark jr
December 14, 2012
Well, Here is a Birthday wish for you. Thinking about you and miss you and your soap box comments about this time of year. Watch over Pauline and Mark Jr. They miss your guiding hand.
Love Your Brother.
Steve
December 14, 2012
Remembering you on the day of your Birth and every day, especially this time of the year.Sorely missed by all.
Love
Mom and Dad
A favorite
December 13, 2012
Anne Gibson
September 21, 2012
4 years since that fateful night. Keep watching over us, especially Pauline and Mark. In our hearts forever.
LOVE
Mom & Dad
December 14, 2011
Another Birthday, another empty chair.
Miss you so very much.
Mom and Dad
September 21, 2011
Three years have passed and you are still missed very much by all.....
Always and forever
Mom and Dad
Karen & Marty VeRost
December 15, 2010
Mark was one of our favorite persons to come to our home in Lewiston, beside his brother, Steve, in our younger years. Mark will always be remembered with love.
December 14, 2010
Well, This would have been your 40th Birthday a major milestone in any ones life. Too bad your are not around to celebrate it. Mom forgot to mention the standing Black Forest Cake request.
JJ made a Black Forest Bicotti with cherries thinking of you.
You are missed.
Happy Birthday
Steve
December 14, 2010
40 years ago today you came into our lives like a "ray of sunshine" to complete our little family. Your absence left a painful, gaping hole. No more long talks in person and sharing of stories (many things happened since that dark night). No more birthdays and holidays together. No more cheesecake and salsa (we can't make it the same). Thanks for the lovely grandchildren, they are a great reminder of you!!!!! We are grateful to have them in our lives. Keep looking over your little family.
You are always on our mind....
Missing you so much.
Mom & Dad
September 21, 2010
I cannot believe that two years have passed since I received the news you had left this earth. You were such a special person who taught me a lot. You're always in my thoughts and prayers. I know that we'll meet up again some day and catch up on old times.
-MO
September 15, 2010
Mark,
You were one of a kind and I know that your spirit prevails. I am truly grateful for having known you. I know we will meet again some day and share some laughs. Not a day goes by that you aren't remembered. All my love,
-Anonymous
carla gibson
August 7, 2010
my dearest mark,
i still miss you each and every day that goes by. one thing that keeps me going is knowing that your spirit is surrounding the children & i. thank you for always looking out for us & making sure we are taken care of and thank you for sending me someone who deserves my love. i know and feel in my heart that it was your doing. mark, i love you so very much.
A. J. di Pota
May 1, 2010
Carla,
If you ever need anything, please do not hesitate to call. We're only down the street!
Jen (994-6077) AJ 393-0165
Really, call if you need help or just someone to talk to, cry to or someone take the kids to let you have some time alone.
AJ
Karen and Marty VeRost
March 2, 2010
Hi, Carla, Pauline and Mark Jr., So glad, Pauline, that you signed up for soccer. It is a good sport to be in. My son, Gregory, was in soccer at Lew-Port. Today; he is a father with two daughters. Gregory and his wife are involved with soccer; started a co-ed league and he is a soccer referee now and one of his daughters is old enough to start playing; she's 5. Gregory knew your father, Pauline and really, really liked him very much. Your Dad is a good man. I saw a sign on the road to South Padre Island, Texas today; smooth waters will not make a skilled sailor. I pray you'll all be skilled sailors. I remember my parents during situations that cross my path. Your husband and father (and our Lord for sure) will be your "one that will hold you up." The one that is your angel too. hugs.
March 1, 2010
I just signed up for soccer.
Pauline
carla
February 17, 2010
it hurts too much to write in this book anymore. it's been hard as hell trying to understand life without you. but i'm doing the best i know how. i would say right about now 9 years ago we were eating our first meal together as husband and wife. and right about now we should be at a nice restraunt celebrating. but instead i will be eating left over pizza knowing that you would like that cause i'm sure you've seen the crazy amount of left overs i've thrown out since you and hurricane have been gone!! miss you everyday and love you so much! happy anniversary
December 14, 2009
Gone but not forgotten. You came into our lives 39 years ago today.The memories are plenty and we miss your smile and wit.Pauline and Mark are a delight. I guess we will have to eat the Blackforest Cake for you. Loving you always Mom & Dad
September 21, 2009
Like everyone else, I can't believe it has been a year since that awful day. we're all still struggling and somehow making it through. you and Dave probably sat down and had a beer together. We all miss you. We miss you both. Lois & Dan
Heidi Kazulak
September 20, 2009
Hey Mark. I can't believe that it has been a year already. I see Marky and Pauline each day at school and I can't believe how big they are getting. It was Marky's first day in technology last week and when I look at him I can't believe how much he looks like his daddy when he was that age. Keep watching over them from up there!
September 15, 2009
Hey Mark,
Wow what can I say but I miss you lots!!! Just looking threw the pictures people posted and it makes me want to cry! Had bike night here in Wilson a while back....it was hard to walk past where you were parked last year and not see your bike....(That one I cried)
You are missed so much and will never be forgotten!!
Love,
Tab
Donna Drake
September 14, 2009
Mark, Cant believe its been almost a year. It sure feels alot longer than that. You"ll always be with us.
LOVE AND MISS YOU,
JOE & DONNA
September 14, 2009
Thinking of you Anne and Mel and Carla and remembering Mark this month, week, day.
Katie White Bowen
heather
September 13, 2009
Just to let you know we are all thinking of you today you ride for all of us
much love to all
Sonny Buck & Heather
September 12, 2009
its almost a year now and it isnt any easier, you are thought of often and missed greatly. the only comfort is knowing that you are riding with the forever chapter. much love to you mark. mike and dee
Christine
July 4, 2009
I found this picture of Mark a few weeks ago. I love the sweet look on his face and wanted to share it. This is from my wedding, he came dressed in old grungy jeans, vest, and his hat with the middle finger on it while my sister was dressed in a pretty gown. I’m pretty sure I was his favorite person to annoy but with a smile like that I could never stay mad at him long. I miss Mark and Dave so much.
June 21, 2009
Nine month today miss you lots. Love Mom & Dad
Kristine Nye
April 14, 2009
Hi Mark, I still can't believe ur gone. You are missed very much! I wish you were here to give Nick a talk. He gave us all a scare a couple days ago. He was one lucky guy and I think u were, actually I know u were there watching over him. Thank you. Before Nick went into surgery, he gave me ur ring to keep for him. I wore it all the time for the last couple days and I felt that you were with me keeping my head up. Trying to stay positive. Nick asked for the ring back today and I gave it to him because I know that he loves to wear it. Carla is one strong woman. She's helped me out a lot and I know she misses u more than words can say. Love you and miss you always!
~Kristine~
carla
March 22, 2009
hi mark...six months yesterday since you have passed. repeating myself but it's still hard to grasp and understand. i know it's suppose to be part of life but it still just seems so wrong. so many things left undone, so much life left to live taken away just like that. we all miss you so much and think of you and remember you every day. this week brian g and his "crew" came over and cut down the four trees that were sick and dying. yes even the big willow tree. it looks so differant but there's definately more room now for you to shine down and watch over us. i know your here holding me up, that's what's keeping me going every day and giving me the strength to hold on and keep fighting. sylvia browne is coming to niagara falls friday on her farewell tour. robin and i have tickets to go. so send down some of that energy my way. a message from you would make my day. it's sad that that's what it boils down to for me to try and communicate with my husband. makes me want to scream...oh wait, i do! but that only helps for a minute. i send you lots of kisses.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
March 9, 2009
hi mark...i know it's about time right? same ol' around here, feelin' mopey and missing you like never before. things just aren't the same but of course how could they be, your not here. ilooooooooooooooo,,.....that was your son. i walked away for a minute to help pauline. he said he was trying to write i love you to daddy. i'll let him try again with some help this time. :)
i love you dad. you always made me happy daddy.
well that was just cute and heart breaking at the same time. i can see the hurt in his eyes when he talks about you.
i still can't believe what happened and i'm still trying to figure out why. my strength is weakening but i'm still trying. you know me...i never give up! the benefit was a success. so many people, so much love and support. i wanted to tell you all about it the next day but it was too hard. i was so emotional the sunday after i just couldn't force myself to do it. and i figured you already knew. i'm sure you were there. maybe that's why your picture fell off the easle and crashed on the floor...you were saying hello, weren't you? the kids are sick AGAIN! pauline had the flu and now they both have strep throat. fun. mark, keep watching over us and keep shining your love down on us. i'll still be down here loving you and missing you. i'm always looking for signs so keep on sending them.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
lewie cunningham
February 23, 2009
just wanted to say thank you to carla all the kingsmen and kim for letting my grandfather and i play at the beniffit.we were very honered to be alowed to play. thanks again and carla you let me know when you want to hang out with the kids.
heather kelly
February 21, 2009
Hey Mark:
Sonny and Taylor are at your big party now I just got out of work but called and it sounds wild I am sure you would be proud well rest up tonight I am sure carla will fill you in
Toni Cuillo
February 19, 2009
I really don't know what to say except you and your family have been on my mind a lot. Carla...I just don't have the words. I can't begin to imagine the pain you must feel every single day from the time you wake till you go to bed. I will see you this wknd at the benefit woman. Stay strong and stay true to you.
carla
February 17, 2009
one of the happiest days of my life was 8 years ago today..the day we got married. i don't even know how to describe how i feel today. so much emptiness inside. but so many wonderful memories that i wouldn't trade for anything. happy anniversary mark. your still my husband and i'm still your wife just because your not here, that does not change the love i have for you. i miss you a ton
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
February 16, 2009
as i get ready to go to bed, all i can think about is how i'll be waking up to what was our wedding day just 8 short years ago and how you won't be there next to me. right about this time was when we said good-bye to eachother after the rehersal dinner the night before our wedding. i can't believe your gone. i can't stand being without you. it's still all so unreal. i still have piles of our wedding napkins that i was saving for our 25th wedding anniversary party...now what? i'm going to bed, i'll see you in my dreams my love.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
February 14, 2009
hi mark..the kid's made a valentine for you so i scanned it and put it in the guest book photo album. we all miss you so very much. i wish you were here to make fun of my clumsiness like you always did. today i was in the dinning room helping mark put his pants on and i went to bend down to get his foot unstuck from the inside and i bashed my head on the dinning room chair. it hurt a lot and yes i have a giant goose egg on my forehead. GREAT! in my mind i could still hear you saying....um carla, there's a chair there. happy valentine's day my sweet.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
the kid's made you a valentine
February 14, 2009
Heather Kelly
February 13, 2009
Hey Carla:
I know Sonny will surely miss Mark this year down in Daytona he was his pool budy hope you and the children are wll and will see you next weekend for the benefit
Heather Rinehart
February 10, 2009
Carla,Mark Jr. & Pauline,
I think Of you often you and pray God is watching over you. This is such a hard road but your strength amazes me. Some days I am sure you feel like you cant do this anymore but the good book says we never are given more than we can handle. Ilove you and anytime you need me I am here. Jakey loves you too! hope we can get together sometime soon. Hugs Kisses & Love,
carla gibson
February 3, 2009
hi mark..the days sure are rough, nights rougher. thought i should write, it's been a while. i am busy but never too busy for you. sometimes i just have no idea what to say. i'm so speechless lately when it comes to sitting at the computer to write.devastated is still an under statement. i have been seeing improvements from mark and pauline. it's been a rough road for the two of them. they try to go on with their normal days, but normal days for them usually include their father so it's tough for them and sometimes they act out. but their attitudes have improved a lot. mark jr. still tries to have candy for breakfast and pauline still asks for a real horse atleast once a week. i don't think she'll ever give up on that even though she knows it's not possible. on a recent entry that did not get approved, i told about something i found that pauline made for you. i'm sure you remember. it was a birthday card for your 37th birthday december 2007. it has a house,sun, birthday candles with a 3 and 7 and a heart that says i love dad. on the inside she wrote HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE WITHOUT YOU? wow, i almost forgot about that and i was blown away when i found it because just 9 months later the poor girl (along with the rest of us) was finding out just that. let me use a differant word this time....how crappy. i will never understand why we have to spend the rest of our lives without you. such an awesome person in so many ways. all i can say is darn you adam and eve!!!
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla gibson
January 25, 2009
hi mark..i wrote to you earlier today but it's not on for some reason. maybe cause i used a naughty word. guess i should have said crappy instead of the other word i used. i'll have to rewrite it another time. i'm getting the kid's ready for bed now so i'll write later. still trying to figure out how you managed to get them to bed on time at night. i can hear you now saying "it's not hard, your just a push over and they know they can get away with things with you" very true...i'm working on that, i'll get there! miss you babe
I LOVE YOU MARK!
Tabatha
January 20, 2009
Hi Mark,
Just wanted to say hi and tell you that we all think about you every day and night. It is still so hard to believe you are not here. To see Carla go through this is hard she is doing good dont get me wrong. I just know you are watching her and helping her hold on and I thank you for that.So keep visiting her she needs you to be close. Love Ya!!!
Rick & Melissa (KMC NF)
January 13, 2009
Hey Mark, just thought you would want to know how proud you would be of Carla. She is a very strong women and a great mother. She misses you so much, we all do. Keep continuing to look over your family.
AUNT LISA
January 12, 2009
hey mark its lisa just stopping by to say whats up and let you know you are always in my thoughts ,,,,carla pauline ,mark jr ,,,hello and hope you guys are all doing well love you ,,,kisses and hugs ,,,,,,aunt lisa
carla
January 11, 2009
thanks for the visit wednesday. i know you were here...i could smell you. come see me any time..i promise i won't get scared. on friday mark had an evaluation on his abilities at the school. i wanted to be able to run right home and tell you all about it. i was so proud. he scored very high. normal i.q. is 100 so average would be between 85 and 115 he scored a 128. you were right, he's smart just like his dad. you'd be so proud. i kept pauline home from school friday, she had to go to the dr. she has strep too. now that it's made it's rounds let's hope were done with that. miss you
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
January 6, 2009
hello mark. mj is feeling much better today. back to his happy self and playing hard again. it was strep. he had to stay home from school again because he needed to be on his medication for 24 hrs. before returning. so he got an extended vacation. which his sister is jealous of. you are on my mind every minute, every day. i miss having you here. this is deffinatly not the life i wanted to get used to. i never wanted to imagine life without you and now i'm forced to, i hate that.
i miss you a ton mark. i want you back.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
Benefit Flyer
Kim Wendt
January 6, 2009
Hey Mark,
Well, it's been a long time since I've written to you, but that does not mean I don't think about you all the time. I miss you very much!
I wanted to tell you about the Benefit your friends and family are having in your memory, and in honor of Carla, Pauline and Mark Jr.
Carla thinks I'm the best person for the Public Relations job! (I think she thinks I am the best BS Artist, doncha know? HaHa) I know you know I will do the best job I can for you!
I've attached a flyer for you, and I want you to know there are so many people who love and care about you, and we're all pitching in to make this benefit the best one possible.
I love you brother! Keep an eye on us, ok? Thanks!
Kim
To the Family and Friends of Mark... as most of you probably know there is benefit planned for Saturday February 21, 2009. I have attached a flyer for anyone who needs the details. Hope to see you all there!
Thanks and God Bless... from all of us at The Mark W. Gibson Family Benefit Committee
carla
January 5, 2009
just wanted to let you know our little guy is sick AGAIN. 101.5 temp. poor dear. he goes to see the dr. this morning at 11:30. i feel bad dragging him out when he feels so yucky. just 2 weeks ago he had a sinus infection he went last week for his follow-up and he was better. i had strep throat myself last week so he probably got it from his mama. talk to ya later babe.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
January 3, 2009
goodmorning mark,
even though i drive your truck every day, when i wake up in the morning i let the dog outside and i see your truck in the spot you used to park in. for a moment it's as if your up in bed still sleeping. maybe that's why i don't park there much anymore. well, okay really it's because it's easier with the kid's to park at the front of the house. :) but last night i parked in your spot and it just hurts so bad to wake up in the morning, look at that truck and know you'll never be driving it again. okay well, it's like that with everything. i miss you so much every day mark. i can't remember if i told you this before, but your son is just so cute he is just like you. he really knows how to melt my heart. he hugs me all the time and he says "guess what mom..i love you". then he gives me a kiss. the way he says it just turns me into butter. and he does this several times in a day. it's like he's saying it to me from you. almost like you came to him and said make sure you kiss your mom for me every day. well, if you did he does. the kids love being off of school. mark's looking forward to going back but pauline is not. the kid's said to tell you they love you and miss you.me too!
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
January 1, 2009
hi mark,
wanted to let you know our girl lost another tooth tonight. top front tooth. the one next to it is loose too. a little late for christmas :)
she's growing up!
I LOVE YOU MARK!
Lois
January 1, 2009
so here it is a whole new year. we made it through dec., your b-day and xmas., but you are still gone, and we still miss you. Your absence seams to attack out of the blue at times and hurts. I look at your wife and can see the pain of missing you in her eyes. She is trying so hard to be brave and strong, to just get through the day only to face the same lost feeling the next day and the next. Your children, waiting for "never" to end so they can see you again. Pauline difiant because she is angry and sweet because she is lonely and misses you and doesn't really understand. Your parents are great to Carla. I don't even want to think of how much worse things would be for her without their help. I know their pain is great and I wish I could help them somehow. I really hate all this pain. I really really wish you were here to help. We all miss you and love you.
carla
January 1, 2009
well, today starts a new year. i still can't believe your not here with us all. so very depressing that we don't have you here to start off yet another new year. all of the major holidays have snuck up so fast and it has been so very hard. i miss you so very much every day, holiday or not, it stinks and is hard just the same. i'll see you in my dreams babe.
Happy New Year.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
December 27, 2008
tonight i went to a sabres game with your dad. it was a lot of fun. we won!
I LOVE YOU MARK
carla
December 26, 2008
have i told you lately that i love you?
well, i do.
you used to say that to me a lot.
i miss you always.
today has been a bummy day. haven't felt like doing much. kinda just being mopey. playing with the kids and there new toys. the kids and i did go have breakfast with your mom and dad, dave, pam and one of her friends. other than that we've just been hangin out. your suppose to be assembling toys and helping me with all these boxes. you would have laughed at me today when i was putting together mark's smart bike...okay i'm sure you were. i miss you more every day.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla gibson
December 25, 2008
hello mark. merry christmas. i miss you so very much. my heart breaks for you every day, more so today. always that somethings missing feeling...you! our children had a pretty good christmas as far as gifts go. wow! lots of stuff. like they really need more toys, right? i tried to leave an entry of a poem last night but once again it was not approved. i had the copyright info. on there so i don't know. it was called "Merry Christmas From Heaven" it was on a card that our pastor gave me last night at the candle light service. i'm sure you were over my shoulder reading it anyway. i can't even describe how hard it was to be without you today. i don't want to sound ungreatful to our lord but i don't want you to spend christmas with jesus. i wanted (needed) you to spend it here with our families. take it day by day is all i can do i suppose.
pauline and mark jr. say "we love you and miss you always. merry christmas daddy."
I LOVE YOU MARK!
December 25, 2008
hi mark merry christmas!
Tabatha
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas Mark!!
Wish you were here to celebrate the holidays with your family and friends.
Carla, Pualine, Mark , Lois, Dan, Mel, And Ann I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!
AUNT LISA
December 24, 2008
GOOD MORNING MARK WELL ITS CHRISTMAS EVE AND I KNOW IT WILL BE A HARD NEXT FEW DAYS FOR EVERYONE BUT I KNOW THERE ALL STRONG SO I JUST WANTED TO MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND SAY WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH ,,,,,CARLA, PAULINE ,AND MJ MERRY CHRISTMAS AND I LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!!!KISSES AND HUGS XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
LOVE AUNT LISA
carla gibson
December 23, 2008
hi mark.oh boy, what a long day. i'm sure glad it's almost bed time. i'm plum tuckered out! tomorrow's christmas eve. i don't even know what to say about that. part of me just wants to hide in bed for the next two days. i know that's not possible. so i'll just push on with that silly ol' smile on my face like usual. even though i'll be surrounded by family i'll still have that loney feeling. i can't tell you how much i hate not having you here. i don't even know how i'm doing it. i miss you, i miss everything.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
Lois
December 22, 2008
Ok Mark, Schools out for the holidays, so how about letting up on the snow and blowing. Some of us still have things to do that involve getting out and about. And you know what a coward I am. Never mind the super walmart on transit- I want one under my bed so I can shop when I need to until april when I emerge again! We miss you so much Mark. Everyone is taking a deep breath and gritting our teeth to make it through this week. Don't gotta like just gotta do it. Love ya. Lois
mark n steve last minute hockey game
December 20, 2008
carla
December 19, 2008
hello mark. wow, what a snow storm today! we got 12 inches! very windy too! lots of little branches from our weeping willow. pauline was hoping for a snow day...she got it! when school was canceled she said "thank you daddy". she was telling me that you must be becoming good friends with jesus and that's why it snowed so much, cause you asked him too make it happen for her. even though a big amount of snow is a pain for a lot of us it's nice that the kid's like it. the snow didn't bother me one bit...i got to stay in the house all day. but i do feel bad that your dad is out in the cold snow blowing our drive way. thanks mel. your parents have been very wonderful and an amazing help to me. i know that doesn't surprise you, cause they always have been. yeah so, i just went outside for a few minutes to shovel off the portch (for the third time today) and when i came in YOUR dog (hee-hee) was on the couch. i looked at him and said "hey mister, you get down from there" and for a minute he just kinda looked at me like "WHAT?" i had to yell a couple times before he got down, but he was cute! he's doen pretty good for an old dog. but he did fall down the other day when he was going down the portch steps to go potty. he was okay though, didn't break anything. he just sat there for a minute while i got my shoes on to help him up. tomorrow is the christmas party at the 3f club..we'll miss you being there. well, just like any other place we go to. also there's a family christmas party at aunt patsy and uncle lewie's house. i hope we get to make it there before any one has to leave. talk to ya later babe.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
December 18, 2008
okay, so our very last discussion,(10 minutes before you left the house that saturday)was about how i thought we might have a mouse(or mice) in the house. you asked me why i can't just set the trap myself it's not hard. no, it's not but knowing me i would probably snap my fingers in it. i told you the day i don't have you here with me is when i will take a dead mouse out of a trap. it's nasty and gross and i'd probably throw up! well today in the mud room, sure enough there was a dead mouse in the trap. my first thought was to call your dad and have him take care of it for me. but then i thought... nope, i said i would do it, so i'm gonna do it. plus i already knew your mom and dad weren't home at the time. :) but i could have left it till later when i knew he'd be home. instead, i called my sister (christine) for phone support and i took it out of the trap and wrapped it in like 20 bags and threw it away. i shock myself cause that was something i thought i would never do. but i sure as heck don't want to do it again. but you'd be proud. i'm sure you were laughing at me! and i'm sure it's gonna shock both of our moms and dads when i tell them.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
carla
December 17, 2008
hello mark.christmas is drawing near and altough this is a very hard time, i am greatful for the 9 years of christmas memories we have shared together. december 11th was when we had started "dating" 9 years ago. i remember our 1st christmas together. we had just started seeing eachother two weeks before christmas. my 1st gift to you was a harley davidson zippo, which i had bought at american harley. i remember that i got a speeding ticket that day on my way there. i was affraid i wouldn't make it before they closed. but i did! your first gift to me was a gold chain with a dolphin inside a heart and a pair of dolphin shapped earings.(you spoiled me right from the start). well, i ended up losing one of those earings. the next year for christmas(among other things), you bought me a pair of the same dolphin earings. and again one of them fell out of my ear. but this time it was the opposite side so i did still end up with a matching pair. one earing was from our 1st christmas and one was from our second christmas. and i havn't worn them since because, i was always afraid to lose them. one christmas you bought me a pair of diamond earings. i thought you were crazy because of my track record with losing earings. but you assured me it was okay because they had screw backs. you knew me all too well...what a smart man. my christmas memories with you however, are not about the material things. it's about the sharing, caring, the love and support we gave to eachother. it's the memories of our christmas' with our children and their lit up faces. that will be the hardest part for me this year. although you will be smiling with me from above, you won't be smiling next to me. although our biggest christmas wish is that you were able to be here with us, the kids will still have the toy items they wish for. thank you to K.M.C. lew-port school and N.F. fire dept. and to family and friends. they won't go with out for sure. as for me i'm getting by with such love and support from so many people.
I LOVE YOU MARK!
Tabatha
December 16, 2008
Hi Mark,
Well I missed your birthday so happy belated birthday!!!! Miss you much... Please help Carla and the rest of the family get threw the holidays. We have been doing some shopping and she has been finding some GREAT bargains you would be so proud!! The kids seem to be getting everything they want. Your wife is so wonderful! She is the strongest, greatest,loving, person I have ever met in my life. She is a wonderful mommy to Pauline and Mark She keeps saying that she is done with Christmas but every time she sees something that they want she finds a way to get it for them. LOL... I know in my heart you will be with them on Christmas watching them open there gifts So if you can show them you are there. I know it sounds stupid to some of the people reading this but I know you can I believe you can!!!! If you cant believe then what can you do?
Well I got to go get Sammy from school... Love you....
Heather & sonny Buck
December 16, 2008
Hey Mark wishing a happy birthday. We were at the East Inn on Sunday for Larrys party and we all did a toast to you ,it was very nice candles and all. We hope to see carla soon don't worry she is doing well I here.
AUNT LISA
December 15, 2008
hey mark its lisa sorry i couldnt leave you a message yesterday on your birthday cause i dont have a computer so i waited til today while im at work so happy belated birthday ,,i miss you and think about you alot i called carla and the kids last night just to check on them to make sure everyone is well ,which i know they are but these times are hard now for your birthday and the rest of the upcomming holidays ,but i know your watching over them to make sure they are ok ,well happy birthday and i love and miss you as we all do ,,,,and to carla and the kids i love you and miss you too love lisa
Katie Dugos
December 14, 2008
Hello, It's Katie. I was just reading the guest book... all of it. I never realized how many people Uncle Mark knew. It's just amazing how many people care.(Not that I didn't expect them to) I cried tears of memories, of joy, and I cried tears of sadness because everybody does, no matter how much or how little, everybody has a place in their heart for him. I realized something just a few minutes ago. (The main reason I'm here besides the fact that I haven't written much) What I realized was that at your wedding, you said "till death do us part". There's something wrong with that. death did not do you part. You still love him just as much as you would if he were here right now staring into your eyes. Death does not bring you apart. It only makes you remember the good times, the funny times, the serious times, and the happy times. It only makes you count the days and seconds and minutes you have with the rest of your family, and the time you have left until you see him again. I love you Uncle mark, Aunt Carla, Pauline and MJ. best wishes cause I know it's hard.
P.S(Happy Birthday Uncle Mark. I'm saving you a huge slice of your imaginary birthday cake)
Kim Wendt
December 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Mark! I love you and miss you, as everyone you knew does!
Hoping your celebrating with BOE, Ton, Raunchy, Radar, Bugsy, Uncle Dan, and the rest of the guys!
Lois
December 14, 2008
No words can begin to express the loss we all feel today, what should have been your 38th birthday. We were with your family, went to church and had dinner and a cake (black forest of course!) One of the best hams I've had. We miss you.
Danielle Lechner
December 14, 2008
Mark,
Happy Birthday Mark.My dad,Christine,Carla and I stopped at the pot of gold yesterday and had a shot of old grand dad in rememberance of you on your birthday(we didn't want you looking down on us calling us a SISSY!so we sucked it up just for you)miss you so very much.Loving and missing you always..
carla
December 14, 2008
hi honey. today is your birthday. i feel funny wishing you a happy birthday, so i won't do that. if we had you here with me i'd be making fun of you right now for being an old man. but we don't have you here and in all reality you were a very young man. it is not fair!! i miss you so very much. i'm sure i have a lot to tell you but i have to get ready for church.
I LOVE YOU MARK
TINA DUGOS
December 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Mark. We miss you more with each passing day.
Bobby Irwin
December 13, 2008
Mark, Just wanted to say you're thought about every day but more so tommorow on your birthday.... miss 'ya brother . Karla, I hope you ,Pauline and little Mark are well you're all in my heart..
Lois Spencer
December 12, 2008
Mark I don't know what to do about this problem. So, a little guidence if you could. Miss ya too much. Lois
carla
December 5, 2008
i had a thought. i remember the time when we went to frlorida. your parents dropped us off at the airport. when we went through the security check and they discovered that you had a fork in your pocket. it was so funny cause we had no idea it was left in there from when you took your luch to work and forgot about it and it was after 9/11 so they took it very seriously. they couldn't understand why you were carrying a fork in your pocket to go to the airport. they said that was concidered a weapon. you were like holy crap i thought they were gonna tackle me for that fork. your parents were still on the other side of the gate so you just gave it to them. the funny part about it was the way you told the story to our friends when we got to lake county. what a funny happy guy you were. i miss that.
another thing i was thinking about...some of you know this and some of you don't. the very first time i met mark i had said earlier we did not get exchange phone numbers(we must have known we'd see eachother again) but he did BRAID MY HAIR. how funny right. that was the very first thing about mark that impressed me. a man that could braid a girls hair...wow. and it wasn't like a sloppy loose braid. it was very neat and tight. i probably could have left the braid for a week and it would still be in tact. he probably regreted letting me know he was capable of that cause i would bug him all the time to do my hair. especially for work(when i worked in a resturaunt)and for bike rides. honey will you braid my hair for me? he would sigh and say "oh, if i have ta". but i know he really didn't mind. i will miss that a lot when my hair gets long enough to braid again.
I LOVE YOU MARK
Tabatha
December 4, 2008
Hi Mark,
I am writing you to tell you I miss you so much! I have your picture above the t.v. so we can all see you all the time. It hurts me so much to know you will not be here with your family for your birthday and Christmas. I hurts me so much to see Carla hurting I just want to grab ahold of her and take it all away but I know I can't. You two were so great together and it is not far that you two can't grow old together!!!We miss you so much Mark and will love you always!
carla
December 3, 2008
so ya know how i have the discusting habbit of biting my nails? you hated it. any time you saw me biting them you would smack my hand out of my mouth or say "what are you still hungry?" or "do you know how much dirt and nasy germs are behind your finger nails?" well i'm writing to tell you i have-not bitten them in 3 weeks. well except one that broke :) i chewed that sucker off! but you'd be pround any way.
I LOVE YOU MARK
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